My parents finally brought up the fact I am still yet to have had a GF, and still am a virgin at nearly 30 years old

My parents finally brought up the fact I am still yet to have had a GF, and still am a virgin at nearly 30 years old.


I told them how far gone I am, and that I can't just get a GF like an 20 year old could, because at at nearly 30 I am expected to have my shit together. They sort of just half-ass agreed with me and said I should try finding a GF online, someone who is introverted like me. Then I told them that doesn't exist and if it does they're probably morbidly obese. They let it go and just finished off with "don't give up hope just yet, there's plenty of women out there"
I don't have any relationship experience, I have nobody to go out with, I don't even know how to talk to people outside of formal situations. I can't relate to anyone. Beginning to feel like shit all the time now, lost interest in my old hobbies. Struggling to keep up with the gym despite having lifted for nearly a decade now, lacking motivation to do anything.


Now that my parents finally brought this up with me after never speaking about it, I feel even more sad and hopeless.

Don't even know what to do anymore besides just exist for the sake of existing.

I feel like a lost cause Sup Forums, I don't even care about SJWs or Muslims or Trump anymore, I've just lost interest in society in general.

Sad times.

dude, get a hobby or two. get good at it.
women are for poofs

I have hobbies I just lost interest.

The only "thing" I really have left is lifting, which I'm too narcissistic to give up.

Are you me?

Though I am trying to convinve them to buy me a BMW to help attract females and im playing the hopeless loser card in order to get symathy points from my parents

how can being 'pathetic' and 'narcissistic' blend?
surely thats an oxy moron.
you don't loose interest in your hobbies, its your life work. you do it your whole life.
Lifting isn't a hobby by the way.
anyway, I just came here to tell you women are lame and won't fix you. good luck

Jesus

>he needs women to validate his existence

People are very much the same in a lot of regards. Most people just watch netflix, play on their computer/phone and do their normal errands and work at their jobs.

I somehow landed a GF after being in your same boat it's more of a matter of finding the ones burnt out on partying all the time I guess.

Least your parents can say
>gee my boy is sure good at that politics stuff, and can move his fingers over that keyboard like no other, he's going to become real successful in the future.

you're a fucking loser dude, have some dignity

Just find one of those foreign bride services and get you a Ukrainian or southeast Asian broad.

...

I am sure that will work

Hey man, Thoth gave you digits cause he feels your pain, I'm in a similar boat (a lot more going on in life but still totally disconnected from people) and completely understand. Try a therapist if you can, seriously, not someone who will give you drugs (do not take psychodrugs, get a new person if you are offered these immediately, that means they are shit-tier at their job) but rather someone who will help you talk about the bad shit you feel and work on your self-esteem.

If you watch porn, stop...NOW. And don't give up on yourself m8, I believe in every one of you and me too, I mean that.

Hang in there, friend.

Perhaps you should stop being such a vagina by caring about what your parents think. What fuckin kind of Australian are you?

Relationships aren't what they seem on facebook, like those pictures people take of them kissing, ya it took 30-50 retrys to get the perfect one that will give their relationship a certain social status. What you guys really do is just text and have sex, watch TV while you play video games, occasionally linking up for a quick facebook photo.

>find stupid college girls
>act wise
>????
>profit

Girls are dummies, just walk the walk and they'll think you're a cool old man.

>because at at nearly 30 I am expected to have my shit together

iktfb, it's bad.

>tfw always had a gf from when I was 13-21
>tfw sort of just got bored
>tfw "hey user, you should get back in the game before you're too old"
>tfw "lol too old"
>tfw birthday in two weeks
>tfw haven't had sex for almost seven years
>tfw really regret wasting all that time
>tfw haven't fapped for a week because I've been thinking about it
>tfw really feel like getting gf again
>tfw think there's potentially two I think it could work with
>tfw too frightened in case they laugh in my face and I'm back to square one treating Sup Forums like a blog

This is fucking horrendous. I almost wish I were a virgin just so I don't know what I'm missing.

Better start playing the lotto too buddy

25-year-old kissless Virgin here. I'm not too worried about what people think because I don't have sexual attraction to males or females so it doesn't matter

Buddy was in a somewhat similar boat as you.

Go out more, look up PUA stuff, get out of your head.

Go to church

Go do something to help others. Volunteer for charity.

Move out! Living with parents is stunting your growth

GL mate

Also tbqh if you become an alcoholic marrying a fat chick that claims disability and gets $1,200 a month with close to the store parking, isn't the worse that could happen.

GO FOR IT YOU FOOL.

Don't be a sad sack and die alone, try.

this, so pathetic. women are overrated.

Id marry a fat chick, she just have to accept the fact that I wont give her children or have sex with her unless im plastered.

change country or get a foreigner grill

Go on a walkabout

What's it like to have a girlfriend pol?

My parents don't have the money to do that unfortunately.

>how can being 'pathetic' and 'narcissistic' blend?

This is actually fairly common for gymcels like me.

You don't understand.

memes.

I would have already done this if I wanted to, but I don't, I want an australian born woman. Not some 3rd worlder whose just desperate to escape their shitty hole.

Just fucking go for those girls and stop being a puss, and try online dating at the same time and really put effort into it, people over 30 find relationships online like that all the time

/o/fag here try find a hobby.

Fuck women mate I'm a 25 year old virgin and women in my area are horrific bogans.

>I hate me
>I am better than you.

I don't see why one has to exclude the other.

Memes are all you have once your heart gets broken by the girl you love, and starts dating a fat lesbian.

nothing special, don't waste your time thinking about a girlfriend.

You are me in a few years, same story, should I be afraid, do you have work? when I'll finish my studies I'm going to be workaholic, I hope it will help me with loneliness.

I enjoy it. It's nice having somebody to do activities with, even if they occasionally annoy you.

This is good advice, thanks for sharing user, the PUA stuff has to be taken with a grain of salt, but the aspects about just overcoming the fear of approaching strangers is very good, and I think the other points are good advice for everyone regardless of situation in life.

Eh give it another 10 years then find a 3rd worlder.

i have accepted the exist just for exist
living the day

your comment gave me a glimpse into the mind of a mart shartter... that was scary

Death is the only true peace. Kill yourself

The only thing I miss about my girlfriend is waking up and holding her while she pressed her ass against my morning wood and whispers to me if I can rub her back ( which means kiss her neck and move down to that pussy )

Literally once I came I would want to hang out with my friends and get high

I'm in the same boat but I am 26. I am good looking and fit, I literally have zero social skills. I cannot talk or flirt with women. I either have autism or I am just so socially stunted from being a shut in. I cannot show interest in a girl, I can't "make a move" it just won't work. I get nervous around them.

I loved your manifesto

>2017
>not having a waifu
shiggydiggy

Cool blog post, /r9k/. Keep me posted

This is not political so fuck off nigger..Also, stop feeling sorry for yourself, the only way to conquer is by setting your own path. Fuck off with this low energy bullshit. Get a god damn escort and move on with your life you nigger. If you're not one, fuck you kike bait

There there user. I'am thirty too with no GF but not a virgin. My parents have yet to mention anything but they know i have a healthy social life and hobby's and live in my own house.

I think they'd like me to have a GF but accept i'am enjoying myself without being tied down.

>that doesn't exist and if it does they're probably morbidly obese
Haha actually twitter is full of decent looking chicks. You have to go on those normalfag social media sites. Then maybe find one in another town, go visit and pretend your a normalfag until the idiot let's you put your meat in her.

Youre a miserable fuck that comes one Sup Forums to whine and be miserable. Women don't want someone who hates women. No sympathy.

My suggestion is Dialectic Behavioral Therapy to teach you some life skills and coping skills. Also being single I would recommend hiking the A.T. or something similar. Ironically many people who consider themselves introverted are way out of touch with themselves.

The supreme gentleman.

Between the million fucking tryhard antifas posting cuck shit and "WOW Sup Forums BTFO" a thread about self-esteem improvement isn't such a bad thing now cmon, even if its a bunch of blogposting.

Are you half Asian by any chance?

Here's the deal dude. Who gives a fuck about doing it to get a gf. It's time to grow up and become a better person for yourself. Start reading everyday, start going to the gym 5 days a week. Start to become alpha. Younger girls dig older guys.
Make a difference in your life. Become an alpha. Not to get girls, but to improve yourself. Also, volunteer once every 2 weeks or so. It's actually a great way to meet girls believe it or not.

Fuck it, I think I will at some point this week. It's not like I have anything to lose anymore and with Kek telling me too, who am I to say it can't work.

I was going to try tinder as a fall back option, but I think that's too degenerate. I genuinely hate sleeping around, but I'm not sure if that's just because I'm older.

I'm going to go for it though because Sup Forums is always right. Thanks guys.

>Not having a Masters degree, a nice car, good job, a wife, a young child and a nice comfy home of your own at late 20's / early 30's

Congrats

You fell for the "no need to stress you are still Young"

Being Young is about laying the foundation to become a man.

>Getting a good degree
>Getting relevant work experience
>Getting /fit/
>Learning to live on your own / take care of apartment
>Invite girls out on dates, pick them up with your car
>Learn to have a relationship

What the fuck did you spend your 20's doing?

I have a family member that did this with some peasant chinese woman. Their whole relationship just seems odd as fuck, I don't want to be like him. She can barely communicate.

How old are you?

He said he goes to the gym for over a decade m8

>Younger girls dig older guys.

No they don't

Nope
My parents are loaded so i dont feel bad getting money from them

great post

Kek is with you brother. Look to him and find strength.

I have a car, a job, am very fit...........no gf (ever)

Faggot

I wonder what percentage of men who are 30 now managed to achieve all that in their 20s.

well i'm 24 and i never go out (except for job), i have no friends, don't know anyone, you probably feel bad because you still have hope, my only joy in life is sleeping

your sister still single?

What a productive memeber of society you sound like.

I really enjoy sleeping as well.

I hate waking up.

I know losers in their 20's that have almost none of that and still get cute gfs, but I get nothing.

I know this feel

Holy shit it's 2017 just download Tinder

Holyshit delete this pathetic reddit tier thread!!

>muh i need girlfriend, can't live without one.

I had many girlfriends. They are not worth the time and investment. Just find a fuck friend.

but if you feel lonely little weak mind then maybe you need a girlfriend to not make you feel lonely.

Fuck man, I would cherish a lovely female companion. I don't know how to converse much, but there must be plenty of quiet girls out there as well, who I can just enjoy being in the presence of. We could do stuff together ,and hold one another, and keep each other safe from the cold dark world which doesn't give a shit about either of us. But it doesn't matter because we'll have each other.

I started browsing Sup Forums when i was 13 and just turned 18 yesterday. I can see myseld being a KHV forever now. All hope is lost. The vaginal jew has been tricked by the real jew to act like a programable vagina and blindly follow anythingthat is trendy and popular in the media. All hope is lost for me.

quiet girls are rare and they do not like quiet guys, nobody likes shy/quiet guys.

No don't find a fuck friend, save up money, get a house. Then get a girlfriend and have kids.

This fuck friend thing is a Jewish trick.

I don't have a facebook, nor would I even know where to start.

Plus I have no photos besides of me autistically flexing my body. I don't go out or have friends to take photos with to appear like I have a social life. Last time I was in a family photo was probably 10 years ago.

I don't exactly have the materials to build a online dating profile. It's pretty funny to me that people even on Sup Forums find that incomprehensible. By telling me to "just get on tinder bro" it means you assume I must have a facebook and decent photos to put on.

What am I supposed to do? Just have tinder with 10 photos of my shirt off alone at home with a "kill me" look on my face.

Start talking to girls, m8

Bro become a vegan animal activists.white blonde blue eye girls hot as fuck.ratio is 10 to 1 .not even kidding fucking 10/10.vegan gains.good Christian girl

But they do like aloof guys who act like they don't give a fuck

smoking cones with mates in parks
one has a house and is getting married
one is in a nuthouse
two are drifting from pussy to pussy / job to job
I am currently a glorified boy toy in a loving relationship

whoops

Just go on Craigslist. I met my wife on there six years ago when I was in my late 20s.

I have a buddy that was really successful with tinder. He's not a supermodel. He's even chubby. Smokes weed and cigarettes.

What I'm saying is, it's a numbers game bro. If you drop your preconceptions, and your rejection fantasies, all it takes is trying enough times with enough women that it sticks. And it will eventually stick.

Even if it's degenerate, which it doesn't have to be, it's practice that you can't get anywhere else.

You'll hate yourself more for not trying, at the end of the day. Nothing wrong with trying and failing, because realistically you're looking for the diamond in the rough. That's the one that matters. The other 99.9% of women in the world don't matter. Just the one that your looking for.

Dude, chicks go for older men all the time, I'd say the good majority actually prefers it, it's men who prefer youth in their partners

Your problem isn't your age, you're just too busy feeling sorry for yourself to be attractive in any way

need a girlfriend, Why? the are only worth their pussy nothing more.

BTW, i hate children. So basically i'm perfect fine and happy with this primitive weak mindset most people have. Muh need girlfriend. Life is much more beautiful, freedom and better without a to have a some attachment to some one meaningless human.

KV25 here, but I don't give a shit basically.
Someone tell me how much time have I wasted.

look at this cunt dropping precious life experience like its nothing

exactly :( This shit is driving me crazy.

actual women post on cl?

Help

Chin up dude. It's not you, it's the shit world we were born into.

Seriously, come for a holiday over here (Thailand). Bring some money with you, bang a few cheap whores and then your confidence will be a little higher and you can try chatting to hot Asian bitches who aren't whores.

After two weeks in Thailand your confidence will be through the roof and you'll have had plenty of sex. Get an Asian girl, believe me, they are better than white ones. I wouldn't fuck a white one if she paid me.

>KV
Whats it like to hold a delicate woman close to you and smell her smell?

Was flirring with a girl yesterday for a bit, she offered me her phone number, and asked my age later. Told her I was 31 and she said she was 19, and at the end was like 'hope to hear from you soon'.

It was so easy it was pathetic.

>What the fuck did you spend your 20's doing?

World of Warcraft
Vanilla to WotLK

[spoiler]Best time of my life ;_;[/spoiler]

So I just went on craigslist australia for my state........


yeeeeeeeeeeh LOL

I have to question the quality of a girl that young that would even think about dating a guy your age. I am 26 and young looking but could not see myself with a 19 year old.

Bud, you're fucking 18, do you know how great that is? Don't give up, just stay focused on improvement now, don't you think all the guys like us that are nearing 30 wish we could be 18 again? DON'T LOSE HOPE, and go to church/volunteer, find girls who care about real shit not kardashian shit (if you want a relationship that is), I know it's hard but don't EVER give up and try really hard not to let your self-esteem be defined by this, that's another shitty jew trick to emphasize fuckbuddy-ing instead of developing meaningful relationships.

He's right, listen to these guys, a LOT of women dig older guys, DO NOT go around thinking about how old you are, think about how young you can FEEL man. I know you guys aren't into americanball but Tom Brady said he felt healthier at 40 than he did at 20.

BELIEVE GUYS, BELIEVE IN YOURSELVES, I BELIEVE IN YOU. KEK BELIEVES IN YOU.

Yes. I resorted to Craigslist as a profile is too much to maintain and surveys are a waste of time. I met a few women around that time and eventually settled with the one I've married.

There isn't much I could have done to find anybody as I work overnight and I was pushing 30, so my irl dating pool was reserved to single mothers in grocery stores.