Has anyone ever overcome a porn addiction here?

Has anyone ever overcome a porn addiction here?

>be me, 23 y/o white male
>seeing/dating beautiful 8/10 tall skinny brunette
>she's in finance making 80K but wants to settle down before 30 and raise children / day trade from home
>met at christian school
>saving herself for marriage
>goes to mass every week + on holy days
>super pro-life
>I'm the first guy she's kissed
>perfect long-term mate, has dominant redpilled father and loving mother

But I'm addicted to porn. I have fapped once a day for the past 2-3 years, and once a week for the past 5.

I didn't start until I was 17 (I was also raised christian but became infected with liberal ideology in college (both of my siblings are way more liberal than me)

I download dating apps just fishing to see if i can find more girls to hookup with on the side, which makes me a horrible person... I have a sex addiction.

I know I found someone special who really likes me, but (((they))) have control over my animal brain and I'm struggling to overcome.
I wish I was low test so I wouldn't be so urged to get a nut off..

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has anyone ever been as retarded as OP before?

Every time you get the urge to look at porn, punch yourself in the balls and go look at bestgore instead.
It will gradually break the sexual stimulation cycle and basically there are no side effects

Watch and listen to this video when you have the chance OP
youtube.com/watch?v=aWM4bJNpch0

>(((they))) have control over my animal brain
Jesus you are weak. First step is to admit you are the problem no one else.

There are porn ads on best gore.

You sound like a retard

I hate you just as much as I hate leftists

Take control over your mind weakling.

It's not an addiction, just like meth it's simply a hobby some people are very serious about.

nice bait faggo

>implying the fucked up porn ads on bestgore are sexually stimulating to anybody
even if they were, the pictures of pregnant women torn in half right next to them is a boner kill for most people

>punch yourself in the balls and go look at bestgore instead.
This reminded me. Remember that site bangedup dot com? They used to have gore and porn mixed in so I'd fap to pie click a gore vid and keep fapping back to porn back to gore repeat all while fapping.
Shit fucked my brain up pretty bad.

This past sept oct nov i no fapped and I have no interest in porn now. It's amazing.
I fapped on and off in December but not to porn. Started no fap again on the second of this month.

If your hand is causing you to steal, then cut off your hand.

ie. If your computer habits are causing you to look at porn, you're going to have to stop using the computer. Atleast for awhile.

People say "just have willpower". True, but often it's simply not enough. You don't dangle a carrot infront of a horse and expect it not to eat it.

>virgin
>went to college/uni
>two logically, diametrically opposed real world concepts

In this environment the sexually repressed christian women are the biggest fucking sluts to be found. Their kind are rated AAA cum dumpsters

>your typical slut in this era is 20-25 dicks in on average by age 20
>typical woman lives on feels, immediacy and irrationality of immediacy
>marriage is literal cuckery in any form because you are paying for a whore to live with you

To the christian sluts credit, they're better at entrapment then you're typical cum dumpster

>no such thing as love, its lust you feel as a man
>never give women any power over you
>especially in the form of a state induced right to rape you in the ass if she feels like divorcing you

no fap

I've gone from fapping 3 times a day, to fapping about 3 times a week

that was a massive redpill and depressing video, thanks user

how did you watch a seventeen minute video in ten minutes?

i skipped the intro and im almost done with it right now. but the audio interview portion was really interesting

It's an excerpt of a longer video, as a part of a series. That episode focuses on love, homosexuality, and narcissistic youth culture.
youtube.com/watch?v=Ad5Xq5FM6ws

B A S E D L E A F

>I have fapped once a day for the past 2-3 years, and once a week for the past 5.

That it?

What is it, fucking amateur hour?.

>no such thing as love, its lust you feel as a man
How am I supposed to raise a family in this day and age then? I doubt there are many women willing to have a child with you without getting married

>college girl
>I'm the first guy she's kissed
you actually believe that HAHAHAHA

This. For more serious addicts, removal of stimuli is needed for a few weeks to a few months depending on severity.

Yes, it is an addiction that causes hypofrontality just like heroin.

Bumping to see what these faggots post.

> my sides .jpg

I stared Yesterday, I hav some supernatural encounter (Ironically talking to God and those things becoming true) a few days ago and suddenly faping felt worse.

I want to do this if I want him to help me with some problems I am living trough, seems fair to me; I stop this autodestructive behavior and then you help me help others.

I am super addicted, so the fact that I spent some time in bed without fapping tells me something

Muted and fapped. Great vid, thanks user.

>checks flag

how did I know

>he's never met a christian shut-in

"i-it's cool to fap, right guys?"

i probably jacked off daily since i was 12

im 25 now

its hard but at the same time its really simple, just don't do it

i've also overcome smoking, alcholism, 24/7 blazing and abusing sleepers, painkillers and adhd meds

it seems impossible but it's really a state of mind, you have to re engineer your brain

it's mind over matter, practice meditation etc

glhf

You'd be surprised at what some of us get off to nipper

Assuming this is true, just fucking pray whenever you have the urge, pray for strength to not fap, seeing as you're a religious man. Don't be a fucking faggot

Nice blog

>>I'm the first guy she's kissed
I have a bridge you might want to buy; really good price.

>leaf doesn't believe in marriage.
>liberal degenerates don't believe in marriage.
Hmmmm

Report all JIDF blogpost sliding threads

Op is merely a faggot not jidf
You are also a faggot

>being so mentally weak that you can get 'infected' with an ideology and have no control over your body or what you view online
truly the master race amirite

Easy, just get one fucking iota of something resembling willpower you sad, lazy motherfucker.

Marry her
Fuck her
Get bored of her
Fuck other women
???
Profit

YOU CAN HAVE EVERYTHING IN LIFE
JUST GIVE
IT
UP

>saving herself for marriage

found it for you

Whenever you get an urge, do something to get your mind off of it. This will train you to associate sexual urges with proactive behavior. For me, I do some push ups or lift some weights whenever the urge comes. Its just a lot of will power. Best of luck OP

Why would you? Whats better than a porn addiction?

Are you telling me it isn't normal to masturbate daily?

>porn
>addiction
let me guess, you're a christian too you fucking dumb ass

Well I see a fucking problem.
Despite her having all these good traits she doesn't want to fuck untill marriage. What if you have lame fucking sex for the rest of your life. Unless she's a catholic virgin which I doubt judging by your comments about her. Test drive a car before you buy my friend
I've jerked off 2-4 times a day for about ten years now. I don't stop when I have a gf either idc it feels good.

hit the gym or something. Don't sit idly around all day, IE occupy yourself. When you get the urge really bad do some sit ups or clean your room or something

i was raised christian but don't really agree with all of it. but im sort of moving back to being religious because i see the good in their moral way of life

we're catholic. why does that make a difference?

it goes without saying, doesnt it?

IF YOU SQUANDER THE OPPORTUNITY TO MARRY THIS GIRL AND HAVE 10 WHITE BABIES WITH HER MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR SOUL.

>I sure hope this a bait post

Catholic virgin as in takes itnin the ass becouse the vagina is for marriage

google.com/amp/s/www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Catholic Virgin&=true?client=safari

you pussy bitch

>"don't reallly agree with all of it"
so which part? the part where people pretend that there's a god? or that you get a star for acting a certain way or not acting another way? or the part where you are worshiping a jew that was so bad that the other jews broke the normal rules and crucified him, and his followers pulled a "muh 6million" only instead of 6million it was the "son of the jew god"?


i guarantee you she's wrapped her pussy around at least one dick and probably has a big black dildo at home

I overcame it. I watched porn even though I had a long term gf. Then I realize it was fucking degenerate and disrespectful towards my conservative gf.

I imagined our future family, and asked myself, is this how the man of the house should behave? Absolutely not.

I stopped watching porn 1.5 years ago and I haven't looked back. I can honestly say that without porn I feel a lot happier every day and my life feels much more meaningful. I no longer carry any feelings of dirtiness or shame.

to be honest you DO NOT deserve this girl. you are degenerate and I hope you never escape the guilt that you feel.

YOU are the problem user. Don't you see. you have become the cancer.

>punch yourself in the balls and go look at bestgore
>there are no side effects
kek

this is good to hear user. may god bless you.

fisheaters.com/rosary.html

Pray a Rosary everyday, preferably a full 15 decade one. Either you keep praying everyday and stop fapping or stop praying and keep fapping. It worked for me. Also cold showers and no late night web browsing (or whenever you are most likely to do it).

t. Atheist who converted to Catholicism 3 years ago.

You could have made this post with one sentence. Blog harder you fucking faggot.

sorry you have the attention span of a fly and can't take 30 seconds to read the post

>fap once a day
>addicted to porn
wrong.jpg

Your story is complete fiction.

Anyways, I overcame my addiction after the simple realization that porn is degenerate, and I should stop doing it. I grabbed myself some hobbies (blacksmithing my favorite, fishing, etc.) and a small job during the recovery. And in about 3 months, I'm cured.

You just got put all your willpower and forget about your porn addiction (grab a hobby, hell, focus on that 8/10 wife for god sakes). It's as simple as that.

>>saving herself for marriage
>picardfacepalm.jpg
you dumb sonnovabitch

Im going to share a secret of married men. They fap all the fucking time. So go forth and prosper young man, get married, fuck your wife and fap every day, the world is your oyster.

fuck porn and fuck porn stars

Catholicism is not Christianity. catholocism practices idolatry, christianity worships god.

it's time for you to move on to nondenominational christianty.

,>mass
>Christian

Choose 1. Dump the papist cunt.

>saving herself for marriage

I'm flabbergasted that a man in the current year can hear this and not have alarm bells go off in his head. Women have a sex drive too.

Like this guy says we hate to tell you but as soon as you get married she isn't going to turn into your sex slave. I wouldn't expect anything to spectacular like getting blown till it hurts if she doesn't even put out now

>fuck porn stars
That's the point?

Does she know?

>Pathetic degenerate with weak mind
Kill yourself .

Swedecuck calling people weak.

OP here's what you do:
>destroy smartohone and get a brick phone
>go out almost everyday with your gf
>Limit your fap sessions to only the days where you go out on a date or go to the gym
>keep a pic of her as your desktop wallpaper
Should help you tons

I used to go to SLAA meetings ( Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous ). There are also SA meetings.

There are a lot of people with porn addictions.

I got my sex-ed from porn and it really affected my relationships and my self esteem.

Usually had to keep viewing crazier shit to get a kick.

Going to support groups and talking about it with ppl that understand and share in it, and are getting better helped be a lot user.

There is hope desu.

Dude, stop doing that. Stop masturbating, stop watching porn, stop with the dating apps. You're like a fat fuck saying I can't control myself while you actively seek out and grab food. You are in control of yourself, no one else is. I was smoking weed daily with my ex for a year, drank at least weekly, fucked all the time, when we didn't fuck or she didn't blow me I jacked off to her, then it ended and I moved out, dropped weed, alcohol, cold turkey. Porn was harder because my boner was practically habitual, I'd get hard at times I used to jack off, delete all your porn, if you have any pics of exes obviously you keep that, they're trophies. Stop going to porn sites, stop looking at sexual images, ride your urges out, people think if they get it over with it'll go away or stop bothering them, by doing this you guarantee you'll be bothered by it again tomorrow. Once you control your urge you'll no longer suffer from it. If something controls you, you're a slave. Don't be a worthless nigger, don't be cattle for the kike.

>about to fap
>let me check Sup Forums real quick
>see this thread

you guys ruined it
...thanks?

It's a lifelong battle user, but things get better with time.
My first long-term girlfriend had to deal with
my porn-induced ED for the first couple weeks of our relationship.
But I convinced her to wait it out and after
lots of horny goat weed and vasodilators,
I had erections non-stop and the sex was great.
So yeah, those supplements can work.

Also I didn't have to keep using it because performance anxiety itself is one of the greatest boner killers of all.

cool story, gramps

>Overcoming the desire for sex
Yes, goy. Stop being horny, we need less whites anyhow

If you knew the pain of losing her you wouldn't act like a twat

Exercise instead of porn. It works

The girls on the dating apps are nowhere near as good as your girl. And fucking them will give you as much satisfaction as a wank

The longer you quit this shitty behavior, the easier it gets

Always be honest with her

> porn addiction
> sex addiction

Those are fancy names for "I have no impulse control."

Stop engage in compulsive behavior. There is nothing wrong with your brain. Your body doesn't require a certain chemical you've been taking. Take responsibility for once in your life.

>tfw downloading porn right now
I know I'm just gonna delete it all after a single fap.

Is porn addiction real?

Yes.
Just delete it and deal with consequences later.
Protip: do a few push-ups/take a 5 mind walk, smoke a cig with some earl grey. Play guitar or just hum something to yourself. It will take an edge off.
Sublimation helps, friend.

I'm not going to follow your advice.

>married men. They fap all the fucking time

this has not been my experience.

I've been married about 15 years. I fap maybe once a year or something if I am out of town without my wife.

early in marriage it was sex every day, often more than once.

several years in, we did have some fights about how often to have sex - I wanted it more than she did. I was kind of being a bitch about it though.

a while back, we started having kids. that has its own challenges. sex with your pregnant wife is actually awesome. I really recommend it. however, after she gives birth you have to go totally abstinent for 6 weeks (or more, if there are complications). some guys are like, "well, she has to blow me every day then", but she's not going to have the strength or energy for that either. if you are still looking to blow loads every night with a new baby in the house, help more with the baby. you'll be exhausted too.

the post-birth dryspell is tough, but your wife has earned a break - she gave you a kid, after all, and the break is needed because her body is literally wrecked for a while. if she has a severe birth injury, the healing will take longer

also, she'll be sleepy and grump from a new baby. So, expect reduced sex with a new baby in the house.

As I continue to get older, my libido continues to decrease. I grope/spank/fondle my wife casually all the time, every day, because she is still hot, and her body is still something I think of as my toy/property/prize

these days, we actually have sex a couple times a week on average.

my wife believes it is sinful to outright deny sex to her husband. All Christian women should believe this. If they don't, they've been breathing too much feminism.

Your loss, you cheeky wonker

This. Quitting anything is so easy if you can just man the fuck up and take the shitty feelings as they come. Just accept you are going to feel shitty for a long time and fucking deal with it. When you think about it that's so much easier then having to deal with chronic pain or something else like that . Sack up

>Just accept you are going to feel shitty for a long time and fucking deal with it.
Leaf advocating for being a man.
That's... unexpected.

OP is going to lose this girl & regret for the rest of his life. kek

tried no fap january, but failed.

every time i touched my dick, it got rock hard. so i couldn't resist. came in 30 seconds or so.

trying to cut off porn, and only fap to imagination though. it's a start.

so the truth is, that you are a fatty, or the fact that you have NEVER ever exercised during your lifetime.
every normal human being knows that lifting and jogging takes away most of the urges.
jesus christ, stop being overweight

What do you do OP and how did you snag a girl making $80k?

>she's a Christcuck
>You're one too
Kek
Your life is miserable and I'm laughing my ass off at you

>typical woman lives on feels, immediacy and irrationality of immediacy
Sup Gavin

>blames jews for being a living dumpster

I literally hate everyone here and will work against your interests as long as I live.

Get addicted to this instead.