How do I get a redpilled QT gf or wife?

I'm talking about someone like pic related, I want to live the trad life and I don't know where people find good looking right wing girls to date or marry....

Have been trying the following to improve:
>doing nofap/noporn, made it 1 week so far
>starting working out, although i need a real routine if anyone can recommend one
>started taking more of Jordan Peterson's advice, trying to sort myself out
>playing less vidya
>trying to eat healthier
>already read a lot of books/research for my future profession but not enough other interesting ones, any recommendations?
>trying to waste less time on stupid bullshit, although sometimes autism strikes and i got on Sup Forums

Anything else that I should be doing to try to improve? I really hate most of the girls that are around me currently, a lot of the girls in my area are purple haired triggered feminists with septum piercings.

I just want a nice girl who isn't completely degenerate.

Other urls found in this thread:

youtube.com/watch?v=5J9Au3sU1hw
returnofkings.com/84099/5-reasons-why-learning-self-defense-is-non-negotiable
youtube.com/watch?v=fEltf4UuFss
evilcyber.com/fitness/home-workout-plan-beginners/
outofthefog.website/what-to-do-2/2015/12/3/know-the-rules-of-relationships
outofthefog.website/what-to-do-2/2015/12/3/boundaries
youtube.com/watch?v=4AHH0bdNKyM
amazon.com/Red-Pill-Orgasm-Woman-Orgasms-ebook/dp/B00KC6R5DC
amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1502468916&sr=8-2&keywords=no more mr nice guy
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-lift weights
-tell the truth
-never apologize

Be black. White girls love black men.

ok so i'm already doing those except the never apologizing thing, i will work on that
no trad girls probably don't like black guys, you mean degenerate roasties, i'm not talking about them.... like i said in the my OP

Women get their political opinions via seminal osmosis. Don't drop too many red pills at first. That will scare them off. Just fuck her good and be subtle about the JQ.

getting advice on Sup Forums is the best thing you can do. trust this hue, we're dealing with the top 1% of the genetic poll on this board.

Get fit, feel confident, and insert yourself in social circles where these girls are. Church, online groups, wherever.

jesus christ this thread is cringe

Don't look for a "red-pilled" girl. If she's too political on either side, probably keep looking.

Always hint but never reveal your power level. Many girls are sick with leftism too but won't come out due to fear of ostracism.
t. Banging a fash waifu

When will this meme die

You don't, because women can't be red pilled. All they do is LARP.

Be sexy. Confident. Financially stable. Thick cock.

If you don't already live a "trad" life, in an area where women like this are found, you never will. You're already a degenerate, not living in those areas, and women like that will never accept you.
You post on Sup Forums, dummy. No decent women will ever want you.

Women don't have political opinions, you fucking neckbeard.
The only approach your gf/wife should have is "well, he's a man and knows more about politics than I do."

If that's not the case, guess what, you're a beta orbiter.
Sage for this /r9k/-tier beta thread.

yea i don't know where they are though? i only know about the trad life right wing youtube girls like the pic up there
is it really that bad that i want the trad life?
why not...?
yea that makes sense if she is lefty but the girls in the OP pic have already come out about their redpilledness

how so?
what...?
lol achmed this isn't islam our wives are allowed to speak
probably never considering these shills literally envy black men, and fancy them more than women

You're wrong, you obviously haven't been to a North American university

Steer away from cake faces like in your pic

>>trying to waste less time on stupid bullshit, although sometimes autism strikes and i got on Sup Forums


I hear that user here are some helpful reminders in different aspects

physical fitness
youtube.com/watch?v=5J9Au3sU1hw

combine that with a 3k-10k run to balance out circulation, don't forget to combine lifting weights

you want to be strong but also flexible not bulky

self defense heres an article on why
returnofkings.com/84099/5-reasons-why-learning-self-defense-is-non-negotiable

Work on game
Return of the kings is a great reminder about dealing with women and other shit in general

this guy also kinda great in a way, his advice is pretty sound. It was also great because it made me realize if this pastey motherfucker can get puss , then I damn sure can get it and so can you user.

you don't think that they are attractive user? if that's true can you link me some girls you do find attractive?

The kraut got this right.

You don't find a rp gf, you create one

If you know your stuff it's really easy

of fuck forgot the link for the last one here you go
youtube.com/watch?v=fEltf4UuFss

Do you think they swap places to share boyfriends?

Dominate her by fucking her ass like a cat. V hurricane. Then she will be obedient, ready to swallow the red pill.

Go to church.

how does one go about redpilling a gf?
thank you for both of these, this is some good shit and i will save these links
no gross
how does a semi-beta loser like myself get good in bed?

go to church, pretend to be religious on dating sites, fuck hookers until get married to the virgin

>how does a semi-beta loser like myself get good in bed?
Buy a real doll and fuck that thing everyday. Don't have $5000 to buy one? Get a job. I'm assuming you live with your parents so you shouldn't have difficulty saving up for one. You're guaranteed to become a sex guru and your confidence will skyrocket as a result.

in terms of what you should look for in a potential girl i think
1.from a conservative family
2.has a father
3.is either neutral or leaning right

from there you can redpill her just don't try and do it all at once it is a slow process

don't even bother if she's left wing there's no hope in changing those girls they are exclusively fuck and chuck they're not worth your time

also, improve yourself as much as possible

Women don't become redpilled on their own. They just adopt the political beliefs of the most powerful man in their life. Just find an apolitical normie girl and slowly redpill her yourself.

Make a lot of money. You can have any woman You want. I make 200K and have a stay at home wife 2 kids and a 3000sqft home in the burbs.

Also look at her parent's marriage. Analyze her mother's behavior closely and see how she treats her husband. Those are good indicators to how your gf will interact with you if you two get married.

nah i don't live with my parents, i have a job and shit i am just in the process of trying to get a much better one after i graduate, but thanks for trolling me a bit
how does one go about redpilling her? just drop subtle hints or something? how did you do it?
how do i redpill them though? this is good shit though thank you
after i graduate, it will take a few years but i will be making a lot of money

Just focus on yourself and your self-improvement. Women are a waste of time and will only drag you down. If you want kids one day either adopt or get a surrogate.

these are both really good, thank you man these are good tips

Baptist churches. Bonus points for Southern Baptists.
But only if you plan on making a lot of children, otherwise stay away.

>starting working out, although i need a real routine if anyone can recommend one
For complete beginners I recommend this routine, which requires almost no outlay:
evilcyber.com/fitness/home-workout-plan-beginners/

I'd like to include these links too, which give sound general advice on relationships. They may not seem to apply to you, but read them anyway:

outofthefog.website/what-to-do-2/2015/12/3/know-the-rules-of-relationships

outofthefog.website/what-to-do-2/2015/12/3/boundaries

>How do I get a redpilled QT gf or wife?

Just give the bitch a good dicking and upon making her nut a good amount of times slowly redpill her on your views and show conviction in what you believe in without giving a fuck about what she says. also pic related

How much do Tyrone and Jamal make?

what the fuck dude? you don't ever want to have kids?

what are you focusing on for your own self improvement?
yes i would like to have a lot of children when i am in a good financial position to do so, which won't be too long from now

Find a woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and dick her into your way of being. If you can make a woman love you, she will adopt your philosophy fanatically.

One other thing, if her saliva tastes good you likely have a strong genetic compatibility, and she would therefor be a good candidate for bearing your children. I always find it strange that markers like this are not talked about more in these borderline /r9k/ threads. If she smells fantastic even when not covered in perfumes and soaps, this can be another predictor of compatibility.

>t. married oldfag

ok friendo, now i just have to get really good in bed and find a qt gf
what the fuck is wrong with you??

wow this is good and rare advice, thank you wise leaf

why do you mean borderline /r9k/? never actually been to that place

so far everyone has given similar advice to dick a girl into your views... i just need to get good in bed now... any good tips lol (ok this sounds embarassing as fuck good thing this is anonymous)

>what the fuck dude? you don't ever want to have kids?

No. Honestly if anyone looks at today's rampant postrmodernism/degeneracy/rapid decline of the West, and still wants to bring kids into a world like this, I think they're either crazy or just really naive. If you want to do it go ahead, but I recommend you remove women from the equation as much as possible, hence why I advised adoption or surrogacy.

>what are you focusing on for your own self improvement?

I lift, I study for my profession (machining), I go shooting on weekends. Better than just being some office nu-male who beta provides like 80% of men seem to be nowadays.

>how do you redpill them
Start by making funny jokes in bad taste. They'll laugh in an "oh you that's awful" no d of way. Then just occasionally drop subtle little redpills in conversation. Be sure to dissuade degeneracy whenever possible, expressing overt disgust for things like tattoos, dyed hair, and open relationships whenever possible. She will steer away from it instinctively just to keep you happy and interested. Also, as much as I hated to admit it, entry level alt right personalities (like milo) work wonders on women.

Aside frrom that, just be a good boyfriend and act like a man, or else she won't respect you enough for any of this to work.

i have actually that about that, the same way as you are saying it

but think about it like this -- kids are hope for a better future. we can have kids that can help to reverse the damaging effects of degeneracy and postmodernism and we can make the world a good place once again

thank you! this is good i do think that milo works on entry level alt right personalities as well, he has a lot of attractive girls that come to his speeches and shit -- one reason i think is because feminists shame them for being good looking and not degen roasties and such

Brittney's pretty redpilled, not so much on the JQ and ethno/white natioalism. Not now at least. Do you find it a bit odd, or rather, do you get a bit put off by her having dated a nigger a couple of years ago? Can she be forgiven for such a thing? She stated in her AskMe that she doesn't really have a preference for race, but I'm pretty sure that she'd prefer to marry and have kids with a white guy at the end of the day.

>Leaf wants a date
>Heads to the Tinder store
>Rows upon rows of bags of saliva
>Take out your spoon and start sampling

The day of the rake cant come soon enough

be normal, and not on Sup Forums.

then just go out of your basement and outside and talk to females.

btw, because of assortive mating, you're most likely to land QTs in the same league as you.

1/2
First start slow with the asshole, never ever rush, start with touching her asshole while doggying her cunt.
A few times later try tu put the tip of your index finger, if she rejects it, then stop, think about winning the war not the battle.
The best way to get your woman to like the butt stuff is by rimming her ass. Your first try should be after giving her a proper head. Try to stimulate her ass as delicate as possible.
After a few times try to enhance her sences by fingering her asshole while eating her cunt. If she likes it then it's the right time to start penetrating her shitpipe.
Never do it in the morning though, let her take a shit first. From my experience I know that late evening is the best. Watch her react to your actions user, if she won't reject you finger while plowing her pussy then you know that she is certain that her rectum is empty. Don't be afraid to cum in seconds after fitting the tip of your dick in her asshole, you might even cum without entering her properly, it's not a shame, your just hella excited, let her know that what happened was awesone and really romantic.
My best advice is to always think how to please her as effective as possible, then she will let you profane her asshole more often.
The best positions to penetrate a womens asshole are the spoon and doggy. If you have enough stamina, dickgame to make her cum diring the vaginal sex, and you want to destroy that chocolate starfish, avoid making her cum at any cost. Women tend to tighten their muscles after a orgasm, and it also includes the asshole.
As far as I know, there is no thing lika a anal orgasm, there are only vaginal and clitoral orgasm achieved during stimulating the vagina, clitoris through anal penetration. The best orgsms that I helped a woman to get, were while stimulating the clitoris during a reverse cowgirls butt fucking.

>yes i would like to have a lot of children when i am in a good financial position to do so, which won't be too long from now
If you don't have problems with reading and following the Bible (which is anti-degeneracy and traditional) you'll fit right in. They teach their women to be submissive servants and stay at home with their children.
Usually they will not have premarital sex (which is degeneracy as well) with anyone, but at least they are pure and it's definitely worth the wait.

Don't listen to this good goyim. We need to breed if we don't want to go extinct. Traditionalists will eventually take over while degenerates will become gay, abort their children and force their women to work instead of having children.

People on here are not going to want to here this but if you want a traditional feminine submissive wife that wants marriage, children and to stay at home then you got to find yourself a second or third generation immigrant girl.

My gf is a high caste pajeetess and all she wants to have babies and take care of me and them. Plus she knows how to cook delicious food and is submissive in the bedroom. It's /comfy/.

No problem user glad to help we've all been there at some point or another even tupac youtube.com/watch?v=4AHH0bdNKyM

see my post about answering your question

also when I said giving her a good dicking theres that you know the motion with the ocean but also learn cunnilingus, if your one of those guys that doesn't mind eating pussy, if not or if you do add knowing how to finger her g-spot good. If you don't know this already women love fore-play that build up of sexual tension really gets the bitch wet especially when you take charge of her for the whore she is. Be sure to come off passionate and read body language when your doing it, her body will tell you more than her lying mouth will. Never forget its all about the build up to her cumming not some wam bam thank you mam immediate fuck, you don't want the bitch to think your a 13 year old boy with no experience. Speeding shit up will come but don't forget read the bitches body language. In terms of no fap and porn try to give your self reminders like pic related to help combat that shit.

>We need to breed if we don't want to go extinct.
And when I'm dead, how will this benefit me? Whether or not the white race goes extinct is out of my control. One white child can't compete with 100 Tyrones, Muhammads and Pajeets.

>Yes good goyim. Nothing matters, we will all die so just submit to us without resistance.
Nihilism is the worst kind of degeneracy ever created.

Jokes on you, I'm black myself.

how do you know she dated a black guy? any proof of this? anyway they are just an example of the type of girl i am looking for
yea i think i would be okay with that if it was the right girl

also i agree we do need to breed!
thanks a lot man, i will try to read more up on this, i know i sound like a loser but is there any like guides on this kind of stuff? i actually found one once but it cost a bit of money...

are you doing nofap too?

>BONG BONG BONG roars in the distance
>Oi m8, time to recolonize India
>Faithful dothead looks up after reading copious literature about the benefits of pooing in the toilet like a civilized gent
>"Im about to Mo'hot'med Gonna-give-it-to-ya"
>Wife chuckles deeply and prepares for missionary
>squirts out a whole pack of call center ready poos in 9 months

2/2
I assume that you've watched a shit load of porn in your life and "plain" stuff like vag sex does not arouse you. The butt stuff on the other hand is so exciting that performing it live makes you get a orgasm immediately.
If you're not ready with a gentle and long lasting buttfucking, you will not dominate the women. Not yet.
There's a way to do it faster though. Let her blow you and then you stimulate her orally. After a few minutes of gentle stimulation your dick should be able to work again.
This is the moment to do the domination ritual. First, eat her ass to the point where she want's your D' in her backpipe, spoonfuck her as delicate as you can to loosen her up while observing if she touches her clitoris. If she's doing it, take her on top and do a reverse cowgirl while touching her clit. If it gets stiff it's your time to attack. Increase the tempo of pounding and rubbing her at the same time.
Do it till she'll have the biggest orgasm of her life.
This is the moment to finalize her obedience throu her anus.
After she came dont's stop fucking her, turn her on her knees and pound as hard as possible, even if the pressure is too high for you and you cum, don't stop, just think about furniture and plough.
She will be all tighter due to her orgasm, but her ming will be opend. Opend for your fury and cavemen tier savagery that you prepared for her shitter.
After that she's your's. She will never have a session like that again and she will be your female.
This is the time to start installing your knowledge in her ming. She's ready for the red pill.

That's another big lie people are told. You don't need to be a total rock star in the sack, because if you find a compatible mate the hormones the two of you produce during intercourse will make the sex feel better, at least during the first 8-24 month honeymoon phase of the relationship. During this time, you will naturally come to know what makes the other feel good. This helps a great deal when that period of time ends, and the relationship has to stand on the foundation you have built.

That first year or two have become so fetishized in the media that you rarely see people talk about what comes after. Once the hormone kick wears off, the relationship will mature into real romance. That means a relationship built on mutual reverence and respect. You'll come to be each other's best friends, and closer. You'll both come to a point where you would both kill and die for each other because you are the strongest bond in your mutual lives.

Just remember to communicate, I cannot stress that enough. In the five real fights we've had in ten years, all of them have been because of miscommunication on some level.

Just ignore the /r9k/ comment btw, I've just seen way too much >tfw no gf shitposting that turns into thinly veiled woman hate threads. It's like people don't remember that women are absolutely necessary if you want a family.

I wish you luck, user.

i have and usually watched vanilla porn desu, but i am doing nofap and noporn now so i have stopped watching it

For a start, you can't redpill a woman. Women adopt the view of the dominant male in their life.
The best thing you can do is to work on yourself, get hobbies and see if you can monetise them in any way, and just walk over those feminazis.
Less degenerate women can be found at libraries, groceries, etc. Think of where a housewife would spend her time when not at home.

thank you! ok this may sound pathetic but i saw a guide for how to make a girl orgasm but i think it cost money... do i sound retarded for even considering this?

yea i realize you are right they do really fetishize the honeymoon phase, hopefully i can have someone where we can become best friends and would kill/die for each other

COMMUNICATION got it

another thing i have heard is that if you live by this it will work "always put your partner before yourself"

also i am not some woman hater (and i know you aren't accusing me of that) i am just a hopeless romantic TRYING to be a not so hopeless romantic


Thank you so much for the help!

Each girl is different in this.
When the time comes to fuck her, listen to how she responds and fish for the best results. It's not necessary to ask, just focus on areas and see what she does.

By the way because every girl responds differently, asking a woman for sexual or romantic advice is utterly useless.

It's not that they aren't attractive, but they use a lot of make-up, a solid red flag. I like natural looking girls with blond hair and blue eyes. My girlfriend has that and she only uses a very moderate amount of make-up. Why dress up like a clown when you look good?

Just avoid the fashionistas and the usual other red flags like facial piercings, dyed hair, visible tattoos and overly slutty clothing

yeah... ok this sounds retarded but like i said i saw one guide about how to be good in bed

how much of a loser am i for considering this? and is it even a remotely good idea?

Irrelevant. As soon as she puts out, the cunt's your oyster.

either way it was just an example of redpill girls that i find attractive... but yes thank you for the advice i appreciate everyone in the thread trying to help

We are not meant to look for 'redpilled' girls. Get it out of your head. Unless they are chronic virtue signallers, girls won't give a shit about politics or the world in general.

Instead, we should be looking for decent women. Aim for a healthy virgin who has a normal life. Don't bother with fatties. Don't tolerate mental illnesses (including meme depression and anxiety) as they will bite you in the ass later on through her mental breakdowns or your children becoming spergs. My advice would be to volunteer or scope out hobby clubs. I've considered volunteering just to find a girl. Every time a visit a charity there is always one or two young qts who seem pretty good-natured.

No problem. I had been doing it for a while relapsed just before I hit my 6th month, worst fucking mistake of my life, all those fucking GAINS man. After that though I was determined never ever again , I'm on month 3 now after my relapse feels good bro, jsut always stay focus on how harmful it is and how it will make you less of a man and a limp dick faggot if you don't quit the shit, the limp dick faggot part is real dude. Not only does porn make men curious it also makes them have ed and a 1 minute man, because they are desensitized and over anxious from the porn. Seriously dude it also makes you insecure, i'm black and fucking blacked.com was making me question the size of my dick, i was like wtf I've never done that shit before, man fuck this shit its literally turning me into a beta or worse a woman. Knowing about all those angel angles the camera does to make the dick look bigger help me realize it was all an illusion, one of many that the porn industry thrives on, along with the fake way people have sex.

As to where to find them, that's difficult, because the ones you want don't really go to bars and clubs. If you're still in school, try to approach the more demure ones and don't focus on looks too much. After all, whether you want it or not, you have grown used to find certain types of girls attractive and those are usually the ones you want to avoid. Of course, there might be that one in a thousand qt traditional grill, but you want the inside, not the outside.

amazon.com/Red-Pill-Orgasm-Woman-Orgasms-ebook/dp/B00KC6R5DC

is this type of thing a complete meme? someone also told me i should read the rational male and stuff like that? this is some PUA tier garbage i guess?

You want a pic related girl? Good fucking luck. They're constantly taken and wined and dined on a regular basis. Sorry bro, be realistic.

That reminds me, today I saw some girl on Tineder which looks terribly cute and innocent, her profile description said ''not single, just expanding my options here''.

Yes, it's a meme. It's meant as a cash cow to sell books and shit to thirsty beta males. Just have self confidence, work on your appearance and your social skills. Some PUA tricks might work, but you don't want to 'pick up' girls, you want a solid, long term relationship with a loving girl, someone who you can trust and rely on and who can in turn rely on you. A two-person team to survive the decadent and degenerate world we are sorry to live in

how do you know that retard? wined and dined? ok that is easy as fuck, literally anyone can do that for a girl

i just want to improve to the point where i can get a girl like this and settle down to have lots of kids

correct i don't want to pick up girls, that is what i suspected is that it was a meme PUA type of scheme

yea i want a long term relationship thank you man i appreciate the advice

is that rational male book also a complete meme scheme?

The fuck you're calling me a retard for?
You can fuck right off , I'm outta here
Fucking autists, you're gonna die alone.

you can't even form a rational point that isn't a strawman of a type of person you probably have no experience with

Best is to avoid all those self help books altogether. Rule of thumb: if any book whatsoever has the name of the author on the cover in a larger font than the title and/or has a photo of the author on it, disregard it, excluding some rare exceptions.

Yeah, don't spend money on that crap. It's really not that difficult to make a woman orgasm. Another user already pointed out a relatively flawless technique. Just lick her clitoris, and use a finger to stimulate the g-spot inside the vagina. Use a sort of "come hither" motion (make sure to clip your nails) about two-three inches in just behind the pubic bone. It will feel different than other areas, sort of ribbed. Be gentle, and listen to what her body is telling you.

As for putting your partner before yourself, it's not terrible advice, but it only works if it's totally mutual. Again, it's communication, and that's a two way street. It's more like everything becomes mutual, there's a balance between putting her first and ignoring your own needs. It's good advice, but I could see it being taken too far and causing an imbalance in the relationship. If you both live by it, it works, but if only one person does, then it causes tension and the relationship will suffer for it.

Just be an alpha male criminal who beats the shit out of people.

amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1502468916&sr=8-2&keywords=no more mr nice guy

is this book also a complete meme PUA type thing? this guy is a real PhD I think

"based" stickman oh god no

G-spot is a meme too. Just gently rub her vagina and when it gets wet, gently rub the clitoris with your finger. Continue until she starts shaking. Few women easily orgasm from intravaginal stimulation only (i.e. the old in 'n' out). If you had her come from fingering, you can easily slide in and she can come a lot faster from regular fucking afterwards. If not, rest on one stretched arm and stimulate clitoris with your free hand during intercourse. This order has the added benefit that she already came so if you prematurely ejaculate because of little experience or a long dry spell, it's not that bad

No idea about that book, but one that helped me a great deal was The Dyadic Cyclone by Dr. John C. Lilly. Great book by a very interesting man. He also wrote Programming and Metaprogramming the Human Biocomputer, which I would also recommend.

ok once again i am going to sound like a cuck loser but are there any legitimate guides for how to make a girl orgasm?

Also this guy has a really solid outlook on how to get a girl off, although I'm not an anal guy anymore the principals of taking your time and starting off slow is really good advice. He is especially on point about stimulating the clitoris, whether your massaging a woman's' clit with your fingers on one hand and simultaneously fingering her g spot with the other hand, (always trim your nails women hate it when a guy with medium or long unclean nails jam their fingers in their pussy hurts like hell) or licking the walls of her labia don't forget to lick and suck (not with your teeth) the clitoris.

Most books are about positions and mindsets,and how they stimulate women, such as Sex and the Perfect Lover- Tao, Tantra, and the Kama Sutra but theres also the book Sex God Method - 2nd Edition by Daniel Rose sorry if these don't help I've never got the time to sit down and read them but heard some good stuff, review wise. Don't worry, we all had to learn something new at some point in life, hope I could help in any way. Pic related was another friendly reminder for me on why porn is cancer, never again bro.

>women
>redpilled

user, I...

>G-spot is a meme too. Just gently rub her vagina and when it gets wet, gently rub the clitoris with your finger. Continue until she starts shaking. Few women easily orgasm from intravaginal stimulation only (i.e. the old in 'n' out). If you had her come from fingering, you can easily slide in and she can come a lot faster from regular fucking afterwards. If not, rest on one stretched arm and stimulate clitoris with your free hand during intercourse. This order has the added benefit that she already came so if you prematurely ejaculate because of little experience or a long dry spell, it's not that bad
wow thanks man, my last question is there any legit way to make yourself last longer in bed?

Go hang out where conservative girls hang out. Church, library, local volunteer events. Conservative girls are just that, conservative, and they will rarely make the first move unlike their skank regressive counterparts. Keep improving yourself and carry yourself in a way that will make a woman want you. When you talk to women it will all fall into place. Ps being attractive helps big time so if you don't have it in the face, make up for it in the body. Cheers.

thanks man, definitely gonna try more local volunteering :)

You can use tricks like thinking of something gross or masturbatinh just before you go on a date or whatever, but I'd advise to just enjoy the moment and don't worry too much. If you have a nice girl, she will appreciate the foreplay and you'll automatically last longer after a few times. Worrying too much can actually worsen premature ejaculation or, worse, make you go limp. The worst mistake you can make is worrying too much and ruining what should be an intimate and emotional moment with someone you love because you saw on the internet that you should be some kind of porn star. Porn is mostly fiction, remember that well. You really don't want to know how actual porn actors achieve what you see on pornhub

It's definitely a meme term, but if you look at the internal anatomy of the clitoris you can see that it extends inward, that was more what I was referring to.

Forgot to note, books are useful, but don't treat them as pure gospel. If the relationship is right, it will just evolve naturally.

>revolving your life around the pursuit of a woman
You're just abandoning any identity to chase after an imposed dream, worse than beta males, but go ahead, let them lecture you on how you must carry yourself to impress upon women, while women reciprocate in no manner at all beyond abuse.

Addendum; stop watching porn altogether.

Yes, that is true. But anything besides the actual clitoris has very little sensation compared to the clitoris itself. The vaginal wall and labia become much more sensitive during arousal, but still remain much less sensitive than the clitoris. It should be noted that the clitoris becomes much more sensitive during arousal too, it actually retracts during non-arousal so it can barely be stimulated from a 'dry' situation, hence the need for foreplay

A third generation Indian girl born and raised in the UK is 1000 times more sophisticated then any American girl.

Have a lot of sex. The first couple of times, if you come too quickly, just laugh it off and get back at it in a couple of minutes. Don't make a big deal out of it and she won't care.