He hasn't sorted himself out

>he hasn't sorted himself out

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What is your excuse NEET?

No I haven't. Got any advice? I'm kinda stuck doing absolutely nothing here.

What have you been doing for the past five years? How old are you?

Almost 21, no friends, I haven't done shit m8. I was homeschooled through high school because I just didn't want to go. Went to community college for a semester taking less than a full load because I bent to the pressure of family members. I do nothing to better myself and currently play video games all day. I don't feel very independent or confident in myself. I've never worked, I'm not in-shape at all and can barely take care of myself. I can say that I've left my house probably less than 10 times in 2016. Tell me what you know you stupid Kuwait poster.

It would be dishonest of me to say that things will just go swell if you started being more productive, as if that would solve all your problems - the thing is, based on how you described your introversion in high school, opting to get home schooled instead - you have deeply rooted problems that you may not know exist; maybe you have been avoiding them, or maybe they are bigger than you, making it a waste of time to even tackle.

As it stands now, you are holding onto an anchor that's sinking at a rapid pace, you can let go now - but that may not resolve your problems - maybe you are too deep to reach the surface, but the likely hood of you reaching the surface gets lower and lower the longer you hold onto the anchor.

That's overwhelming, the thought of that alone may make you want to hold onto the anchor even longer - because sinking is all you've known, why would you try to stop now? well, at a certain point, when you reach the point of no return (you may think you have already - but I doubt it) when you turn forty, say - you may say, "I wish I would of let go decades ago".

So let go - see where that takes you. I can't promise you that it will make things better however, but at least it's ruffling the feathers of the status quo - and I take it that you are not content with how things are at the moment.

Good luck.

I guess this is a general Sup Forums support thread now.

i'm sorting myself out

idk how long that'll take

maybe another 75 years i hope

How are you sorting it out?

well right now i'm doing homework for algebraic geometry. gonna go to work in a bit and then see my gf afterwards. still have another couple months to find a thesis advisor.

>Braces off soon
>Joining the armed forces after that
>Hoping to serve 4 years
>Do a degree
>Become a teacher

Hopefully I'll be 29-30 when I can start teaching. Better late than never eh?

>only 21
Typical millennial
Suck it up and move along, Life won't be overtly good for you until your late 20s.

>thesis advisor
You're getting a PHd? have you written your dissertation already?

youtube.com/watch?v=aDRgMUoEvcg

SORT YOURSELF!!!!!!!

Why are you joining the military before teaching?

i'm doing my master's and this is my first year of grad school so i'm still taking classes
>in b4 getting a master's
yeah i know it's kind of a meme but i've come to terms with that

I get sick of the way he speaks. He has prolonged silences where I think the podcast is skipping.

Also he goes "well what is moral... well..."
"well what is fear..... welll....."

>this is who is calling other posters stupid

Alright burger, let's sort your shit out

I'm going to say what you lack is direction perhaps from fear, or perhaps from a lack of meaning.

Humans are made to fit into a societal structure or hierarchy. Your life obviously lacks both.

About 3 years ago I moved from my small town to the city to go to university. I moved into a small apartment with a friend from school. For the first few weeks of uni I was nervous and scared. I couldn't figure out where I fit into the hierarchy of uni life. I became reclusive and avoided university all together. I stayed at home and my life eventually lost even more structure. There was no set time for me to wake up or fall asleep, I had no goals I was focusing on anymore. I became depressed, hopeless and nihilistic.

After about two months and a severe drop in academic performance I saw a therapist. The first thing he said to do was being back structure.
>Get up every day before 8am
>Leave the house before midday, doesn't matter where you go. Just leave
He also told me to prepare for a 10km running race in 2 months.

Within a week of this basic restructuring I felt a hell of a lot better and after 2 months I ran the race. A month after that I scraped a pass in all my subjects (which is impressive given the prior negligence to the cause)

Dr Peterson always uses this example for the futility of no goals. He says to an audience member;
>let's play a game
The audience member accepts, Dr Peterson replies
>Okay you move first
Overwhelmed with the infinite options and lack of direction the audience member freezes and says nothing for a good 10 seconds

>tl;dr, the point is humans need goals, humans need structure, without they're lost

27 here life isn't any better

>half the posts ITT are by OP
Stop using the Kuwait proxy to shitpost, Shareblue. You've been at it all day.

At this point in your life you are simply categorically outclassed by men older than yourself. Best thing you can do is focus on you and making yourself as awesome as possible. Save some money, get into a career and make healthy habits. We all been there

get a job dude you'll be happier even if the job is shit tier

join the fucking military you pussy.

I have been to university twice and dropped out.

Long story short I've always wanted to join the military and now is the time. Hopefully use that money to go back to university and study having matured a lot more.

I used to think that life is extremely short and if you miss the boat in your late teens/very early 20s then you're done.

Turns out I was wrong.

When he was on Sam Harris's podcast and there was like a 30 second pause - with what sounded like chips being ruffled through - followed by him saying "..well" made my sides go into orbit.

Just called fourth time in 24 hours.
To trannies being spit roasted

Kill me

s-source?

Who the fuck is this guy?

Can someone give me a quick rundown?

This is an Islamic™ thread, please, no degeneracy.

I'm 16, go to an arts school in Canada, filled with socialists and gender denying freaks. I have basically no friends because most people don't like me on account of my politics. I hope to go to university and study history and then become a professor

*Fapped
Reeeeeee dont be like me
I serve as an cautionary example of NOT SOURTING YOURSELF OUT

REEEE

Just tell me so I can research the degeneracy

That's Jordan Peterson, he's a Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Toronto. He's famous because he refused to use made up pronouns, but he's also an incredibly smart man

Stupid leaf

don't study humanities if you aren't a SJW LGBTQ nonbinary genderdyke

BASED PETERSON

>algebraic geometry
I remember math when I was 13.
Try multiple levels of integration of a spherical cartesian coordinate plane then we'll talk.

>16
Wew lad, you won't understand the things here, leave while you can

I'v done everything except stop watching porn. I don't want to

...

Believe me I do not plan to

Too late my man, I've been redpilled for over a year

>algebraic geometry
enjoy your oversaturated field

have fun doing hartshorne exercises for months

I think maybe /r/thedonald is more for you

>using coordinate systems

I remember math when I was in 10. Try doing calculations in coordinate free form.

Kek
>Research the degeneracy
Hmmm so you are saying it's actually for the betterment of you?
>You actually just watching it to develop an abnormal sexual fetish, destroying you brain chemistry and fucking up your arousal response co pletely so you experience first hand how harmful it is and thereby stand witness to the dangers of degeneracy ,which lays a fruitful foundation to SORTING YOURSELF OUT?
Really lit up my cashews

>Hmmm so you are saying it's actually for the betterment of you?

Indeed.

ESSENTIAL (TRAGEDY VS. EVIL):
youtube.com/watch?v=MLp7vWB0TeY

METAPHYSICS OF PEPE:
youtube.com/watch?v=Ixc9i1G7eew

There is literally no point to that in any practical usage you little shit.

It's not about what you want, Paddy. Get your weak jelly self some discipline and sort yourself out.

>almost 21

YOU STILL HAVE TIME user, SAVE YOURSELF LIKE I COULDN'T

>practical usage
That's what computer science is for retard.

33 here, it's true. It's not that I've had an epiphany or anything, it's simply that many of my anxieties no longer exist (school, work, money, etc.). I'm a generally more relaxed, competent, wealthy version of my early 20s self.

Except I don't know how to get laid anymore. Oh well.

>bloody post modernists!!!!!!

youtu.be/2KWXdDYEz10?t=51m5s

actual advice for Sup Forums at 51:05

> I hate when people think before speaking

;^)

>computer
only thing they are good for is porn and shitposting.
Now a Mechanical Engineer- that's where the real science is at.

>Mechanical engineer
>too many moving parts

Try Electrical engineering, much better.

Already have, electrical is actually pretty interesting, but I can't help but pop a massive fucking boner at the thought of wrenching on an internal combustion engine. But you wouldn't know would you?
You probably went to college on your dad's dime and got a degree in business or political science, you're just too ashamed to admit it huh?

Hmm, interesting. It's so strange how the brain can "click" into things and create new ways of thought so quickly, as if changing gears. If only you could consciously use your brain this way.

I traced most of my current issues down to one single event (I'm sure there is much more to it, for example my parents left me with my grandmother for 6 years (7-13))
>be 8-9
>"fall in love"/crush on a "cute" girl in class
>she was nice to me so I really liked her
>be spic so I've been exposed to novelas (spic soap operas)
>somehow think it is a good idea to write her a love letter
>pour my 8 year old heart and soul into that letter
>drown it on my old dad's Cologne
>slide it under her door

>months pass
>completely forgot about the letter, almost even got over the crush
>get a phonecall
>it's the girl
>asks me if I really was the one that wrote the letter
>she thought it was one of the guys from class playing a prank on her
>she told me to never speak of this to anyone
>she told me to never speak to her ever again
>feel absolutely crushed
>no father figures in home to guide me
Ever since then I've been terrified of girls I'd be attracted to, I have no problem talking to ugly girls or older women, but if anyone remotely cute comes near I get nervous for no reason. It's so stupid. I even feel that feeling where your heart is at your throat as I typed that, almost tearing up, I'm fucking 22 and this stupid gay shit still haunts me. I got in contact with the girl, she live in NYC now (3hrs away) I could drive there, but... Idk. I feel like I need to tie the loose end, but I sort of don't want to, could it be fear? It's so irrational, this woman will never affect me or my life aside from meeting her in NY.

>tfw thread died after I wrote this shit
God damn it.

I have a degree in mathematics actually. I have the applied math option too.

Nothing wrong with a business degree. Go get a half decent mba after Eeng

Switch to pictures so there's no 12 foot cock. That's what fucks you up

Join the reserves and do your classes part-time. Best of both worlds. That's what I did. End up with higher grades, less stress, better connections, and more female attention

>>tfw thread died after I wrote this shitGod damn it.
it says 3 minutes since you posted this, wtf your feels paco....

dude that story of yours was long time ago, move on and get your fuck on and chill.

This is pretty good advice.
Impatience is what an unhappy person in there younger 20's is when they aren't happy with their life suddenly.

If you hate your job, you're really just mad at yourself because you know you can do better, but just haven't gotten around to it or in the cycle of blaming other people or entities.

Actually, I am, and interestingly enough, I've seen more success the less time I spend on Sup Forums.

>spend hours (6+) on Sup Forums every day
>basically a typical late-20s NEET
>for about a month, spend less than 30 minutes on Sup Forums, not even browsing every day
>already have three job interviews lined up, including one position overseas as I'm keeping as a backup
>still have plenty of time to spend on Sup Forums, but instead spending it reading books, brushing up on what I studied in university, as well as continuing to study French

Really makes you think.

not that guy but mechanical engineers tend to be retarded

its one step above a literal car mechanic

if a car mechanic could pass calculus I he would be a mechanical engineer, LOL

all engineers are shit anyways.

I joined the reserves at 16 but totally fucked off while I was in college dropped out and worked. Did 5 years infantry.
>24 and still still /sorting/

Great post user, too bad this makes absolutely no sense to someone like that user, someone not versed in self knowledge or sorting yourself. Your post is great, for someone that understands the lingo, but for him you might as well have posted pic related.

Check out some of Molyneux's call in shows about anxiety and other more mental topics while you play your gay video games. Also watch some Jordan B Peterson. It will help. Also since you're so degenerate, see if you can find some LSD and fry your brain on that, it might brute force you to face whatever troubles you. I found this way.

There was a Jordan B Peterson thread that died 10 minutes ago.

user, I wish I could just give it up. It's just so fucking stupid, it happened so long ago. But it's like engrained in my psyche, it's like cucking is a part of me, but I don't even have a cucky personality. It's not like a grudge that you can just say "fuck it" and it goes away. I've meditated on this, I think I might need professional help, but I don't want to put my mind in the hand of some Jewish commie therapist

Lmao

Mechanical engineering is literally glorified tradesman status like civil engineering

Get off your high horse, your attempts at seeming like an ebic strongman are cringe

Oedipal Complex detected

Is that actually him?

>Hopefully I'll be 29-30 when I can start teaching.
Bruh, that is normal age aint it? I got two friends that are teachers, one started at age 27 the other at age 28.

You also have a long term plan which is great. Good luck to you sir!

what's wrong with being a tradesman

Dr. Jordan Peterson, you'd be wise to give him a listen.

Why is this, that?

go to school
get job

I'm a 22 year-old directionless, skilless, worthless, white maled NEET. Sorry Doc, I'll never sort myself out.

join the military. the Marines will sort your ass right out.

FUCK YOU user START EXERCISING. START TAKING YOURSELF FOR WALKS. EVEN IF IT'S AGAINST YOUR WILL, FUCKING ENDURE AND OVERCOME.

YOU CAN DO THIS. JUST. FUCKING. DO. IT. EVEN IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LEAVE YOUR HOUSE START DOING FUCKING PUSHUPS OR SOMETHING. CHALLENGE YOURSELF.

Such a beautiful talk. I'm always astounded by his conviction and vulnerability. Gets my heart pumping.

It was a great speech. Though I feel like his godliness will turn some fedoras away.

>there's no reason to think that you have any idea what you're up to

Actually I'm closer to a trades men with a degree in every facet of engineering.
>Marine Engineer

>Though I feel like his godliness will turn some fedoras away.
His nuanced interpretation of religion will turn the self-righteous pseudos away. How is that a bad thing?

There is no hope for user. Nobody typing at him in all caps will get him off his fat ass. I didn't board this voyage of self sorting because someone told me to, I did it because I understood I didn't like who I was (like user) and most importantly I understood there are ways to change who I am (unlike user) this is a journey of self discovery, no one else can guide you. Pic related is user's undoing

What did that gif mean by this

Holy shit, where is his from?

Don't sorry, they'll grow out of it one day. In one of his podcasts he says Dawkins has the arguments of a 13 year old boy which had me fucking laughing out loud on the bus because I was exactly like that when I was younger

Deep into the layers where the snakes lurk.

Hell

I always love when he doesn't even bother to acknowledge atheists, or straight up shits on them and you can hear the class groan.

...

Did people get these from his son or wife's instagram or something?

>All these people with badass degrees
>Tfw I got a meme STEM degree and an now 250k in debt and unemployed

Dude I work for maersk... do you even know what a marine engineer does? I'm a sailor.

huh? yeah. it's like, try getting out of that!

is that a quote?

don't do anything user, you have all the friends you need here on pol. try to get into some low tier merchant class business like selling shit from alibaba, then you stay at home all day

wtf is Peterson posting here?

How can you when you have bloody marxists breathing down your neck

Ah, what kid of bullshit is that!

Thanks for the wonderful advice you fucking normalfag piece of shit.