Should I Marry Her or Dump Her?

>be me, 32yo white male, rightwing
>degenerate teens and twenties, drugs-party-travel-sex
>want to clean up, settle down, make white kids
>tradesmen making $75,000 and $25,000 in other ventures
>her, 36yo, leftwing
>Housing Nurse and Bartender
>11yo boy
>boys father is co-parent, works, good fella and they've been broke up for years
Should I go for it or is this situation cucked? I could get better looking and younger if I really tried but I like her a lot. Thinking her son is old enough that I won't have to really be his dad and w/ the father situation won't have to waste much resources on her son and that she's already well practiced for raising kids

>marry

it's 2017 you masochistic retard, you can have kids without marriage

Don't want kids without marriage.and a prenup

>is a bartender
>already has a kid

Top kek m8. Sounds like an impending trainwreck

Be careful. Find someone you agree with.

Cuck, enjoy raising/paying for your wifes son

>>is a bartender
She works as a nurse too

if I'm 31/32 and don't have a wife, mortgage and at least 1 kid on the way I'm going to kill myself

just turned 19 wish me luck

Leave her. Telegeny dictates that her kids with you will always have trace DNA of her previous partners. There are plenty of young white mormon and evangelical girls in their late teens and early twenties who are non-degenerate and their idea of fun is being a camp counselor for a youth bible camp

>2017
>marrying
>marrying as a man

Don't do it.

>me, 32yo white male, rightwing
>her, 36yo, leftwing
Sounds like hell.

Should I Marr...

No.

>4 years older
>divorced
>left wing

You sound like you could do better.

If you need the answer from pol there is a 99% chance that you are a faglord.
On the 1% chance you actually want a forever viginia then reflect on what kind of mother she is.
If you find her to be a good mother thats at least a step in the right direction.
If not then gtfo.

Dump that shit

>her, 36yo, leftwing
>Housing Nurse and Bartender
>11yo boy

i rather fuck a trap

honestly if i was you i wouldnt do it shes damaged goods

She's not looking for a family. She's looking for a sugar daddy, even a modest one. Even if you get her to agree to children, she'll probably be scarfing birth control behind your back, without an ounce of respect for whatever you do for her sake, or her child's sake.

The kid is also old enough that he won't respect you as a father - literally on the verge of 'independence', and will be a constant struggle as he gets older. Futile, even.

What's more, you already recognize difference in political ideology. Not only will you and her family be opposed in all other instances, she'll actively be voting against your interests the entire time.

Did I mention you won't be getting any children?

She has a kid, that means she's shove it in her pooper material for as long as you can deal with her bullshit. Nothing more.

You wife this cancerous leach don't come back here crying about your feels when she inevitably acts like an idiot.

Go get an 18-20 year old.

pic related is her BTW

pretty much this and she already had a kid.

"damaged goods"

Well, either the traditionalist christian girls or perhaps one of those "volkish" girls who are out right white nationalist. Make sure nobody's fucked them yet, though. Your options will primarily be 19-24 years of age

>Left-wing
>Single mom
>36 years old

I think you should marry her because you're clearly fucking retarded if you think this is a good idea and therefore don't deserve better.

Enjoy your barren roastie spinster whore.

don't do it, run away. do you want a let a leftwing American woman teaching your babies as they grow up?

then why is she bartending

she's a whore plain an simple

That dog is looking at him like
"Even I know this is wrong!"

liberal and okay with Tranny operations. You really wanna marry a cultural marxist? She'll talk your son into transitioning.

Dude Nurses are fucking insane, and so are bartenders.

A BARTENDING NURSE? Holy fucking shit lad. Please do me a favor and do not marry this woman, It would make me happy to know you didn't. You can do WAY better, even though it's a pain finding a new woman.

cuck

Don't do it, we need white children

Enjoy being a cuck

Yes, we've established that.

if you are asking other people's opinions on how you will be happy, you're already fucked.
determine yourself what makes you happy and just fucking do it.

If you have to ask, you already know the answer you weakwilled faggot.

You're a guy, you have the option of settling down with younger women and not raising an old roastie's child. You're a cuck for even considering this OP.

>her, 36yo, leftwing
Stop right there if you want a family. You crazy, OP

Shit you guys seem to have a consensus
We get along great and she fuckin really turns me on too
But the age and kid is throwing me off

You guys wanna see/rate the one I'm going for if I dump her?

Only a sucker raises another living man's kids.

Fuck no, run for your life.

dating a woman older than you is disgusting. having a child with a woman that is older than 35 is stupid. I'm going to say, avoid at all costs!

way better shit out there

If you choose to marry, be sure to get a quality prenuptial agreement. Cross those Ts and dot dem Is. Make sure she gets independent representation, and knows what she's signing. This way a kike judge can't throw it out, and she cant go after your post marriage earnings. You can even exclude/reduce alimony payments.

Seriously. Fucking do this man. If she refuses, it's a red flag. Looking at the disparity in income, you'd be the one fucked in a divorce.

t. family law attorney in CA

Yeah, let's see what your plan b looks like.

good luck on the inevitable suicide

AHAHAHAHAHAHAH

she's 36 dude if you're lucky you'll get one kid that's normal and the rest sperg autists or potatos

Yes

vagina all ready ruined.. man you must be desperate...

...

Hi OP. I am a player. I totally understand your desire to settle down and have white kids. That's fantastic, and I want you to.

There are a few problems though:

1. shes a bartender.
2. shes a nurse.
3. she is liberal at 30+ yrs of age
4. existing child

Bartenders and nurses are not exactly the most stable or loving women you will find. Bartenders specifically are hit on all night, tend to fuck anyone in the service industry. Nurses contstanyl fuck each other and swoon after doctors. In each case they are being around lots of other men, and in doctor's case, one that she will find higher status than you.

She has a child already and has left the dad. Her life didn't end and she realized this acceptable behavior, to steal a man's child.

Lastly, that you asking tells me you have doubt. I am sorry, but this does not sound like a good idea. Find a woman late 20's most realistically - a few years younger - who wants to have kids with you.

Sounds like you both had completely degenerate teens/twenties. There's even the possibility that shes less degenerate than you and had fewer sexual partners.

take that fucking flag off you cuck

you gotta know that she's acting sweet because she wants too hook you, dude. After you marry her it's gonna be night and day.

>You guys wanna see/rate the one I'm going for if I dump her?

If you already have a plan b, then you're not serious.

Lay it on us, brotherman

You would be lucky if she can even have another kid at 36.
>leftwing
This is the biggest deal breaker desu

personally I could never date a girl with kids, makes my dick shrink when they mention it

Nudes?

>Should I raise My Wife's Son
hmmm

Don't listen to any of these clowns telling you not to do it. Sex is temporary, and your children will provide you little emotional comfort when you're old and infirm. If you like her that much, investing minor financial investments in another man's child isn't that steep a cost to shoulder in exchange for a much happier retirement with a woman you love.

Going for the younger sexier version with a shitty personality is the young and ignorant man's folly.

Want to add, you are suffering from oneitis on this one. It's strange that you fucked your way through your 20s and didn't realize more about women. Also you are making $100K. Find a woman who doesn't work and wants to be a fulltime mom - you can easily support a family of 4 on your money.

No. Marry a girl in her early to mid twenties. Someone without a kid and a divorce

You forgot the important question...
Is the kid a niglet?

This is also probably true.

>36yo
Lol no.

He can have kids realistically for another 10 years+ There is no rush to jump at an older woman who has exhibited degenerate behavior and has a history of leaving her children's father.

If a women is not a virgin, there is no reason for marrying. Marrying is for family making, dedicated and loving women, working for establishing a home for all.

Why can't you understand this very simple, very basic concept?

Yeah, with such high ambitions and reasonable expectations I'm sure he'll go far.

If I dump her I'm going after this one
>28, medical research, non-slutty, womens lib type, no kids, never been married

Sage

liberal chics who marry know they won the lottery. At any time she wants to call it quits she has you for alimony and child support. You're done.

>her, 36yo, leftwing
>Housing Nurse and Bartender
>11yo boy
>boys father is co-parent
>have kids with a 36 yo that will be probably 37 at this time.................

>bartender
>already has another mans kid
lmao

Leave it to the anarkiddie to condone solid cuckery.
She's damaged goods, physically and emotionally. She isn't worth anyone's time. Then again, OP, if you're dumb enough to ask if you should stay with her, then a retard like you probably deserves a degenerate like her.

Single mother, bartender, nose piercing, left-wing... sorry, my spider-sense is tingling "Danger."

However, if she wants to turn her life around... maybe. Does she want to be a stay-at-home, full-time mom? That would be a plus. If not, it seems like the odds aren't in your favor.

Pretty cute, though.

Sounds like a bad idea.

That's a no brainier man.
Why did you even make this thread?

THIS

Does she want kids?
Does she work?
What is her relationship with her dad like?
> womens lib

Wtf are you doing...

Don't do it. I've known 3 examples of this shit irl and it has never gone well.
Each time the kid is the lynchpin and if they don't like you then you're fucked.

Too old to have healthiest babies. Sure, she could get pregnant, but increased risks for all kinds of stuff. Get a recent college grad who doesn't want a career.