Did Sup Forums have a strong father figure in their life? Some people say our dads worked too hard and Sup Forumsacks look to Trump as a father figure instead.
I think the opposite. Looking back at it, I'm growing up to be similar to my dad, choosing the same career path, enjoy many of the same hobbies. My theory is Sup Forumsacks actually listened to their dads in an age where that is a rare thing, while other millenials' dads yelled at them for driving drunk and doing drugs
>did Sup Forums have a strong father figure in their life
You think they'd be on Sup Forums if they did?
Nope. He is a good guy, but he was a terrible father.
That's why i'm an autistic loner with gay deviations.
I have a great dad, the only reason why I post on Sup Forums is because it's one of the few places where you can have truly free speech.
have an opinion that isn't socially acceptable and you'll soon find out why a place like Sup Forums is important
I didn't have a loving, heartfelt relationship with my father. But he always taught me to be honest, loyal, and hard working. He always made sure I knew this and enforced it throughout my childhood. He was a simple man, a great man, and I miss him.
I'm close with my dad and I post on the chan
I had a slew of stepfathers, but no true father figure. Never knew my real dad.
Yes and no.
My mother fell into the divorce meme.
I wanted to live with my father, he is strong.
Got a cuck stepfather.
My uncle basically raised me, to what I am today.
Hardened criminal or ex-criminal
>Ruthless but not heartless
>I come in
>Infiltrate
>Take over
Dat's the story of my life
>Doesn't matter who you are, I will crush you and take over
What crimes did he do?
I always thought daddy issues make people SJW/feminist/gay/trans/vegan/etc and not the Trump supporter kind.
Nope.
Yeah why did everyone here make such a hard turn in the other direction?
My dad died when I was young, so no. Mom was redpilled though so me and siblings turned out fine.
I had a healthy relation ship with my father. We were a very rural family so I spent a lot more time with him and my mother than with anyone else.
I love, respect and even admire the old man. He pointed me towards many of the things that would lead to my conservative world view. Funnily I'm more of a prude then he ever was.
My dad came out as gay when I was around 18 (same time parents got divorced). However, he had been cheating on my mum with men since I was a baby, and (I fear) before I was even conceived. My mum knew about this basically my entire life. I was never close to my dad but this whole thing was really just another nail in the coffin. I see and talk to him now maybe around once a month at best.
Although I love him and he is still my father, he is a liberal pussy, now more than ever.
I really can't ever think of a time where we bonded or spent any quality man to man time together or where he imparted any fatherly wisdom to me. Feelsbadman.
I basically at the age of 18+ had to be my own father figure, took a hard look at my life and realised I needed to make some big changes otherwise I would turn out as some directionless limpwristed pussy also. /fit/ and Sup Forums I feel are/were important in filling that gap.
Anyone else with a loving father who really sucked at parenting?
Mine just bought me a computer when I was 5 and was always willing to give me a lift to anywhere, but he never really taught me anything about living and manliness. Still to this day I wonder what use it is to create children if you're not going to teach them anything.
It's just a matter of exposure. Many of Sup Forumsacks used to be hardcore libtards before we matured and learnt more about the world.
There's only one figure Im following and its that booty
My father beat the piss out of me, and when he wasn't beating me, he was degrading me/lying to me about things that others would say about me. Ie., "Your mom thinks you're a worthless piece of shit."
I probably won't feel decent until he dies. Waiting for it.
True, he's always at work and gets angry easily.
My father killed my mother when I was 2.
My uncle was a based, racist redpilled Cuban. He got arrested once for beating someone to near death wearing a Che Guevara shirt at an anti Castro rally during the 90s.
Sorry to hear about that, Aus-user. Glad the gap was filled somehow.
Nice
Tell him we're proud of him.
I only got to see my dad every other weekend. My mom divorced him. I'm fucking pissed about it too. I called her out on that shit. Why are you gonna marry a guy and have two kids with him only to decide you don't like him smoking pot AFTER THE FACT. Truly to the detriment of your kids. She's all continuing her career dumping my brother and I off in daycare. I WANT TO BE A MAN NOT SOME INSECURE AUTIST WHO GREW UP WITH STRONG BONDS. My dad works like a nigger and man is he so sour so upset and depressed about what my mom put him through. It really makes me hate women.
your family sounds pretty violent
Yea. We are.
My dad's cool. My mom's a cheating bitch though. My childhood was luckily one of the very rare cases of me getting to stay with my dad and him not having to pay child support though.
Not really he was around, but he never taught me anything useful or worth while. Also he was drunk for the entirety of my childhood and most of my teen years. I guess the only thing I learned from him is not to be him in anyway or shape to be the best I can be to strive to be the Ubermench. I look up to Clint Eastwood, Arnold, Stallone, and other masculine figures of films.
My dad is awesome. One of my favorite people. He instilled traditional American Catholic values in me. My goal in life is to be as financial successful as he is and raise my kids as well as he has. I'm pretty lucky
Thigg :DDD
I listened to my dad more than my mom. My mom wore the pants in the relationship, but my dad taught me technical know-how. So you could say both parents had a fatherly role in my upbringing.
>Inb4 the freud meme.
Terrible father. Great mother. I like hanging out with women a lot. It's great opening their eyes to the truth and listening to their side as well.
My father is fucking awesome, hard worker, always present, honest and taught me my values, knows a FUCK ton of shit.
Also always made sure me and my brother always practiced at least one sport at all times, ate healthy etc
If I ever turn out to be half the man he is I am happy.
My dad:
>divorced 4 times
>alchoholic
>violent
>buys hookers
>grow up with police constantly at our house arresting him
>parents finally divorce
>dad goes to jail
>grew up visiting him in jail
>he gets out
>starts housing jailbirds
>grow up visiting my dad with convicts hanging out there
>he's redpilled on most subjects
>dad is degenerate, but alpha
>teaches me how to get women
>teaches me how to start a business
>teaches me how to shoot guns
>teaches me how to talk shit to people
It's pretty mixed. He's kind of a terrible person, and I'm a bit traumatized by how violent and insane he was when I was younger. But he wants me to be alpha, get bitches, start a business, dominate women, shit like that.
I can't talk to him too much though, he's pretty mean, but I feel like I am well-equiped to talk shit to people and stuff like that.
I wish I had a dad who was actually nice though.
Agreed. Thats why most lived in ultra conservative households where a culture of fear persisted (dont do this dont do that). Also bad career advices such as "in order to be someone you must go to college and take a STEM degree, after that you are all set". That led to isolation, career failure, debt and the resultant social inabilities that prevents us from connecting with people (overall isolation, tfw no gf, shyness, etc).
Yes OP you are right.
>beat me for trivial things like taking his spot on the couch
>his daily life was working and watching TV.
>satistied with a simple manual job, never aspired for something higher
>Never had family trips, unless they wanted to go somewhere
>taught me nothing
I'm still thankful for the money and energy he spent on raising me, but no I definitely don't look up to him.
Yes and No
I admire the way my father managed to rise in life to levels not even himself imagine he could reach, while burning down everything in the same spectacular way.
Thanks to him I know well how talent and preparation can take you far in life. But also thanks to him I've witnessed how lacking a sense of purpose and direction in life can be really costly.
>he's redpilled on most subjects
>dad is degenerate, but alpha
>teaches me how to get women
>teaches me how to start a business
>teaches me how to shoot guns
>teaches me how to talk shit to people
These are all really good, undervalued qualities. I'm right now teaching myself how to do all these things.
What's a lesson that really stuck out for you?
My dad didn't make a lot of efforts to instruct me well, so no, he sucked.
forgot one important piece:
>his favourite insult was that I would never achieve anything in life.
I don't care about much, but repeatedly telling a kid, that he will always fail is just harmful.
Dude........rape your mom
I don't really know. He owns his own business (which is why he was able to get away with being a complete degenerate). So I grew up watching him cuss people out at work, setting up contracts, and sometimes getting into fights.
One time somebody literally put a gun up to his face. He started laughing and said "Haha you won't fucking do it pussy", then got the person arrested, and that person died in prison.
>Starting a business
I do tech work, so he tells me to physically walk into businesses and try to get contracts. He hammers on me to be assertive and try to sell my service to like every person I talk to
>How to get women
Since he was divorced 4 times, he ALWAYS had a hot girlfriend. So I just watched what he did. He definitely used his money to get them. I just watched him be assertive, ask them out to dinner, talk to them on the phone, and just be nice. If they ever shit-tested him, he would just blow them off or tell them to fuck off.
I don't think his tactics with women are good fo rmarriage, but as far as just getting a girlfriend to bang for a while, it's effective
>shoot guns
Idk we just went to the back yard and shot guns. Not too big of a deal, but I've noticed city folk are shocked by the fact I even own a gun
>talk shit to people
Probably the thing I use the most. Telling co-workers, women, and general ass holes to get fucked seems to be important. Like if somebody crosses your line, or trys to make you look bad, you need to publically call them on it and make them look like an idiot.
I think most guys of my generation (le 90s kid XD) just the Homer Simpson/Randy Marsh kind of dad. He made enough money to keep you in a big house and away from the white trash kids but for the most he was just some guy that was gone most of the time or either watching TV and tuning you out or sneaking off to drink with his friends. For the most part the only time you'd really talk to your dad was to ask him something you knew your mom would refuse.
wtf 90% of people have shit dads. I knew i was lucky but this is fucking crazy
Baby-boomer men are the worst generation of men in recent history. They are a bunch of useless hedonistic man-children that have basically ruined every sacred institution in society.
We have to pick up the pieces and fix this thing.
This is how it seems. My parents didn't teach me much about talking with businesses (either for a job or working deals). Had to learn that on my own. Being assertive and knowing what to talk about is the real trick. Cut to the chase, be direct, maybe a bit brash but be reasonable. Hell, stare them down if you have to. The more direct you are, the more likely they'll be subservient.
With women, yeah. Your dad is spot on. I'm surprised women around me haven't caught on themselves. Only met one woman honest with herself about this.
Now, talking shit. That's just an art.
My dad died when I was 10
Historically men were man-children
It's just that they didn't have access to sociology or television or other bullshit to convince them that it's better to fall on your sword to make niggers happy than to protect yourself and your civilization
Historically only women got into religion or occultism and other bullshit seriously and even then only the rich women and people tended to ignore them
And such women still tended to be not inundated enough with bullshit jewry to believe that killing themselves for the sake of niggers is righteous
Girl in the OP is Anastasia Kvitko
Wtf I love slavs now
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No.
Most millennials don't have intact families.
>all these people with dads
Sometimes hearing stories like this makes me happy Ive never had parents
And then other times I think maybe Im just surrounded by faggots
Hard to tell
>Many of Sup Forumsacks used to be hardcore libtards before we matured and learnt more about the world.
I wouldn't say 'hardcore' but I was definitely lefty as teenager and early 20's.
>the chan
KYS
daddy..
daddy wasn't there...
>the chan
How did he take it when you came out of the closet?
Nope
I'm mixed race black/white
Typical nigger shit, mum had me at 19 and dad fucked off
Turned out alright though I guess
Seems like men just generally went to work and provided for their families.
Nothing childish about that
This is why I go on here too. I'm actually pretty liberal (centrist I guess) but love coming on here to discuss things truthfully.
I once told my friend that black people commit the most crime and showed them the statistics to back my argument up, but now they call me racist and right-wing. I was even toying with the idea of underlying causation (poverty) although I know that's just bullshit. How can people be this delusional?
My father is better than I could've ever asked for. I however fucked up by being a complete degenerate (although i was never a lefty atleast). Luckily our relationship is repaired and better than ever now.
Killed some faggot and fled to France, now he makes inane YouTube rants geared toward expanding interest and disgust in esoteric ideas from an outdated time.>Did Sup Forums have a strong father figure in their life?
no
Yeah my dad was a good Father figure. Didn't really teach me anything which was kinda weird(always said he wanted me to learn from a specialist) but besides that he was alright. Never talk though
Well if thats your hypothesis i dont fit it.
My dad was a beta male shitlib who never did any of the normal masculine shit a father was supposed to do as a result I had no values or direction instilled into me and it took until almost age 30 for me actually take control of my own life.
Essentially my extreme conservatism is born from having terrible leftwing parents who through lack of decent parenting never taught me the things i needed to know and essentially robbed me of what should have been the best years of my life from my teens and 20's
My beliefs and values are forged from the fires of seething hatred and barely controlled rage.
This minus the faggot part.
is there anyway to slowly over come having an emotionally absent beta dad? Or am i fucked to be a sperg forever?
i swear aspergers is caused by having an absent shitty father