When did you guys realize that there are people that are destined to be winners that forge ahead and be successful no matter what happens? I think I am one of those people and even though I think of everybody as an equal to myself, other people cower and are spiteful because of my success. How do I deal with these types of people? Are some people just born to be losers and live in defeat?
>TL;DR are some people born to be losers?
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Of course. Some people are attractive and others are ugly. Some are rich and others are poor. Some are winners others are losers. It can't be any other way.
this is unfortunately true
>I think I am one of those people
Then you are not.
Winners never think about this. They just know it. And they act and bullshit accordingly. No matter their actual results, or how much destruction they wreak, they believe in their own status above all things and others defer to that or jump on board.
It take a massive, massive failure or injury to knock a "winner" off their streak. This is now becoming necessary on a global scale.
>I think I am one of those people
How did I end up here?
My life wasn't meant to end like this
That's it. Too much autism in one post.
I'm not visiting Sup Forums for 2 months straight. Have fun.
I feel you AusBro, I just want a family but I accepted the fact that I'm unnattractive, maybe not physically but I'm just a shitty person with a shitty and boring personality, I tried to fake it till I made it but it got me nowhere.
At least we have each other
You can't be equal to me because I am better than you in literally all measurable parameters.
>are some people born to be losers?
yes
You can't be equal to me because I perform better than you in every measurable parameter.
Arbitrary parameters that I decided to accept will be used to judge you. I'm cool ttyl. Mom? What's nhilism?
people always fail to realize that a personality can be changed, it just takes intelligence. It's a darwin kinda hell everywhere you look.
I don't know man, I just feel like I don't know the asshole in the mirror anymore.
I used to play piano, I got pretty damn good at it too, my dad taight me and he put in time to show me when I was a boy.
Things got tough and said a career in music would get me nowhere, so without any other useful skills and money I enlisted.
Now I can't really remember how to play its been nearly 6 years since I last laid my hands on the keys, now I just feel dead inside while trying to keep up appearances and telling myself to suck it up
He was right in telling you that music may not get you anywhere in life. Even the worlds most well known artists and composers like Van Gogh and Mozart were not very famous in their lives. It wasn't until after death they were well respected. To any aspiring artist that is a crushing realization. Just because it isn't your career doesn't mean it can't be your hobby though. Write one song a week or learn a new song every week. Even if it doesn't bring you income being a content creator is an important and often overlooked thing in life. Living a life of pure consumption is a kind of soulless and miserable existence no?
I admire your spirit, but you are an insignificant insect. Pray that destiny has a blank page for you.
This is where the stories of personified gods come from.
The stories portrayed people you should strive to be, so you become that force in the physical world.
Welcome to having a narcissistic personality disorder 101
Yes and no. You can work hard to be average or be blessed and throw it out the window to slack off, but the real winners were born winners and capitalize on it.
I'm the opposite: a loser who just wants to be left behind.
God and clods theory
>destined to be winner
>on Sup Forums
Wrong. True winners must face adversity and overcome it in order to be defined as such, and adversity causes doubts and other sorts of psychological barriers. Those who never face struggle are just overprivileged.
Mozart was quite famous in his lifetime. In fact he was a sensation.
We create our own destinies when we believe in choice and merely bend with the wind when we don't.
>everyone with confidence is a narcissist and I know this because I don't have confidence and am definitely the humblest guy I know
Then that's what you'll be, unfortunately.
>When did you guys realize that there are people that are destined to be winners that forge ahead and be successful no matter what happens?
When I was like 18
>Are some people just born to be losers and live in defeat?
I think that's right
>How do I deal with these types of people?
Avoid them. Any help you give them, they'll waste. Any criticism will never make them reflect, but it'll only make them angry. Any cooperation with them will make you share their failure in some degree.
Nowhere near as renowned as today. He died poor and was buried in an unmarked grave. Hardly fitting for the "greatest composer who ever lived".
This.
I was a "winner" in OP's definition, until academia politics fucked me over. I am not yet fully defeated.
Digits will confirm I will be the next Hitler to my enemies
the law of balance
for most people it's a cycle of ups and downs
but there are people on both end of the spectrum who will only experince good luck(famous rich people, sport stars etc) or bad luck(kid born with cancer, al bundy etc)
for every DiCaprio in the world there is a guy who's life is living hell
i play online poker for a living. played more than 30k poker tournaments and countless cash game hands.
so believe me when i say that the law of balance is real
it's not some /x tier shit
R A R E
Haters will always exist. I went to school with working class losers and they all hated me. Basically white niggers angry that my grades didn't suck.
I thought I was an oddball and a strange person until I met other people who succeeded in life. All of a sudden I fit right in.
He also liked shit.
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To some extent, but there's a large leeway due to will, fortune, good decision making, advice/education from others, etc. I probably could've been an above-average salarypleb but I fucked up my youth and now I'm basically doomed to minimum wage plebitude for the rest of my life should I stay here.
Which I won't, third world's cheap yo