>26 years old
>no friends
>family thinks i'm a loser
>have a pleb tier job
>addicted to opiates because it's the only time I feel good
>prone to bouts of alcohol abuse where I end up crying and feeling self pity
>realized a man is worth nothing but what he creates for himself, despite this I fail at everything and am still a fuck up
Who else /total fucking loser/ here?
Dont worry about it bro. Keep working hard, read books, learn a martial art, think of ways to upgrade and make more money. Ditch your drugs and take up weightlifting instead. Take your time - you can work on yourself for 10 years and still set up a family and good life at 36.
I am a failure and disgrace to the white race
By age 26 most white people are already married, making 80k+, own a house, and starting a family
Quit your jew self pity faggot. Like I wrote that may be true now but take your time. have a 10 yr plan and work on it. You are 26 so you gotta get to work. Write up your plan right now and set up goals to how you will achieve it.
If you cant do those things then kys faggot.
I'd expect no less from leafs. Daily reminder that white leafs are niggers with a friendly paint job.
Nah, man, not in the current year. Most half the faggots at 26 are still living with their rents.
cman
I was a loser, but Jordan Peterson sorted me out. Try it.
yeah I should never taken the faggot leaf's cuck bait.
If you can't create, destroy.
Don't let the drugs get you like that. I married a redpillled 9/10 at 22 (she was 21). I'm now 30, have a good job, still married to what might be the last decent woman alive. However, I'm also a heroin addict. Even with all that in my life, I feel just like you sometimes. Its just a the drugs, bub.
I'm with you leaf
>25
>graduated at 22
>'follow your dream' degree
>no job offers
>couldn't even get bank teller tier job
>got fat as fuck
>just got accepted for retail at mall
>$10 hour
>family thinks I'm a loser
>no friends
>last text from a friend was November
>kisslesshandheldlessvirgin.jpg
Start the sorting of self.
Peterson is right about a few things. Some men have never been told truth.
If it makes you feel better OP, I literally know few adults that are in this situation and the ones I do have a gf and vast social support situation. I'm almost 27 and I'm going to just start renting my own place after months of saving up.
You'll make it. You might need to move provinces, but you'll make it.
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>'follow your dream' degree
If It makes you feel better I'm two years out of college with a STEM degree, lots of volunteering hours, I'm not autistic (have many friends and have a gf) and I still haven't found a job in my field. Feels bad.
I'm a complete fucking loser and I don't know what to do. I have a college degree and I work at a pizza place. I took a chance and started my own business trying to sell automation services to doctors offices. I built the web application, website, and built a network of leads... but I can't sell my service to save my life.
I'm about done. I've poured my soul into my work for the past 7 months and I've really considered just killing myself. I barely make enough to pay my rent and the web host fees, i'm a laughing stock because I was shilling my business so hard on facebook, literally everyone I know and care about is aware that I'm a failure. My parents are heart broken but they still support me. Oh, and I turned 28 this month.
I feel bad. I'm such a fucking failure and I don't have any skills that matter. All I do now is drink, work, fap, cry, sleep, repeat. I have no idea how to fix my life.
There is nothing quite like giving everything you have into a project then failing. I have had depression and anxiety my whole life but nothing compares to my most recent resounding failure.
I yearn for death.
>he who makes a beast out of himself, gets rid of the pain of being a man
OP here
I have a STEM degree and just found a job a month ago after graduating in 2015, there is still hope, I'm a loser regardless of my job though
Cheer up user. Everyones been there at some point. Get off the drugs and alcohol so you can figure it out. That crap clouds your judgment. Youll be alright
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Ditch drugs, take up some kind of exercise instead. Only drink for social work events to get ahead, that is all it takes to improve yourself.
ME ME ME ME ME
>33
>zero friends
>no gf
>had sex only like 50 times
>no real job because im a fuck up
>smoke pot cuz I hate life
>know that real men get shit done
I know how I am failing, but I can't stop failing
>By age 26 most white people are already married, making 80k+, own a house, and starting a family
Horse shit.
I know a handful of millennials who own houses. They were either given them when family died or they brought a home when they left school in early 2000s when it was still cheap to buy homes.
Most people I know aren't making that much, even the ones who are educated are only making about 60,000$
As for family most people I know with kids are in a split relationship.
City living is to expensive. Even a 6 figure job you are going to struggle to pay mortgage, property tax, insurance etc etc.
We have been royally fucked over.
Dude, move to a tech-centric city and just use your dev skills, wtf
>had sex only like 50 times
Kill yourselves fagerinos
My life but have loyal gf and house....
You just gotta be yourself.
You're like a 90s grunge song in person format.
everyone dies, take comfort in that
>had sex only like 50 times
Pretty much in the same boat as you instead its weed in place of opiates.
i stopped caring,
im pretty much waiting for the big happening to finally happen
What's your degree?
Join the army, get a difference life style, redeem yourself.
Check these NEET stats faggot
>35
>NEET
>junkie
>HIV+
Although he freed the niggers, honest Abe set a good standard for never giving up.
Holy shit, are you me op?
>38 years old
>no friends
>family probably thinks i'm a loser
>have a pleb tier job
>addicted to alcohol because it's the only time I feel good
>prone to bouts of opiate abuse where I end up crying and feeling self pity
>realized a man is worth nothing but what he creates for himself, despite this I fail at everything and am still a fuck up
>oh, and I have a wife and baby daughter
>still can't manage to get me out of the sinkhole
Is sad Pepe because youve had sex fewer times, or because 50 is an incredibly sad number for a 33 year old?
50 times by age 33 is incredibly sad. Is that what the pic means?
okay, let's change this thread up a bit.
failures/fuckups, what advice do you have to people so that they won't end up like you?
You made sex 50 times seem like a failure, compared to a sexless loser like my it's an enormous amount of sex
If you're in a relationship It's normal I suppose
Chemical engineering
The oil crash ruined everything in Alberta
You and me both. The strong edibles get me... melt and shitpost all night. Can't change if I wanted to.
I can't move. I am in the best spot I can be for my business, but I have to fucking call people and I sound like a retarded nigger faggot on the phone desu. When I started my business, I had an agreement with my partner that he would do sales, and I would do everything else. Guess what's the one thing that my business can't do?
It doesn't matter though, my website is dead and my dream is dead. I have no real skills, I had a lot of help and I couldn't have built the system I have without a team of people.
It's like every major decision I've made in my life has been the wrong one. it's heartbreaking.
Focus
Mine is in Chemistry. i always regret not doing engineering, it's literally the only useful stem. Do you think I should go back to college and get a degree in chem or mech engineering? What is the job opportunities like?
When you find a gf, she will probably have sex with you regularly.
I am such a loser that I stayed with the same girl for SEVEN YEARS and i've had sex about 50 times.
You will surpass me within one year of finding a girl
if i dont get my fentanyl tmrw im finna pull up on a nigga
Basically don't be a coward like me
See a job you want? Apply
Girl you like? Ask her out
Have a question? Ask it
Want to voice your opinion? Say it
Volunteer to do things, learn things, if you are invited out go for it
Don't be a PASSIVE LOSER like me waiting for things to happen, you need to be active and make things happen
compare this to africa.
Don't fall for the STEM meme. Unless you are doing Engineering don't even go to college. Your math, biology, physics, chemistry degree isn't worth shit.
this hits home
not addicted to opiates but just an alcoholic loser
>30 years old
>2 kids from 2 different women because I was a man-whore early in my 20s.
>only met my younger son once, the older one I see maybe twice a year.
>child support takes 50% of my post-tax income, in addition to having to pay for healthcare.
>Have HPV from all the unprotected schlongings I was giving out, the kind which is high risk for cervical cancer. I'm literally cancer-dick now.
>still working manual labor job, which is beginning to have actual negative effects on my body.
>no education because I'm young and can do this forever.
>no friends either. last one was chased away by an ex because he was pot-head.
Life sucks but it sucks far worse when you make stupid decisions and fuck up your life.
I will turn it around though. In a few months I have a court date to contest for partial custody of my oldest son. I'm working personal contacts to try and get into the electrician field, hopefully earn more $$$ with less punishment to my body.
Things can always be worse, Leaf. All of your problems can be solved with determination and willpower. It's never too late so long as you still draw breath. Be a man and take control of your life.
>every major decision has been the wrong one
That's the hardest.
Waking up every day knowing that YOU made the wrong choices.
it's never going to happen.
honestly man, if you feel like you're stuck smoking pot I highly recommend taking LSD. If you haven't tried it before, it's a very powerful substance that can expand your horizons and it changes the way your brain functions on other substances.
I think weed is the worst thing for you, because all it does is slow your brain down and make you lazy. It's worse than cocaine or even meth in terms of productivity.
Nothing wrong with freeing the niggers, the mistake was not sending them back
>Letting elites decide how you should feel about yourself
>obeying their programming by being depressed / hating yourself if you don't match their "standards"
Fucking hang yourself.
You have my sympathy, and it's good to vent.
But you just need to bootstrap your ass into something new. You can 100% get a tech job doing like project management or something.
> 30
> have loving wife and son
> good paying and laid back IT job
> life is great
You should probably kill yourself.
Don't fall for the engineering meme.
You gotta be hella smart and not just some dude who can build a gaming PC
Go be a bartender or something. At least you will meet girls.
I'm just like you. 26 and delivering pizza for 8 years. Relationships are shit. I have chrons and a ton of food allergies leaving me to get zero satisfaction from food. I'm also epileptic and missing a dose of meds can kill me. I'm attractive but I have horrible horrible dating luck. I receive no satisfaction in life except when i fuck up and buy coke. Then I'm pissed because stimulants are my only way to get any sense of satisfaction. Death really is a better option than this. Ive been self improving myself for a good 7 years and feel no better. Some people are just Fucked its true.
did you get the HIV by being gay or shooting heroin?
Man, it's seriously EVERY degree. The economy never really recovered and has been fucked up for a long time. The one shining area is tech, and that's literally because it's in a massive bubble.
Also, connections matter way more than your degree. I know unemployed grads from every single major you can think of.
The ones that aren't unemployed had connections.
I have a proposition for Sup Forums.
How about from this moment forward you stop making things worse for yourself.
That's a start.
>hang yourself
I contemplate suicide regularly, but why are you suggesting it?
GET OFF MY BOARD
>had sex only like 50 times
How do you get connections? Your parents friends or what?
Clean your room bro. There's a better life out there
go to r9k
Never put up with unacceptable behavior, especially from people you consider your long term friends.
Don't smoke pot, it doesn't help you in any measurable way.
Learn how to play an instrument. One of my biggest regrets is not learning how to play guitar or piano, and it's far too late for me.
Don't watch porn, there's nothing for you there. It just warps your mind and makes you into an addict for depravity.
stay out of your house as often as you can. Nothing is going to happen at your house, but anything can happen when you go out.
Take college seriously. I wasted my time sitting around and half assing everything, my GPA is so shitty I can never go back for a masters.
Get fit while you're young, and stay fit. It's much harder to motivate yourself to exercise when your in your late 20s. I'm sure it's worse later on.
Always go after the girl. Seriously, if you think she might like you, always go for it. Don't worry about if your friends with her BF, or if you think it might be in bad taste... you'll regret it if you don't. Friends don't last forever, and if you go through your life without making any enemies you are a spineless coward that has never stood up for anything.
Just end it
High tier: Parents/family, friends, friends' parents/families.
Low tier: Internships, clubs, good old fashioned networking.
This dude gets it
Plenty of useless intelligent people out there.
Putting yourself in massive debt for some potential future is no longer a romantic idea.
Work at a bar.
Start a cult.
Buy a denim jacket.
Move to Vancouver. I was a lost boy from divorced parents looking for a purpose, so I moved around from city to city for 3 years until I landed in Vancouver. Vancouver CHANGED my life. Vancouver is home to some of the fastest growing tech companies. So many people there are loaded, it's just like silicone valley, but in Canada.
The only problem there is that it's really hard to meet a really nice girl there since they're either Asian and don't speak English, or they want a chad who makes a shitload of money. If you like weed and mushrooms and acid (etc), so do many Vancouverites. All summer long there are music festivals and parties. I did that to relive my youth, and now I am a fullfilled man mentally.
I feel you though on the professional side. I'm currently 31 and I have nothing to show for it. My last 4 girlfriends have all cheated on me...but things are slowly changing. I got out of the html "dream" and joined a trade. Since then I've been making gainz and have made the most money I've ever made in my life. It only took a year for me to turn my life around 360 degrees. I just bought a pickup truck (second vehicle ever owned), and people are starting to treat me with respect (that or I am demanding it now).
If you are experiencing depression, look into getting a supplement called 5htp: amazon.ca
"5-HTP dietary supplements help raise serotonin levels in the brain. Since serotonin helps regulate mood and behavior, 5-HTP may have a positive effect on sleep, mood, anxiety, appetite, and pain sensation."
You're still better off with any degree than no degree in most cases long-term. Short term yes, trades are good, but they fuck your body up and leave you without transferable skills unless you have the acumen to do consulting or start a business
Failure, stuck in a rut?
Join the army faggot. Get fit, get big, get in touch with your shadow, next 4 years minimum are all sorted for you. Do not stagnate.
Failure here too. Benzodiazepines and loneliness destroyed my life. I suppose I am the only to blame.
Waiting to take the bus on my next birthday this August.
26 and no wife OP?! Time to neck yourself man..
That's far more than most people on here. I've had sex twice with one disgusting fat girl and I'm 28. I didn't even like her. I'm guessing you at least felt something for some of the girls you've had sex with, most people on this board will never have that.
Think about this for a second. How many times was it great? How many times did she make you breakfast afterwards, or if she acknowledged you at all after the act?
You're ahead of the curve. Women get sex whenever they want, but we have to pay for that shit with blood sweat tears and sheckles. You're sad you had sex only that many times? Fuck off. I would kill for one good relationship with regular amazing sex with someone who gives a shit about me.
kys leaf. its the only noble thing to do
>die for isreal goy
I'd rather sell weed out of a trailer.
Ditch the opioids and alcohol. Just smoke weed. The weed can help you come off of the opioids if you're addicted. Remember that nothing lasts forever, including the bad stuff. Make a standard you can be proud of and live that. Get stable and live up to your own standard.
Learn some wilderness survival skills so that you can feel at home in the outdoors. It'll change your life, bro.
Stared into the abyss
Resolve to change who you are
Become a gym freak
Think about what services products aren't sold
Start a business
Build inner rage
Punch a mirror
Listen to I, Caligvla Ex Deo
Call your family weak and redpill them into oblivion
tell family they failed to raise you correctly
Be King Leonidas
True as Patron Saint JPB says, college teaches you how to form arguments and frame the world.
I'm glad I went, regardless of my major
dude weed lmao
the only option left for you is to find something you believe in and become a zealot. If your life is worthless then devote it to something that doesn't care about you but will turn out a result.
Or become a fanatic and devote yourself that may not turn out a result. Dress in mismatched robes, praise the word of Kek on the New York street corners.
This.
This is truth
Life should not be easy
White civilisation wasn't built on the back of people being lazy.
same as me but i have no access to opiates and im only 22
Who gives a shit if there are people married before you?
You know what they gave up when they decided to marry? Their ultimate potential
Personal Freedom.
Personal freedom to improve oneself, enjoy life more, and discover oneself.
>25
>no friends
>family thinks I'm a loser
>no job
>no addiction (probably because of the aforementioned no job)
/total fucking loser/ here.
I'm 49, i work a crappy retail job
No wife no kids,few expectations left in life.
Fuck it,make the most of your time.
I play music and fuck all the other stuff,desu its background noise.
No friends meme aint true yall
Your community is online.
II personally have a good time with all you guys
>most people
Lmao shit nigger GET OFF THE OPIATES NOW
And please stop the addiction to self pity
You can do it, 26 is fucking nothing, we're all in this together anyway
WE ARE ALL GOING TO MAKE IT
Nigga I need some faith from u
Maybe you just suck at selling. Have you considered hiring some salespeople and just paying them pure commission?
In any case, keep your head up man. In the world of entrepreneurship, failure is the rule, not the exception. I've faced similar circumstances and I know others who have too, so believe me when I say that your situation isn't unique. Learn, adapt, and if you have to, move on, but DON'T give up.
You sound like a feminist.
Kidding aside, the ideal life is a loving wife at a young age. Too late for many of us.
Your family probably just thinks you want to work it out on your own
They love you and want to help in anyway they can man
It's true. Swallow your ego, admit weakness and turn to them. That's what family is for. Make sure to return the favour when they need help.
Sup Forums is unironically the best friend many of us have.
I can't wait for the happening to finally happen with all of you.
Aircraft Maintenance Engineer here
29 yo
£53,000 salary
2 sons
Married for 5 years
Happy
If you are good with your hands/can solve real world problems then engineering is for you
If you hate difficult real world technical problems then engineering is not for you
I have never worked with a competent female engineer before
Maybe they exist somewhere in fantasyland
They always need constant help and hand holding