I was a Chad, AMA

Sup Forumsbros, Word of warning from a Chad, never go beta.

Little backstory: I'm 6'2", 200lbs, fit, handsome, full head of of great hair in a classic cut, war vet, business degree, own place, own car, I'm my 30's but look 28. I have no problem getting girls. I'm single 2 months most. But I meet this girl. 5'6", 120lbs, slender, early 30's, super-Christian, conservative, gorgeous, and always wanted to be a wife and stay at home mom.

I've found God in the last few years and realized Christianity is the way. I broke up with my ex, and embraced my faith. Then met this girl and I thought I could follow Christ's teachings and be with a girl that would value that in me. Instead, even though she sees those qualities in me, good ole Chad is still the one she longs after. Even Even wanted the forbidden fruit, even though Adam was the one she was made for.

Moral of the story, get the girls but lose eternal salvation, or go through this life alone but live eternally.

Hey "Chad" guess who your "Christian" girls fucks now.

Me!

I'm the guy who fucks her. A young guy who doesn't give a fuck. The colder u are the more they like u. Really fucked up that's why I can't settle down.

Read the book. The rational male by rollo tomassi .

Theresa May's strap-on fucks you guys, so I can't help but to have anything but pity for you

maybe she left you because your retarded

And here we see Hans all pent up because all those muzzies are fucking his mother, sister, and girlfriend.

Who said you can't be Chad and Christian? Do you go to a "church" with a female "pastor"?

Didn't keep your mom from getting impregnated with you

>single 2 months most
>chad

ya fuck off try-hard larper

> But I meet this girl. 5'6", 120lbs, slender, early 30's, super-Christian, conservative, gorgeous, and always wanted to be a wife and stay at home mom.
If she is 30 and not married, and supposedly Christian she's probably trash and you're a moron.

Putting that little cross on your neck doesn't make you a christian, kangaroo fucker

so your issue is..
> Be Christian Chad.
or
> Be Chad Christian.

so you got 2 ex gfs now..
third times a charm mate.

grow stronger from it.
fuck it.
god bless.

I know that. What I am saying is being affirmative, not sucking up to women, being an alpha male are not unbiblical traits.

I know your perception is shaped by porn and anime, but above ground when you leave your mom's basement, boys and girls don't just jump into each other's arms when you walk out of the door

Don't agree with the "moral of the story". This all or nothing mentality is harmful. Just keep trying, no one's obliged to commit just for liking you. Also, vice versa...

This is why I keep faithful to my waifu.

Being a dick to women, nor sucking up to women are Christian or Christ-like. But Christ doesn't have many stories in the Bible where women were following Him wanting Him, does it?!

My point, if you choose salvation, it's going to be a tough, potentially single road

Same goes for every way of life

You're right. I was being hyperbolic.

But Jesus didn't have a string of women following Him wanting to be His wife.

I would never be so arrogant to say I'm like Christ. But, actually trying to treat them as Christ would does nothing for them. You do it because it's right. But even when you meet a Christian girl, don't expect that's going to do it for her. Ironically, I could have had this girl before I became a Christian.

Good advice? On my Sup Forums?

No, you are retarded. Being a Christian does not mean being a faggot. Grow the hell up.

Single doesn't mean not getting laid lol.

Nice blog faggot, at least it ended when it should
>pic related

Dude. Most Christians today will probably be cast away from the throne of Christ. Do you realize how reprobate our churches are? Do you know how double minded us Christians have become? It is sickening.

It is especially hard for a beautiful girl raised in a Christian home NOT to be a fucking shallow monster. To find a selfless, beautiful, Christian woman is incredibly hard. The beauty can either turn you self absorbed, or it can be a test to show your true qualities. That also goes for "chads" too.

>early 30's, super-Christian, conservative, gorgeous, and always wanted to be a wife and stay at home mom
ask her that is what she wanted when she was 19

You can't copy Jesus in that aspect. If everyone remained single, well, it's obvious. Also, you can't know for sure that no one asked him to marry them, and he refused, for whatever reason? Like you said, we have to treat each other a certain way, because it's right.
And if you could have had the girl before...would it be the way you wanted? Marriage and family? Happiness? Goal achieved?
Also, that message she sent, is that bye for ever?

Translated:
I liked you initially, but you keep insisting on a rational based relationship in which you respected me and in no way you'll impose on me. That turns me off.

If she had been the one to "lead me to Jesus", then I feel like yes, marriage, family, happily every after would have followed. She's the type I've met before that did exactly that. Tried to open my eyes and find faith. This time I was already there, and there was nothing to lead me to. It's like it was anti-climatic. There was no "fixing" me, because I already found my savior. When she saw that she stopped talking about God. And even though we had a great time together, she needed someone to "save".

Her message was "let's keep in touch". But it was really "if I can't find anyone else to save or someone who drives me wild, I'd want you around to turn to in case I'm left alone".

So, you mean, she'd get the right kick out of saving someone? Well, whatever works for people...
There's no need for you to wait around though. Best plan is to keep looking. None of you is obliged to be around in case the other gets left alone.
And if this whole thing feels poisonous to you, it might be smarter not to keep in touch. Unless you think it's worth cultivating,...Might be something to fall back on in the future, who knows really.
It's interesting to read the impression you got from her message. I read it more as, she feels dispassionate about the whole thing after giving it a fair try, and wants to let you know the exact state of things.
That stuff is tricky, in my opinion. Even if everything is right about a potential partner, most of us need to feel a "special something" before they partner up. Maybe that's what she had in mind.
Not the best strategy though... Because what if one feels The Special and the other doesn't.
Kinda reminds me of some friendships I went through.
So, it all depends on your estimation. If it's worth it, I'd keep in touch sporadically and keep my eyes open elsewhere. You're a free guy, use it.

I feel you, bro. Something alike happened to me, but I´m still in my early 20s so I can learn from it.

>I'm in my 30s but look 28
Nigger wut

t. not a chad

Do you have any advice for an incel?

Seconded

Also ex Chad here how do

Bible has stories of other men. The ones that are successful with women and God are pretty Chad.

OP, you were boring and predictable.