Two Alphas In A Family

Is it possible for a relationship and marriage to work with both parents being both Alphas? There is something enticing about a gal who has a strong will but acknowledges and respects her bf/husband who is also and may be a stronger alpha. Could this type of relationship be ideal? I could see it being quite ideal myself but then again I like challenges.

If your gf is alpha then you, by definition, are beta.
If you are alpha then your gf, by definition, is beta.

That's not to say she cannot be a strong willed woman while being submissive to the alpha.

there can only be one alpha in a pack.

Let's say the two alphas understand that it is child's play to get into a power struggle and instead they turn their attention to the outside world where they direct their dominates to outside threats. I could actually see it working that way. I would think the trick is to not get into a constant power struggle, but maybe that is inevitable.

That is the common belief. Can common belief change?

They fact you're theorising so much leads me to believe that this topic is a non-issue from the outset.

no it's just... definition. alpha is the strongest, the leader. There can be only one strongest...

you dont have to base whatever your life is around that though; after all alpha is a term derived from packs of animals and humans, beastly things that they are, are still more than that.

Right and even in wolf packs often there is a dominating pair that are considered to be the alphad. Although only one of the wolves is actually the alpha even though they are considered by the pack as an alpha pair, but within the pair's relationship the most dominating wolf is the alpha over the pair and pack

There's no such thing as a female alpha. Have you ever heard "the female alpha, to secure her dominance, has to..." on an animal documentary?

>There can only be one highlande-
>lol j/k there can actually be TWO highlanders

Does that sound right to you?

do you mean the dominant male/female pair? or just any pairing of two strongest?

The rule of two

its just nature for an alpha to always emerge in a pack.. even if you try to be equal.. someone will still be the alpha.

It doesn't work. If a female is a true alpha, she won't be able to handle a true male alpha, or vice versa.

Basically whichever has the strongest will gets to impose it, which will make life for the other unbearable as a true alpha cannot act like a beta even to a stronger alpha.

I've spent a long time longing for a woman with a stronger will than mine, yet every time I think I've got one and we get into a relationship, I always end up getting my way and they always end up leaving because they want to be the ones that decide.

I haven't seen the movie, but I could see it happening if the highlander to be and the highlander can come to an agreement that two highlanders are better than one.

I was referring to a pair since it had the male and female role

That's what I was wondering because I have always liked a gal with a sense of strong will but all the girls I have dated never tried to be dominate

No one's the "alpha" in my marriage since we don't fight over anything or order each other around we just work out what the best thing to do is and do it.

Guessing this is a child of divorce thing where people see marriage as a competition since that's what it was like with their parents.

True

Wish I had a domi gf to make me her beta cuck.

That also happens. In that case I'm the one that leaves because I don't want someone who lets me walk all over them, or has me take every decision.

Most girls who say they're "alpha" or dominant are only this way in their group of girls or with their bitchboi friends.

Nah just wondering in general and I wouldn't call myself an alpha more of a go-getter. Those relationships are nice because you have a mutual understanding and both work together to accomplish goals instead of starting an undoing of the relationship.

The way my parents' marriage system works nicely as well

How long have you been searching for one?

Have a hard enough time just getting a gf, let alone one like that.

Good decision and when it comes to decsion making in relationships, friendships, or even family I always try my best to get people to contribute to the decision and I have had good success with that. I don't like hearing "I don't care" or "It doesn't matter to me" and the worse one is "I don't know". Any of those and especially the last one will make me want to drive up a damn wall

What's keeping you back pal?

Too beta

Nah, that's only if you think so. Keep your head up man and march forward. What makes you too beta?

Ultimately some one will have to bend a strong couple can still be a thing.

Most species of ape have an alpha male and an alpha female at the same time. Mafias and biker gangs have a similar system. Even more traditional British gypsy families will have a matriarch and a patriarch, where the women deal with maintaining the house and raising kids and look to a single figure as the leader, while the men all work under a single male. Then the matriarch will always defer to the patriarch.

It's the natural order of things, and only niggers fuck it up by abandoning their families. Japs here used to do it too, before the men lost their way.