Is there a rift between the sexes?

I do not mean exceptions to the rules. But as an average. Is there a great rift between young men and women today? Not in the way they vote politically. But a general rift. I do not know how to explain it. But is romance dead. And all that remains are hook-ups with a few alpha males and the rest of men being alone. And not even looking at women any more, let alone date them? Before you counter me by saying that I have a /r9k tier mindset, look at these statistics.

Female millennials catching STD's at an alarming rate due to tinder.
nypost.com/2016/10/29/tinder-might-be-to-blame-for-rise-in-syphilis-among-millennials/

Millennials (ie young men) are having less sex than any other generation.
independent.co.uk/news/science/sex-millennials-study-young-people-turning-back-on-sexual-intercourse-in-record-numbers-a7167946.html

I am not talking about sex either. But a general rift. A distance where a connection should be that creates a family.

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lesswrong.com/lw/h4e/differential_reproduction_for_men_and_women/
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we are all attracted to what we can't have

>women are having sex more than ever and getting STDs as a result
>there are less people getting laid

Women are consumers and they treat people like products. This is what you get when they control your society.

You are right, there is a general animosity between boys and girls. Dating is a war of attrition filled with mind games, pyrrhic victories, and spite, rather than being the pleasant exchange it could be.

The woman who wrote that article is very insecure.

Yeah shits fucked.

The west will burn. At least they got to "find themselves" for the entirety of all of their 20's

>all cut

>And all that remains are hook-ups with a few alpha males and the rest of men being alone.

This has always been true m8.

yes because feminism has caused the breakdown of social order and harems have formed where few men get sex but a few alpha males fuck tonnes of sluts. This way the rates of men having sex are low but the rates of STDs in sluts are high.

PBS outlined all of this very well,

Well said

feminists complained about being objectified but with online dating/hookup apps, men have become the meat
a woman can scroll through profiles upon profiles of males thirsty for any loose pussy and pick whichever mate she wants like it's a takeaway menu
her reward: getting picked up, taken out for dinner and then fucked by a guy 2 - 3 tiers above her, whenever she wants it

Like the OP said

"And all that remains are hook-ups with a few alpha males and the rest of men being alone."

This is why.

Imagine two groups, each with 10 men and 10 women. In one case, 9 of the men have sex with 9 of the women, and the women fuck a couple times a week on average. In another case, 3 of the men have sex with 9 of the women, and the women fuck daily.

I AM FAITHFUL TO MY WIFE! AND I AM A MIlLEBIAL

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Destroyers of nations.

i'm sorry pol but i must give into my race mixing urges to marry a honaburu japanese woman

I believe his point is that more women are fucking the top 5% of the guys. Whereas previously the top 5% of guys slept with the top 7% of women. Now they get the top 33%. So the men beteeen that 10% and 50% mark are scarcely having sex, and those in the bottom 50 get none.

But desu, I don't agree with it

Yes, with the help of porn, feminism, and internet.

Male/female relationships aren't portrayed in a healthy manner anymore.

>I am not talking about sex either. But a general rift. A distance where a connection should be that creates a family.
Yes. And the family is what is missing.
Leftists love to play identity politics and divide everyone up, especially against white men. Then all their individual groups stick together over the family unit. It makes it hard to have a healthy family. Women are "empowered" to the point of being more powerful than their husbands, so it stops being a healthy partnership.
Now, a lot people are sitting in their corner with their own friends, unsure how to approach other people in a serious way.

If you honestly believe this then you need to change your preferences in women.

Stop dating cunts.

yeah, sure Sweden, not enough/too much sex is serious problem.

>where a connection should be that creates a family.
I presume this connection is because of the fact of many females upbringing.
>here you go princess, new toys
>here you go darling, new toys
>"Carl! Why are you not buying me moar stuff? Don't you love me? Fuck you loser, I'm going to Chad Thundercock!
>Carl, I always loved only you, that 11313 times I had sex with Chad means nothing! I want to come back!
>Carl! You are loser, you never give me enough money!

repeat last 3 points ad infinitum.

>INB4 you should be alpha provider and provide monies for your female companion
Why, for fucks sake? Neither this is understandable from economical point of view, nor it makes sense to pay money in perspective of companionship and pussy access, when dog for companionship/hookers for pussy combo exist

>but not with you...
What does she mean by that?

not by the kind of guy who'd be wasting their time reading this article. Chad is out looking through his plethora of Tinder matches and deciding who he feels like draining his nuts into tonight.

Bullshit.
prb.org/Publications/Articles/2010/usmarriagedecline.aspx

She means that when culture doesn't demand her to marry a man that her father has decided for her, she can fuck whoever she wants.

Of course, "whoever she wants" is a completely biologically determined choice; the man who is on top of the dominance-hierarchy.

>Millennials (ie young men) are having less sex than any other generation

That study also say girls are having less sex, and actually less than guys. The 20-80 study also does not find that 80 percent of girls are hooking up with 20% of the guys but that 20% of the guys and girls are the ones having sex with each other while 80% are not. These are the two most misquoted studies on Sup Forums

they put so much wasted thought and words into the most retarded things

What's this supposed to prove?

According to evolutionary biologists, all currently living humans have twice as much female genetic material as male genetic material.

Which means that historically speaking twice as many females had children as men. So 67% of all females have had children, but only 33% of men. This means that there's basically 67% of ALL men who have ever lived in history, have never had a child.

So, it's always been like this:

Men compete to get to the top of the dominance-hierarchy, and women pick the men who are at the top.

Where's that statistic that 40% of men in history have reproduced, as opposed to 90% of women? I recall that they reached the conclusion by examining mitochondrial DNA.

If true, it says it all.

When they go high, we go LOW.

You have to understand, OP. Your (((politics))) are ultra-fringe. The only people who could possibly be attracted to it have already been rejected from most social milieus in their lives.

I'm a lefty here who shitposts. I'm odd enough to end up on Sup Forums, but adjusted enough that my "off" character has made me a lot of friends. I'm I'm college, lost my virginity at 18, and have had casual sex with a number of women and am currently dating the sexiest woman I've ever landed.

I am good looking, tall, slim, etc. But I know plenty of guys in my social circle who are not and who still get laid.

There is no radical drop off in the availability of women, it's just that sites like Sup Forums tend to attract the most undesirable elements from all over the world, which consequently gives Sup Forums the impression that what they are dealing with is a worldwide phenemomenon, when in fact, men and women are sleeping together as much as they always have, with a few uglies and social maladroits left on the sidelines.

>According to evolutionary biologists

I would really like to have a source on this one, because it really sounds like taken out of your ass

>lost my virginity at 18, and have had casual sex with a number of women
What an achievement.

in some circles yes, there is a rift, but on average I think that romance, passion, and true love is very much still alive

haven't had sex in 10 years. I need love but all I get are crazy bitches. I'm poor, too. I know my worth but I have nothing to show. The most irritating thing, when I'm completly down like eating plain rice for a month, didn't wash even once, greasy hair and wild beard... (I mean why give a fuck?) I have actually 10/10 babes hitting on me. That's fucked up. That's reality.

What, on Tinder?

Wilder, J. A., Mobasher, Z., & Hammer, M. F. (2004). "Genetic evidence for unequal effective population sizes of human females and males"

That's my point. It's not an achievement. I was relatively late to the game. I'm an average dude having an average experience.

The fact that Sup Forums is not has nothing to do with reality and everything to do with Sup Forums.

You do not find true love on Tinder
most of "true loves" I encountered was "grown up" from random relationship made by meeting through friends or mutual acquaintances

Nice LARPing. Also getting laid was not OP's point.

autism

Would this explain pols interest in boi Pucci, considering pol is mostly average young men who have been raised to be cucks

How rude of her

psmag.com/8-000-years-ago-17-women-reproduced-for-every-one-man-6d41445ae73d#.paus0unyt

lesswrong.com/lw/h4e/differential_reproduction_for_men_and_women/

Harems are the natural order.

>let me quickly talk about myself a lot
>>>/reddit/

Again, you're only proving my point.

Plenty of people have sex with plenty of people in their lifetimes. This is completely normal. It's something people joke about together in casual conversation.

It is only on Sup Forums where the most basic human experience is assumed to be fantasy, or LARPing as you put it. This says more about your own social ineptness then you can possibly know.

actually it's completely true, look up roy baumeister's work on male sexuality.

women like guys who are drifters, aloof, rebellious. Being poor is, in a way, an act of rebellion against a system that fetishizes wealth and status.

So in a fucked up way, being a loser can be a turn on for younger women.

Until the baby rabies hits, at least, then they want those sweet sweet beta bucks.

millennials are having less sex than previous generations
both men and women
it just seems like there are more people fucking around because media pressures people into thinking sex is important, and the internet showing you the degenerates
Sup Forums is full of lonely men thinking all women are sluts
tumblr is full of lonely women thinking all men are gonna use them
we need to close the gap and learn to love each other again

Well, I'm currently courting a nice QT.
But yeah, it's the fault of the previous generation.

This. Feminism is just restoring humanity back to its ordinary state. Civilization will be a blip in the overall history of man.

Yes. Women have been indoctrinated with an attitude of competition and replacement of men, to become men by having careers and delaying marriage and pregnancy.

This has been enabled by contraception (advent of birth control pills & IUDs).

Because this is such a gross abandonment of innate gender roles, it has caused an alientation of men and women, and alienation of men and women from themselves & their essence.

I have avpd and never have had sex and I'm 24, ever consider many of those people you're talking about are just lying people are more social retarded than ever before in history. If you don't drink alcohol it's even less likely I've given up on ever getting laid and accepted my place as a loser

You aren't even reading you self-righteous blowhard. Sex and some kind of meaningful relationship are not the same thing. Getting your cock wet is easy today. Having a real connection is harder.

nah, you were degenerate, you are degenerate, and if you strive to be average, sure, be average
people here may vary from being average, but most of them are superior to you, whether physically, intelectually, spiritually, economically or by just not being filthy leftist

thank you, but I have to point out that sample group consisted only 3 subgroups: Mongolians, Khoisans and Papau NGians. While it may be accurate for these groups, it may fail to portray existence of pairing and marriage in white european culture

There's a big difference between being a chad and being a father. we've actually become more conservative and chaste over time as sex is depreciated compared to porn and money. the chad meme is merely an artifact of free and open information and discussions

>Millennials (ie young men) are having less sex than any other generation.
>I am not talking about sex either.

but you are

Yes. Because of dumb-phones kids don't communicate very well anymore... neither do adults.
A smaller percentage are whores/ cum catchers spreading disease than in the '80s and '90s, for example.
Then 3rd-wave feminism by landwhales bitching about all sorts of nonsense has tried to make men the enemy. Especially straight white men.

So yes, there is a rift.

the (((author)))
why always?

It's more likely that women are able to sniff out good genes regardless of status. Wealth is just an imaginary beta male invention. All that matters in the world of dog-eat-dog nature, the world where women are in, is genetics.

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ok, I agree, harems are natural, but rape is natural too, and I do not see women advocating rape.
Marriage and monogamy is needed for society to thrive, or else we will go full Mad Max

Chad is sleeping with all the women this is undeniable, women have a choice now they're free to choose and they go into major depression if a non Chad talks to them,

also with degenerates having more access to more degenerates while everyone else being kept away means diseases is only being spread to other degenerates

Goddamn I hate women. I hate women so much. I wish I could slap every woman I see

Weird how it all happened in concert with the rise of capitalism and the economic competition inscribed into daily life by the market.

But here is one of the key paradoxes of rightwing thinking. Nearly every social (((degeneracy))) you care to name was birthed, encouraged, and even marketized by capitalism. Tinder itself is a major company with shareholders, stock options, and massive annual profits. But to oppose capitalism is anathema, the stuff of socialist fantasy, and so the rightwinger is frozen in a state of political and sexual impotence.

>While it may be accurate for these groups, it may fail to portray existence of pairing and marriage in white european culture

Tbqh, if it's true for people who literally live like nomads or tribesman, it's probably true for Europeans.

she's just being upfront. this is the kind of woman who has weathered the sheer unlimited cock works that is the tinder life taken to it's logical extreme. she has left the apartments of so many retarded Chad's to go tell her beta orbiters all about it the next morning so many times, she can't possibly remember. if you asked her to count how many cocks she's sucked, she'd probably put you to sleep waiting for her to finish. and it would be absolutely impossible for her to remember half of their names. she is a true woman of the renaissance: so enlightened by sexual liberty she already categorizes roughly 90% of all males she's consciously aware of into the "unfuckables", the men she knows she'd be physically unable to achieve any kind of pleasure with, so why bother.

now how might you ask does she just preemptively know she'd have no pleasure? Simply because she's spent so long taking long, fat thick cock from chad and tyrone, he's vagina simply isn't used to anything else but the top percentage of attractive men. her fingers have become so nimble at rapidly left-swiping hundreds of weak jawed, skinny, overweight and pimpy looking men until, almost reactively, she stumbles upon yet another Chad's generic, shirtless profile picture clearly displaying his chiseled jawline and sculpted serratus. within a matter of hours the cycle has completed again: hundreds of rejected men are left in the dust by thousands of women just like her, while she spends another morning waking up in yet another nameless, tall Chad with a muscular ass' bedroom. she'll forget his name as quickly and reactively as she swiped right.

such is life in 2016. cucked again, so it goes.

The jew divides up your country among itself however he can.

By politics, economics, and sex.

>female millenials catching STD's at an alarming rate
Maybe because they prefer to fuck niggers, which have very high STD's.
>young millenial man are having less sex then any other generation
Because woman prefer to fuck shit skins or niggers because "le exotic experience" or they prefer to use their vaginas to improve their personal economical situation by suck old rich guys dicks, which will cause heart attack and they will get all money.

Let's face it modern women are degenerated, they are raised to be whores, do what they want and fuck with as many guys they want. They lack any skills like cooking or ability to raise kids, so most of them end at age of 25 with 4 kids and on dating sites looking for some betas to raise their kids or they end as lonely cat ladies because they are "still waiting for a knight on white horse".

How can someone actually deny women only want chad, I'm not saying it's a bad thing

Most girls I know (I'm 25) act like there aren't any consequences to their actions, and say they're the way they are because of bad relationships or just blame it all on the universe. I use apps and shit to get laid when I get lonely; the last girl I dated gave me fucking HPV and still hasn't admitted it was her.

Yes I have noticed this. Paradoxically it's worse if you live in a big city. Bunch of liberal hipster urban careerist sluts pretending to be oppressed, embracing feminism and getting passed around by a handful of chads and living in their bubble ignoring everyone else while glued to their smart phones. Before 2008 I would occasionally strike up conversations with women I don't know, or they would strike up a conversation with me, but now I have pretty much given up on trying to meet women.

Women should all be struck blind

On a random point how do you get tinder to send you the damn authorization code text?????

>harems are natural, but rape is natural too

It's also natural for your victim's genetically powerful alpha male to crush your skull for touching one of his women.

Following up on this:
do not hate the other group, hate what they have become.

>implying
(((Capitalism))) created by degrading morals and removing shame as an agent of social control

Hopeful user gives me hope of a better future,,
Why though?

Women are more carnal by nature, but they still like a man who can buy them pretty play things.

In the upper echelons the old maxim holds true; that a man is valued for his worth and a woman for her looks. But when the bitch is in heat she does like to step out with Bif Dongslinger.

No po' folks, just work out and treat 'em like shit, unless you're looking for a 'good girl' / keeper.
Maybe they still exist, I dunno.

>I know my worth but I have nothing to show
No you don't. You literally have nothing.
Grats on having a dream though m8.

GENETICALLY

But!
We europeans undeniably ended period of nomadism/tribalism way, way, WAY earlier then test groups
While overall result may be the same (more women reproduce than men) numbers would not match.

there is to some extent. its why the marriage rate and child birth rates are so low.

women are very different here in China. it's fucking awesome to be a man in china.

Because they are raised this way. Modern society and system raise woman and teach them zero responsibilities.

Sue her if you can prove she did this, at least bitch will learn something.

>Why though?
It's self-destructive
You don't need to fight someone who fights himself.

nah, I think there is something wrong with most woman in a brain damage like sense.

What the hell is this graph trying to say?

>There's a big difference between being a chad and being a father

Historically speaking there really isn't. Try to imagine how many men in history have either fucked willing women and impregnated them and ran off, or simply impregnated women by rape in war?

The social structure of Europeans from the birth of Christianity until the 1970s clearly was an anomaly compared to the vast history of humanity.

Women have got to the point where they can't even talk to non chads without intense disgust, I think the generation of today will experience the biggest number of male virgins in all human history. Obviously the media will continue to lie they won't admit they have socially fucked an entire generation

Why? Their scale is obviously the most true. I think it's because the mens scale starts at ok I can tell that's a female. She's not the "least attractive"

Pretty sure we're gonna have to wait until reality sets in for women and they turn about 30 years old, I bet there'll be a baby boom by the time the average millenial is between 29-33, when the clock starts ticking.

>tfw your only chance is to be a consolation prize for a busted 30 year old.

Why be self-destructive when you can be self-creative?

Nice blog post friend.

Just open your eyes

The most difficult red pill to swallow for me was the looks pill. It can lead to years of introspection.

that is why betas invented blacksmithing, to stab alphas in the back
Science was always weapon of a beta, to overcome genetic disparity Carl obtained intelectual superiority over dumb Chad

>Women have got to the point where they can't even talk to non chads without intense disgust,
I think that might be projecting your own insecurity, but yes I feel it too.

We used to call the spoiled bitches "Daddy's Girls" before the break up of the family.
Sorry your generation is full of entitled cunts who never learned responsibility. I didn't raise them.

You should be clear of the HPV in two years as long as it wasn't 4, that cancer causing shit.

the top 3 guys don't bang bottom tier women though.