When did you take the childfree pill?
When did you take the childfree pill?
Never. I've wanted to have tons of kids since I was little. Actually the number I told my parents was 28 children. More realistic is around 10. If you don't want to have children you're most likely an empty hedonistic person who has no foresight.
What if I've always been bad with children and babies and people in general? I've been constantly changing my mind back and forth, for the last few months. It'ld be cool to talk to someone else on Sup Forums about this
have fun being a depressed loser from 35+
oh yeah sure live in a state of being where you need to constantly find trivial material things to distract yourself with to suppress your inner desire to fulfill your existential purpose.
I'm already a depressed loser my whole life, and I'll have writing, painting, reading and videogames to look forward to. Also I'll probably be financially independent by the time I'm 40.
This sounds like /r9k/'s copypasta about wageys. Sounds to me like Reddit is trying hard to convince themselves that they never wanted kids anyway. Sour grapes and all. I bet most of these people never found someone to marry.
If you've never dealt with babies or children as an adult, you're gonna suck at it.
Every man is equal in this.
I didn't know we were playing "spot the mormon."
Also OP your thread is trash.
>been donating sperm for 2 years
>started 4 families alread
>never have to raise any of the turds myself
I get paid to cuckold other people. Best of both worlds.
This. OP's pic is the post of a cat lady who is not going to do any of that.
Becoming a father has been literally the greatest most rewarding thing I have ever done with my life. No other experience in my lifetime has even come close to it.
Someone without kids will never understand
>when casablanca lillies are more fulfilling than raising children
>boasting about not wanting to perpetuate your legacy in order to aid western civilization
>'your legacy'
>a pleb who browses a mongolian knitting forum and jacks off to porn
>not royalty
>not famous
>not god tier genetics
please explain your 'legacy' to me and enlighten us all?
I haven't taken it ever
When I was younger I considered that I'd have a low number around 3.
Now I want as many as I can afford to raise.
>not becoming the creator of life
>not even trying to live
lol that post is the definition of Bugman
>"Man I sure love being a cosmopolitan consumerist. Can't wait to write a blogpost about my meaningless day on Reddit!"
I think 3-6 is perfect
>my life is so wonderful that i need to shove it down everyones throats
I dont understand 21st century , why is everyone trying to impose whatever they like on everybody. Why the fuck everyone is so uppity
This. I have 6 kids and it's been an absolute joy to raise them. Most people that don't have kids from my experience are people that made shit life decisions based on their own selfishness so they have no way to support them. It's somewhat sad to see.
This. Seeing my son grow up is incredibly rewarding. He's only 4 and he's really smart and active and is a blast. Raising children successfully is the ultimate validation of being a man.
If you don't have children or havnt found out that you can't have children you are a perpetual child.
You get used to it. As long as you take an interest in raising the kids you'll find that they are the most relateable people you know.
Unlike the wild human you meet on the streets you're kids are molded in your desired image from the genetics of you and your desired woman. It's really hard to fuck up. Once they grow up a bit then they pretty much automatically become your friends to the point where even an ultra loner neet can manage to have good interactions.
kek. looks like a white somali family.
Im mixed so thankfully I can justify it as not continuing my mongrel genes
in my 20's I didn't have kids basically because I love getting hammered and I don't like being drunk around kids. Plus I was working in the oil patch a lot, kind of shitty to have a kid when you're gone 3/4's of the year.
I didn't have kids in my 30's because being away from civilization for so long for so many years made me really appreciate all kinds of things that I'd have to give up with kids, like spontaneously fucking off for a month to wherever ect.
I don't want a lifestyle that's appropriate for children. I still enjoy engaging in dangerous shit, I heliski, I climb mountains, I visit crazy places for fun, and I don't want to be obligated to a women, I like being with my wife purely because I want to be, not because we have to stay together for kids, like so many of my friends.
And apparently if you've ever jizzed inside of a women, she has passed o your genetic material, and I've rawdoged a lot of women, so I'm all set for doing my job as a biological entity or whatever.
And I've probably directly knocked a few people up myself when I was young and had lots of one night stands ect.
Everybody keeps telling me I'll mellow out and change my views, but I'm 43 now, I don't see it happening. I just don't care, and that's pretty much that.
I want to have 8 kids and own a fucking McMansion.
Genetic material does not pass on, you fucking sperglord, stop larping
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>write a retarded blog about cleaning out your car, driving around, and rock climbing
>all of which could be done with children
>then add a line at the end which was the actual reason for the blog in the first place
You guys are fucking brave I'll give you that. Either brave or stupid or misinformed.
So many women are sluts, society looks so bleak in the future. I would hate to be cheated on, divorced, have my daughter marry a black or my son become a tranny. It would tear me apart.
>Unlike the wild human you meet on the streets you're kids are molded in your desired image from the genetics of you and your desired woman. It's really hard to fuck up. Once they grow up a bit then they pretty much automatically become your friends to the point where even an ultra loner neet can manage to have good interactions.
I'll keep this in mind, actually going to copy paste it in my collection of Sup Forums quotes. Thankyou friend.
This is part of my problem. What if I raise a daughter who becomes a slut. What if she fucks ten guys in highschool, goes to orgies, does porn, gets blacked, becomes a liberal and hates me.
Parenting is essentially raising a child for the state, and if you the state doesn't like what you're doing they can snatch your children away from you whenever they like.
>Sperglord
>Larping
Faggot Pol Parrot detected
Nothing lasts forever. Once they get older they will realize how wrong it was to not have kids. Dying alone is not cool, getting older with no one who really cares about you is not cool. There's gonna be a lot of old people going in for mental health in the future.
T. 36 years old.
Yep, the 30-something weirdo loner from the OP is actually trying to brag about driving around in the middle of the night listening to goth bands on his own. He knows what deep shit he's in. The sub stinks of sour grapes, but the post has someone in the last grasps of denial. Pretty soon this strategy is going to wear out and he'll devise another grand scheme just so he doesn't have to face up to how unfulfilling his life really is. What surprised me is that the sub is co-ed, naturally women would be the ones more likely to feel the need to cover up their childless shamble of a life.
fuck that. im having 6 kids. full line and a goalie.
Good boy, fill your life with meaningless pleasure.
If they were actually happy about being childfree, they wouldn't need to spend all their time making pointless points on reddit about how happy they are.
Genuinely happy people don't try to convince you that they're happy.
It's called choosing the right woman and looking in the right places
From the sleep habits and the driving around all night for no reason I'm guessing this person is a fat bi-polar incel.
Circumstance create child free lifestyles ,mindset also is crucial. most poor dumb people reproduce few ever ready let can envision whether they are producing the cure for cancer or just another cancer to this sick world. Ideally I would love a wife and kid the house dog and stuff "nuclear family",I just can't trust this world or anyone in it although I tried.
Anyone who sleeps until 3 pm on a weekend is a depressed loser
You must secure the existence of our kind and a future for white children! without us the human race is barbaric and mongoloid.
Your future family from your brothers or sisters will upload a photo of you to Ancestory.com and then you will be laughed at until the internet disappears. "Oh, was he gay? No just a loser."
Father of four here, kids are great. I've been told by several people that I've become a much better person since having kids. I think these childfree retards don't know what they're missing.
Enjoy changing shitty diapers, then later seeing your daughter getting shitted by the millions of eurafricans that are ending your race, faggot.
Meanwhile, I'll be childfree with 4 sexbots that are fullypaid for
Thisdonating sperm means your genes are passed on wit basically no effort on your part.
Your new family is a drain on fiscal resources. Fucks like you are why we have a 20 trillion dollar debt
>eww, diapers are stinky
>better commit genetic suicide
Logic.
>fathercucks
Children who grow up to be productive members of society produce far, FAR more money for the economy than is spent raising them. Try again, retard.
i have a vasectomy. i'm not giving the (((banks))) another slave
I have an infant son and its the most amazing thing ever.
Anyone who choses not to have kids is a failure of a human being
thats just fucking sad. Who in their right mind would feel confident posting something like this on the internet? s m h f a m
You obviously believe that growth to infinity is real. Once the economy finally collapses and your precious little ones are starving to death, don't forget that I called you an idiot for having them
But he'll grow up to be an Australian.
>daughter getting shitted by the millions of eurafrican
What is arranged marriage and letting a man court her in her teens?
>20 trillion debt
>the parents fault not the governments
Y'know, they could just say "were not paying anything"
>You obviously believe that growth to infinity is real.
You know nothing of what I believe, go be a retard somewhere else.
so youre not even gonna try? pathetic
Don't have any parental instincts. I fucking hate children and I don't want something that shits and cries for first 18 months of its life and doesn't get better until it leaves for College.
I don't know, maybe it'll change and my clock start ticking but right now the damn thing doesn't even have any batteries in it.
Let me guess, the only ethnic German wasn't allowed to pass?
More that Adolf applied for modern art and showcased traditional styles.
He wasn't bad, he just wasn't what they were looking for and wasn't super good. Yeah those paintings are not bad but they're not something that would even sell if someone else made them.
Hitler was famous for other reasons. I'm sure that if George W. Bush decided to sell some of his works they'd go for 10k+ even if there's nothing extraordinary about them.
>I would hate to be cheated on, divorced, have my daughter marry a black or my son become a tranny.
>What if she fucks ten guys in highschool, goes to orgies, does porn, gets blacked, becomes a liberal and hates me.
Well shit, son, what if you get cancer, get hit by a truck, eaten by a lion escaped from the zoo or killed by a mugger?
What if the world fucking ends tomorrow?
"what if?" ruins fucking everything if you give it too much attention.
Fuck, what if the kid turns out to be the next Fuhrer, or a scientific genius?
What you do is that you look at the statistics and make a logical decision.
If you inform yourself, you'll find that there's a higher chance the kid will be okay than not.
>Parenting is essentially raising a child for the state, and if you the state doesn't like what you're doing they can snatch your children away from you whenever they like.
Ever considered not living in a dystopia?
Even though I doubt it's that bad over there as long as you don't teach him to do the nazi salute at school, or seriously abuse him...
I don't want to have kids, therefore i don't think I'd be a good dad. There's too many people bringing kids into this world that they wish they didn't have and as a result they get neglected and aren't financially stable. I've been with 5 different women and i don't want a relationship for awhile now, bitches be crazy.
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>I don't want to have kids, therefore i don't think I'd be a good dad
That doesn't logically follow. I never really wanted kids but I think I'm a great dad.
you first habib
(you) breedercucks think that having children will yield new zuckerbergs, all the while as you receive 100s of thousands of free taxpayer gibs. Furthermore, your child will be mercilessly bullied every single day, because you were too stupid to understand the concept of demographics and districting, and are too poor to buy your way into a safer school zone. FOAD, you selfish assholes
Why so angry, user?
The great thing about my generation is that tons of them are willing to end their genetic line. Especially the liberal ones.
Man. Potted plants and driving while listening to music is the fulfilment in your life? Yeah that's gonna last
Children are fucking BORING. That fact is based on them as having a neutral (0) net value. The truth is far worse. They are destructive and selfish, and would have a negative value. Most people who have children do it by accident, because they are too lazy or retarded to put a Trojan on their dicks. There is an inversely proportionate relationship between (number of children) and (standard of living/financial success/being a valuable member of society). White trash and nogs live in their own shit, but always have thousands of animal children running loose. I love it when someone who has had a few unplanned children says to me "wow look at the baby look at the baby it shit on the floor and ate it isn't that cute wow oh wow he just broke your computer that's so funny" and you are expected to smile and laugh. But those people are telling me of the achievents of what my dog can do. My wife and I live to fuck, are financially secure, have good jobs, do t want kids. Kids are uninteresting. I get the same feedback by observing a dog. There is nothing as fucking lame as having a born again mother or an idiot new dad around to suck all the fucking fun out of the room.
>I'm so bitter about my child-free life that I'll post on plebbit about how awesome my life is to fish for sympathy from like-minded losers
The irony is astounding.
>I don't want to be a parent
>therefore I would resent being a parent, and would possibly not be a good one
It's really not hard to understand. If your dad didn't want you would you consider him a good dad? no.
Yeah because everyone who has kids is completely satisfied with their life amirite?
"yes goy muh wifes son"
saged
Nothing is certain, user.
There are always risks and you WILL encounter hard times. When it comes to children you just have to trust that you can raise them properly.
>He wasn't bad, he just wasn't what they were looking for and wasn't super good.
Uhm, super good or not, compared to his competition he looks like a genius. What the hell are the other three guys doing, their art works look like desperate cry for help from self-loathing mental patients with multiple severe issues.
Just let them have their little circlejerk so they'll feel better about their waste of space kids
It's not like they have options like we do
holy fuck i think in order to post on that subreddit you have to own atleast 1 ovary and 3 cats.
I consider my dad a good dad, but I don't believe he's stated either way whether he wanted me or not. His wants are rather irrelevant to being a good dad. He did what he had to do and did his best to make sure I was raised right. He did these things regardless of whether he wanted me or not.
As I said in the very post you quoted, I myself never wanted kids but I now consider myself a good dad.
Hide jew shill threads.
Can't wait for everyone on that subreddit to hit 50 and have a crisis of "my life has amounted to nothing."
I have two kids (2 and 9 months) and they're amazing. The best feeling ever in life is to feel love and affection from a GENUINELY unconditional place, and receive it in turn. Wife is awesome, stayed hot, not a single stretch mark, sex all the time. My kids sleep through the night for 8-10 hours so I'm always well rested. Kids go to bed earlier than I do and take naps, so I sill have time for vidya and sex.
"Childfree" is for biological failures. I'd have no problem with it though if they could be honest about it, and instead of saying it's "because life is better without kids," be real and admit that's it's because they're scared, irresponsible, selfish, incompetent adults.
Basically this, I was born to a 20 year old father and 18 year old mother. They married "as is tradition", and divorced when I was 3 or 4. Last time I saw the guy I was 8.
Lived basically my whole life with my mother bitching that she fucked up her life by having me. Like hey, it's not my fault you got impregnated and then refused to have an abortion you cunt. Then she married some overweight cuck who was surprised that a woman that had a kid comes with the kid.
Then she got cervical cancer and can't have any more kids to which I just laughed and laughed hard. Guess what bitch, I'm the best you will ever have and that cuck's genes are dead now.
When me and my husband forgot to feed our adopted kid and it died I went full child free. So much less stress. I had my drink spiked at a gay nightclub and ended going on a 3 day ice bender while my husband was away. When I woke up and remembered our toddler it was too late. It was a mistake even having it in the first place if I am honest
It would drive me mad knowing that my children were growing up without me, my own sons and daughters, the most precious things in a mans life and I'll never get to see them? fuck that.
user having kids is uncool as fuck. Didn't (((they))) tell you that? The nogs love having kids.
You're not allowed to be a bad parent if you care about your kids. If you want kids and actually care for their well being you will be a ok parent, not great, but ok.
If you don't give a shit about your kids then you're a nigger and the kids will grow up being fuck ups.
Your still in the early days, wait till your feeling of happiness and positivity turn to tiredness and despair as your spawn slowly drains your life away and you regret not wearing a Jonny
>Can't clean if you have children
>can't have plants if you have children
>can't have energy if you have children
>can't roadtrip if you have children
>can't watch sunrises if you have children
>can't go rock climbing if you have children
What world do these people live in?
My dad walked out on me too when i was a baby. I was fortunate enough to not ever develop emotions towards him because I never met him. I always hated him, and I would honestly never bring a kid in this world and then abandon it, since I know what it's like. There's way too many people have kids irresponsibly and then their kids grow up to be poor and fucked up mentally. I will never hurt a soul the same way our dads walked out on us.
>Can't clean if you have children
This one is sort of true, at least.
Sorry about your mom too, that's the saddest thing ive read in awhile.
Gf is 25. Im 27. First baby on the way. I'm gonna try to have 5-6.
Get a real life with value manchild.
>I will never hurt a soul the same way our dads walked out on us.
That's not a good excuse for not having kids, though. You're basically just saying "I don't want to be a shitty human being" which should be true for all aspects of life, including and especially child rearing.
How is any of that not possible with children? Just get a decent wife who stays home with the children, and go do whatever you want outside of your work hours. This whole idea a man changing diapers and shit is a modern (((invention))), because (((they))) want to double the labourforce by forcing women to work, thus creating situations where there are wives who are independent of their husbands and unwilling to do their duty.
I'm a father, and if I ever change a single diaper in my life I will be surprised.
>That's not a good excuse for not having kids, though. You're basically just saying "I don't want to be a shitty human being"
Yeah i don't want kids, having kids I don't want would make me a shitty human being, just like my dad. Maybe one day i'll change my mind, don't worry.
So are you telling me that all those cat ladies are only cat ladies from 9-5, then they go rock climbing, bike racing and on world tours while eating cake?
Also, do my single or childless friends who are over 30 also go on doing extreme sports every day because they are childless?
>financially independent by 40
Wew lad if your this retarded it's probably for the best that you dont reproduce
I had kids I didn't want and it made me a better person, not a worse person. I think you are fundamentally flawed in your logic, user. If you are self aware enough to be having this conversation at all you're more likely to be a good parent than a bad one.