alright guys, /lurk/ here and i've finally got something good to ask.
My wife and I have been trying for three years to get pregnant, and spent close to 50K on IVF and IUI to no avail.... until this month. This month we bought eggs of a younger woman (24) because my wife is getting up there in age (37). Wife is literally in Atlanta right now getting bloodwork done for a pregnancy test, and she's taken four at home tests this week that all came back with GOOD news.
Let's get a Sup Forums parenting thread going. What should a 35 year old first time Dad do and what should he expect? Yes, we are both white and the egg donor woman is white as well.
TL;DR I'm about to have a baby and I'm happy as fuck about it
Congratulations man, hope everything turns out great for you. The continuation of our people is paramount.
Jaxson Peterson
you look old af for 35
Jayden Miller
Enjoy alimony.
Adam Murphy
mirin' those digits... good omen
Christian Gonzalez
>having a kid when your wife is 37 You deserve the retardation
Jack Turner
trust my judgement, user. I've swam through an ocean of whores to find this woman. A woman I trust would never betray me or my offspring (more importantly)...
Benjamin Lee
The egg is young af
Thomas Moore
Why wouldn't you just adopt? Artificial pregnancy are so gross, should just adopt a kid and save him/her from going to some queen couple who'Ll probably rape it
Ryan Garcia
It's your choice, your responsibility. I'd have gone for a teenager instead of pot roast.
Joseph Morgan
>having a child at 37
Enjoy your autistic baby
Ethan Rivera
Just had my first kid earlier this year, its awesome. I already want to have another one
Justin Parker
this
Fuck, ill even break it down for you. Youre a beta male finally getting some pussy from a used up roastbeef ex-slut. Shes had 10/10 Chad all her life but then she hit the wall and only the betabuck would marry her (you). You think shes a good catch because shes with 100% certainty 2 points prettier than you. As soon as she has the kid she will cougar her way back to Chad. The fact that she cant have kids is nature telling you: this is a used up spinster whore and you should stay away. But betaboy here is too thirsty.
Blake Gray
Spit in the face of my ancestors? No thanks. I want to see my DNA carry on.
Joseph Perry
>having a kid at 37
gonna be awesome when you die of old age in their early 40s
Isaac Hill
This, being redpilled allows you to find the good ones. It's a crap shoot otherwise.
Noah Jackson
Congrats, 14 words brother.
Henry Baker
you cannot trust women. They do not operate the same as men. They can and will turn on you at a moments notice despite how much they currently are dependable. Hormones are a large part of this.
Andrew Kelly
Did you not read his post? He got an egg donor. Probably because he wants his DNA to still live on. Plus, most of Sup Forums would shitpost about it.
Kayden Lewis
If your kid DOESNT turn out to be retarded just teach him classic philosophy and how to weigh evidence and not take anything without it. Also to make decisions for himself, not letting others decide for him based on their pre-existing beliefs. Thats how I came to all my conclusions. Philosophy degree (pre-law, dont worry) negated all this liberal bullshit. Also i had a great philosophy program based on what I said before they wouldn't stand for the arguments lefties make now
David Brooks
Holy FUCK the projection. Dude, worry not. Things will get better for you.
Samuel Gomez
Oh gotcha the egg is why your wife is preggy i thought you meant she got preggy after you got the egg. Well good luck to ya man, congrats
Christopher Campbell
my wife had my kids at 39 and 41 and they arent autistic.
i'd bet a million dollars they dont end up in your moms basement like your retarded NEET ass
Brayden Long
Meant for my bad, saging for my retardation
Brayden Nelson
>trust my judgement >A woman I trust would never betray me
Logan Gomez
btw OP medical student here. Wanna know the nr 1 reason of infertility in women? Its STDs. Your wife is literally a classic cock carousel partygirl that hit the wall hard but found you: a man she literally wouldnt even touch for 37 years.
Evan Cooper
It's a game of chance, not a statistic absolute.
Jace Howard
A part of me wants to call you a desperate retard, and a part of me knows you are right.
Benjamin Jones
Is she not at least 2 points out of 10 more attractive than you?
No man that can easily afford 50k MARRIES a woman THATS 37 TWO YEARS OLDER than him thats also less attractive than himself.
Adrian Evans
NAWALT :DDD
Austin Wilson
Who knew the Netherlands would show up and cuck up the only fucking thread I've made in 2017. Well done, boys.
Matthew Turner
>Fuckin negative cunts in this thread. Congratulations OP. Pregnancy is an emotional rollercoaster, try not to take your wifes moodswings to heart. Wait until the second trimester to announce the pregnancy publicly (sucks having to explain a miscarriage if it happens when you're already in a bad place) Doing ivf and stuff you probably have a bunch of doctors telling your wife how to stay healthy, keep up with your appointments. If you can take a few weeks off work after bubs is born do it to help your mrs adjust and recover from the birth. Accept help from family and friends (people offering to help clean your house and cook you meals? take it! You have no idea how exhausted a newborn will make you both). but don't feel bad to tell them to leave you all alone if you prefer. Always listen to other peoples parenting advice but you are not obligated to take it on, don't be a pushover and let cunts tell you what to do with your kid.
Landon Phillips
Philosophy isn't truly red pilled but also teach him to work hard. Help your son become the best version of himself. Guide him and help him. Cherish him. Help him pursue his interests. Don't fight with your wife in front of your son or say anything bad about your wife in front of him. Family unity is crucial for development. Also make sure he is properly socialized. A lot of us, myself included, were poorly socialized and struggled to find out place in the world. Good luck. Be a father not a tyrant
Jayden Parker
Depends. Alpha - be the best you can
Beta - GTFO
Jace Wood
>inb4 her eggs were fine >inb4 OP was shooting blanks >inb4 baby is black
Screencap this post.
Noah Long
Listen man, I'm no Chad, but I've had hundreds of Stacies. The redpill moment is when you realize you should marry a woman that is obedient and trustworthy regardless of looks, so you can go out and sire subtley with the trash women on the weekends.
Zachary Reyes
We're not inundated with babyfeels, user. All we see is the figures you gave and the statistics we know. You posted this on a Mongolian basketweaving imageboard of peace, did you really expect roasties to mash the like button as if this is facebook?
Ian Miller
I cant wait till these 18 year old faggots who hate on people in their 30s get there. This kid here will probably be 400lbs, virgin, and ready to commit wizard suicide by then.
Lincoln Lopez
This is legit advice for you, were not trying to make fun of your situation. It hurts me to see such blue pilledness going on.
Learn this shit. You do not want to have only 1 child and then pay 50% of your salary to your ex and the child you never get to see while Chad fucks your wife anally in your bed with your child hearing the screams from the next room.
Ryan Miller
Then you should have just fucked the doner - why are you letting her blow her body out for "childbirth". Surrogates asshole....!
Daniel King
Thanks cunt. Appreciate the advo. Isn't it funny how negative Sup Forums is all the time? I fucking love it mate, it's what keeps this place from turning into theybook. But holy shit even a parenting thread gets turned into diarrhea
Josiah Taylor
What part of his post indicated he was hating on people in their 30's? It's objectively a bad idea for a woman to have children the older she gets, you're rolling the genetic dice with the odds against you. Finding a young wife and procreating with her is the ideal thing to do. You can do this when you're in your 30's.
Connor Morales
Well said user
Joshua Young
Fuck off op you yuppie fuck I hope your gender fluid shit suffers during its short life
Blake Smith
Please tell me the eggs are from a white woman
Chase Sullivan
>Philosophy isn't truly redpilled >a whole discipline related to truth through logic isn't truly redpilled Either you're retarded or redpilled is short for "retarded"
Luis Cooper
why would you marry a 37 year old unfertile wrench in the first place and spend all that money on trying to fix her roastie beefcurtains meatflops niggletbucket cave. shoulda went for a younger fertile woman instead of a mongrel mixbreed. you fucked up mate
Aaron Adams
>a woman that is obedient and trustworthy sigh OP im begging you: in 2 years will you please tell us how divorce court was. If you refuse to learn then at least provide us with bantz.
Benjamin Lee
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Jonathan Watson
>Reading comprehension >Flag
Checks out.
Gavin Cook
Holland, I promise I will still be here in two years. Hopefully pregnant with another white baby.
Robert Sanchez
My bad, I didn't read until the end. I'm happy for you and wish you good luck
Chase Parker
>asking Sup Forums for parenting advice There are countless websites with good tips on first time parents. The hospital should also have a baby class as well.
Pic related really helped me, but nothing will prepare you for everything. Your whole life changes when that baby is born.
William Johnson
Its agreed then! See you in 2 years OP. Id wish you good luck but then this guy destroyed you
Eli Myers
Thanks yurobro. now about those borders...
Thomas White
Congratulations OP. Your life is about to change for the better. There are gonna be sleep less nights where you are gonna be pissed of waking up at 2-6am to put her back to sleep, give her bottle, change (shit I subconsiouly wrote her because i have a daughter. that how much it affects you) him/her but in the end of the day it's all worth it.
Please keep an eye out on what he/she watches consumes media wise. Instill good morals. Don't overtly drop redpills but do sprinkle the seed. If it's a boy it'll be easier.
Xavier Carter
If it's a girl, she WILL be BLACKED when she grows up so just brace yourself for that in 20 or so years. Other than that, good luck
Justin Miller
More like 10
Luke Perez
Post wife's feet
Brandon Rivera
beware
Blake Long
Whatever you do dont get the MMR vaccine
If you do wait until the baby is 3 yrs old and don't get the all in one shot
Get one shot every 3 months
t. Pediatrician
Logan Fisher
Congrats, dude. You're gonna have a good time.
Don't expect to sleep much, and your work performance to suffer as a result. You're priorities are gonna shift, which maybe isn't a big deal for young dudes, but you'll notice for sure at your age.
Parenting is mostly about providing stability, creating structure, and being a credible authority figure. There will be times when you need to discipline, just make sure you can restore the kids dignity with grace and speed after.
Good luck.
Eli Perry
Nothing bad about kids say good bye to a good night's rest you'll have an alarm clock set to a half hour every half hour
Zachary Powell
>What should a 35 year old first time Dad do and what should he expect
autism, nice job knocking up a 37 year old and enjoy having to provide for your autistic adult child at age 70+
Charles Martinez
>tfw got my wife pregnant after 2 months of trying
damn it feels good to be 25.
Oliver James
>What should a 35 year old first time Dad do and what should he expect? the first year is pretty much like having a dog or a cat, other than changing diapers. It's pretty easy. Girl, started crawling at 6, read to and interacted with her alot, shared solid food around 6 months, had her walking with toys(things on wheels to help prop them up) around 10 months, taught her to blow out the candle on her first birthday cupcake, eat it with a baby spork & open presents. Had her climbing on playground equipment and playing well on inflatable bounce house/obstacle courses at 18 months. Challenge them, trust other kids to be aware of little ones. Honestly you're pre-programmed to be a good dad somewhere in your genes, just have to tap into your instincts and you have to want to raise a survivor, and don't baby them too much. Some people can't tap into their empathy circuits as easily or nurture without practice though, so get a cat or dog to see how it goes that way first, and train it.
Luis Adams
>My wife and I have been trying for three years to get pregnant I think you mean, "trying for three years to get HER pregnant."
My wife had out two kids at 38 and 41. First six months don't expect much bonding while your wife figures out how to emotionally deal with the baby leaching every once of energy from here. After 6 months 1 year as the father you roll starts to get more involved. Good luck brother.