Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28? How can we fix it? Is this natural?

Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28? How can we fix it? Is this natural?

web.archive.org/web/20171009134311/https://singlepringlereadytomingle.wordpress.com/2016/05/30/single-life-in-your-thirties/

Other urls found in this thread:

youtube.com/watch?v=NCL_9lfvFuU
twitter.com/NSFWRedditVideo

because they won't face the reality that their sexual market value is starting to drop.

>Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28?
Because people in the 60s thought they knew better than a hundred generations before them.
Turns out, they didn't.

>Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28?

funny

because at 40 they are aging and they don't have someone to look past their age and love them for who they are and were 20 years ago

let this be a warning to all the roasties
stop pursuing a career/degree/job and FUCKING FIND A MAN THAT YOU LOVE, MAKE BABIES AND BE A HOMEMAKER. THE JOY OF HAVING A KID OR KIDS WILL OVERWHELM ANY HAPPINESS YOU GET FROM A JOB

>How can we fix it?
It can't be fixed and we should not care.

The answer to OPs question is in the pic. Feminism.

>Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28?
Patriarchy.

>How can we fix it?
With law prohibiting men to refuse marriage.

>11
>40%
Ok, Pedo

...

>Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28?
Because men are attracted to youthfulness and fertility first and foremost.
>Is this natural?
As natural as breathing air and drinking water.

>WHAT HAPPENED TO BEING INDEPENDENT
>REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
top kek

Women are having trouble getting married after 28 because they're not supposed to get married past then. By that time they're already supposed to have used their sexual market value to "buy" them a mate suitable to their standing, and should already have had at least one child, maybe two, generally speaking.

Past the age of 28, if they've squandered their youthful period of heightened value as a partner on riding the cocktail carousel, rather than using it searching for a life partner, it's their mistake.

>9
>5%

Fuggggg thats more that we have faggots and trannies

>one of the remaining 60%
And your point being?

Just because you find them sexually attractive (in whatever way) doesn't mean they're actually pedos.
>living by denial
if it makes you happy...

They think, being 30 year old 6/10,s that they deserve for some reason a 9/10 chad who also makes six figures a year drives a porsche, has a six pack, has all his hair etc. Their standards are too high, and they dont understand that being a fat cunty bitch who is controlling and gets offended at every little thing is not how you attract a man, never-mind a chad. These women live in La La Land, they need a wake-up call

...

Men only want to be in relationships with women if the woman makes them happier than they otherwise would be.

Women have gone insane from feminism, leftism and various forms of psychotic ideology, and actually believe that men will become happier from their company if they make lots of money, have a senior position or a high education.

For the most part, men don't become happier from being with a woman like that. Your partner's money plays a small role in happiness. Senior positions often involve being a stressed-out asshole with dark rings under your eyes. Education is just specialism, turning you into a subject freak if studying narrowly or a pedantic asshole if studying broadly. These things DO NOT make men happier.

That's why 40-year old women who work hard can't get relationships. The men just don't become happier from their company, so the men don't want their company. Better to hang out with guy friends, work on your car, play games, walk the dog or whatever, things that actually make them happy.

What kind of women make men happy? Well:

1) young and hot ones
2) kind and caring ones
3) intellectually open, smart non-assholes, to some extent
4) already having shared many experiences earlier in life

The concept was that a man and a woman got together at a young age, they stuck together through difficult times, they fucked a lot, and when they got older, they kept together partially helped by these memories. A guy who loved fucking his wife when they were both hot 20-year olds will still look at her fondly and be up for an occasional romp at the age of 40.

But a guy at 40 will be almost entirely uninterested in a "successful" woman at 40. He doesn't find her hot or attractive. She doesn't make him happy. Why on earth should he care about spending time with her? Because of her job title? It really takes a special brand of retarded feminist to believe so.

Another description of the same thing.

If a guy has been fucking a hot woman regularly from 18 to 28, he will feel a strong attachment to her.

It matters less if she's somewhat less hot at the age of 40, because of the memories they built when they were young.

There's pretty much nothing a 40-year old woman can do to attract a man. She can be 35 if she's in peak physical condition and good at makeup.

>and they don't have someone to look past their age and love them for who they are and were 20 years ago

Also the same point.

Where do you find a man like this? Most men dont want to start a family, thanks to the shit laws against them. Church?

This has to include masturbation...right?
RIGHT!?!

42 year olds on that grose midlife crisis

lol cause beta men

youtube.com/watch?v=NCL_9lfvFuU

Gotta throw in some Muslim countries.

Older fags will probably relate to this;

>Be me, meet an amazing girl at 24, turn the world inside out to make our relationship happen
>Get cheated on, get friend zoned
>10 years later she tries to trick me into getting back together with her because she's been over roasted and desperately wants kids before turning 35
>I tell her to fuck off in no uncertain terms

Sadly she won't get to be a mother unless she 'accidentally' forces pregnancy by deceiving her partners. They'll naturally walk out on her, and her kids will join the untouchable class of single parent mixed kids in a society that doesn't want them.

This is what happens when you believe what you were taught in school.

Because women started to enjoy the things that only men used to and they didn't realize why men enjoyed those things.

I think men just stop giving a shit after that age. First, men unanimously prefer younger girls. As a 29-year-old I exclusively date under 25. I don't have time for stale Christmas cake. Women who are 28 would be better off looking for men in their late 30's early 40's. However, most men in this age range really only care about sex. They're often comfortable and set in their lives such that they don't need some middle-tier aging hag to complete their lives.

What these women should be doing is drastically improving their appearance and sex appeal to make themselves look as young and healthy as possible while they still have a fraction of their youth left. Most of the women in this age range that complain about not being able to get men are usually fat, ugly larders.

Not true. Although most women are not that hot after 40, if they are it's a full
on assault. When guys are 40 they get dumped by the bimbo they picked and lost all their shit in a nasty divorce stuck paying child support they see a hot woman they want to get married immediately. I get hit on and offered marriage all the time at age 50. I do have to agree though, its better to get married young, have kids young, stay super healthy (no smoking, no drugs, very little drinking, all healthy food) you will be super hot at 50 and have the same partner to go
travel and have fun.

Christmas cakes are cute

Cute!

42?

This cannot be real. Women aren't capable of being this self-aware.

do you think there's ever a moment of self awareness?

It's not natural to be looking for marriage after 28. At this point, the chances of birth defects increase with each passing month.

This is what happens when you're a Christmas cake trying to date up rather than at your level or down.

You gotta lock down women by mid 20's. This often requires knocking them up and having a kid can put the sense into any woman. The real trick to then keeping them and avoiding divorce is you gotta continue to knock them up until they produce at least 3 preferably 4+ kids.

>mfw this user loves the phrase "christmas cake" as much as I do
nobody wants you on the 26th bitch

I'm saving this for trolling porpouses

On the other hand, she could be "converting" to more conservative just to pander to bitter beta men.
Kind of like Lauren Southern.

you're only as old as you feel
>42

Your post isn't even coherent.

Why do you presume that 40 year old guys are only together with bimbos? Only pick bimbos? But they somehow have children with these bimbos? What does it even mean?

You sound like a 40-year old woman.

i'm 28, had 2 boyfriends and i'm done. i'm happier being alone than with someone who treats me like shit. not saying all men are like that but i think there is something wrong with me that makes it so i can only be attracted to absolute shit human beings. so it's better this way.

tl;dr
>I'm not crazy, your crazy

>There are so many options that guys don't try at all. It's like they're sitting there with a huge menu in front of them and it's so overwhelming that they can't decide what to eat. If they try me out and I'm not inmediately to their liking, they move on easily.
For god's sake, I lost.

Its ok. I feel the same about women.

Lets die alone together!

Good men aren't looking to go around and find a woman to 'treat' well or badly. The question is if you can add something positive to their life. If you are just sitting down and waiting for someone to come and treat you, nobody will want to show up other than those looking for someone to treat badly.

The lady probably doesn't get rejected as often as she says. She probably fucks a lot, but doesn't have a boyfriend.

>former actress who just completed her first novel
So, basically, she's unemployed and looking to hook a whale ASAP.

I love this article. I decided to highlight all the points where she blames men in red, and the one time she considers that just maybe it's her in blue (although she immediately writes that she dismisses that notion immediately)

what's also hilarious is that if you swap the genders and read the article as if a man is writing about women, it's 100% MGTOW. nice to see that women get their come uppance.

>only looking for chad
>doesn't even consider anything less
Don't be fooled by this pseudo sense of self awareness. When these women lament on the lack of men, they've still got their eyes set only on Chad. Despite the millions of betas who would scoop them up in a heartbeat, no matter how much their vagina might resemble an Arby's lunch special, the average western female will still keep her blinders on for these men. Even when offered a way out of her misery, the modern western woman would rather wallow in misery rather than capitulate on a single one of her desires.

This strong woman still requires the man to plan the date for her, crying "entertain me" like a child. If you're bored, maybe it's because you're shit company.

i gave them everything. i gave too much and that's why they were able to hurt me so bad. it's not healthy for me to be in a relationship. i cannot have boundaries for some reason

>i gave too much and that's why they were able to hurt me so bad
I read that as anal.

kek

I misread your post, read that pieces of shit were attracted to you.

I see now you wrote that you can only be attracted to pieces of shit.

Well, women are often very mascohistic, and are most attracted to violent, abusive people.

I don't know how to fix that. I'm not attracted to violent, abusive women.

Women seriously think the world should bend over backwards to pander to them, it's really disgusting.
>Waaa men don't put effort
>Bawww men have too many options
>Booo hooo I want a guy to romance me
Seriously I try not to be a misogynist but when one of these sacks of shit wants to be treated like Queen Elizabeth I understand more and more Elliot Rodgers

Im already wanting to mess with you for some keks

>Been with wife since we were 19.
>Had our daughter at 25
>Were 27 now and she wants another baby always commebting on seeing a baby etc.

Fuck please tell me your lying. I love her but I don't know if I can have pull the trigger again and get another daughter. I saw what two older sisters did to my dad.

>If you want the pleasure of my company,
It has been quite a while since the last time I've lost on Sup Forums.
Bravo.

Women need children to stay busy and not become degenerate one child is not enough you need three or four with two years between each. You are going to need more than that since you had kids in your twenties instead of your thirties.

>6

When will women learn

That when a guy is ACTUALLY interest in her, he will put that kind of effort into it. If he's not putting that effort into it from the outset, then it's clear he only has passing interest in you, probably just enough to want to fuck you.

Also you can't just sit there and expect dudes to read your mind. If you want to go on a fucking date, tell him. Fucking roasties.

...

>"...the feminist movement had ulterior motives; particularly mandated by western governments to collect more tax money by 'coercing' women into the work force

>"...all they want to do is ruin the nuclear family which they have and control people"

Looks like she redpilled herself

>Men constantly decide I'm too much work
She really doesn't get it, does she? Every relationship is about her and what she wants. Men should just feel lucky they get to experience the pleasure of her company! What a joke.

What the fuck is up with 42 year olds?

>pedo
You do not know the meaning of it do you?

It's called they were horrible cunts to even make it to 28 without getting married. Most women, even like 3/10 uggos can pick from a handful of decent guys to settle down with during that time

acurrate

it's the ugly year for men

>millions of betas who would scoop them up
she's nearly 40

Is it the year of the menopause?

As much as I can sympathize with the idea there's no fucking idea of what constitutes sexual attractiveness. It's just random numbers and bars. What metric justifies 50% sexual attractiveness at 26 vs 65-70 at 32?

Well there are millions. Just not the kind they want.

I don't think you get how desperate some betas are.

>i can't change the fact that THEYRE so insecure

>whats empirical science for 20 shekkels
it's just random numbers and bars my ass.

This is literally the average male's experience in online dating; not the female's.

if you're ugly

why the decline at 42/43?

>Why are women having such a hard time getting married after 28?
>Because people in the 60s thought they knew better than a hundred generations before them.
>Turns out, they didn't.

/thread

>if you're not top 10%
ftfy

the data is shit

probably a very small sample size

>the feminist movement had ulterior motives; particularly mandated by western governments to collect more tax money by 'coercing' women into the work force. Women are generally happier when they assume more feminine roles in society. The government and the mainstream media don't give a flying fuck about the betterment of society -- all they want to do is ruin the nuclear family which they have and control people.

Well said, shame she didn't realize this until it was too late. How do we wake up the women?

>I started thinking maybe there's something really wrong with me that these guys find me too intimidating and ambitious for them
literally
>men can't handle my independence
kek'd

anyway not to sound like a /r9k/ cuck but we all know she is having a bunch of one night stands but by her or just female standards she is having somewhat fewer now than before. talk to me when she starts getting to male levels of isolation and rejection

It's not if you're ugly, it's if you're not exceptionally handsome. Women are brutal. They rate something like 80% of men 'below average"

Beautiful

>Women are brutal.
eh... maybe those disco shiksas in the city. Have you considered moving somewhere comfy?

I can't do it. I love being in the big city. Slow moving rural life doesn't suit me. I'd rather stay single than move into the sticks and be some desperate blumpkin's last resort.

I am actually leaning towards this. Even if a woman did realize all this she would never be able to bring herself to articulate it in the way she writes in OP's pic. It just doesn't sound like a woman.

yeah, I almost feel like her account got hacked by a guy who used it to roast her but then it turned out that everyone secretly thought that stuff about her anyway

Could be a tranny who's chip stayed on their shoulder throughout their transition. That's my thoughts.

>I can't do it.
Well, then don't. Your loss. Just saying; there is a world out there, where people aren't this poisoned by all this mass-hysteria jew shittfest. Cities, especially the fancy once, have always been the meeting point of the most degenerate.
>shit
>flies
You get the picture.

Here's the real answer, but it's pretty boring...

By the time people reach their late 20's, they've become the person they're going to be come, and they've built their life along (or with their friends).

When people get married at 18, 1/2 the fun is building a life together. The shared experiences build a bond, and together their life winds up about 1/2 way between where each of them would be individually.

But by the time you are in your late 20's, you already have your life and habits. And getting married starts to be more effort than fun.

So the guy has to give up watching the game on Sunday, the woman has to give up going out to the wine and cheese thing with her friends. Both have to compromise as to which side of the bed, who gets the shower first, etc.

Oh no I'm not in Jew York or San Francuckso. I'm in Columbus OH. Based midwest, but with some of that baggage. Worth it to have more than one restaurant to go to though.

a woman is like toilet paper, once you wipe with it, it can never go back to its normal state

no it's because female fertility starts to drop off drastically after this age. It's why MGTOW calls iit "the wall". All of a sudden after a certain age within a very brief time span, women go from 9/10 down to 4/10 or less.

After this, the dating market flips on it's head. With men being far more valued and desired than women

>That when a guy is ACTUALLY interest in her, he will put that kind of effort into it.

I would bet cash money that men USED to put that kind of effort into it. Like when she was 19-22. Now she can't see that men don't really care all that much.