So according to the internet, the way to get girls is to continually ask them out and face rejection rates of 90 % plus, including being laughed at to my face, given fake phone numbers, being stood up, giving someone a huge ego boost and a superiority complex over me, and facing the risk of the girl laughing about the "omg so creepy guy" on social media for all to see.
And the above is only the long shot scenario of women I barely know. The "better" way is to ask out girls in your social circle or friends of friends. So I can be rejected by people I'll see repeatedly, and laughed at and embarrassed by all the people I'll see the most in life.
Or online, where I can be 1 out of hundreds of matches for each women, who, at best, skims off the Chads.
What's the deal? This all sounds crazy. I've never asked out a girl or had attention from one but all this is unrealistic. I have awful social skills but I'm not an autist. I can easily tell that all of this is internet fantasist shit.
The real method is to be a normie and have an instant connection with all other normies. Even extroverted normies have nothing to say to me but when I see normies talk to other normies so effortlessly, it's like seeing someone talk to themselves, it's so damn effortless. This is the only way: being part of the hivemind. Anything else is a life of quiet desperation.
Listen you fucking beta faggot queermo, the majority of people are fucking morons, this is true, but there are quite a few smart ones who, at their core, are fairly individual. You simply think they're sheeples because your too autistic to realize the presymbolic purposes of language, which these folk intuitively grasp. In speaking, your not always informing someone of something but often satiating primitive human emotions in order to develop a proper medium of relationship. This is what you refer to as meaningless small talk. By situating agreements, even if these agreements are so abstract as to imply nothing or are so real as to be undisputable, you develop a superficial relationship with people to use an emotional medium for expansion of that relationship. In order to develop close relationships, you then need to agree on important things with significant implications, all while acting through the medium of situated social conventions to continually appease our human emotions. You just don't get it fucking moron, stop being weird and rebellious because you want to reject humanity for robot whores. The social conventions serve a practical purpose. You abide by them at first until your both comfortable to reveal your individual and specific conventions, which can then be understood to replace the societal default. And to get a girlfriend you simply develop a close relationship and hope the girl develops feelings for you. If she does, just turn on your oxytocin because your male and have conscious control over love and whammy, you got a girlfriend.
Jason Stewart
I think it comes down to that advice on the subject cannot take into account all the angles. People subtly know when you are not part of the hivemind, and this plays into it. I cringe when I read people receiving advice like "just go up to her and say X, if she says X, just say X". This type of advice doesn't take into account hivemind status/social standing/body language/subtle emotional clues, or any of the other things that go into the whole thing. Most advice is just like you said, internet shit written by someone who doesn't actually understand how intricate human relationships are.
Eli Jones
This is a sad beta thread but you're not wrong.
It's good to embarrass yourself in life though. Or you'll end up a 40yr old coward and that's not a way to live.
There's another way though. Be totally dominate and comfortable in your own skin. No one really gives a fuck what you're saying. Not dumb people anyway. Just keep it simple and be funny and have plans. Girls like plans - but not bragging. And treat them like they're guys, but like guys you want to fuck. Since everyone is so fucking gender confused and guys act like lesbians.
I just treat everyone the same and girls want to fuck me because I have good eye contact with them and can signal at the correct time, not forced. But so do guys these days.
I hate everyone.
Hudson Clark
>nd to get a girlfriend you simply develop a close relationship and hope the girl develops feelings for you. If she does, just turn on your oxytocin because your male and have conscious control over love and whammy, you got a girlfriend.
This is a girl and she will never get you laid because girls are stupid and know nothing about getting pussy.
She has to want you the whole time. You can't just be friends and end up friend-zoning like a faggot. She knows right away and the more time you spend not in the pussy, the more she resents you for it.
Logan Walker
The fucking dumbest thing is I've had female friend's tell me one of my male friends is hot. Say i'll tell him he should ask you out. They never want me too. So I just started telling the male friends and then they end up turning them down.
Females are nuts
Jackson Jones
chicks are shit, deal with it. just do your own thing until the right one comes to you. fuck the random ones that come and go, literally.
Joshua Harris
Do not waste your 20's chasing women. Build yourself up, your wealth and empire.
By the time I hit 29, I had women throwing themselves at me, without trying.
Mens sexual market value increases with time. Womens decreases.
Spend your early years bettering yourself. By the time you hit 30 you'll have more than you ever asked for, and nothing but open options until you are 50.
Caleb Roberts
did you ever consider that, you know, women are irrelevant at young age and unless you have a job, home and a career, why would you even care to date? you wont be able to fully support a child if you have one, what are you gonna do, get a girlfriend and fuck her every now and then, then break up later? wow. worthwhile.
>hurr i NEEEED a ghirlfriend or else i will hang myself and end my sad pathetic life... >what was that? am i happy with myself and have my own interests that i pursue and am good at? >w-w-well i-i'll need a g-girlfriend o-or i f-feel l-lonely and c-cant pursue a-anything
also what the fuck is this extrovert hivemind normie bullshit, if you had anything that resembles a personality maybe people wouldn't actively avoid you or treat you like a toy.
