Who would have thought that habitual sexual behavior would be healthy (not harmful) for a sexual being?
Your Brain on Porn - It's NOT Addictive
www.psychologytoday om/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive
Who would have thought that habitual sexual behavior would be healthy (not harmful) for a sexual being?
Your Brain on Porn - It's NOT Addictive
www.psychologytoday om/blog/women-who-stray/201307/your-brain-porn-its-not-addictive
I'm 2 months in for nofap, it's easy
low t detected
(((Porn))) is good goy, just lose your productive energy and semen goyim, dont go out and change the world, just fap in your basement to cuckhold porn
Fapping in itself every now and again in the shower isn't the problem, it's fapping to porn and being addicted to it.
OP: "YES GOYIM PORN AND JERKING YOUR DICK OFF IS HEALTHY - DO IT 8 TIMES A DAY"
Fuck you merchant
>psychologytoday
>blog
>women who stray
>the study was flawed so porn addiction doesn't real
Fucking horrid reasoning from a (((psychologist))) trying to justify degeneracy.
sex is healthy (probably... im a virgin)
porn is NOT it's DEGENERATE and is causing young men to give up on having a gf
I don't know why people conflate watching porn with jacking off
obviously jacking off isn't bad for you but porn gives you all sorts of fucked up fetishes, insecurities and expectations
Come on (((OP))) I just got off my porn addiction. I really want to think more clearly and not think about jerking it everyday.
Kek has spoken.
>psychology
>study with no control group
>not understanding that the problem with addictions is not about response to stimuli, it's about long term reduced activity and shrinking of the prefrontal cortex and amygdala
Fucking morons. Don't fall for the jew lies, friends. Whether fapping is bad for you is debatable, but porn is definitely harmful
Can't argue with the truth even through theres a bunch of other factors stopping man from getting a gf.
Maybe if you are weak minded. It's like saying that action movies give unrealistic expectations. Once again, maybe, but only if you are weak minded.
Productive energy?
What about all the biblical patriarchs who were having tons of sex with numerous women?
They are considered some of the greatest men in human history, and some of the wealthiest men in the bible.
When I go 3 days without nutting, I get distracted and irritable. Not nutting slows me down.
>insecurities and expectations
this is where porn fucked me up. When I had a chance with a girl I was so concentrated on the girl's pleasure that I neglected my own because I was too insecure to get naked in front of another person even though she was.
Body image issues are real for dudes too.
>actually believing the jewery that has a vested interest in you continuing to be additcted to porn
You lose a lot of Zinc when you jack off constantly. Low zinc = low testosterone.
>not understanding that the problem with addictions is not about response to stimuli, it's about long term reduced activity and shrinking of the prefrontal cortex and amygdala
Fuckin THIS.
I can almost tell the age that junkies got hooked by the way they act, because they don't grow as people after that.
Not saying porn is that stunting but it's in the same category of neutralising inactivity.
>search nofap on youtube
>bunch of beta virgins preaching about it's benefits.
Yeah, nah. No porn and infrequent faps, sure. Once a week is fine if you're young and healthy.
Connie carter is hot op but next time link her porn films she does with her husband or some of he nudes.
they need to study me. i have fapped to some weird shit--including literal shit coming out of a girl's butthole. it certainly didn't start out this way, but I knew I had a problem when I was looking for pictures of headless naked women to fap to.
It boils down to differentiating between fiction and reality. I don't understand why there is a disconnect here.
personal issues have nothing to do the larger picture. you have some issues you havent found the real reason for, dont use porn as a scape goat
If you make porn with your wife, and fap to it in occasion...
... how in violation is that to the No Fap?
Just curious what you lads think.
>in b4 it's up to you
So you make the rules up as you go?
Exactly
3 years nofap here. what is a woman?
(((psychology)))
Yes goy, keep jerking off, porn does nothing to your brain, to your way of thinking.
In terms of their respective effects on your testosterone, there's a massive difference between wanking it and actually fucking.
question for nofappers:
if you're not jerking off while you're looking for chicks, aren't you worried that if you don't bone at least like once a week you're at risk for cumming too early when you're with some fine honey?
let me know, thanks
Reminder that the most healthy way to conduct sexual behavior is no-porn masturbation once a week and sex whenever your monogamous couple so wishes.
>if you don't bone at least like once a week you're at risk for cumming too early when you're with some fine honey?
Just because you cum doesn't mean sex is over. You can always go again or go down
No just be upfront.
"I don't jack off and I haven't had sex in a while, so I'm gonna nut instantly. Get ready"
i ruined my dick from jerking off too much
porn is cancer
My question stands,
if you make a video with your spouse and fap to it,
is that fapping to porn?
What do you with the free time
Not nofap, but rather cum early, then play with her during the refractory periodt, and then go at it again, than suffer from ED via death grip syndrome. Nothing like not being able to cum from vaginal penetration to ruin your self-image.
>Once a week
Once a WEEK?!
Being a fat fuck wrecks your test. I used to fap it every day before sleep as a routine. Sometimes even after sex with gf on the same day.
Porn was never the issue and if i leave it three days it's going across the room.
People are wired differently and this nofap stuff is garbage.
bunch of degenerated self proclaimed saints ,and dont confuse royaltis to real patriarchs, you should see your woman as your contact with god and he will be happy with you for not see woman like some kind of cheap fucktoy like this sexually degenerated monsters ,the same fags you call man of patriarchy if this is a word, are the George Soros or John podesta or your average pedophile from this time.
do some kegel exercises and you will be fine
well i just fapped just now
>David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.
>Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.
Why should I trust a guy who promotes cuckoldry?
Never started jerking it til end of high school I believe. Literally started jerking at first to stop from cumming in my sleep as I heard that you either jerk off or have wet dreams. Was about once a month I did it but that wasn't enough so once every two weeks to stop wet dreams.
Now I only jack off about once a week maybe twice if I get in the mood for it.
Apparently i'm fucking bizarre compared to friends who have talked about this shit or from what I've read online. Never told anyone any of this.
I love fapping
I'm 24 and the more I fap, the better it gets, and I went through the 6-8 faps a day phase when I was 19
The main problem of porn is overstimulation by exposure to many different women, so I don't know how it would affect you, if at all. Maybe not.
Jew detected
Porn does plenty to my way of thinking. Being as horny and dumb as a nigger is fun for a half hour. It goes away after I cum.
Jerking off =/= sex.
There's a difference between a man who fucks a woman every day, and a man who doesn't leave the house and socialise as he is content with watching and nutting to porn multiple times a day. The former would in all cases be more confident, active, and approachable. While the latter would be anxious, lethargic, and awkward.
It's the difference between an alpha and a beta
>This enlightening work investigates the history, incidence, and causes of a unique sexual lifestyle pursued by increasing numbers of couples. It is called by many names, and lived in a variety of ways by different couples. The most common terms used to describe it are 'hotwife' or 'cuckold lifestyle.'
Holy shit, Sup Forums is always right.
Reminder that premature ejaculators get ED early and more often.
Fap when you need to. Compulsive behaviour is when you do it without enjoyment out of habit.
read and work.
So fapping should help prevent my genetically-prone male-pattern baldness?
Now, I have a goal.
>le monogamy meme
Monogamy is an unnatural social construct. Just look at animals in nature. They don't bind to one mate for their entire life.
nofap is a beta cult.
> porn not addictive
> video games are
WEW
it's anxiety.
Wouldn't someone who abstains from actually having sex by using porn as a proxy be more akin to an omega, rather than a beta?
>kids are echo chambering this horse shit on the internet.
It is rare but not unheard-of. Swans mate for life, if I remember correctly.
Kek
Nah, zinc is a 5ar inhibitor. It helps prevent testosterone conversion to DHT. DHT causes hairloss.
Sure, people may not be "addicted" in the same way they are addicted to drugs (what the study compared it to).
But it is undeniable that there are many men who spend too much time watching porn, who would like to stop but feel like they can't.
I'm not an advocate for the government meddling with porn production or treating it like a public health crisis or anything, and there's nothing wrong with the occasional fap. But I do think it is healthy for guys to keep an eye on their porn consumption and keep it in check.
*rolls eyes profusely*
Masturbation is like procrastination. You're fucking yourself.
When have psychologies ever done anything but fuck you?
Came here to say this.
I have horrible wet dreams-- about incest and bestiality-- if they don't masturbate often enough. I'm literally at the point where I fap out of fear of seeing that shit when I go to sleep.
Plenty of animals pair bond for life holy shit read a fucking book.
With mammals it's more common to guard a harem with violence.
We also choose not to rape, an evolutionary disadvantage, because it benefits society in the long run, not to mention the added intellectual benefits of having a partner over the course of your life who will help you emotionally, economically (hopefully few times) and physically (in emergencies?)
>flag
Oh you're that one faggot huh
Nigger I can think of at least 30 animals and countless species off the top of my that mate for life.
*I
not they*
Tons of animals mate for life man, especially K selected predator types.
Good post
>NOT addictive
lol ok then stop for 1 month
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>Romanian Scientist
I've heard that celibacy is the only perversion, since it involves not living throught the states of tension, release and rest.
So it's morbid, not to do with real life and rejecting your needs instead of meeting them with moderation.
It's also extreme, which is where you go when you have no ideas.
More likely to be a masculinity destroyer than not, everywhere i've travelled where there's no outlet for men they act like fuckin idiots about women and end up keeping boys as slaves.
nofap is reddit tier snake oil advice, noporn actually helps though. use your imagination instead of looking at dicks you cuck
You got a demon in you
Yes, actually. Omega didn't cross my mind as I wrote that
So you're going to tell me that watching porn multiple times a day is healthy for a young man, Shlomo?
What if you fap to vids of you banging chick's?
Too much or too little of any bodily function is generally not good for you. Well except maybe puking I guess, that's probably something you're better off not doing period.
you are not an animal dude, act like a real son of god and dont fall for the degenerated culture of your country like disco stuff and reggeton and that shit, its the same crap on almost every part of the world
True, but anxiety is also a root issue. More sexually anxious = PE and eventually ED.
Couples making their own porn emphasises trust and relaxation, and cuts (((them))) out.
This honestly.
who cares, ill jack off when I want
i just lost a 10 day streak and i feel like absolute shit
I used to fear fapping so damn much, until I realized that it was only bad because I made it bad in my mind. Nothing wrong with beating the meat.
>porn is virtual cuckoldry and porn addiction has led to rise of cuckold porn popularity
>psychologist who writes about cuckoldry tells you that there is no such thing as porn addiction
Look at this. He even tries to discredit the idea by shitting on David Duke.
>In December, 2016, the porn addiction industry got a surprising endorsement from notorious Louisiana white nationalist and Ku Klux Klan leader, David Duke. (I choose not to link to the post, but it is easily found.) In a blog on his website, Duke described porn addiction as a scourge perpetrated on males and society by a Jewish conspiracy. He described porn as inherently addictive, shaping malleable brains, and "heartily recommends" that readers watch a Ted Talk video by the leader of Your Brain on Porn, identifying it as eye-opening and offering helpful ways to recover healthy "mentality." I'm not suggesting that the leaders of the sex or porn addiction industry are themselves racist - I know many of them and don't believe they display overt racism. Instead, the racial exclusiveness of the field's professionals and patients may make the concept and industry more tolerable and conducive to racism as espoused by those such as Duke.
psychologytoday.com
yeah, there's more to it than porn, there's also feminism and a lack of good spaces for young White men and women to meet.
Nofap is a meme
Porn is the problem
Quit porn and limit yourself to masturbating once a week MAX
This is the problem, feeling bad.
I named it as sexual anxiety, but its the same shit.
Sure try your best, but sitting around feeling like shit about your sexuality is going to fuck you as a man.
false dichtomy and liberal-biased, degenerate bullshit
>le feminism boogeyman
Jews run porn, Jews run feminism
See a pattern?
Exceptions might exist. Then again, mammals are more relevant to humans.
Are you trying to say that my argument is flawed? His initial post literally states that monogamy is healthy, when studies and simple observation show that it's an unnatural restraint.
"Monogamy in mammals is rather rare, only occurring in less than 3% of these animal species ."
Source: en.wikipedia.org
>We also choose not to rape
Not comparable. Rape violates another person's right. Polygamy doesn't. In fact it's actually beneficial for society if you've got better genes to impregnate as many women as possible.
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>watching porn multiple times a day is healthy for a young man?
Nah, it's self indulgent and can warp his view. Especially for a virgin suburbanite who's never been anywhere or done anything.
But the whole alpha beta thing is a load of RP horseshit, alpha males in mammal social groups have the narrowest range of function and the least security, being perpetually under threat of challenge or theft of their stuff.
Humans graduated to more complex social interactions about 2 million years ago and the primitive stuff is for emergencies.
Protip: women run this shit
Sorry, but you are a sexual being and if you're not married or pursuing one or more potential leads towards marriage you will be driven crazy by your dick and fapping every day won't really help. That instinct exists for a reason. Find a woman to marry.
The final red-pill is having sex everyday but never cumming except for once a month or less.
I see, so you're okay with getting cucked. Not everyone is a beta cuck loser like you, keep your fetishes to yourself.
This, also we're civilized human beings, not animals. Have some pride in yourself.