I don't want to know about gay adoption, just regular hetero couples adopting an abandoned child from their own race and culture. I just know it's degenerate even in this best case scenario, but i can't put my finger on it. Been searching stats but i'm at work and don't have enough time to dig deep, so help OP out. Also, the reason i'm asking is my recent girlfriend is interested in it. She's 19, blonde, milky white skin, blue-eyed and so damn submissive and cute she's almost perfect. My plan is, if all goes well, to put three babies into her in a couple of years. She seems to be moving towards admitting she wants kids but i've still got a lot of bluepilling to reverse, at the moment she seems a lot more interested in adoption, because "why bring more kids into the world when so many bright, healthy kids are abandoned for no good reason and just need a family". I'm hoping nature will run it's course and one day i'll just nutt in her and that's that, but still, i'd appreciate any good counterarguments you could suggest to her thinking, because i dislike basing my decisions on feeling alone. I just feel like those kids are already screwed, i could never love them as much as my own, and she's just scared of childbirth but really she shouldn't because she has good hips. So help me out Sup Forums, no one on /adv/ would get it so i have to ask here, thanks!
Redpill me on adoption
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You're raising another man's baby that way...
Nothing wrong with adoption if you can't have kids on your own. If you can though you're a cuck.
Literally the most cucked thing you can do.
adopting a child is max level cuckoldry, regardless of how unfortunate they may appear.
Only sterile people should adopt.
Exactly my issue so that's why i won't do it. I think her motivation however is compassion and "helping the world". she'd probably want to do it even if we had our own kids first, she had this desire before she met me. That sounds even worse however because that way you're sure to have conflicts between your real kids and the adopted ones. She seems a lot more responsive to redpills when i bring logical arguments, strangely enough for a girl.
What if I just want a cute daughter without dealing with roasties?
dump her of she doesn't comply. You don't need some baggage ridden bastard on your back for the reat of your life.
Don't dance around this one. Just tell her that you want three children with her. And that if you get there maybe that done you can talk about adoption and see how you feel.
She should be happy with that because you want her to be the mother of your children.
This seems llike a shit test. If you back down and don't just tell her what you want, then you're being submissive. And submissive isn't what she wants in a husband.
And of course, if she really doesn't want to give you kids, you need to move on. So it's just a matter of valuing yourself enough to be clear about that, and saying so.
this. put your foot down.
Just tell her you're unwilling to parent someone else's abandoned children, and if she can't handle that, tell her she'a free to find a boyfriend who is.
My very white girlfriend and I talked about this. We will try to adopt one white child and have 3-4 natural children.
It’s a lost cause bro. Her wanting to adopt is just a stealthy way to communicate to you that she doesn’t want your seed.
Maybe so, can't determine based on the information supplied.
But don't assume it, say what you want, which is 3 bio kids with her. And take things from there. Don't settle for being cucked.
That said, maybe "after" having your kids, helping out a kid in need is a good thing to do. (Neither of you will have the energy for it, nor the money, at that point actually.)
Or hey, the thread says "Fostering & Adoption".
Fostering is much different from adoption. In fostering, you have no long term commitment, and you get PAID.
So say that after raising your kids, you would think of being foster parents in later adulthood. The world does need good foster parents!
It’s a good way to fuck up your 3 biological kids.
Adoption is for sterile people.
If you're going to do it, never let the original parents see the kids ever
Maybe so, the family dynamics would become more complicated it's true.
It is hard to think of bringing an adoptee into my family for example.
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When I was 19 my aunt died and my parents took in her 3 kids after all three of their own kids had left the house.
The turned out great, but I lost a bit of touch to my parents since it felt less at home with other kids living there now.
In pic related, "Hispanic Catholics" are the most cucked, saying that no agencies should be able to prefer straight over gay adoptive parents.
This is what I've observed about hispanics, that their supposed strong family values are very soft. They're just lefties, but also self centered (you won't see them talking about adopting that's for sure!)
People who have faced racial discrimination tend to not favor allowing gay discrimination.
This. If she found you worthy of impregnating her, she would never bring up adoption.
This is what i'm hoping for. But really i'm kind of tired of the cycle at this point. Find a decent white virgin, start committed relationship, pop her cherry too early, find some gross incompatibility between us, try and work through it without cucking myself, fail to sway her, dump her, now i've basically created a roastie. I'm so happy i haven't slept with this girl yet, only known her two weeks though but the sexual tension is already building up. I've been putting it off by saying how much i hate condoms, and that we should both be sure about this relationship before we do anything. But i don't know how long i can keep it up. Also
i would have thought so myself but then i learned it's just always been one of her dreams, which is why i'm so hopeless now. Like i said i'm pretty sure she wants kids of her own but is just scared because of our wonderful (((Education system))) and (((Media))), also all these damn roasties. This seems like something of a fulfilling desire for her instead. I know she's just young and naive, and just as i've gotten her to cook a decent meal for the first time in her life with just honesty, and she was over the moon with happiness when i finally approved of the taste, i hope in a year tops i could get her to change her views on raising kids. But what if i fail, what if she has deeper issues than i even realize? What if i deflower her before i can get my head around this and have to dump another girl i've ruined? What if she accepts my way, but resents me for it forever? Days like this make me want to just move to the woods and start gathering ammo for the race war.
Then if they're so damaged by their experience here they turn into flaming liberals, we don't want them.
Don't do it OP, just don't.
t. Worst mistake I ever made.
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If you want to put off sex, (surprise surprise) tell her exactly what you think, just the way you said it. Again brutal honesty is the best policy, no filter, just say it.
As for creating a roastie, she consented. Maybe you're the best sex she will have in years. Anyway I thought a roastie was a heavily used girl. Amazed that you keep getting these virgins. I had only one and there was never a consideration of marriage.
As for the education system bla bla bla it's not that bad, anyway you should homeschool for elementary and maybe middle school especially if your kids are bright. That's how you skip the brainwashing. High school is worth attending.
Goddamned fag i said i'm talking about hetero adoption, you useless pieces of shit always have to make everything about yourselves. Just fucking kill yourself on live broadcast if you're so hungry for attention.
I think this is pretty much what i needed to hear. Worst case scenario, i scare her off and she ends up regretting it later in life. Just seems like such a heavy discussion to have with someone you've known two weeks, less actually. But i'm just hoping this is a shit-test, or some dumb compensation for abandonment issues, who knows. No girl is perfect and i really want this to work, but i can't accept compromise like this. Thanks guys, God bless.