Has the introduction of porn into society destroyed the modern family and led to the decadence of good personalities?
It seems that after several dozen - possibly hundreds - studies on this subject, it becomes apparent that there are only negative effects that stem from the use of any porn, the only positive attribute of this being the pleasure that is gained while viewing it.
So what does this mean for an entire society that has incorporated the viewing of pornography into its underlying structure?
>what is invoking controversial political discussion
Elijah Murphy
Back then you'd have to speak to ugly girls if you wanted easy pussy
now you can just google it. At the end of the day the orgasm sensation is the same
Justin Bennett
>At the end of the day the orgasm sensation is the same
It actually starts to decline the more you do it and with your porn habit getting deeper and deeper.
Sebastian Lee
the same would happen after having sex with ur gf for some time
Dominic Howard
according to the coolidge effect, exactly that happens
we're numbing ourselves much, much more with the use of porn though
Ian Russell
feminism destroyed families.
Brody Perry
After 7 days of holding, I shamefully relapsed during the night. At least the porn I jacked off to was'nt degenerate (white couple fucking, man had a below average penis however...)
I thought that using Adaway (hosts file to block ads and also porn sites) it would cut my access but I can easily delete the hosts file temporarily to do my thing. I need advices on the mental and willpower aspect. The thing I don't understand is that moments before going to the porn sites I was trying to rationalize what I was doing, to come up with reasons to stop but they were brushed off instantly by thoughts like "kek porn is not as bad as you think don't believe Sup Forums not everything is done by the jews"
What the fuck do I do to cure my addiction ?
Justin Mitchell
reproductive urges are a trap.
Brody Reyes
stop being French. i was, now i'm not
Tyler Russell
Yea it's been super hard for me so far and I used to visit /gif/ a couple times a day.
You just have to get site blocker attachments and put passwords on them that you won't remember, you might still find loopholes however.
There are lots of studies that show you how bad it is, so it's not something Sup Forums is making up in the slightest. You just gotta put everything into stopping bud.
Benjamin Clark
You'd assume the only non-animated porn which doesn't indoctrinate you to being cucked (i.e. watching another man give a woman the dicking) is POV style filming. It is a strange coincidence that these videos are overwhelmingly incest-themed....
Daniel Diaz
Shit user, I'm 9-11 days in and struggling still. But my mind is stronger, I just have a constant urge to jack off - which why I stopped this shit.
You need to be wanting to fuck a bird, not be turned on by some stupid kike whore on a computer screen. Look at it this way, you're making progress.
Next time go longer without and fap to a picture. Use Nadine Jenson or something.
Eli Hernandez
Get a gf and fuck her daily
Kayden Peterson
No. Its just that nobody seems to want to lead a normal life. That's just not good enough anymore.
Its not just porn. Its everything.
Jayden Lopez
Just fap to your imagination. More days between faps when you do this. Build from that.
Hunter Thompson
Focus on incremental gains user. 7 days is a great start. Identify what makes you relapse, what triggers your desire for porn, what makes you want that over doing something more fulfilling.
Don't rationalize away your desires. Confront them, head on. Tell yourself "I'm going to jack it to porn. This is bad for me, but it feels good." Once you confront it, it becomes easier to fight.
Tyler Martinez
The main benefit of watching porn isnt the immediate satisfaction.
The main benefit is that you can bypass your natural instinct to go get a woman pregnant.
By doing this you are able to extend your main resource accumulating years without the burden providing for 2, 3, or 4 other mouths.
As human longevity goes up, the different stages of life must also be extended accordingly. Adolescence used to end at 18, now it extends to mid 20s. Look it makes no sense to have babies starting at 16 when with modern technology you are going to live well into your 90s if you take care of yourself.
It does make sense to have babies at 16 when you are likely going to die in your 30s or 40s from infection or a bee sting or something as proto-humans were.
But we still have the same DNA as those people and the same desires. Porn makes it so you dont have to have babies or a wife till your mid 30s. You can relieve your natural urges while extending the most dedicated money making years.
Im early 30s and am in talks right now to buy my first apartment complex. At the rate Im going in life, before I turn 40 I will own two apartment complexes and be collecting rent from around 30 people. Turning 50 while still "going to work" is out of the question for me. While all the people around me had babies in their early 20s and are now stuck working a hard job just to maintain a lower middle-class existence that they will never emerge from.
Worried about a lowered Testosterone level in your 30s and 40s? Ya, this is 2017. We have TRT for that. Staying young is a choice. As long as you have the finances you can stay young.
How am I able to do all this? Im a porn addict.
I avoid long term entanglements with resource-draining western women because Ive already drained my nuts each night before bed on 10 digital Kate Uptons. And dont even get me started on VR porn. Let me just say shit is going to be changing a lot in the sexual marketplace in the west in coming years.
Kevin Morales
But how will I ever find a mate if I keep jacking it so much? Easy. When the first chapter of my presumably 90 year life comes to a close, around mid-30s for me, you close the book on that chapter. That means quitting porn. Quit porn and you will go out and get a girl pregnant. It will happen. Unless you are some highly autistic disfigured ogre it will happen. Its in the natural process of humans.
So I get the best of both worlds. I get a high quality wife and family because I dont have to settle because Im rich, and I live a life a personal luxury and spiritual enrichment from all the time I get to myself in that first chapter.
For women its the pill. For men its porn.
This may not work for every man. I was blessed with naturally high T.
Is there cons to porn? Absolutely. But the point here is that there certainly is benefits to porn. Any disagreement to that would be absurdly myopic.
David Adams
>“Thus, a good man, though a slave, is free; but a wicked man, though a king, is a slave. For he serves, not one man alone, but, what is worse, as many masters as he has vices.” – St. Augustine,City of God
Since you don't seem to be interested in sex outside of a screen anyway, why don't you just withhold yourself entirely and invest your saved energy into your business?
You could be where you're at now plus a shit load more due to your abstinence. Take a look at all the famous people who didn't ejaculate at all (could still have sex but only she would ejaculate).
Even Nicola Tesla attributes his success to the avoidance of sexual pleasure.
Chase Jones
Pretty much this. I like porn cause any idea you can think of they have several videos of it already. Real life girls barely give head or even think about anal. My last gf was so boring in bed I passed out when she was on top. A lot of girls want slow and romantic sex, the opposite of what the average man wants.
Liam Rivera
Look man, I'm currently in day 88 of nofap. Not watching port it masterbating. I try to avoid porn or sexually explicit images at all costs. Sometimes I do come across these images like on Sup Forums where they post blacked and stuff like that. If I do look at these images, I immediately look away. For some motivation, if you're still in college (I'm assuming you're in college), nofap will seriously boost your grades. I'm not kidding. When I used to masterbate and I would have an exam in a week or two, I would stop doing it. My grades skyrocketed, I shit you not. Now I am not attributing it all to nofap, as of course my hard work in studying paid off, but I believe that I was more focused and I wasn't interested in seeing pornography. Furthermore, your testosterone levels will skyrocket, making your voice incredibly deeper, and as a result making you seem more attractive. I've always had a deep voice, but after I started nofap, my voice has never been deeper, even I get surprised at times when I hear myself speak let's say in class or to someone else. Combine increased test levels from nofap with increased test levels from going to the gym (if you're not already going you should, it really helps your mind get off of pornography), think of what that would do to you. Another added benefit is the most studied I think, you won't be an antisocial freak anymore when talking to girls. When I used to jack off I would sometimes be shy I guess and I would only think of fucking them, nothing else. If you're fit and you're on nofap, you won't just think of girls as sex objects, you would be more confident in speaking to them, and you would have even more confidence in yourself as a whole. One more thing, after I started nofap for a while, I've noticed myself being less depressed and angry at everything and at myself. You should really do it man. At least for 90 days. If you reach those 90 days and you relapse, try again. You can do it user.
Jayden Cooper
I really dont get it. Anal has always disgusted me, why would one want that?
Camden Ward
Your body is naturally made for a release. Its actually unhealthy to not ejaculate.
For High T men or even average men, going no fap means increased sexual energy. Unless you are living as an isolated hermit in the hills, that increase in sexual energy translates to attracting women and getting one pregnant.
Revolting against nature will lead to nothing but disappointment.
I dont believe your suggestion is realistic at all.
Oliver Bennett
Everyone read what this guy says and imagine that thousands upon thousands are saying the exact same thing.
This shit works and completely changes your life.
Jackson Reed
>Its actually unhealthy to not ejaculate
Can you explain why it's unhealthy? What bad things am I doing to my brain or body if I stop ejaculating/watching porn?
Owen Green
>Guys Who Don’t Ejaculate Frequently Could Have A Higher Risk Of Prostate Cancer
>Prostate cancer accounts for 15 percent of all new cancer diagnoses worldwide, the researchers note in the journal European Urology. Established risk factors like age, race and family history are not “modifiable,” they add, and there are few lifestyle changes that can be recommended to men to lower risk.
Pardon the Jewingtonpost link but its the first result that came up.
You can look at the science or just think of it from a common sense perspective. Your balls fill up once a day. They are meant to be expelled and fill up again.
I repeat. Im not telling you to watch porn. Just dont pretend abstinence from ejaculation is health because its not.
Elijah Cook
You're 0.5% more likely to get prostate cancer when you're 90.
Besides, you should be ejaculating inside your wife and making (or at least trying) her pregnant with your kids.
David Mitchell
The prostate argument is completely invalid since there haven't been any studies on control groups that are attempting nofap.
Also, , you told me "Its actually unhealthy to not ejaculate." implying you already know yet you just had to look up and take the first thing you can find which isn't even real proof to what you're saying.
I think you should perhaps come to terms with the fact that you're actually hurting yourself with your addiction.
Jace Watson
I would like to add one more thing, character limit from previous post reached. I see some people talking about how if you're on nofap you would have so much semen inside of you and it's unhealthy and all that. You should then jack off. Wrong. The only time semen should leave your body is when you have sex (and ejaculate of course), and when you have wet dreams and you ejaculate in your sleep. It's your body's way of naturally ridding itself of excess semen. Those are the only times when this is applicable.
Aaron Ramirez
I'll try. The problem I have with this idea is that my imagination will probably be related to porn induced fantasies
This is what I originally planned but I can't seem to find one. I tried going to a bar for hitting on girls but I pussied out
Holy shit, thanks user. Your post really hyped me into pursuing the fight. You guessed right, I'm going to start college tomorrow so I'll keep your advice in mind before taking exams, or even classes. And don't worry for the workout, I'm also re enrolling in my boxing club tomorrow so I hope my mind will be distracted enough to avoid porn.
Caleb Ramirez
One thing to do is to replace fapping with something active or productive. Even if it's minor. Either walk up and down the street, a few sit ups/push ups/squats/etc.
If it gets extreme you can just get rid of home internet and only go online in public.
Carter Thompson
tfw addicted to the pornographic and sugary jew
Jackson Bennett
Start slow with the sugar. Like say "I will balance sugary drinks with water." And do the same with coffee and tea.
Cooper Perry
What if I'd rather jack it than deal with women though? Why do I want some emotional creature who has me at a complete disadvantage at all times in the legal system?
Bentley Williams
Just stop going to Ica and start going to the gym.
Gabriel Brooks
There are so many things that are "bad for society" that It's just a drop in the bucket. That being said I don't necessarily agree with your premise, and fuck you for trying to take rights away from other people. When you right wingers start seriously advocating for prohibition and making cigarettes illegal I might then believe that you care about public health and the public good.
Jack Hernandez
No worries man. One thing I've found to assist me, like other have said, is that if you feel an urge to fap coming, do pushups until failure, that should take your mind off of it. What I've found to reduce the urge(s) to masturbate is taking a cold shower. This is a progressive thing. Whenever you take a shower, be it after the gym or boxing, or athe night for the next day, or whenever, make it is a cold shower. There are many benefits to taking a cold shower, such as reducing recovery time for muscles, improving your lymphatic and immune system, it's good for your skin and hair, and many others. I guess the shock of cold water against your skin triggers something in your brain to stop fapping. Like I said, this is a progression. You won't notice this until maybe after two weeks or more of continuous cold showers. Stay strong man. Believe in yourself that you can do this. Look at great inventors who abstained from masturbating, most notibly Tesla among others. There's a YouTube video of inventors and their quotes on sex and sexual urges. Look them up and be inspired. You can do it man.
Isaiah Parker
Here's a protip: If you really want to stop fapping. Go get yourself Herpes. I have it, and anytime I fap the friction gives me a breakout within two days. I don't have the same issue with sex though, I guess the pussy juice keeps it lubricated enough. In any case, I know that if I fap I will get a breakout, so I don't fap.
Carter Wood
start doing it to pictures rather than videos and do it contingently (like go to the gym every day and fap after that). it takes willpower but you'll be happy in the long run. fapping less is so much better than stopping altogether
Colton Ramirez
That's another option too!
Oliver Rodriguez
There are no good quality studies that show it has any negative effect. There are quite a lot of idiot Christians mangling neuroscience around though. Whenever I hear someone spouting this No-Fap bullshit I regret not starting a proper cult and fleecing the weak-minded instead of working for a living. The only good thing about No-Fap is that its something you've achieved, but tidying your room would have been better. Noteworthy that the strongest No-Fap advocates are NEET losers with literally nothing else to point at.
Ayden Jones
I'll have a good look at those videos, thanks. I'll try the cold showers but I'll admit that it's a little off putting
kek
Evan Martinez
After a week's nofap, my desire to meet and screw women had gone away. After forcing myself to fap (this is surprisingly hard when you have no sex drive) the constant urge to impregnate women came right back, which is a feeling I prefer. NoFap(TM) is a silly meme to sell shit.
I also don't understand all these faggots fixated on professional hardcore porn full of anal sex, circumcised dicks, and other disgusting trash. Images and videos of shapely women (like Nadine) are the only fap material.
Christian James
Porn has destroyed white birth rates. That is a fact.
Luke Brown
Porn distorts love mate. At first, it's a guilty pleasure that you enjoy on the side, then you eventually become attached to it and can't live without it, and after a while, you want to incorporate porn into your real life, and you can probably see where it goes from there.
Michael Rodriguez
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Isaiah Cruz
OP, you keep referencing "hundreds of studies that prove porn destroys your life" and "this shit really works" but you haven't even provided any of these studies. Also, does NoFap LLC pay you anything or do you do it for free? These threads always have the same general tone and order of posts, regardless of white site it's on, which is a bit suspect.
Isaiah Howard
I mean, no one has actually asked to provide any source
Also, this isn't just about Nofap, this is the effect that porn is having on society today.
Personally, I'd rather not put a label on it at all and just flat-out say that porn is making the planet a worse place.
yourbrainonporn.com lists all the studies that you'd ever need on this topic
Eli Scott
>Has the introduction of porn into society destroyed the modern family
Porn only became ubiquitous once high speed internet became widespread. So the early 2000's. The modern family was already destroyed before then.
Benjamin Howard
Who cares? Women are shit.
Alexander Moore
Yeah don't watch porn. MAN UP and go date a single mom
Samuel Lopez
>introduction of porn
There's been porn for as long as human beings have been able to draw, dumbass.
Jaxon Morris
It's a little obvious that I'm referring to modern-day porn which is found in any forms of media we use today.
But yea you're totally right, my bad Sup Forums, I meant what I said above when I made this post.
Caleb Russell
Anal is degenerate
Caleb Rivera
Porn itself isn't bad. It's the normalization of porn that has caused it's effects on society. Porn was fine when you shamefully did it on your own and didn't talk about it except in the confidence of your closest friends or anonymously on some faggy weeaboo image board. Niggers like bardock Obama running around with pornhub t-shirts and high-key bragging about their pornography search history on Facebook are forcing the degeneracy
Lincoln Williams
>high-key
You're the actual nigger here.
Brayden Green
>Porn was fine when you shamefully did it on your own and didn't talk about it except in the confidence of your closest friends Yea I don't think that this is a stage you can stay at for very long, if you take a seat on the porn train, it will have an endless destination of self-destruction.
William Fisher
good read.
Jordan Campbell
I'm sure this has some good information. I can't say for sure though, as I don't have the same screen as you so each line that's 300 characters wide is far too small to read.
Jackson Taylor
YBOP is another site that wants to sell you shit, except this time they lie and say the proceeds go to charity. You need to notice that, although they litter their articles with external links, none of the links actually support the claim -- the claim is just wild speculation or extrapolation. Take the first article, "Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's porn": it provides a couple of links to a study that has weak evidence supporting the Coolidge effect in rodents, yet it does not provide anything to support the article's actual claim. Don't mistake an avalanche of links for credibility. It also links to e.g. the Daily Mail and pop-sci websites a lot, but those aren't sources.
That's a stupid article premise anyway; humans used to be surrounded by sex.
>this is the effect that porn is having on society today I can see two negative effects from porn: one is that it normalizes hookup culture. The second is that it gives people unrealistic expectations (though in fact I became way less fussy about womens' bodies after being exposed to amateur videos and pics).
Blake Torres
Topkek, I tried the hosts file thing too. Not much of a blocker when all you have to do is comment out your entries in a text editor.
Andrew Flores
What are you talking about? I've been doing big cums for 13 years, or exactly half my life, and still I haven't murdered anyone.
What's unique about "modern-day porn"? Its fixation on the anus?
Jackson Ward
Apparently these studies are done by retards who don't understand that you don't get horny all the time and get to enjoy a good cum. If you want the porn """problem""" to go away, then women just need to be better. That simple.
Carson Miller
If you don't want to fap, then don't fap. It's that easy.
Christian Fisher
The main goal of all living organisms is to reproduce. You can say you're ''asexual'' or you don't care about women, but everything you do is based around attracting a woman to have children, thus passing on your genes to the next generation. Whether you're trying to make something of yourself, gain status, or become famous, your end game having kids.
Before Christianity dominated Europe, one man would usually have several women at a time to mate with; only the best warriors, nobles, chieftains, etc, would have the opportunity to reproduce. Only the most intelligent or physically superior men with ''status'' had the privilege to leave his ''code'' behind.
Semen is one of the most powerful forces on Earth; it creates human life. This is why celibacy is taken seriously in certain cultures, like the Shaolin. When you abstain from sex, the sexual energy within you flows through your body, instead of residing in your pelvic region. This explains why people on nofap experience ''superpowers'' or high energy.
It's no coincidence that men in their 30s or 40s are more happy and successful than women; they don't worry about sex, they focus on their career; thus giving them the opportunity to attract a female and provide security. Women need men, but not vice versa.
When you fap, or have premarital sex, you're releasing your life force. And for what? Pleasure? Now you feel weak, worthless, and emotionally drained. All your problems increase 10 fold. When your balls are empty-there is no purpose for you, hence why you feel like shit after jerking off.
Now I understand why books like the bible told men to wait until you find the right one to love, and ''be fruitful and multiply'', like nature intended. Sex is powerful thing, everything revolves around it. We were designed for it.
How can we revolt against Jewish Tyranny when we're drained and docile? When you wa
Eli Roberts
>flag drugs are not the answer..
Adrian Ortiz
If I don't fugg my gf in a few days the porn jew literally rapes my mind into looking at it. How do I resist?!!
Easton Taylor
it's because you need to workout to compensate for adrenaline lack
try this user: grab something heavy 3-7 kg start walking with it around town/offroads/whatever
just walk as long as you can. remember to don't drop what you are carrying after first session your body will be aching (microdamage in muscules) and will secret adrenaline to supress this pain this will last for 2-3 days in this time you won't fap because your brain have dose of adrenaline it needs when your body will stop aching repeat this till you will get out of addiction
oh and while resting you can do whatever you want you will be more focused after first session
Jeremiah Perez
I used a bunch of browser extensions to block pre-set porn sites and some additions of my own.
You gotta just stop yourself in the moment and realise the progress you could make if you just kept taking that one step over and over.
It's changing my life and there's no way I'm gonna go back, you can do it user.
Ryan Baker
>Has the introduction of porn into society destroyed the modern family and led to the decadence of good personalities?
absolutly, affect on women is abvious, but not trully nobel man I knew was sexually promiscuous (which alt right look as a proof of masculinity)
>When you fap, or have premarital sex, you're releasing your life force. And for what? Pleasure? Now you feel weak, worthless, and emotionally drained. All your problems increase 10 fold. When your balls are empty-there is no purpose for you, hence why you feel like shit after jerking off.
yes, I became to agressive, but I can control it, there is a certain zen feel about it
t. 53 days nofap
listen 1. LOOK AWAY - dont temp yourself and try to fight it, awoid the war of your eyes. bible says FLEE sexual immorality, not fight it head on 2. USE ANOTHER OUTLET OF ENERGY - sports, creativity etc.
1st week is the most hard
Parker Adams
It isn't all or nothing, my dudes. A quickie fap isn't going to do nearly as much as a long, drawn-out fap. If you're really having trouble sleeping and shit, a quickie fap is like an induced wet dream.
I love this shit, should probably watch the whole film sometime. I bet there's tonnes of more redpills in that movie.
Alexander Powell
Stop posting porn.
Hunter Ross
If you want to see a contrast between the physical benefits of fap/nofap, look no further than the recent Mayweather/McGregor fight. >Mayweather believes in abstaining before a fight and during training >Connor believes in fucking like a rabbit to boost his testosterone. We all saw what happened, Connor gassed horribly and Mayweather looked like he was just warming up as the rounds went on.
Brody Barnes
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David Myers
Makes sense. I've bipolar and my sexual urges happen 3 or more times a day, and now I don't even get pleasure from my orgasm. I honestly think one day my dick will just fly off in my right hand.
Chase Gray
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Gavin Rodriguez
Holy shit, she is amazing. Big titted Germans, if only Hitler had succeeded they would be commonplace.
Connor Powell
Replacing my smart phone with a crude flip phone and disconnecting my home's internet service has done wonders. If i'm posting, I'm on a network or in a place where I can't do anything. I have found, in effect, it is far more effective to remove temptation than to resist it.
Blake Roberts
yeah, it's a damn good movie
Levi Campbell
That's because you're on the internet less, not because of porn lack.
Aaron Robinson
To determine the effects of porn, you would need a control group for whom all factors except exposure to porn are the same. No such control group exists. Therefore no scientific evaluation of the impact of porn is possible.
Isaac Allen
it's both. less time on the internet has been good for me in many ways. the only thing I miss is that when some shit goes down in the world that matters i can't track it all in real time but as to the topic at hand, again, i'm tugging it a lot less and banging my wife a lot more since I disconnected so it has been a win for me overall.
Brayden Davis
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Brandon Sanders
yes
Benjamin Lopez
I'm a furfag who rarely ever looks at 3D porn and after doing a little searching for it, holy fuck, you guys are absolutely right about 3D porn. All of the straight stuff is either with nigs or circumcised men, and uncut dick stuff is gay only. This doesn't make any sense, USA is the only important country that still has their dicks Shlomo'd.
Landon Wright
You should probably stop jacking off to any kind of porn bud, it's gonna fuck with your brain.
Matthew Williams
It's exactly what religion was trying to control: anything that is too addictive (has too strong of a dopamine hit while not actually being productive) for society to handle.
It's weird that the government only does this to the extent of controlling drugs, when in reality there's far more things that need to be controlled.
Ryan Perry
>Has the introduction of porn into society destroyed the modern family
No, because that happened in the 60s, after the changes in divorce law, abortions, and birth control, whereas streaming pornography was barely available before 2005 and hardcore pornography of any type was completely illegal until 2000 in the UK.
What is the point in writing this, again, though? No-one ever reads it.
Jose Rivera
Porn was still around then too, magazines were extremely popular.
Also, I'm obviously not the only person who makes threads about this shit, considering I see tonnes around here that I don't even engage in.
Justin Rogers
Hardcore magazines were illegal until 2000.
What are you going to do, blame page 3?
Gabriel Reyes
You could obtain a cornucopia of nude magazines post 2000 bud and under the definition, that's still porn which would class as super-stimulant to the brain, especially when you masturbate to it.
Michael Price
Post means 'after'.
Do you think nude pictures suddenly appeared in the 60s or something?
Jaxon Torres
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Christian Thompson
Shit you're right, Idk I wrote that
And no, they didn't, but you can be sure that as soon as they started to pop up, problems within people's personal lives began to arise. And I'm talking about actual photos that you can make out that it's a human being that is fully nude.
I bet people in medieval times were turned into cucks from masturbating too often to paintings of naked girls.