But by this logic, if he loves her, wouldn't he mold to her beliefs? Or maybe some middle ground?
Your logic is flawed here user.
There can only be one correct answer, and that answer is the red pill, because its the truth in the world. Nothing else is right, because the red pill is just a metaphor for seeing all happenings in the globe, both past and present, and understanding who or what was behind it.
False narratives, manipulating governments, true character, origin meanings, etc etc. all make up what is a red pill. Without that, there is no such thing. A red pill is not Republican, its not Democratic, its who sees the truth and who doesn't, and what the best possible solution to the problem is.
user, if she is not open to change, there is nothing you can do. You can either A: Drop it, right here, right now, and never speak of the world around you again with her. Or B: Attempt to influence her, which will only lead to her pushing back if the relationship is new.
My advice, if you really care about her and see some hope of red pilling her, you'd collect evidence over the next year while shutting your mouth when you're around her. Then after shes invested a decent chunk of time into you, slowly start red pilling as events unfold. This way it's harder for her to cut and run. If shes hardcore libtard antifa faggot status, then she'll split right now because of the political climate.
So example: You're living together, a terrorist attack happens, you both watch it unfold live on TV. This is the time to start slowly influencing her opinions on the narrative. Once she realizes you were right, and all her retarded PC friends are wrong, she'll be more open to further red pills, and might even swallow the "muh 6 gorgillion" pill.
Now me personally. I'd tell her to go choke on a black dick and get raped, and split out east to find a good ol' country girl.