Is it degenerate to date a slightly older woman

Is it degenerate to date a slightly older woman.
She is 31 and i'm 26. She is very pretty,smart , doctor of political studies now publishing a book and works in a ministry. She wants kids sometime near future, and i'm considering moving in with her. Do you think it will be the start of the end? Should i find some 20 something girl and start re educating her to be perfect for me?

Is that a legitimate question? 5 years difference is nothing. If you find each other attractive, what is the problem? You have decent, thinking people aged 20, and idiots aged 90. Focus less on the age and more on the person, good luck.

inb4 kids with down syndrome.

Also she's probably been smashed by 20+ chads at least by age thirty.

I come from a somewhat conservative family and the don't approve the age difference. The man should be always older , because females age faster. IDK what should i think.

This, the leaf knows what's up. Also, sounds like she cares a lot about her career, so will she be willing to give that all up to raise the children instead?

Stop asking Sup Forums for personal advice. Live your life according to your heart, morals and rationale, not according to larping natsoc virgins on an autism containment board.

I'm pretty sure it's just been 5 chads at the most.
Why the down syndrome?

That's hardly an age gap I'm 27 and gf is 37

having a child above 30 for a womyn can have complications. the older the women, the higher the chance basically

If she is a doctor by age 31 she is probably a very career driven person. Take this into consideration if you want what is called a traditional family where the wife mostly takes care of the kids and the homestead and such.

It did increase the chances but the chances aren't that big to begin with.

>She is 31
>She is very pretty,smart
>She wants kids sometime near future
>She is 31
>She wants kids
>She is smart
Does not compute

Get yourself an under 25 year old if you want children. Also love isnt real dont believe the feminist meme shit.

Well, she got what she wanted and now she wants to start a family(the way i see it) .

Yeah wtf a white having children such bigots like seriously right?

So tolerant of you, bunch of nord autistic cucks.

Do not assume things friend, best thing to do is to actually talk to her about these things.

>I'm pretty sure it's just been 5 chads at the most.
Still too many.

If you are ready for kids in the near future and can seriously see this woman as the mother of your children then it is not degenerate, if you end up wasting 2 or 3 years of her life then it is very immoral.

What? I am just saying that is she is smart, pretty and wants kids then she should be able to have kids before she is 31. The fact that she is that old and doesn't have any kids (even though she wants to) means she can't be that smart.

As i said, she had goals to reach, reached them and now wants to settle down

I'm 25 and my partner is 53.

Just find a younger girl OP...... it's not worth the trouble. If a woman isn't married by the time she's 30, there's something seriously wrong with her mentally.

Yes.

The girl you're daying should always be younger than you.

Ignore the autists, listen to this guy

Bullshit. My mother had both of her kids after 30 years old and we came out fine.

The problem is if the mother and father are older than 40 years old.

listen to this tguy

Is she fertile? Are you sure of this?

obviously he will raise them

How much does he pay you?

There's increased IikeIihood of a chiId having defects and probIems the oIder a woman is, and it starts increasing much more after she hits 30.

Now imagine you're OP.
Iets say they she gets pregnant within the next year, IikeIy she'II have a kid by her 33rd birthday then. Then if they want another one they have to atIeast wait a year, so the next one when she's 35-36. Then 37-38.
Its not ideaI to say the Ieast.

>now wants to settle down
God that reminds me of pic related so much

Please stop fucking my mum.

>He
>Implying I'm a femanon
>He
>Implying I'm gay
She.
She puts out whenever I want (and tries to demand it even when I'm not up for it because I've done it to myself too soon before), mothers me nicely, cooks, cleans, cuddles me as much as I like (which I LOVE), adores and obsesses over me...
It's a pretty sweet gig. I get treated like a king.

>waste societies limited educational resources to become a doctor
>take a place from other people that also wanted to become a doctor
>succeeds
>ego is sufficiently fed, now she want to become a mom
>Society loses one doctor but gains and over age first time mother and downie toddler
Great

LOL NO [spoiler]Matt[/spoiler] :^)
>Inb4 spoilers don't work
I'm well aware.

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Date? no
marry? yes

>shes 5 years older
>time goes by
>she hits the retirement age, doesnt work just sits and relaxes at the cottage
>youre stuck wagecucking for another 5 years

get fucked

She works part time in a Uni . Gets called a lot to do seminars and lectures . I'm actually really proud of her. I'm observing her habits and potential as a mother. I bought her a cat and she is very caring and motherly with it.

>s it degenerate to date a slightly older woman.
no, of course not
but it is degenerate to care what a bunch of shithead virgin larpers on a peruvian snake-charmer board think

>I'm observing her habits and potential as a mother
Are you part cat or something?

Explore her past relationships. If she has had many failed past relationships , probably she isn't suitable for one since nobody considered her worthy of a wife until now. Also age as a number often doesn't correspond with your biological age. The fact that she is older shouldn't be a problem provided she is still youthfull looking and has good genetics (smooth skin , slim body, healthy hair etc). But if she looks her age or older than 31 , I would think twice about it because her looks would absolutely crash in the nearby future

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>doctor of political studies

Honestly we should end the practice of calling people with non-MDs Doctors.

Pls tell me you actually are Matt. That would be beyond hilarious.

If you actually read our responses you would see that theyre well though out and spoken from experience. Dumbass leaf day of the rake is coming.

does she get you tendies?

mate pregnant here right now or it's going to be soo late.

What the hell IS a tendie, anyway?

I'm really enjoying this right now!

>Dumbass leaf

>she is very caring and motherly with it.
ofc she is, she is 31 years old and her womb is drying up.

I don't know what you gave going on in your own life, but if it were me, I'd feel she'd be way out of my league.

I remember dating a girl at the beginning of the decade and there was a clear divide in our lives as I was and still am a GEDless humble overnight retail worker and she was a recent college graduate on her way to get her masters soon after. It didnt work out for obvious reasons. I eventually met a girl some six months later that has consistently put up with me for the past five years.

Chicken tenders, it's fried chicken strips. It's what its called on kids menus.

Ah, no then.
What I get instead are piggy ornaments (I love pigs and that's our nickname for me; piggy / pigsy) or cherry based foods (I LOVE cherries).

I dated a Girl that spoke like 5 languages and had a real nice job, well educated while I'm jobless and dropped out of college. It felt pretty great being a loser fucking her. It felt like I was tainting something.

You're fucked. Do not waste your time on her.

She's 31. That means really she's in the realm of 40-50 year old men now, and realistically when a decent looking divorcee comes along, say 42, that wants kids, that has a house, 2 cars, a fat bank account and so forth, you're history, because she knows he will be more desperate. Furthermore,

- She doesn't have to worry about him dumping her for a 20 year old
- He can provide for her far better than you
- Worse comes to worse, she divorces his ass and gets rich (if she leaves you, she gets nothing for her time invested)
- It's more socially acceptable for her to date a 42 year old at 31 than a 26 year old
- All her girlfriends the same age as her who married are now with guys in the same age-- it'd be akward for her to bring your 26 year old broke ass to some get together of her friends, where the men are all in their late 30's/40s with steady careers, multiple kids, etc.

Never, ever waste your time on an older woman unless it's to ejaculate

>Implying we're wrong

No, the Prophet Muhammad himself married a woman 15 years older than him (Khadija) and it was by all accounts a great relationship.

Go ahead brother.

I also though that she was "out of my league" but as time has shown me it's not. I'm good looking and smart (IQ 137) , have a stable well paid job and have some connections. Of course there are some throwbacks but who hasn't . The problem is that i don't trust myself . Lately i have a lot of female attention and it's becoming hard to decline . Still i would not cheat on her. I have respect for her as a person. But idk how long i could endure .

while fucking his 9 y/o child bride Ayisha

Didn't he wait for like, two years so she could be 11?
>Implying that's any better

I've never seen that. All of the women I know got married in their 30s and had healthy kids

He would fondle her while they took baths together until she was at the ripe age of 11 to take her virginity.

bro. 20? that number is off by an order of magnitude. girls in their early twenties are weeeeeeelllll beyond that. it made me realize how messed up society is when i realized im barely in the single digits and slightly older

Stop telling lies, you filthy selyak-gypsy.

another thing is women age horrendously.

She's 31 now, in 5 years, she'll be 36, almost 40. She will look completely different. You might get some grays or wrinkles, but will generally look the same assuming you take care of yourself.

So fast forward 5 years. You're now a 31 year-old, and women 24-28 are all over you as early-mid 30s is the ideal male age for women in their mid-late 20s to marry/have kids with. She has time to divorce you and remarry and not be a dried up 35 year old barren woman, while having the option of having 2-3 kids in a decade or sooner. Once she hits 30+ again she's into the 40-50 male age realm because she's not going to take the risk with some broke, immature 20 year old kid. Once her womb dries up, it's over, no more kids.

She's old used and indoctrinated, get a young girl that you can shape.

>Is that a legitimate question? Color difference is nothing. If you find each other attractive, what is the problem? You have decent, thinking people with black skin, and idiots with white skin. Focus less on the race and more on the person, good luck.
What did he mean by this?

That's 100% fact, I just found out the hard way.

Age is...just, like, um...a number, man.

>If you find each other attractive, what is the problem? You have decent, thinking people aged 10, and idiots aged 90. Focus less on the age and more on the person, good luck.
Am i doing this right?

Any sources for the first sentence?

>I'm pretty sure it's just been 5 chads at the most.
>I'm pretty sure

"And then I told him: I've only been with 5 guys."

This Older women are easier (this part isn't so relevant nowadays) and more willing please you, the moment you get hitched they'll change.

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>She is 31
BREED
NOW

OR SUFFER THE AUTISM OF YOUR OFFSPRING

No, but really, a woman must be bred for as long as she can be bred.

pussy faggot

>partner

I'm 24 dating a 34 y/o women. It's fine

If she is pretty and a femenist type of woman - at least 10.
This nomber excludes the random blowjobs and hj.
And the 3 night-one-stands.
And that drunken anal in Sunny beach at 5 am with this turkish looking guy.
And that one time (5 times) she and hers home-girl Maria experimented with double-ended dildo.
And that one time she was at a party, got drunk and 3 guys "raped" her after she said "hahahaha, stop it guys, its not that funny ahahhaha".

so yea

>doctor of political studies
Кaжи кoя e бpaт, cигypнo я знaм. Aкo e e oт coфийcкия дe. Дa знaeш чe жeнитe paбoтeщи в миниcтepcтвaтa нe ca нaй-гoлeмитe кypви, нo ca пoлaпaли нa шeфoвeтe.

I think you are mistaken her for your mother, bitch.

>Bulgaria bants

Bretty good

Бaтe пpoвeждaм eкcпepимeнт. He ce бъpкaй.

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>very smart
>doctor of political studies

fiancée if you want to be specific. I prefer partner though.

lost my shit

love you netherlands

тoвa e тaкa, пpeпoдaвa ми Чилoвa, кoятo бeшe зaмecтник мин нa финaнcитe пo вpeмe нa Цapя, мaй. Имa клипчe кaк ce дaви нa хyй.

stay mad, selyak
lul

i have the number OF YOURE MOM

>shes only been with 5 chads
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>Bulgarian education system

You're asking for relationship advice from a forum 90% full of dudes who've never even felt a tit.

What do you mean? Dont you remember the alpha trump biker guy? Thats basically who all of us are.