Is it okay to hit your child?

Its not as simple as a "yes" or "no" answer. Is it acceptable to smack your child for not turning off the TV when told? No its not. You turn off the TV and hide the remote/power cable for a week. I smacked my daughter when I caught her tearing pages out of one of her sisters books and spitting on them. Immediate consequence for such an awful thing to do. Its not something you can count to 3, not something you can just take away something, and to this day she has never done that since.

Here's another moral question for you, one day my daughter decided to pour liquid soap into our dogs water bowl. I didn't discover it until the next day after she'd been sick. What I chose to do was pour soap into her cup of water and demanded she drink it. After many tears and apologies, I said she didn't have to but asked if she understood what she had done. She did and our dog hasn't had to drink soap ever since. It worked and it got the point across, but I'm sure many would object to my feeding my girl soap (thank you internet anonymity). Would a smack have been a better choice? I didn't think so - the act was done the day before and there wouldn't have been any correlation to the act. Certainly not something you would count to 3 or give a warning for, nor "timeout".

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no if you hit your children the will turn into faggots like me.

This fag is right

exactly nothing good can come from hitting your kids.

sounds like your children have inherited your autism

Drumfpy probably hits children

no

if you raise them well you will never ever need to hit them

Yes. Hitting them makes them stronger, just like bullying.

As one of my female friends once said for haughtier: "Children are like young saplings. You must love and nurture them to grow but if you see them growing croquet sometimes you must support them from one side with a stick to grow into a proper straight tree."

pedagogue here. the general rule is that it should be used so rarely as to have a huge impact. if you hit your kid every day or once in a while for nothing or in anger you are doing it wrong. you should only correct your child with violence if they do something dangerous or life threatning to themselves, like not looking for cars when crossing the streets, jumping into water while not being able to swim, making friends with black people.

You can hit me though if you want, it's more of a turn on now

Consistent physical abuse but occasional spankings are fine fear of capital punishment keeps the troops in line

t. Father of 3

>Is it okay to hit your child?
after they turn 19, yes

> Is it okay to hit your child?
Come get me

This, wife beating is fine though, but not out of anger, as a rational method to discipline.

>that feel when no gf...

>Yes. Hitting them makes them stronger, just like bullying.

lol i hope your joking.

>You can hit me though if you want, it's more of a turn on now
oohh;);)
me too.

>This, wife beating is fine though, but not out of anger, as a rational method to discipline.

>t.achmed muhhamed

They have exactly one thing right, admiting this does not make me a muslim.

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Only if your son decided to be a faggot or your daughter decides to date a nigger. Although really you failed as a parent at that point so really the slap is more for your benefit.

Please dont hit your kids. We dont need more faggots and nazis out there.

If it is okay to abort/murder children, why should it not also be acceptable to hit them?

Only if you hit daughters also, my dad hit me often but NEVER my sister

Pisses me off

Then again my dad is on all types of meds

he gave me a black eye earlier this year and I'm fucking 22

Unequivocally yes and when your child misbehaves it should come in a heartbeat. But you do so with an open hand once just hard enough to get their attention and remind them that they're not in charge and then explain why you did it. It's best to do this in private but kids will test you in the presence of others to see who has the power in public situations and in those cases it is imperative that they understand the it will come even faster in public should they misbehave.

My wife disagreed with me and we divorced; the son that stayed with me was disciplined is doing fine. my son that lived with his mother and was not disciplined is in prison for robbery.

Never allow another or the state (ie: school, police, etc.) to be the agency that enforces discipline in your children and home.

if your kid race mixes it's okay to throw them into wood chippers.

spare the rod spoil the brat

>Being 22 and not able to defend yourself from your father
>literally an older slower version of you

She'll leave you for a real man kek

I did, I gave him a scar on his face

Obviously I'm not gonna go all out on my fucking father though am I

Your father whom punched you, what a cucked generation you are from.

I was spanked as a child. As a result I suffer from a mental disorder called "respect for others".

You're right I should have beat him to death

>respecting others
>spanking them

Oh boy, you obviously have no real world experience do ya, life is gonna be hard for you.

Depends on the race. Ever seen a black mom going off on her 4 year old at Walmart? She’s not lying when she tells him “I’ve told you10 times already to stop!”

As for me, and white kids. Once is usually enough to get your point across.
>be me
>I licked a piece of dog shit when I was 8 or so to impress 2 girls in the neighborhood
>they weren’t impressed and neither was my mother
>dragged me into bathroom and held my head underneath the faucet and got a rag and soap and went to work on my mouth
>never licked shit again

>Only if you hit daughters also, my dad hit me often but NEVER my sister

No shit, real men don't hit girls, user

I see your reading comprehension could use some improvement.

But real men hit children

ah I see

No just let his old ass give you a black eye...

In Canada you can spank your kids of it makes sense to do so. You can only use your hand. You can't do it public. And not if they are 13+.

Hitting a child is the most degenerate possible thing you can do. It instills in them that violence is an acceptable means to an end in order to get what you want. If you want to punish your child, you take away things that are important to them. Your kid acting up? Threaten to take their bed away, if they keep it up, they get to sleep on the floor that night. You think a kid wants to sleep on the floor instead of on a bed? This teaches them real world consequences. You fuck up in the real world, your freedom gets taken away from you (you're taken to jail, and have no access to your personal items). After the kid hits 18, they want to act up around you? Kick them out, they still want to act up around you? Don't support them at all.

There's absolutely no reason why you should hit your kid, unless they're trying to kill you or another family member.

>ass

foy

Sirach Chapter 30, Good News Translation (GNT)

Bringing up Children:

1 A father who loves his son will whip him often, so that he can be proud of him later. 2 If a son is disciplined, he will be of some use, and his father can boast of him to his friends. 3 Anyone who gives good guidance to his son cannot only take pride in him among his friends, but he can make his enemies jealous. 4-5 While the father is alive, the sight of his son makes him happy, and when he dies, he has no regrets. He is not really dead, because his son is like him. 6 He has left someone to take vengeance on his enemies and to return the favors he owes his friends.

7 But anyone who spoils his son will have to bandage his wounds. His heart will stop every time he hears a shout. 8 An untamed horse is going to be stubborn, and an undisciplined son is no different. 9 If you pamper your child and play with him, he will be a disappointment and a source of grief. 10 Laugh with him now, and one day you will have to cry over him, grinding your teeth in regret. 11 Don't give him freedom while he is young, and don't overlook what he does wrong. 12 Whip him while he is still a child, and make him respect your authority. If you don't, he will be stubborn and disobedient and cause you nothing but sorrow. 13 So discipline your son and give him work to do, or else he will be an embarrassment to you.

generation narcissist / sjw grew up on cuddles and hugs and no beatings, and look at them now.
They're all neets.

Maybe when you're teaching your kid martial art, then it's ok to hit your kid.

Are you a NEET too?

It's not okay to hit your kid.
Indians literally don't mind killing their kids, but awareness against corporal punishment is increasing these days. My parents never had to hit me, but I was a good kid anyway.

You must have done something really clever to get a black eye from your father at age 22

Psychologists tend to assume that kids, especially very young ones(think of 5 yo) can't comprehend moral/societal rules etc. therefore beating as a form of a punishment. Kinda like touching hot stuff burns their hands, hurts them and learns not to touch hot stuff.

They obviously promote different ways of punishment but at the same time they say beating your kid in the right occasions is better than not punishing it at all.

lmao you fags, NEET in the pic stands for National Eligibility and Entrance Test

Things could've been very different if dad ever caught you in a toilet.

He has schizophrenia + anger issues

>stronger more experienced version of you
You'll get your ass beat down. you have no idea what your old man has done or is capable of.
t.have22yoson

Jesus fucking christ I pity your poor daughter who has to grow up with so many psychological issues because of her dumb fuck father. We need fucking forced sterilization

lol why?

That's nothing. I gots two black eyes from my father at birth. Haven't seen him since.

Yes. The weak should fear the strong. Hit women and children

Absolutely, physical punishment is fine. You don't even need the whole hand: two fingers across the cheek will sting enough to leave a lasting impression on their mind. Children do some extremely dumb shit from time to time and setting them straight needs to happen. A child is not your equal, it's your responsibility. I think your soap approach was very apt.

Just don't make a hobby out of it, and realize that by 14-ish your children will be more or less independent and no amount of beating will keep them in line. If they continue disobeying you and making stupid decisions at that age, you've passed the point of no return.

Personally, I don't understand why people are so hung up about preventing your children from race mixing. I would never date or mate with a non-white, but my offspring can be flaming homosexual leftist scum for all I care. It's their life after all. They didn't ask me to father them, so once they take autonomy over their life, it's theirs. You can still take them seriously and discuss your concerns, but punishing your child for degeneracy is insane.

I honestly don't see the difference between hitting a kid and torturing him for a night by making him sleep on the floor.

I mean I'd do the latter rather than hit the kid, but I don't really see the difference. You're intentionally causing him physical discomfort one way or another.

Cool story, probably you with the issues pal

Ayyyyyyyy

I was attempting the same retarded Sup Forums joke that's been made a million times. Went well, it seems.

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Ohh great sense of humour, burgerbro.

>violence isn't an effective means to an end
>take away their bed
How do you make them sleep on the floor absent the threat of violence? immediate controlled physical violence is quick, gets the point across, and provides a deterrent to future shenanigans
>no reason why you should hit your kid
safe spaces are how millennials got where they are today faggot. my kids face adversity because they fear seeing shame in their father's face should they dishonor themselves by quitting; yours will retreat to safety

It's why I have so many good friends.

>India

>they fear seeing shame in their father's face should they dishonor themselves by quitting

It's a mixed bag, obviously it can help but you can also overdo it. Also it's not a substitute for actually talking to and explaining to your kid why what they did was wrong. Let's propose a scenario.

>child gets into snack cupboard and eats all the cookies
>they try to lie to you about it
>you whack them on the butt for lying
>you then explain to them that because they ate all the cookies, there are no snacks for a month (because they're gone)
Appropriate

>child gets into snack cupboard and eats all the cookies
>they try to lie to you about it
>you whack them on the butt for lying
Alright, but you left out the actual punishment bit

>child gets into snack cupboard and eats all the cookies
>they try to lie to you about it
>you punch them in the face
Wrong

>child gets into snack cupboard and eats all the cookies
>they try to lie to you about it
>you whack them on the butt for lying
>they forgot to put their toys away
>you whack them on the butt for lying
>they accidentally spill some milk
>you whack them on the butt for lying
>they breath too loudly
>you whack them on the butt for lying
Wrong

>India
>toilet
I see where you're going with this
welcome newfag. would you like to know more about the Hebrews?

bitch lasagna

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This user gets it

That seems like the best way if you decide to be physical with kids. My father only laid a hand on me when I didn't follow instructions which could of caused harm to me. It definitely makes a point and sticks in your mind for a long time.

Wife and I did it only in the extreme cases to make them remember something which can cause bodily injury to them or sibling.
> Opening the garden gate and running into traffic (age 2)
> trying to get out of the car by climbing over and toppling baby brother's crib (~4mos) so that said baby almost fell headfirst onto concrete as I opened the door (I made the miraculous catch, then spanked the offender 3 hits)
> a dangerous curiosity towards unsecured power socket

>comes in a heartbeat
Never administer punishment until you take the time to explain the reason for the punishment.

How do you handle discipline for a hold that is being violent?

If your child is hurting someone, do you correct the behaviour by hitting him?

It's kinda like with animals, but kids are more inteligent (in some cases) so creative punishments work very well.
If you beat your dog every day it will learn to resent you and becomes desensitized to the pain, or alternatively if it is too much it will lry to repress the memories (or compeltely withdraw in kids case).
If you care for your dog and only beat it when it shits on the antique carpet your gramps left you, preferrably right after or while it is taking the shit and then scold it. It will remember the lesson forever.

This seems pretty reasonable.

Let's expand this discussion. Should you explain why you're punishing them before or after administrating the punishment?

If you catch them in the act, after. If not, before.

if it has to be that way and you absolutly need to beat the little shit it should be in the act if tere caught red handed.

No matter what oversensitive faggots say. Some kids deserve it

Depends on the punishment.
My father kept leavingg almost empty cartons of juice in fridge and kept doing it until I confronted him about it, then he explained it to me so I understood how annoying it is when I don't refuel his bike after borrowing it.

yes, when the kid does something wrong and not near the head

>smack child for beig a shit
>child tells teacher the next day

What now? No matter the reason you will always be seen as the bad guy in this scenario.

It's wrong.

Children cannot give their consent to violence. They do not understand the long-term consequences of being slapped. Children do not comprehend what it is to feel pain.

How dare you as an adult want to give pain to a child.

What if I'm raising the kid to be a masochist?

read the second sentence syrup-nigger

no it lowers there IQ

>I don't have children
the post

>it lowers there IQ
kek

Our house was a dictatorship not a democracy. Father of 3, also.
The offspring weren’t beaten, but it was used as a deterrent to ward off stupidity. Example A: son 1 had a penchant for entering the street. No amount of timeouts or chastising did the trick. Last resort, swatted his ass and guess what? Never did it again. He was 1 1/2 years of age, and a diaper was on his bottom. The crying came from the surprise not the supposed pain.
Example B: daughter was in grocery store with her mother. Proceeded to have giant meltdown in the aisle. Wouldn’t stop. Threw herself on the floor, wailing for cereal that wife knew she wouldn’t eat, but only wanted because of the box. Wife calmly stood her up, swatted her on the bottom, pushed the cart to the front of the store, nicely asked the manager to hold it for her, she’d be back shortly. Brought her home, put her in her room, and went back. Daughter wasn’t allowed to go for outings for a week. Never did it again, and was around 2.
I can count on one hand how often the kids were swatted on the ass combined, and the spankings were all before the age of 5.
Raised a nurse (masters degree) an engineer (mechanical) and a certified mechanic. All hold well paying jobs and are in successful relationships.
I was raised back when a belt was a weapon, and welts were common. Still loved my parents, never shot up a school, abused my wife, etc. I think a lot of this ‘no physical punishment is ever okay!!!’ crap comes from children of boomerfags who were ‘friends’ with their kids, with no practical experience raising kids to adulthood.
Kids are now 27-19, so I do have some basis in theory. Kids friends were often spoiled shits that had no manners, couldn’t grasp common decency, and often acted like fools once away from their parents.

>licked shit in the first place
user, I...

By that point, you’ve pretty much failed at parenting. Pull car into garage, close door, start car. KYS.

Bet you won’t forget to empty the dishwasher again.

I used to get spanked with a belt daily and it turned into a fetish for me.

All I want now is to be strung up by my wrists, gagged, blindfolded, ankles tied together and whipped by a cute dominatrix

Yes

Definitely try to do it in private. In today’s SJW society, these nufags will call DHS in a heartbeat, follow you to your car, and show the video on cuckbook.
Also- agree 100% with everything you said. It’s a last resort punishment and should be swift and for attention purposes. Not hard, just enough to grab their attention.

I had a religious step dad who pushed me face down into a bed when I was 7 or 8, and lashed my lower back with a leather belt until my mother begged him to stop.

He also spat in my face, put a hole in a locked door and locked me out of the house one morning on a school day and left me outside and alone.

Any kind of corporal punishment is abuse and changes nothing for the better.

This, children have no morals. For most things words are sufficient so long as the kid respects you, but when kids deliberately escalate things (parents know what I'm talking about) you have to put the fear of god into them

Get back to us when you actually have a wife and she’s pezzed our a few germ dispensers. Until then, get back to your WoW.

Its ok to hit anything that doesn't listen to you or anything that is being a proper cunt