How do I stop being a depressed and lonely fuck who keeps looking for gratification from others?

How do I stop being a depressed and lonely fuck who keeps looking for gratification from others?

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op go drink some tea

Mostly you shouldn't seek the approval from everyone. You'll lose that battle. Plus why would you care what others think about you? Doesn't your happiness matter more than other complete strangers think about you?

You gotta find your flaws and embrace them and learn from them but also be able to accept you for you. One way to help gain respect and likeness from others is to fake it till you make it. Fake being a confident person who has his life together but be obviously don't go crazy with it cause people will be able to see through it

Stop masturbating.

You have to change some stuff inside your head and stop caring about what others think or using escapism.

You have to change the things in your past giving you regrets and making you depressed, or change the way you are.

Start lifting weights and working out, fix your shit inside your brain. Let the world be and try and attract the right kind of people.

Stop caring about what others think of you, and change the perception of yourself inside you to your ideal self.

Come here less, and set goals irl.

You don't.
Don't forget, you feel forever.

And fucking buy a gun.

Stop orienting on the success of other people.
Live your own live and give zero fucks.
Never, ever give up.

And go hunting liberals

it's cause you have low self esteem and self worth

become good at something, or decent at a bunch of things. watch as suddenly your self worth rockets through the roof cause you have proof youre good at something

Look at people like Chris-chan or orphans in Indian slums and realize how fantastic your life is.

Introspection, you have to meet yourself and learn to love yourself.

If you can't because you hate what you see just become what you want to be. Becoming self-reliant, independent, is something that you can be proud of.

I tried to kill myself and realized that my body wanted to live. I followed his will as I had none and in less than a year I got a pretty virgin Norwegian girlfriend, good friends and I did things that I'm now proud of.

Solo trip somewhere ? Push your boundaries.

Kill niggers

This complete fucking non-"argument"

Look at people who are happy and successful and realize how shit your life is

See, we can all play that game

By being honest with yourself about your feelings and finding something to love, even if it's a hobby.

You don't like something? Don't pretend to like it. You like something? Like it.

Someone does something that bothers you? Don't act like it doesn't.

Like stamp collecting? Collect them. Like bird watching? Go watch them.

The energy you put out is what comes back to you.

Also realize, shit ain't always gonna work out the way you want. That's life. There's no fair and unfair. It's life.

By the way you can't ask the world to care about you if you can't care about yourself, same goes for love or friendship obviously.

It's not that hard, I'm not particularly tall (5.7ft) or handsome, I'm skinny as shit (I weighed around 100lbs) and I was socially awkward.

I traveled (low cost, a lot of hiking) and met myself. I always thought that I was a miserable subhuman but after spending two weeks alone in the forest and mountains of Norway I figured that to this point I was just crippled with excuses and low self-esteem.

But that makes you feel worse.
What I said makes you feel better.
He asked how to stop feeling depressed, not how to start feeling depressed.

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Start living your life for yourself?

Look at what you want and where you want to be today. Then do everything you can to get it.

You need to accept that you're just another dead end of evolution. After you realize that you can with a clear conscience continue making the world a worse place for everyone. Improving natural selection in a way, you're really one of the good guys, if you think about it.

How do you love yourself?

With one hand at a time.

Withdraw from the toxic relationships first, then complete some minor tasks and observe your competence along with better caring for yourself like you are parenting your own child. Sounds odd, but works.

Do you have people you admire ? Things that inspire you ? Become your own masterpiece. Every work of art was once blank and empty.

You can't, user. That's the tragedy of swallowing the red pill. It's irreversible. You're going to be a cynical, depressed, social autist for the rest of your life. The first step is to just accept it like I have. You'll soon become numb to all other emotions.

This

Getting rid of shitters in your life is key
Read a book too. Avg person reads 0 books a year

-Healthy diet. Fruits, vegetables, meats, fats, enough fats and carbs.
-Exercise. Even walking will help immensely
-Get enough sun
-Be around people and socialize more. Ex read some great books at the library instead of at home to get used to social environment again
-Make money.

>be me
>give real advice
>no one cares
>everyone replying to shitposts and beta chat

fuck you autists

This is what I'm wanting but I'm lacking that motivation for some reason

Just because no-one replies to your posts doesn't mean nobody read it. Sure, (you)'s get posts more attention, but not getting them might be a sign that everyone already agrees with you. On a relating note: you have a low self esteem, since you need validation through (you)'s.

Eat better, go out and get that vitamin D from direct sunlight, get up earlier etc.
Mens sana in corpore sano => "a sound mind in a sound body"

Your body wants to live.

You broke your brain. That's normal.

Long distance running will repair it.

Unfortunately the answer to that question is different for everyone, some good advice in here though.

Something that helped me is to realise that everyone else is just as much of a mess as you are

Read Marcus Aurelius' Meditations + the Bible and watch some Jordan Peterson. That's the concentrated anti-nihilism pill.

Fuck a hooker to lose virginity.
Join the military
Live in the woods
Quit your parents
That helped me to hate everyone else more than I hate myself.

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>How do I stop being a depressed and lonely fuck who keeps looking for gratification from others?
lift weights
start jogging
read the 48 laws of power

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Fuck people

You killed yourself, didn't you?

Cause

Selfauthoring.com start watching Jordan Peterson.

Shit

I'd like to know. It ain't even the lonely part that bothers me, I gotta deal with my family as well constantly judging

watch porn

Jack off to cartoons

Sort yourself out, kiddo.

stop asking pol for advice, first off. go to a psych and therapist to help you figure out why you feel that way and toss you anti-depressants if your brain chemistry is whacked out, and go day by day.

Mo