I don't understand the difference between lust and love...

I don't understand the difference between lust and love. Is this why I don't have a family and just fuck around with various female friends? What makes a man decide to drop his freedom and marry someone? Seems like a lose-lose situation.

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Do you have a mother that you love? Or some family member you love?

That's sorta like having a wife/marriage except you fuck them as well.

>to drop his freedom and marry someone
i wanted to do that with every girlfriend i had
it never came to that though

Universe is trying to fix your mistakes so far.

>platonic love
pets, family, best friends, kids, anime
>romantic love
gf, wife, anime
>lust
hot celebrities, one night stands, porn actresses, anime

More of the left? Somewhat hot and i like

>that you love?
Not in family. I have a female best friend that I love but she has a rich BF (fuck him).

it's clearly illustrated in that image you mongoloid

Lust, in regards to a relationship, is the immediate urge to be with someone.

Love is the long term emotional attachment between two people

>hot celebrities, one night stands, porn actresses, anime
and toasters?

Oh great a beta orbiter

Do us all a favor and top yourself

Why are women so vain?

One good way to know if you love or lust someone is to masturbate before seeing her.

You will know pretty quickly after.

Lust is carnal. Love is the most intense form of intimacy. One is superficial hedonism, the other is profound and life-changing.

I fail to see the difference. I would totally fuck a girl eating a burrito.

>romantic love
>not just a combo of platonic love and lust

That's all it is.

is that marinette?

that comic is terrible at explaining at what love is. probably drawn by a woman. they don't know what love truly is.

>I don't understand the difference between lust and love.

-Lust is wanting to make yourself happy
-Love is wanting to make someone else happy

You'll hear many other thoughts, but this is what it pretty much boils down to

Why it's in middle

maybe the subtlety is lost on you
>lust: attracted to someone based on looks or actions, example is a woman wearing sexy underwear
>love: unconditional attraction to a person, example is a woman in unappealing clothing eathing a messy sandwich in bed

>universe
pffttt, this is what nu-male's have to say.

>You know...what if there is some rhyme and reason the universe? Maybe there is some power we can't see controlling it all!
you mean like...a God?
>NOOOO NOT A GOD REEEEEE WHAT ARE YOU STUPID! PROFESSOR GOLDSTEIN SAID THIS IS STUPID!
>I mean just like, maybe the universe itself is governed by...something

Atheists crack me up really. They want so clearly to draw the conclusions that agree with other people, but their "education" (indoctrination) prevents it.

WHY THE FUCK IS THAT BITCH EATING A GOD DAMMED BURRITO IN BED

>eating in your fucking bed
>fatties think this is ok

this is neither lust nor love, it's GLUTTONY

that's a cute comic

Lust is the sex part and love is the genuinely caring about someone part.

I don't cry over it and meet with her from time to time without his presence. She knows that I hate him and she knows why. I have other women in my life but it's not the same.

The point is she is supposed to be in unflattering for her looks in the right side but the guy doesn't care because he is attracted to other inward qualities she has.

puritans pls go

It's only lust when a male is horny.

When a female is horny, it's true love.

You forgot the most important one REVENGE!!!

>not a pasta
(You)

>crumbs all over her face
>crumbs all over her shirt
>in bed, for what reason?

0/10 would not love in my own bed

>Love is wanting to make someone else happy
Nah, it sounds like some slave morality, Chtistian beta bullshit. We are all egoists.

There is no subtlety.

It should say

>before marriage vs after marriage

this is how you get ants austria

When/if you meet a whoa-man that you realize you absolutely cannot live without, then you will understand.

Things I find sexy :
-voice
-face
-personality

You can't change that with clothes or random actions.

Its not a pasta, hence the typos.

But feel free to correct the typos and make it a pasta, nu-male.

Everytime I hear you hippie faggots say shit like the "duh universe" in that stereotypical fag voice, I cringe hard.

We all get whats happening. You want to say something, but you are too brainwashed by your overlords to say it.

>love means being a slob and getting crumbs in my fucking bed and expecting me to like it

Sounds like a shit deal

It is just like in that EVA episode where shinji is being an autistic beta bitch and bitching about how Misato is filthy at home and shit
and the chads call on his beta ass
"She showing the side of her she doesn't show for someone she doesn't love"
That is true love tbqh familiares
Honestly i'm so sad that I've found it and I fucked it up, the girl said she loved me even tho I ate an Oreo from the floor, I miss her.

Women allow you to lust so they can get what they want. Love is sticking around after she has everything from you and stops giving you sex.

>a whoa-man

Love isn't real. Sexual attraction is your instinct to mate. Nothing matters. Everyone is going to die. Go watch tv.

:^)
I will sip some mtn dew for you, heretic.

>american "christians"

Your problem is most common on /pol, you are at the right place assburger.

>avoiding the word "woman"

>eating in bed
Fucking gross.

the whole thing is excepting each other for your faults. you will just die alone if you can't understand this. you suck too so someone will have to put up with that if you ever want a partner. marriage is so you technically shouldn't have to be in a state of worry all the time wondering if your best friend is gonna leave you. ppl's looks will fade but a friendship can last as long as you live.

youtu.be/bHw4MMEnmpc

Watch this and stop being a degenerate.

Honestly, 2nd one gives me more of a boner than the 1st one.

>>What makes a man decide to drop his freedom and marry someone?

When he realizes there's more to life than immediate gratification.

>Caring enough for someone that you put their needs above your own is beta

How do I know you're single

>eating in your bed

>pic
I would bang her in both cases.
And I would ensure she enjoys her time with me.

Lust and love are just words we made to denote concepts that might not even have an exact referent in nature.

Literally, there is no reassurance that our terms map the world in an appropriate fashion. There are no guaranteed one-to-one relationships between words (especially the most abstract ones) and things.

t. Analytic philosophy
t. Michel Foucault

He's saying she's more beautiful than men or women in his eyes, because he's bi.

shut the fuck up creep

>I don't understand the difference between lust and love.
Well, it means you failed as a human being. Haven't you tried reading more classic literature?

Love is when the dude stays in shape and continues to slavishly praise the woman who has given up on life and doesn't even get out of bed to cram burritos down her throat.

Lust is wanting to shag.

Love is a form of loyalty, that is not just staying with someone out of a sense of duty but wanting to better that person and also contains affection and other things I am not drunk enough to try and put into words. This is why someone can love their family, friends, country without wanting to shag them.

LMAO so much this.

>and toasters?
sure i love toasters

Man, I'm not saying natural languages aren't efficient at pointing at things when we use them properly.

However, you cannot conclude things exist just from the assumption that you have a word for them.

Lust... love... not necessarily empty shells... but maybe things in nature are not as clear cut as they are in your everyday speech.

Nice strawman, however you know you got BTFO.

Enjoy your soulless lifestyle and retarded hippie tier beliefs. But hey, at least your overlords were nice enough to allow you to stroke your own ego by pretending to be better than other people just for regurgitating the "correct" opinions.

It's a burrito you nonce

Why not both

woah if your lady doesn't even get out of bed to eat burritos then you must be really hard on the head. she's probably depressed from you being a sexist jerk

>tfw no gf

(You)

This. The comic is still fixated on appearance. That's why I say women are vain.

Why is that doggo humping Pepe's leg?

Marriage/love is just existing really once it is established. Your wife is your closest ally. I couldn't imagine life without my gal. She and my son are the reason I always try to be the best I can.

You don't have a girlfriend

>Chtistian beta bullshit

All functional cultures no matter the creed of breed have marriage.

>We are all egoists.

Come back when you can grow a proper beard and have your own car. Or in other words become an adult.

this desu

notice how this shit is never about women loving men no matter what? only ever about men staying committed to women regardless of what stupid bullshit they do.

Id rather die alone than the right panel be my life.

yeah men never do anything stupid.

Love doesn't exist for guys. Women want men to love them constantly but men are wired to be attracted to other women constantly.

If you have this primal feeling to dedicate your life to someone, that's love.

If you wanna just do nasty things with her, thats lust.

Yeah not right now
This is why I miss her so much, I was trying to approach a girl these last weeks but she is so fucking shallow and boring, all she talks about is how china is the gratest country on the earth and I have to keep forcing myself not to roll my eyes
I miss the other one tho, we would eat garbage while watching one piece and going to anime cons

>Lust and love are just words we made to denote concepts that might not even have an exact referent in nature

Lust is just wanting to shag, any animal with an equivalent for a dick has it.

And we see with stuff like elephants or certain species of birds, generally animals that live in groups be it pairs or herds that they develop strong bonds with their group mates, going as far as feeling high stress at the loss of a group mate even after the danger is gone, or just when they are separate.

>hur dur I "love" you even though you're being a fucking pig grotesquely eating junk food in bed and currently in a state that is completely unworthy of respect and admiration

Fucking women worshipers.

That pic

>You should find abhorrent behaviour attractive or you're just a superficial jerk

I am an adult. All altruism is is egoism in disguise. You do shit to get praised and receive dopamine and endorphins from your brain.

who said they didn't? the problem is that men are constantly flooded with messaging telling them they have to stand by the women in their lives no matter what and women are flooded with messaging telling them that as soon as the men in their lives stop being perfect they need to move the fuck on.

She's just wearing pajamas and eating dinner on the bed.

Besides he's not looking at her in either picture. In one he's looking off-screen and lusting after an unseen burrito. In the second he's loving the sight of the burrito.

KYS, first you got cucked by some Chad, and that bitch probably fucked all other Chads while you were always there for her. Doesn't understand what love is, shits on christians. Please show me a picture of yourself. I need to know how ultimate slav faggot looks like. Sage and repeat !

leaf creep detected. you should be ashamed of your stupidity.

right panel is literally every relationship after your gf/fiance/wife begins to settle down and get's comfy with you.

Enjoy being single 4 lyfe.

>His wifes son is his reason for living
You should probably end it now.

t. virgin

If you answer "God" every time you don't know the answer to a question, you're not a real Christian.

when i was 8 i met the love of my time *she was also 8. With her i learned what love was.
years later and her parents moved her away and i never seen or spoke to her since
-18 i had about 30 partners
>>at 18 a woman 3 years older asked me to move in with her to an island
>>at 21 she asked me to marry her
>>at 24 she divorced me
>>fast easy no kids no big deal but ive never spoken to her since.
>>at 28 another woman asked me to marry her
>>I said yes again
??why?
because why not if you want.

tldr

If you dont have multiple girls asking you to marry them by the time you are 30 you probably should never get married because the ones that will say yes will just be pity

Of course its drawn by a woman, just look at it.

All the attention is on her, it's about what makes her feel loved,and how people are supposed to love her

Also have you guys ever noticed how when women talk about romance it's always about how they feel, how they want to be desired, how it is supposed to revolve around them,what they want. Fucking me me me me

my Dad was a fucking asshole on many levels and my Mom stayed with him till the end. so fuck off user

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

(1 Corinthians 13:1-13)

>comic praises men for staying by woman who abandons her appearance
>comic praises women for staying by man who abandons his career

One type of these comics just so happens to exist, the other does not.

Why do all SJW shit cartoons look alike? Did they go to "Tumblrina University Art School"?