Abstinence is fucking retarded. It goes against human nature and leads to a wealth of psychological problems and expectations and repressed sexual impulses that will fuck up your love life.
Waiting until marriage to have sex won't guarantee that it will be any better. What if you discover that you're not sexually compatible at all? I have seen the enforcement of abstinence cause young horny kids in Christian households to rush into marriage early in their 20's before they are ready for the demands of cohabitation. These relationships normally do not last very long and are very dysfunctional.
By all means try to look for a girl who will be loyal and not whore around. But marrying just because she's a virgin is autistic as hell.
Abstinence is fucking retarded...
Kevin Morris
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Henry Johnson
Quit trying to justify the fact you have no discipline
and self control.
Being a whore is unnatural and harmful to society at large.
Gabriel Cook
>It goes against human nature and leads to a wealth of psychological problems and expectations and repressed sexual impulses that will fuck up your love life.
Sup Forums is well aware of this, love.
Nathaniel Jones
degenerate spotted
Zachary Ross
You're supposed to stay abstinent until you marry at 16 then pump out babies non-stop until menopause.
Matthew Bell
Been on nofap for 52 days now. Gpa last term was 2.00 this term in getting over 90% on all my subjects and I haven't missed a class. It's all displince fuckers
Jack Bailey
>Waiting until marriage to have sex won't guarantee that it will be any better.
Cool strawman user.
The point of abstinence is to reduce to 0% your chance of having a child until you're ready.
Sebastian Gray
Spoken like a typical cuck
Hey I'm a cuck so all of you should be too. Maybe you should go to plebbit or hollywood?
Isaiah Green
The "not being sexually compatible" thing is a myth. Banging is simple, what kind of loser lets sex make or break their marriage?
Austin Brooks
On second thoughts, I agree with your point about loyalty but abstinence => discipline and discipline is more likley to lead to loyalty
Brayden White
Thank you for this truly amazing insight, faggot.
Matthew Garcia
>you will never get your foreskin stuck in Bess Kalb's underbite
Kayden Jenkins
Man I'm not gonna lie. Sex is important as fuck and my girlfriend has literally told me that if I was bad in bed that she didn't believe a relationship could last.
If you think sex shouldn't make or break a marriage then you're either not human or never had a stable relationship.
Owen Williams
Fuck off back to >>>/reddit/
Hunter Reed
>I have seen the enforcement of abstinence cause young horny kids in Christian households to rush into marriage early in their 20's before they are ready for the demands of cohabitation.
That has nothing to do with abstinence. It has to do with the Christian doctrine of being fruitful and multiplying. The younger you get married and start having kids, the more Christians you can raise. But they also realize that having kids out of wedlock is a recipe for disaster. So don't have any chance of having kids until you're married.
You'd have to be an idiot to think Christians rush into marriage in their early 20s because they're just so sexually repressed by their oppressive parents and really need to mash their gentiles together.
Juan Miller
>sexually compatible
Degenerate trash
Levi Price
Abstinence, like everything else, is harmful when taken to extremes.
psychologicalscience.org
Chase Jones
d-does she count as white???
she's pretty :3
Christian Fisher
You should definitely look for a virgin if you want a successful marriage, you cuck.
Josiah Reyes
This
You're preaching to the fucking choir you turbonigger
Asher Sullivan
t. Hershel Goldstein
Gabriel Ramirez
name?
Dominic Gomez
There's no such thing as a guarantee in life, statistically though, your arguments are entirely unfounded.
family-studies.org
>Women with 0-1 partners were the least likely to divorce.
There are many things in life that stupid people like to spout. "Plumbing and truck driving are great jobs, college is a scam, and wanton fucking is healthy" are among them.
Wanna know a little secret, cunt? I've never actually met a slut who was happy. Not once. Utter disasters in relationships (romantic and familial), prone to substance abuse, and completely unstable. If you want to pick out a girl who's likely to hit you, pick out the one you know is a slut. This is what my long experience with society's underbelly has taught me.
Chase Gomez
>Having sex
fucking losers
Parker Perry
What grade you got on spelling?
Gabriel Baker
>my girlfriend literally told me
Well fuck I guess since your girlfriend says it's important
Elijah Wood
>ALL YOUR WOMEN ARE NOW SLUTS
You have succeeded in beta c.uking yourself! Congrats!
Dylan Lewis
Your girlfriend is retarded then. Sex is fun, but it's temporary pleasure that at the end of the day doesn't REALLY matter. Relationships with sex as the central focus will fail, there is so much more to worry about in a relationship than things as trivial as sex.
Noah Wilson
My friend's sister is considering leaving her longtime boyfriend after figuring out my friend achieves orgasm in 100% of her uninterrupted sexual encounters while the sister has never achieved orgasm from her boyfriend.
Nathan Nelson
Man if you think it's a temporary pleasure then you really have never been in a long term romantic relationship with someone.
Jose Powell
>1 post by this ID
Yeah, I totally believe you legitimately think what you posted and aren't just doing this for the (you)s.
>muh cummies are super important guys
Dylan Murphy
Source on that girl in OP
Leo Lee
She's using sex as a weapon and withholding it from you, isnt she?
Owen Robinson
>expectations
I grew up in a culture where virginity until marriage was reasonable, and virginity during high school was expected. If everyone has similar expectations, there isn't this kind of dysfunction.
>the enforcement of abstinence
This is silly, particularly for anyone over 16. It all comes down to cultural norms and, in the end, to their decisions. They should arrive at the conclusion that extramarital sex is degenerate on their own, but that's a lot easier in a culture that normalizes abstinence. Contemporary mainstream culture is the opposite, and this probably results in a lot of the tension you describe.
Daniel Brown
Go away R-selected commie
Christian King
>if you post too little youre a troll
>if you post too much youre a shill
Get fucked, fedora.
Lincoln Murphy
>Sex is fun, but it's temporary pleasure that at the end of the day doesn't REALLY matter.
ok genius why exactly do you think we're here?
Hudson Davis
Gonna need a quick gestalt on this semen demon
Ethan Bailey
Look at all the stats and articles on the benefits of abstinance before you attack it. More trust in relationships, less unwanted pregancies, less depression due to giving your 1st time away to some whore
Aiden Sullivan
If you don't respond to any arguments against the points you've made then you don't really care about convincing people, do you?
Grayson Russell
Half Spanish half arab/black?
Ryder Sanchez
>Herp derp Sup Forumsbros abstience is retarded
>You should have sex for pleasure
>Indulge!!!
>Don't save yourself for sex
>Stay uninformed, FOLLOW YOUR DRAEAMS!
>Our ancestors knew NOTHING!
Nicholas Thompson
She can only use sex as a weapon if sex is the central focus of your relationship.
Ryder Baker
Dude, I know what you are talking about. I guess I didn't say what I meant clearly enough. What I'm saying is that sex will not make or break a relationship; problems with sex in a relationship are a symptom of something wrong with the relationship on a deeper level, but people mistake the problems they're having with sex as THE problem. So when people freak out and focus on "muh sex life", they're missing the bigger picture.
Christian Morris
The OP girl's name is Koseta Mayu or 小瀬田麻由
Jacob Adams
Actually it's not too hard to get her in the mood if I want it. She's the one that signals for it most of the time though.
Physical contact is great because it helps reinforce closeness. In particular sex and then any time spent awake after sex can really bring two people close together spiritually. The conversations you can have are honest, open, and enriching.
Isaiah Allen
You know I kinda have no respect for people, especially women who complain about the (((quality))) of sex, that's how I know they are not family material
Parker Hernandez
To post dank memes?
Elijah Campbell
u da real mvp;)
Evan Perez
Chink it is
Thomas Smith
If a woman cannot achieve orgasm during sex then it's either because their frigid or the guy literally doesn't care enough about them to let them finish.
In which case they should dump him because he's obviously not family material.
Angel Edwards
Thanks m8, have a reward
Jacob Jones
If women like sex so much why do they never ask men out on dates?
Checkmate
Luke Bennett
Your daily reminder: The sexual revolution was the WORST thing to happen to society.
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Male and female infidelity correlated with previous sexual partner count. Data from National Opinion Research Center’s General Social Survey 2010 compiled into graphs.
kinseyinstitute.org
"On the other hand, for men, having had more sex partners in their lifetime was a predictor of less sexual satisfaction."
And many other statistics
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
"Having more prior sex partners predicted a higher likelihood of future ESI"
darionardi.com
Info on estrogen, testosterone, vasopressin, and oxytocin
kon.org
Males with less sexual partners perceived as better by females
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Teachman study correlating number of sexual/cohabitational partners with divorce, using 1995 National Survey of Family Growth
psycnet.apa.org
"Both structural equation and group comparison analyses demonstrated that sexual restraint was associated with better relationship outcomes, even when controlling for education, the number of sexual partners, religiosity, and relationship length."
onlinelibrary.wiley.com
Sexual restraint in relationship correlated with better relationship quality
family-studies.org
Nathan Peterson
I'm abstaining until marriage because I do not want a sexual transmitted disease. People are diseased now adays and will hide it. Coalburners deserve disease.
Nathan Powell
Sexual Regulations and Human Behaviour. London: Williams & Norgate ltd., 1933.
Sex and Culture. London: Oxford University Press, 1934.
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Sexual Regulations and Cultural Behaviour. London: Oxford University Press, 1935.
"Monogamy as a Condition of Social Energy,” The Hibbert Journal, Vol. XXV, 1927.
VERY FUCKING IMPORTANT
>UCLA STUDY DONE BY WOMEN SHOWS WOMEN ARE BORN WHORES 90% OF THE TIME
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Michael Barnes
Durrr why don't we act more like animals hurrrrrrr
Josiah Sanders
I posted this moreso because I was curious about what kind of points and discussion posters would bring to my attention instead of to argue myself. Thanks for contributing absolutely nothing useful, kike.
Luis Cook
...
William Fisher
Also why buy a flat tire when you can get brand new.
Asher White
>Never
Bruh
Caleb Kelly
I tend to think they are over pretentious cunts
Leo Nelson
>UCLA STUDY DONE BY WOMEN SHOWS WOMEN ARE BORN WHORES 90% OF THE TIME
Camden James
Only retards and niggers have unwanted pregnancies. How hard is it to put on a fucking condom?
Logan Clark
Niggers and arabs
Anthony Campbell
I want to see the graphs in your image for men, too.
I guarantee that being a degenerate fucks you up regardless of what sex you are.
The men I know who had sex later on with someone they loved are getting married and having children.
The men I know who have been fucking sluts since the age of 14 are incapable of long term relationships, have literally no respect for women or desire for marriage, and are gigantic manchildren.
Julian Evans
>kike
wtf, you're the one arguing FOR promiscuity, Shlomo.
Kayden Myers
Ive never seen a girl pick a guy up in public.
Kevin Sanchez
They tend to do that when they're in groups of 3 and up, almost like bullying
Bentley Butler
>GPA was 2.0
Hahaha. I barely put any effort into my classes, an I've got a 3.2. I literally just halfass my work, and get fucking A's. All you have to do is turn something in. That's it. It doesn't even have to be good.
Jaxon Long
>Female trying to meme men into sexually satisfying them
Try again vagicunt
Jason Bell
Speaking to women about this, including my ex, a big part of the problem for them seems to be just letting go and not worrying about things.
My ex's friend got close to orgasming once and ended up bursting into tears and stopping the sex.
Women are fucked up.
Lincoln Stewart
>sexually compatible
What like you dick doesn't fit in her pussy? You are a literal faggot op.
Jackson Flores
>I want to see the graphs in your image for men, too.
Gonna be honest, it doesn't affect men as much but it does still affect them. in the long run it STILL fucks up society
Good video on it here by Sir. Molymeme
Benjamin Phillips
The benefits of common cunt program?
Jace James
>Degenerate trying to justify his degeneracy
The rate of successful marriages has been declining for a reason faggot.
Isaac Reed
Whatever you say cuck
Jordan Diaz
Seems like they unload the Bertha on you. No thanks.
James Butler
Redpill me on masturbation Sup Forums
Kayden Wood
>What if you're not sexually compatible?
translation -
>What if she doesn't like my fucked up fetishes that I've developed after years of destroying my dick to internet porn?
Joshua Powell
Who is this fluid druid?
Samuel Wilson
My fiance asked me out. I know of three other people who have had the woman initiate the relationship.
>Anecdotes
I was replying to someone who said it never happens, so anecdotes are good enough. I will admit it's much more rare for the woman to initiate.
It's just plain rude to be the only one who gets off. Sex is not a race to the finish.
Yeah my girl had some problems like that too, but I eventually got her out of it. Sometimes it is because the man is selfish though. The guy I mentioned earlier has never agreed to give oral.
Alexander Davis
>It goes against human nature
Yes, that's the whole point.
Using willpower and discipline to be more than just an animal that follows it's instincts and reacts to outside impulses.
Kevin Adams
What if I told you I was a dirty fucking race mixer too?
Adrian Walker
It's true but you know what else is against human nature and we still do it anyway? Universal suffrage, open borders, gender equality, multiculturalism, small living spaces, atheism etc etc. That's why everyone has some form of mental illness.
Jayden Anderson
Any women reading this and are closing in to the age of 30
This is how you NOT get a father figure
>I like to be fun and outgoing, explore and experience new things, socialize and generally have a great time
They will run away from you like animals before earthquake
Get your heads out of your collective asses you shallow fools, or enjoy dying with dry eggs inside of you
Jack Howard
>Redpill me on masturbation Sup Forums
Quit doing it right now and start lifting
If you're not religious, read this:
Its the philosophy of NoFap, worth the read
If you're religious, read this
(If you're a follower of Christ, Matthew 5:28)
1/2
Jayden Mitchell
Are there any studies that measure the length of one's pre-marital relationships in relation to the marital success rather than just measuring the number of sexual partners and age of first sexual experience? I would rather be with somebody who has demonstrated that they can be in a committed relationship than someone with no romantic experience at all.
Noah Adams
You know there are many reasons to support Nofap
>1. The more your hand is away from your dick the more time it can be saluting Hitler
You heard me. The longer you go without masturbating the less degenerate you are and the more you'd be accepted in Nazi Germany. Nazi Germany was very anti-fapping. The Christian side of it was against fapping for religious reasons, the Pagan side was against it becase they believed fapping made men effeminate, and the scientific side was against it because it stated that fapping made men more weak and primal. If you don't fap Hitler will be proud
>Closer to God, or Gods
Whatever your religion may be nofap will make you closer to the creator (unless of course you are a fedora tipper). Almost every religion has something against masturbation, the Abrahamic religions, the Hindu religion, the Buddhist, the Pagans, etc. The only religion that states fapping is good is Satanism. I don't give a fuck what your faith is, but I know that if you got faith fapping will further you from what you believe to be holy. Think about it, can you really hold hands with God when you are masturbating?
>Nofap is what our Viking Ancestors did
They say 1 in 33 men directly descends from a viking, I know I did and I assume most of Sup Forums does too. Anyway our viking ancestors were big into nofap. They believed fapping made men effeminate and weak. If Nordic Aryans believed it so do I and I will try my hardest to not fap. No one can be a true Völkisch is they masturbate
Josiah Murphy
stop doing it
Christopher Robinson
Makes your divine mother bleed and suffer, creates and feeds psychological adjuncts (fear, lust, anger, everything), saps your energy, inverts your sexual polarity because you're activating it without the opposite pole, etc..
Jace Evans
You're just a slut.
Samuel Gray
>marry virgin wife
>have sex 3 times a day for 30+ years
>you are no longer practicing abstinence
How much of a fag is OP?
Nathaniel Rogers
I do it every night before sleep, it helps with sleep a lot
Dominic Rodriguez
>using your precious willpower to deny yourself a healthy pleasure that doesnt have any negative downsides unless you're irresponsible about it.
For what purpose?
I can understand denying myself sugar. I dont want diabetus/obesity/health problems.
I can understand denying myself drugs and booze.
But sex? Fuck off faggot.
Robert Watson
Read this too
>scholarlyanswers.blogspot.com
Not touching your genitals for false stimulation can actually help increase testosterone level in men if you can not do it for up to ~3 weeks, so again, if you're lifting and trying to improve yourself don't masturbate
Jack Clark
I hope newfags are getting redpilled about their degeneracy with the evidence I've been dropping
Liam Wright
>But marrying just because she's a virgin is autistic as hell.
Dysfunctional marriages happen because of shotgun weddings and people that don't properly understand their faith and/or people that have weddings for material purposes.
Blame the diamond/entertainment industry if you want, but don't blame abstinence. It's the only thing saving your ass from complete extinction from overpopulation, or at the very least saving you from finding a dead niglet in every public trash can.
Anthony Powell
What happens to females not masterbating?
Chase Thompson
You missed the other part where no fap makes you roid rage, dismissive and arrogant.
Only positive of no fap for me was the girls blushing at my junk as i would get a chubby when looking at them.