I am going to have a family. What should I read and who should I listen to about raising kids? Are we fucked?

I am going to have a family. What should I read and who should I listen to about raising kids? Are we fucked?

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dont listen to anybody, just remember your childhood and use common sense

This. Follow your heart. It's all about love in the end.

I was raised liberal and figured out all the shit Sup Forums talks about over the past 5 years without having to come here. Same as my wife. We don't want our kids growing up with the twisted world view young adults have. I don't know if that isn't possible.

up until your kids are 7, they really don't know what you're saying. i mean, they understand words and meaning, but not context, metaphor, or allegory. so read to them whatever they want.

if you were raised well, rely on your parents. if your wife was raised well, rely on hers.

my parents have been a huge influence on my kids because i recognize that i was raised right, so i let them be a big part of my kids' lives. my wife's parents are kind of bumbling oafs, massively overweight and plain dull. we avoid them.

like the other user said, just use common sense.

Then don't raise them that way retard. Be a good parent instead of one who neglects their kid and they will listen.

Adolf hitler. Tell your wife you play classic music to the baby but in relety you play all the hitler speeches.

Benefits are your baby
>speaks german
>is redpilled as fuck

Drawbacks
>if the doc is a jew or nigger he might kill them
>speaks autistic

What about environment? That's important.

My parents did an alright job. But they were massive pop consumers, bless them. Madonna, Prince, and Michael Jackson are their favorite singers for goodness' sake, to give you an idea of how mainstream they are. And while this is not wrong per se, they fell into teaching me and my siblings some pretty bad lessons and advice. So I guess I still learned from their mistakes as well as the things they did well. Her parents suck. I just wish I could do it correctly so I have kids that turn into fully functioning, capable adults without too many speed bumps along the way.

I agree, that's why I want to learn all I can and be prepared for being a father.

Fair point. I guess I just don't know the best way to do that. I guess I am anxious and nervous and don't know if I will be a good role model for my kids. I obviously want the best for them.

I think she'd be into this, actually

Take a picture of yourself now. In 20 years it will be like it was yeasterday.

Just relax and leet time go, your worse enemy will be stress.

Fuck off you leftiest pos.

Love.

Love is not feeding you. Love is not paying any bills. Love is a abstruct concept.


Shit post aside.

Get as many books on technics on how to teach how to lead. How to pass down knolage.

You job is to make sure the littel fucker knows how the world spins. Pass down your knolage. If your a retard get money and make sure you can pay people that have that knolage.

Make sure he knows why you do what you do. Dont treat him like a glass ball. No shelter. Give him combat boots and let the infant fight a rattel snake. If it survives you know hes wort a name and your time.

Yea, i'm the youngest of four, so by the time i came around, my parents had learned from their past mistakes with the first two, had sufficiently spoiled the third one, and did a decent job raising me. and although my brothers and i are all successful, one of them resents my parents for how he was raised. no idea why. i think he's just an asshole.

Thanks. I think I understand what you are saying. Don't create too much of a safe space for your children...because the world isn't a safe space.

Good point. I should calm down and approach this appropriately. Thanks.

Teach your kid to be tolerant and multicultural. Make xyír read Communist manifesto early and then introduce xir more complicated communist literature

Yeah people can turn out differently depending on the order they were born. I'm a middle child so that does shape the way I look at things a bit. I guess I just need to relax a bit and not be afraid of making small mistakes. I just want to guard against making huge ones.

Yea, this is partly why I think we're fucked

Love will unlock your kid's potential. You don't need to teach shit. They will learn on their own, they only need support and shelter.

Kids need a safe space to learn about the world and they will naturally grow out of it when they reach puberty.

I heard Alex Jones is a great example on how to be a parent. Also, make sure that you tear them down instead of build them up if you want to see them succeed in life

Psalms 127:1
Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the LORD keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain. 127:2 It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep. 127:3 Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: and the fruit of the womb is his reward. 127:4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth. 127:5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.

Funny

You forgot the most important part. KNOLAGE!

Make sure he learns above everything. Make sure he knows how important it is.

You want your child to be a burger shiter at mc donalds or layer? Doctor? Scintist or pilot?

Children dont understand i didnt and 90% of the world. Make sure he dose.

Make sure he knows the benefits of succes and the harsh tast of failure.

Make sure hes not ending living from meal to meal but knows how to think in to the future.

How would you interpret the Psalms you have chosen? Furthermore, should I raise my children religiously?

T.Tyron
>robing a 7 11 and preging sqilla while later raping a old women.

Great post man. I appreciate your thoughts. You are right.

They only do that if they aren't hugged enough as a kid.

The first 3 or 4 months are all about them developing a secure attachment. Attend to their needs immediately. Do not let them "cry it out" - it does not "toughen them up" at this point but just make them distrust you. be consistent.

At about 4 months their seratonin production kicks in and they begin to internally regulate their sleep cycle which leads to a "sleep regression" - at this point they can be sleep trained and can begin sleeping through the night (again, as long as you are consistent). Sleep training is really the first time you should let them "cry it out"

Take as much time off of work as you possibly can, and remember that family is your #1 priority now, so expect to adjust your work and social schedule accordingly. There are enough shitty kids raised by shitty moms/absent dads, don't add to the problem. Be patient and be consistent.

Holy shit, you guys shouldn't be getting parental advice off Sup Forums.

Raising children is easy, it's the rest of your day to day life that'll be more challenging. Don't think of it as "What should I do to raise him right?", but try to aim for "What can I do with my limited time to make things more prosperous for my family".

>>Get your finances in order, plan ahead.
>>Make sure you're relationship is ironclad. So much of a good relationship isn't "eternal love", it's both parties knowing and enjoying the importance of their role.

Things fall into place when you embrace you're role. It's a career, and if you love it, things like "what do I teach them?" isn't something you'll ever have to think about.

Like in most things, figuring out how to improve yourself is the first and most important step in doing anything great.

The reason I'm getting some advice here is because all normie topics I can get covered in the 'real world.' But I am also looking at perspectives on how to not fall into the trap of raising shit kids becauseI took shit advice from shit people. Although that might pertain to this board as well...

And thank you for your thoughts, they give me a bit to think about.

Listen to Molymeme and Joran Peterson on parenthood and developmental psychology (especially from Peterson.) Jordan talks about how not to fuck up developing psyches in one of the 2017 maps of meaning lectures. It's not the first one, and it's before the last one... I don't remember which exactly.

Don't feed them a lot of carbohydrates and sugar, but do let them have a little bit; sugar stimulates growth hormone and can help your kids be bigger and stronger adults. If you overdo it you will literally kill them.

Never do for your child that which they can do for themselves. Otherwise they'll never be independent, confident people.

Keep your family/marriage strong, together and healthy. Children raised by single mothers do HORRIBLY in life, and with courts being as biased as they are, if anything goes wrong, your wife gets the kids and they're doomed.

Homeschooling them is the best option to avoid marxist indoctrination.

Spend as much quality time with your child as possible. This is very important.

Your children are individual people. They won't necessarily be like you, or your wife, or each other. They are complete persons, and it's important that you or your wife don't try to force them into a certain mold as this will most likely backfire.

And finally, as long as you care about and love them, the odds of you being a good parent are pretty damn high. Parenting is less about "how do I raise my kid right? what should I do?" and more about not fucking them up. Just don't neglect or abuse them and you'll be fine. Children tend to develop well "by default" so long as they aren't broken somehow along the way.

The fact that you care enough about it to want to prepare, and to seek advice, means you care enough that you'll be a good parent.

Don't spank your kids, it literally chips off IQ points from them and fucks them in the head, it's why no one else can think logically and is scared of everything. In fact don't punish them at all, that just makes your relationship adversarial and teaches them to hide things from you.

But that doesn't mean you can't make your kids disciplined and just let them do whatever, if you want your kids to do what you say they will if they respect you and think you make the right decisions and want to be like you. E.G. our kids willingly brush their teeth because we all brush our teeth together and they want to be healthy when they grow up like us and we've explained why it's healthy.

Too many parents are hypocrites who try to make their kids eat healthy while being fat as fuck themselves or demand retarded rules like no running in the house and then moan that their kids aren't active enough. Kids can smell hypocrisy from a mile away because they are little problem solving machines putting the worlds rules together for the first time and will conclude that their parents don't know what they're talking about, which is true and will thus piss the parents off even more.

I don't think it's helpful, it's a substitute for a close bond with the kids tbqh. Can't get your kids to do what they're told? Tell them God's watching, which might work on small kids but will give them failures in logical thinking, insecurities and loss of trust in you for the rest of their lives even if they realize it's not real later on.

This, and never put them into day care, to a baby being left with strangers by their parents is registered in it's brain as it's about to die because that would be the case for 99.99999% of human evolution. It's preferable to lose a second income than letting your kid grow up to be another neglected neurotic disaster case like most westerners with single mothers or working parents.

Also if you circumcise your son I'll gas chamber you.

Read this:

amazon.com/Staying-Married-Degenerate-Michael-Sebastian/dp/1530137055


Check this:

thefamilyalpha.com/2016/09/06/modern-day-agoge-a-mans-path-to-raising-a-masculine-son-in-a-feminized-society/

This.

Something I forgot to add about preventing (((marxist))) indoctrination: Avoid exposing them to television/hollywood and other mainstream media for as long as you can. I'd IP block tumblr/reddit as well.

Josef Fritzl's life would be a good place to start. Protective and loving. If you have sons, teach them to love through keeping quiet about what you do to them when their mother leaves the house.

I'm not a newfag, been here 10 years. Nice try though

Yeah I was thinking of just not having television and limiting screen time to something like 30 min/day

Excellent! I will check these out. Thanks!

Great post. I have it saved. Thanks for your time.
Awesome post! Thanks mate. I have it saved.