I'm 25 working a dead end job and single...

I'm 25 working a dead end job and single, most people by age 25 have a good career started and already married or planning to.

Jordan Peterson makes it seem like you can just go out and get a good job and wife and the only thing holding you back in some psychological neurosis that can be easily overcome with therapy, but the reality is the job market is fucked, the housing market is fucked, and the dating market is fucked.

Basically it's too late for me and suicide is the only remaining option, if there are any young(12-18) anons here, GO TO SCHOOL GET A GOOD JOB AND GET MARRIED ASAP! If your life is not on the correct path by age 21 YOU ARE FUCKED!

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Sounds like therapy would actually help you.

25 and married? You must live somewhere rural.

I'm 23 and pretty close to asking my girlfriend to marry me but I'm thinking about going back to school to finish pre-med and go to med school. But I'm sort of apprehensive. What should I do anons?

The only thing that can help me now is a time machine

Calm down leaf, jesus.

>If your life is not on the correct path by age 21 YOU ARE FUCKED!

I rebooted my life at 28, OP.

30 here unemployed.
Almost out of money.
GF pressuring me to find a job, but no one will hire me
No skills, no leads for employment.
Consider suicide everyday.

Please tell.

Yeah, I'm rebooting my life at 23 but you can change your lifes direction at any age. It just gets harder the older you get.

Na its not just you, leafland is fucked.

For example I'm the same age and it's literally impossible to afford a house.

:- )

Holy shit OP. I too am 25 and am unemployed. Even with job experience in my field, I can't find a job.

Really considering military if shit heats up soon. Liberate me a waifu

I'm a 23 year old uni dropout who's not slept and its currently 5bong and I have only just started on my career path..

> leaf
pleas kill yourself

it's definitely not too late for you. take a deep breath, put the bong down, and figure out where you need to go to end up where you want to be. you have plenty of time.

Im 27 and would like to hear this story.

oops i meant this guy.

Relax. You're a guy and have plenty of time to find a wife. There is someone out there for everyone. With regard to jobs, I'd look into the trades (plumbing, electrician, etc.) Find something that can't be offshored or done by border-jumpers.

He's 25

He's done

move out of Ontario/BC

Just be yourself user, it'll all work out then

Try being 10 years older still working a dead end job and single.

>25
>no hope for waif
>decent sales job

could probably sell cars the rest of my life if I had to, never gonna be rich or anything tho. Hang in there leaf. My best bro just suicide 2 weeks ago exactly and it destroyed me. Don't do that.

Hope they have this in Canada. There are plenty of jobs.
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>move out of Toronto/Vancouver

>get married

What is this, the 1950s?

First get back to studies. If she stays with you through it, she's the one

Why didn't you save your fucking friend? What were you doing that you didn't see the signs?

NEET of seven years here.

There is literally no reason to get a job.

>24
>turning 25 in a few months
>virgin
>no future

>apply to state police
>need to email local recruiter before I start fgilling out the application packets to let him know I am going to start filling out the application packets
>dont know what to say for such a trivial matter
AAAAAAHHHHHHHHH

I turn 28 next month, and am working a part-time retail job. I have a lead on a temp job, but nothing full-time so far. I'll probably wind up joining the military within two years because I have a bachelor's in moonrunes. I wish I could give you more advice, but I'm not a leaf, so I don't know what to tell you about Canada's military. Just hang in there brah. Focus on yourself. Look at the positives in your life, and don't worry about females until you get comfortable in your own situation.

Where should I go? I have no connections or roots outside of Ontario cities

Find God

You are a pussy.. stop making shit life choices.

Start volunteering and doing other things marriageable ladies do. Church, coed sports leagues, et cetera. Be willing to compromise on looks to find a good person.

Unfortunately I already went to trade school but it didn't help finding a job, now I'm considering university but I'm too old(25) and my savings are too low(70k)

I'll keep trying to find a trades job though, but it's been 2 years already and I'm losing hope, I had an interview a week ago but I get nervous and always fuck it up

I'm 21 and just coming out of my NEEThood. Going to start going to college within the next year. I don't care if you think I'm FUCKED. I'm going to make it.

Relax leaf, it took me until the age of 33 to be successful. Now I have a great job and a wife with a great white child on the way.

>It's basically hopeless.
>these hoes ain't loyal.
You could kill yourself. Or you can join us at the bottom of this abyss desu.

I was where you are once. The descent to the bottom is the worst. But I embraced it once I got there.

I have reinvented myself.

Howdy from texas im 22 lived with daddy for about 3 years about to get my commercial/18 wheeler license you can make so much cash and live on the road super cool you can travel and get paid so much just for driving you should try it

Tell us more
Bong'd any women?

Hey man don't worry about it. My brother 30 now and he just figured everything out. Hes now making 80K and thats without a college degree. He is by no means the smartest guy. He did terrible in high school and bounced around working at bars and eventually found his niche. He's not married yet and hes only just not hitting his stride. I'm 21 and i am freaking out but he text me today telling me that he knows I'm going to go somewhere. user you'll find out what you are going to do. I've considered suicide too but i realize I kinda want to live long enough to see the world come to an end.

Leaf, I love you, but you are looking at life all wrong. Its not a contest of how you match up against a bunch of people who will never give a fuck about you.

Its about creating the life you choose, and loving the ones around you as much as you can. Believe me, I wish I could go back and love those people in my life harder, but thats no longer an option.

There will ALWAYS be someone with a bigger house or more cars or what have you. But if those people in your life dont love you then it wont matter if your rich or homeless.

"Im a neet with no friends/life/etc" just be nice to every person you see and expect nothing in return. Kindness is contagious and I thought it was a load of horse shit until I tried it for a month for fun, as a joke, in my dead end job. Doors started flinging open, and I gained so much mor respect. But I personally believe it only worked because I started to become more genuine, and people really connect with that.

You should be on the right path by 21 but that doesnt mean you need to have your career and family figured out already. Honestly as long as you arent sitting in your moms basement doing drugs with no ambition, youll be fine.

>Hey, I was told to email you before filling out the application packets, so I'm doing that now

how hard is it

Good morning sir, my name is user. Just wanted to touch base regarding my application, looking forward to opportunity etc...

Regards user


I'm in the same boat but applying for sherrifs deputy positions. Cheers m8. What state if you don't mind?

advice to young fuckers:

don't waste your time hanging around idiots

go to a trade school or something manly

keep the redpills to yourself, but of course never forget them. they will help you but only if you keep them to yourself

also women will abuse you, that's normal. try to get used to it early on

Interview prep is important. Buy a book or two on it to get an idea of what will be asked. Write down a general idea of how you'd respond. The practice out loud and on video. You can also hire professionals to conduct mock interviews. Can be done over the phone with some online companies.

NC

your wife has fucked and sucked plenty of niggers
trust me

All these reddit spacing pieces of shit giving shit advice in this thread. OP just kill yourself already and shoot up a college or some shit for the luls

>women will abuse you
What?

I left in the second semester of graduate school to take care of my terminally ill mother. Originally, it was to help her to live longer, but eventually it became palliative care. It took three long agonizing years to finally pass away.

I really loved her and did my best to make her comfortable.

When it was over, I was left rudderless overweight, and an alcoholic. I was three years out of college with no employment history since graduation.

To regroup:

1. I got help for my alcoholism
2. I put myself on a rigorous exercise and diet program. Not so much that I hated it, but enough to put pressure on myself to get results.

What to do about employment?

Even though it had nothing to do with my major, I sat for a real estate sales license. It was a job with no salary. You either sold or starved...but if you sold, the money was good.

After doing this for a few years and saving some money, I asked myself if this is where I really want to be in life. I then asked myself, if you could be doing anything, what would it be?"

continued....

What you expect at 25? News flash life is not easy. Life does get better but honestly don't expect to be walking barefoot on the beach with your still attractive greyhaired wife popping Viagra and no money worries

25? You still have a lot of time my friend! I got married when I was 30, recieved my PhD when I was 34, and now I have 3 children and I plan to have another soon! Just don't smoke or drink, exercise regularly and don't or eat too much and you'll still have several decades to enjoy life and have a family. Stay healthy.

not physically, mentally and emotionally
I know it sounds like a pussy thing to say, but it's true.

It's just that only fags let it get to them after a certain age.

Hey, there guy. I'm gonna tell you a story about me.
I'm 45. I just recently re-entered society. What does that mean? Well, I left about 20 years ago. I haven't had a job since the week after 9-11. I have no marketable skills, no family, no network, and I have no money. I decided to do this for personal reasons, but here I am, in the same mess as you, worse even, by choice.
Stop being a pussy you stupid bitch.
have a good day.

>Basically it's too late for me and suicide is the only remaining option, if there are any young(12-18) anons here, GO TO SCHOOL GET A GOOD JOB AND GET MARRIED ASAP! If your life is not on the correct path by age 21 YOU ARE FUCKED!
Pretty sure your life is fucked if you're twelve and on Sup Forums

>70k
>too low
Fuck you.

Good advice here. Stay away from drugs and alcohol, aside from moderate social drinking. Also, exercise regularly, including posture work.

HAHAHAHAHA. you fucking autist. You deserved to be bullied in school. What the fuck kind of advice are you giving out?

No shit! NC bro here too.

Complete bullshit.

At 25, no one expects you these days to get your shit together, get it together now or else by 30 you'll truly be miserable.

Be more specific pls

Also 25, I'm married and we own a house but I'm in retail and I hate it. It's completely degrading. I did polisci in college and it's totally useless. The only way anyone i know has gotten a job in politics is by having rich parents who pay for everything while they volunteer for a year until someone hires them. I couldnt afford that and had to take what i could get. I'm going back for an MBA and hoping I can reinvent myself career wise.

Hang in there and keep trying. Whatever you do don't kill yourself, user. It's never the solution. Stay strong, bro.

28 y o neet here laughing at all of you losers trying to "make something of yourselves".
Stay in drugs kids and never try school.

Quebecker here
I may not have a house but I have all the lands I need. Suck it up leaf

Cool, please continue.

There are people aged 21 with degree, internships under their belt, and are working in their chosen career or have otherwise have job prospects. How can you compete with that?

I didn't get my first 'real' job until 25 working in digital advertising. I started at entry level doing reporting and menial admin shit. I'm just about to turn 30 in May and am on $180k (incl. bonus). Not knowing what you're doing by 25 isn't a problem, giving up is.

Listen man. If you're just comfortable being uncomfortable then go kill yourself painfully. If you actually have any balls left, then quit being a bitch. NEETS are no better than niggers. You a bigger? No then fuck outta here with that pussy shit.

It's not too late for any of you. I'm 30, didn't even go to college until I was 23 because I loved me some substance abuse. Got a godamn English degree. Didn't meet my wife until 26. I work as a cabinet finisher with no benefits and chasing the dream as a conservative fiction writer. And I'm still dope and live an interesting life.

Are you shitting Me? Shit didn't go perfect for me wah wah wah. Fuck you. Nobody is gonna hand you a dream or life manifested. Why I fucking hate some of yall.

Eh I'm superior to niggers and blah blah. Well me too bitch but I have proof. Start acting like a white man should and handle business. Other wise get your genetics out of my gene pool you little bitch

Fuck tl;dr you lazy fuck

Idk what your saying, speak english Jean.

Women will fuck with your mind for fun and profit.

It's solid advice for someone who states he is bombing his interviews. Also, those of us with good jobs (not you) know how important it is. I never did any of the things I suggested, but I never struggled with interviews. Many of my classmates did though, particularly the internationals, and it helped.

Give me concrete examples. You seem paranoid t b h

ALL THE LANDS I NEED
MUCHO LANDOS

I returned to my childhood ambition of becoming a pilot. I won't bore you with the details, but I used the money that I saved, took out some loans, and continued to work in real estate to get my license and certifications as quickly as possible in a very rigorous program. I had no time for anything but work and flight school and it took a few years. In my experience, persistence is the key to most things in life.

wtf

Nice, what county?

I tried applying to Charlotte-Mecklenburg PD since I will be moving there in August, although they said it was too far pretty early in the process. I wouldnt mind driving an hour, but just decided to go State in the end.

WHo cares about the markets, you only need one good job and one great girl.

>English degree
>this post
Should have gone STEM, retard.

I just turned 18 like two weeks ago and already fucked up my life. I got bad grades in school and didn't get accepted anywhere.

Folks, you shouldn't worry too much about your age. Each person develops at a different pace. Just because you know a few people in their 20s who are already successful that doesn't mean you're a failure. Relax, keep focused, don't stop chasing your dreams, and don't give up.

I'm so motivational. But seriously, pay attention to what I wrote above.

Wilkes county. Moonshine country out here man. Moved out here in February from Colorado. From a city with 3/4 of a million people to a town with one bar that closes at 10 pm. Sometimes I think I might as well have moved to the fucking moon. You got a BLET cert yet?

t. worthless oldfag who rolled over and let things get to the point they are at now

I'm 23 and gonna go to school to be a nurse this fall :>
2 years of education then guaranteed 60k after 1 year working :>

>tfw 31 and all your friends are married, live in a loaned house and have children but you are still a manchild on neetbux even if you know you are the most intelligent within your relative circle but you are too disgusted by society to get in so you prefer to procrastinate but then you feel bad for your old father who is sad to see his son wasting his life cause of the redpill transformed into blackpill because the jews destroyed your whole country.

>most people by age 25 have a good career started and already married or planning to

I get by assuming that's just a meme and that most people are just as miserable as I am.

You just need some skills. Foreign language? Mathematics? Biology? Chemistry? Electronics?

What cha got, nigga, to make me think you can make me money?

I have hundreds of belt workings with worthless degrees .

Sorry, kid, but your educational time frame was fucked by gender studies. I don't need someone to tell me if I'm hiring a girl or a boy. I'll just grab them by the pussy.

4 years of university
>30k tuition + supplies + books
>4 years of lost after tax wages from current job: 120k

Total cost: 150k

Total opportunity cost of that 150k if it was invested earning 7% per year for 40 years until retirement: 2.2 million dollars

25's not that old. People are starting life later and later nowadays. I know people in their 30's still sleeping around, working retail jobs just to pay to go to bars when they're off.
Focus on self-improvment. Mind, body, soul.
Clean your house thoroughly. Fix random little things with your car. Run all your errands. Read a book for an hour a day. Learn a language for 20 minutes a day. Consider meditation. Lift weights ad eat well. Then, maybe apply to Leaf community college and take some courses you did bad in in high school. You have to be comfortable with yourself and stop worrying about women, men can date younger so no rush. Spend time in places you think people you would like would hang out at, like bookstores or whatever.
Maybe stay away from Sup Forums for a while, it's bad for some people's minds because you can lose sight of how normal people really think.
You need some perspective.

Military seems oddly comfy.
>great pay (in Australia)
>pension after 20 years
>get to go innawoods and shoot guns with your bros
>cunt officers

I honestly think it sounds great.

Leaf here, reporting in from the USA.

I reinvented myself at 23, again at 30 and once more at 37. Im 50 today, married at 39, no kids, small house on Vancouver Island. Im about to reinvent myself again, because the job I do, though it pays well (153k last year) is becoming boring and I want to try working for myself for a change. I have 2 years technical college, and at age 35, rolled into regina sask with 12.50 in my pocket and an address where I could crash for 3 weeks.

Its possible. It can be done.

>tfw 34 and I partially relate to that statement

its time to put the bottle down leaf fag

I worked at a fast food restaraunt when I was 22 and now I'm rich, don't worry too much.

alsu ur not white

I've been working since I was 16. Really hated it, but, was kind of ingrained in me from an early age to have a good work ethic, so I started up as soon as I got a work permit from school. When I turned 18, I moved out and was moderately stable on my own, about as well as any 18 year old without a trust fund could be anyway. When I was 19, my mother kept asking me to move back in with her, as I have 4 younger siblings who needed to occasionally be babysat at the time. After a year of her constantly asking, I decided to agree. Agreement was I moved back to her city, get another job, and occasionally babysit. Seemed fine to me, got free rent n food so I went along with it.

"Occasionally babysitting" turns out meant 60 hours a week. Couldn't work because I needed to babysit the little shits all the god damn time. So, I ended up being stuck. Couldn't move out as I had given up my savings to pay for her rent when I got in because she lapsed, (should have been a red flag), and couldn't get a job to recoup it. So I was fucked. Couldn't leave, and staying meant I was stagnant. Ended up being that way for two fucking years, lost all of my friends as I couldn't pay for anything or even buy a tank of gas as I had no income, my social life was non-existant, couldn't afford anything fun. I was miserable.

But, the silver lining was that while I was stuck at home, I discovered, and self taught day trading, which is what I currently live on. Three years later, I am 25, and making far more than I otherwise would have, and am completely and totally economically FREE. I report to nobody, bills are all paid, I am in control of my life. No boss to tell me when and where I have to be, what I can wear, what I can say. It's all me.

I guess the morale of the story here is that the shittiest situations give light to good opportunities. Just have to look around. It may look bleak now, but you can find an out.

Andropause is strong for this one.

Sign up for grade 13, do better next year