Reflections on My Marriage to a Pretty White Girl

I married an American white girl in 2011. We were fresh out of college, I was madly in love, and I overlooked her attitude and her feminist outlook, thinking she would mature as she grows up, but now Im worried about how my son will be raised

>She makes our son take her "out on a date" every few weeks, where he buys her lunch and she "teaches him how to treat ladies". He pays from money he earns doing chores around the house for her
>She always dresses him up and combs his hair, and discouages him from playing sports and instead encourages him to read and study all day
>We both work, but she saves up her money and has never contributed a single dollar toward our bills or rent
>Is overly defensive and is a pain to deal with daily
>Always wants me to stay on a diet, and literally throws a tantrum every time I gain even a single pound
>Watches ALL the normie tv shows
>Cleans the house once a week, and makes sure to complain about it all night when she does
>Is a horrible "cook" and only makes rudimentary food like chicken salad or mashed potatoes etc..
>Constantly freaks out and throws a bitch fit on me over the tiniest stuff, then kisses me and says she loves me before bed as if nothing happened
>Shes naturally pretty, but puts ZERO effort into looking good, only puts on makeup for special occasions like our anniversary, she showers like once every 5 days during the winter
>We are currently in Lebanon to visit my family, and is very awkward and standoffish with everyone here


Are all marriages to white women like this??

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>I overlooked her attitude and her feminist outlook
stopped reading right there
You reap what you sow

Skitskins not understanding our women. Not a surprise since she is probably smarter than you.

Sage is good for cooking if you guys don't know

You gave up having disciplined muslim woman for shitty white girl? You muslims sure are a stupid people.

That twist ad the end. Dude, I thought the Lebanese were alpha. You need to cut her funding until she behaves.

It's because you're not white.

She settled.

What's twist, Califag here and I've just about given up on "white" women. All the pale girls here have spic last names and I can't stand it.

Even the black girls here are mixed with spic. All the white girls are valley trash degenerates...

I was honestly looking to go to college just to find a nice hijabi girl to settle with...

How the tides have turned...

>throws a tantrum every time I gain even a single pound
dump her if possible, she doesn't look up to you at all

Here's a solution, take her to saudi arabia for a year, and see what her behavior is like then.

SAGE

Fake, sad you.

Fuck her in the ass, she will either become submissive or acuse you of rape

>Are all marriages to white women like this??

Yes.

>Pretty White Girl
>She makes our son take her "out on a date" every few weeks, where he buys her lunch and she "teaches him how to treat ladies". He pays from money he earns doing chores around the house for her.

Not trying to be smart assed or anything, but are you sure he's your son? Also, never ever engage with a feminist ON THEIR TERMS.
Just like said. At this stage, it wouldn't matter what their race is, feminism is pure cancer.

>Are all marriages to white women like this??
Not all, but too many are similar. In your case a lot of the issue lies in you. Gonna drop shitposting mantle of Sup Forums right now and go slightly more /adv/.

It's your responsibility to both communicate with your wife and discuss things. It's possible she will throw a tantrum but if she will also be standoffish you should politely, yet firmly, without being submissive point out how unfitting her behavior is and how you expect her to behave better. It varies between people but certain firmness in standing up for your beliefs is important if you don't want her to walk all over you and turn your son into self-hating cuck. Speaking of which, make sure you encourage your kid to try activities he may like whatever they'd be. Sports included. It's good, no matter your kid's gender, for their physical and mental health. Just also make sure to teach that kid to value things for what they are, without neither adoring nor hating stuff because it's masculine or whatever.

Your wife may be really messing him up even if she has good intentions. You have to balance her out, raise your son with understanding of importance of logic and fact over unpleasant feelings they may cause, make him learn to notice things objectively and to face his own emotions rather than make them color the world around him.

...

Dear sick fuck

Stop putting InfoWars stickers on utility poles around elementary schools. This is illegal and if you continue I will stake you out and report you to the police. I know you want to get your bang for your buck on that 50 pack but take a moment to think of how fucked up what you're doing is.

wut
Are you sure you're in the right thread?

This generation is lazy. I am sorry that it is this way.

But, lol
>>Always wants me to stay on a diet, and literally throws a tantrum every time I gain even a single pound


and

>Shes naturally pretty, but puts ZERO effort into looking good, only puts on makeup for special occasions like our anniversary, she showers like once every 5 days during the winter

White women who marry shitskins (i.e you) are always mediocre at best and usually garbage.

>We are currently in Lebanon to visit my family
Don't give a fuck then. Any girl stupid enough to marry a fucking arab has to be insane.

most anons think that OP is a troll..

he most likely isnt a troll.

hes just beta and the status quo of the relationship is established.

to be 100%? most married people will understand the situation.

its 100% compromise. its 100% putting up with each others sht.

...the money thing? damn straight.. got to save on the low if you want anything.. or turn up with a car on the driveway with a bow on it.. she might just pay the instalments.

men and women think differently.

do you really need a car? damn since iv been married i have got down to only buying clothes twice a year.. beat that!

the world aint ever given me anything but my kids..

and now the world has them.

This is blue pill cuck advice OP do not do

Go read The Red Pill sub and become the man of the house and put the bitch in line and stop being a pussy.

All women are cunts, you have to train them like you train a dog.

>teaches son how to court
>saves money
>encourages you to stay in shape and not eat trash
>naturally pretty yet not obsessed with her own looks and doesn't spend money in frivolous cosmetics
How are those bad?

>be firm in standing up for your beliefs
>make sure to raise your son properly, not just letting your wife indoctrinate him

>blue pill
You're either retarded, didn't read or your definition of blue pill is the weirdest I've ever seen.

not mine

>We both work, but she saves up her money and has never contributed a single dollar toward our bills or rent

Jesus Christ dude, the other stuff is just being a bitch, but this right here is how your life gets destroyed if she decides to divorce you. How does it feel to literally support her like she's a child, on top of you having to pay her alimony if shit goes south?

>She makes our son take her "out on a date"
Why don't you teach your son how to be a man?
>She always dresses him up and combs his hair
She wants him to look good, but teach him to dress himself for fucks sake.
>We both work, but she saves up her money and has never contributed a single dollar toward our bills or rent
Ayylmao get ready for her divorce nest egg.
>Is overly defensive and is a pain to deal with daily
You're a pushover faggot that's why
>Always wants me to stay on a diet
Eat healthy you goddamn retard.
>Watches ALL the normie tv shows
What did you expect from a woman.
>the rest of your whining
Why did you wife this cunt again? You get what you pay for, faisal.

they come in 50 packs??
praise kek

She supports herself, for example she buys own clothes and pays her own car payments etc..If its something solely related to her, she pays. She never contributes to common bills and rent though. She says that by spending on herself, shes saving me alot of spending. We're never getting divorced

Now you know why the Koran says to rape, beat and dominate her at all times.

>She makes our son take her "out on a date" every few weeks, where he buys her lunch and she "teaches him how to treat ladies"
Unless your son is a niglet with a violent temperament, then your wife is turning him into an emasculated little bitch.
>She always dresses him up and combs his hair, and discouages him from playing sports and instead encourages him to read and study all day
Then add Mein Kampf, 1984 and other redpilled books to his collection until your wife gets the message.
>Always wants me to stay on a diet, and literally throws a tantrum every time I gain even a single pound
But she's overweight herself, right?
>she saves up her money and has never contributed a single dollar toward our bills or rent
>she showers like once every 5 days during the winter
She's a nasty, lazy bitch. Let your inner Lebanese come out and ditch her.

she's saving her money for when she divorces him

Shes in perfect shape, shes like 115 lbs. As a teen she used to weigh like 150 lbs and I think shes anorexic

>marrying a whore who went to college
You only have yourself to blame.

I'm happily married to a white girl.

Like most trumpcucks, you're just a little bitch.

Who gives a fuck about what TV shows she watches?

You think like a 12 year old, but once again, typical trumpcuck.

hahaha you mudblood kiddie is gonna be a faggot. shoulda stayed in the middle east hahahahahah

>Arab married a white grill
>cannot handle his woman
>AN ARAB
>will let her turn his child into a numale
What a disgrace. I bet you didnt even do that premarital contract you do.

The problem is you evidently let her walk all over you, and women hate that. She doesn't respect you. And if a woman doesn't respect you, not only will she find you unattractive, she will find you pathetic and irritating. Basically, you need to take charge and tell her how things are going to be, and that you're going to run your life for yourself first - you're not her fucking project to shape mould. Women often try to do that - shape a man in Mr. Perfect, but they end up resenting him for compromising himself so easily, and so distinctly.

What you need to do is be a fucking man, man.

Once you get back to America you must make plans to abandon her and flee with your son back to Lebanon.
Arab dads do it all the time when their marriages to white chicks break down and if you're lucky she'll never see her son again.
That'll be no less than the stupid miscegenating harpy deserves for trying to raise a cuck.

>he didn't take the asianpill

Sucks to be you.

ah a goyishe kop at its finest

don't forget to hook your friends and relatives up with white women too

Oh man, you arabs are gonna be a walk in the park. I can't wait to tell Bibi about this

If this post is true, the reason for all this is obvious. She realises she doesnt love OP anymore. Sorry man. thats how it goes sometimes, and there is no way to fix it if its gone this far. No wonder she is being standoff-ish, she is probably thinking of filing for divorce or suicide when you guys get back home

I've been dating my gf for about a year and there are similarities. She is pretty red pilled; I frequently use the word "nigger" in conversation with her and she agrees, she bought me a trump hat and voted for the god emperor

However
>never wears makeup around me or puts any effort at all into her appearance except when she goes to work
>always wants to watch shitty reality shows (Alaskan bush people, my 600lb life, etc)
>when we hang out now, half the time we're just sitting around on our phones
>she always complains about her bad luck but it's not even anything bad (ex: she's been pulled over several times but never gotten a ticket)

How do I end it

>feminist
tl;dr /thread

Nah, she just found someone she can be lazy as shit with.

yup this happens all the time. Id start putting some savings in cash somewhere she doesnt know about

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>Feminism is getting the guy to pay
Lol no, no feminist thinks that.
My sisters are both feminist and they make sure to always pay for their own stuff on dates and outings, your wife is just a cunt and it's your fault for falling for a retarded loser

>We're never getting divorced
Enjoy second hand boner breath.

>marrying a white girl over a lebanese muslim
can you get any more retarded

Well he's paying the price now. He should take his son and flee to Lebanon, and then join the Hezbollah.

Lebanon is almost 2/3 white. Crusader dna.

dude... you are active in a board where nazism, trap porn and rekt/hate threads are not even close to being the worst stuff you can find. Other than becoming more interesting yourself (by having a fucking life instead of being on Instagram all day on your phone), accept that you both do stuff the other might find unappealing. She's not perfect and neither are you.

>and I overlooked her attitude and her feminist outlook, thinking she would mature as she grows up
You deserve what happened cuck
You NEVER marry a woman you have yet to pacify

He is among us

Jesus titty fucking christ. You could have had an incredibly hot lebanese woman (americanized or immigrant, doesn't matter) - pluses being no cultural alienation with your family and fucking awesome cooking, age well and look graceful, traditional family roles, and you settle for a retarded white girl?

That is some nigger-tier shit.

ya fuckin goofd

>A FUCKING TREE

Most Lebanese women are just as bad if not worse. At least we're in love and my marriage is not forced on her

Tree, how often do you have sex with your wife?

you dun'Goofed Mate

>in love
>marriage is not forced on her

GO FOR A LEBANESE QT YOU MORON!

Go date your mom OP sounds like what you're looking for

>Are all marriages to white women like this??

no. You Sir...are a cuck.

You're an absolute leb, user.

I came up with a term years ago...

Hispasian.

Is she latina? Viet? both? Shes Hispasian

I second this

>makes her son take her on a "date"
Other than making him pay for it I don't see the issue.
>she dresses him up and combs his hair
that's typical mom stuff
>discourages him from sports
talk to them about it separately and see if he wants to try soccer or football or whatever, you're the dad steer the conversation.
>we both work but she doesn't pay money towards bills
have you ever discussed this? did you discuss it before marriage? My wife and I had a lot of discussions about this sort of thing before we got hitched.
>always defensive
that's just how women are, you just need to learn to approach things from a position of strength and very clearly state your intent with every remark you make about the topic at hand.
>always wants me to stay on a diet
that's good wifeing, how would you feel if she got fat?
>watches all the normie shows
well I got no advice for you there, some people just have shit taste
>cleans the house once a week
if you both work full time you should be sharing the housework
>horrible cook
tell her you would like a certain dish made, slowly increase your demands until she gets a better feel for your pallet. Don't criticize the food at the time of eating, tell her what you want different before she starts making it a second time.
>freaks out and throws a fit then kisses me and says she loves me
she feels bad about being a bitch and doesn't want you to go to bed feeling like she hates you
>zero effort into looking good
when giving women tips on their looks you always phrase it in a way that makes it sound like it's your personal tastes, "I like when you put on lipstick" "I just love the way your hair smells after you shower" shit like that, positive reinforcement.

big lebanese community here in Liberia

you people are massive jews but your women are passable. You should just admit you wanted US citizenship and married into it like most of the apes around here.

The Arabs boss wife doesn't let his son play sports, instead his son reads and studies all day.

Nothing wrong with reading, but letting the child to learn about competition through sports will make the child grow up with the "my turn" "entitlement" mentality. OP you better turn this around quick before it's to late

See this is the thing you don't get it. It's more about culture than race, although race is certainly a part of it.

You could have gotten some white girl who loves cooking Middle Eastern food, is all about the culture there, but is more so favoring the "secular" countries. But it'd be a lot easier to just get an Americanized Lebanese girl, of which there are many. And yes in my experience Middle Eastern women put way more effort into looking good and have mentioned how American girls are "basic".

I don't know why you're surprised. Only a minority of White American girls know how to cook.

In other countries they say the way to get a man to like you is through the stomach first, meaning good food. Here we don't really have that.

If you want her to get better at cooking try joining a culinary class and ask her to join with you so it doesn't seem like you're shit talking her cooking.

Also the whole thing you said about defensive for no reason is most women in general.

>she doesn't look up to you at all
This is not how relationships work, my permavirgin friend

While your wife sounds like a real bitch (sorry) and it also sounds like you lack the balls to do something about it, I am curious as to why you haven't given any info about yourself.

I mean, could it be that apart from her natural bitchiness, you don't do absolutely anything even remotely interesting/useful/fun besides going to work? I am trying to be sympathetic to your plight, but desu no one likes to cook, etc. for a fat fuck that yells from the couch whenever he's hungry and that's all the value they provide to the relationship. Are you like that? Or do you at least try to communicate, share some time/conversation with her and with your son, etc.?

im born in USA
What am I supposed to say about myself?

Quality reddit thread OP. Did you copy and paste it directly from there too?

You should really go back. Your thread is shit and you deserve to be raped.

>We're in love
>She's saving money for herself
Ya dun goofed

THIS IS COPY PASTA YOU FUCKING RETARDS

"I take them fishing from time to time"; "I am teaching my son to swim", "we discuss politics and current events sometimes", shit like that. Interesting stuff most ppl do, stuff that adds value to the relationship.

My point is that you can't complain about her managing every asect of your son's education if your biggest contributions so far have been money and a weak "m-maybe he could play some s-soccer...never mind". Same goes for demanding the treat you like the king of the house if you don't deserve to be treated like royalty. If TV and beer are your biggest interests, I can assure you most women wouldn't even lift a finger to make you happy. If you can't add value, you shouldn't expect it form others user.

Now you know what we have always known: A white woman crazy enough to choose brown men is worthless

>>She makes our son take her "out on a date" every few weeks, where he buys her lunch and she "teaches him how to treat ladies". He pays from money he earns doing chores around the house for her
>feminist outlook
>>She always dresses him up and combs his hair, and discouages him from playing sports and instead encourages him to read and study all day
This is fine. Sports are for cucks. Studying is alpha.
>>Is overly defensive and is a pain to deal with daily
>feminist outlook
>>Always wants me to stay on a diet, and literally throws a tantrum every time I gain even a single pound
This is good, don't become a fatass user
>>Watches ALL the normie tv shows
Detonate a nuclear warhead above your house high in the atmosphere so the TV is fried and refuse to buy a enw one.
>>Cleans the house once a week, and makes sure to complain about it all night when she does
>>Is a horrible "cook" and only makes rudimentary food like chicken salad or mashed potatoes etc..
>feminist outlook
>>Constantly freaks out and throws a bitch fit on me over the tiniest stuff, then kisses me and says she loves me before bed as if nothing happened
Sound like a normal woman to me.
>>Shes naturally pretty, but puts ZERO effort into looking good, only puts on makeup for special occasions like our anniversary, she showers like once every 5 days during the winter
>feminist outlook
>>We are currently in Lebanon to visit my family, and is very awkward and standoffish with everyone here
Seems like you're a shitskin cuck that needs to kill yourself.

This is why I married a Greek girl

Shut up you fucking sandnigger.

I smell stale pasta

I got the best advice on women from my self-made middle class african immigrant co-worker, he told me to ditch them the second they start taking too much

I can't even get a fucking girlfriend.

I think American women are fundamentally fucked. America is great and all but the women just ruin it and in that sense I wish I was in a different country.

>marrying a white girl over a qt conservative lebanese girl
Your parents should've smacked you harder

>our son
>our
Are you sure about that lebAnon?

Man, OP...you need to sort that out for your son's sake.

Marriage is a commitment and takes work.

You married a white woman that would marry an arab/arab-equivalent, so you didn't get a woman from the top half of the barrel. And the top half of the barrel is still pretty shitty. You fell for the white woman meme, I guess.

Have you tried teaching her how to cook proper food? Why don't you tell your wife that you and the kid will have a father and son day where you help him play sports? Letting your wife tell your kids to not play sports is a bad sign.

Though... more accurate, you disregarded the white woman meme and now face the punishment from that.

>she showers like once every 5 days during the winter
I want to sniff her pits

Same. OP post pics of her pits

if you want i can give your wife daughter to raise her way ;)

YOUNG MEN!!! ATTENTION!!!

Let this man's story be a reminder. Your duty as a father is to prevent your son from being a pussy and following the way of the beta.

They must know the power of pussy is so strong, that even barf breath blubber buckets can always find some dipshit to fuck them.

Read up on the difference between the Spartans vs Athenians regarding how they raised boys. Only the Spartans created Men.

Side note: study Iron John. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iron_John

O shit. Advice from an adult and not a gross man child without a clue. Ill be damned.

>A FUCKING TREE

This is my first post on Sup Forums and I think the last.
Listen well Anons. Truth is a huge and ever-growing part of arabs have a huge inferiority complex towards whites. They just want to whiten themselves no matter what. All those apostates you see fighting against their old religion and raving about how western world has everything right, all those men and women settling with trash-tier people as long as they're white, and so on. All this stems from this inferiority complex, which is what years of colonisation left as scars.
And this complex has huge consequences: all those radical go-hard-or-go-pork types only act so fervent because they feel threatened, and even within those groups they're still affected. I once heard of a single girl being courted by several guys though she was an ex party slut who recently converted, just because she was white.
White influence is much more potent Sup Forums realizes, and colonialism still has effects.