Where have all the good men gone?

theres a lot of shit talked on /pol about women holding out for chads, but i never hear about men lowering their porn informed beauty standards and settling for ugly chicks to raise kids with, why is that?

why the double standard?

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>why the double standards

Why do libtards think men and women are equal? Just because your teachers tell you something doesn't mean it's true, and since when has been a man's aim to hold out for a 10/10? I think k most men would settle for a moderately attractive woman who actually had feminine traits, as opposed to the whites that are not only tolerated but promoted in western society

>i never hear about men lowering their porn informed beauty standards and settling for ugly chicks to raise kids with
Unless you're morbidly obese or a 2/10, a girl shouldn't have trouble finding a man. I know for me, as soon as she starts talking about all her guy friends and how she's had sex with x guy before but now they're just friends, it's a red flag. I'm told that I have high standards for not being open to polyamorous relationships or the "let's have sex with different people because we need variety, but it doesn't mean anything" shit. A lot of the girls I know who have boyfriends constantly talk about how they want to fuck this or that guy, and these are seemingly "good girls" too.
There is no double standard. No one knows how to have a real relationship.

Then how do you explaing all the dangerously overweight hideous moms you see all around?

I was here.

>be me
>be naive
>be traditional
>Married college sweet heart
>Good family, good looking, she had only 1 other sexual partner
inb4 she lied
>Married at 24
>have three great kids, all blonde haired blue eyed
doing my part for my race
>my career takes off
>she stops working
>starts "mommy blog"
>turns into PIC FUCKING RELATED
>she had it all, didn't have to worry about money
>I warned her and warned her but likes and comments were her crackpipe
>divorced finalized in July
>Wanted alimony but got shit because her deposition was fully of lies about her social media use.

Now I deal with women on my own terms

I got Genevieve here hanz. She's sassy and dynamic. Taker?

Because 95 % of young women are attractive if they only are thin and healthy.

Because even they wont date some beta loser virgin.

There are some quiet lonely ones out there but I've found even morbidly obese girls can still get sex, and they're quite happy to be some guys casual sex friend and deep down hope one day he will marry them just like guys sit happily in the friend zone hoping for the same thing.

Because its nothing to brag about.

>settling for ugly chicks to raise kids with, why is that?
You must be new here. If you spend time here, you realize that people have a standard of beauty that is not as simple as you seem to think. Lots of "Thicc" and less than spectacular women are praised with pictures.

Any takers?

Men have never had standards retard. The only rule used to be "don't be fat" but women are now demanding men find fatties hot because they can't even do that right.

You're far more likely to see Chad go home with a whale than a dime going home with a neckbeard. Many women today don't reach any sane man's standards but they'll still be slobbered over

>There are some quiet lonely ones out there but I've found even morbidly obese girls can still get sex, and they're quite happy to be some guys casual sex friend and deep down hope one day he will marry them just like guys sit happily in the friend zone hoping for the same thing.
I know just what you're talking about because I'm friends with one of them. Some kid fucked her a few times, and now she acts like they're dating. Even stalks him on Facebook and takes screenshots when he likes other girls' photos to bitch him out. Don't know why he just doesn't tell her to GTFO.

Your post is the ultimate red-pill. Spot on!

How can it come as a surprise to anyone that you won't find a good man if you're already old? Most men want children, and none of these women can give birth.

faceberg, snapshit and twatter are destroying women, who are addicted to validation

Even the ugly and fat chicks what Chads user. Especially if you live in an area with tons of fatties like I do.

They all look like colossal bitches.

Some women are just to smart for men

>dried-up eggs
>taking that shit

that's why men date down, mostly age wise because that means she'll have less emotional baggage and will be more open to relationships. can you imagine the sheer standards of these women in your pic? I'd rather die single and virgin than take such a shit deal settling for some mushy half-dead old twisted crone.

heck, my eternally young 2D waifu who doesn't even exist is a better deal than that.

Because every women out there, whatever the age, the physic, the education level etc etc considers herself to be an exceptional jewel, who is by essence superior to any and every men, and therefore should be cherished and treated as such.

...

I wonder how useful therapy she'll be able to give. Brought up on the mantra of equality, now childless and alone. I suppose she would really know what not to do, but, if she's a feminist, she'll just blame men.

a piece of tissue is more valuable to me than any of these aged cunts

You're misinformed, Jerry.

Or else too arrogant to put up with.

I drop this bomb for special occasions only.

>Because every women out there
That's a bit of an overstatement. I'd say at least 50 % of women are quite nice people. Usually the younger and married ones are pleasant and feminine. Libarts students and older single women tend to be screeching feminists.

>sassy
Can we get some sort of worldwide PSA to let women know that this is not a glowing endorsement? I'm starting to think they've come to believe it is.

I posted this picture on Sup Forums once and a leddit kid got angry about it being """"pretentious"""". Must have hit too close to home.

Do you know what that guys see, tastes and smells every time he splits these t bone steaks she calls pussy lips? There must be fat heavy strings of smelly cyprine from lip to lip.

And women say men have too high standards. Lol

They advertise it.

>women ruined men by demonizing masculinity
>surprised men are all beta faggot cucks now
Don't call it a grave. It is the future you chose.

Her problem could be summed up as The Pill + feminism.

>Men have never had standards retard
>Many women today don't reach any sane man's standards
contradictory gibberish

I'd rather die single and virgin than take such a shit deal settling for some mushy half-dead old twisted crone.

case in point, /pol erect barriers through standards that focus on looks not standards of 'good woman' material. they would rather die out than settle for a 3-4/10. this is a luxury our ancestors didn't have.

how is this not 'where have all the good women gone' tier bullshit?

Wtf are you saying dude? Our problem is the opposite of that. Too much cheap pussy going around devalues it to the point that it doesn't make sense for men to get married and basically we go extinct. Shit man, I'd be happy if women would hold out. Of course I don't want to marry an ugly chick; untermenschen should not reproduce.

exactly. That's why it's stupid to assume every woman without children has ridden the cock carousell. Could also be she was just rejected.

oh yeah, i remember this one and her women's studies degree

youtube.com/watch?v=K_zxHLKxiG0&t=4056s

get comfy

non ugly women are single for a reason, her attitude is more than likely dogshit and its evident from that novel she just wrote.

Her problem isnt the cock carroussel indeed. Her problem is her massive denial, mixed with her huge entitlement.

She assumes she's an awesome jewel. She can't cope with the fact that she is average at best and men will only accept her if she accepts this fact first.

She's (un)screwed really.

I lament the fact that the concept of marriage, monogamy, and actually honoring "til death do us part" has become such a fucking joke to women nowadays. I want to get married and have kids but it's just not worth the risk in current year.
Fucking second wave feminists and the (((slavkikes))) behind them. I hate it. I hate looking at my parents and their 30 year marriage and realizing that I'm not going to have that. I don't want some beta-cück to raise my children. I don't want to get divorce-raped.
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

ITT: People falling for MGTOW meme

She is absolutely right with many of the things she says but her problem is she only acknowledges the guy side of it. Women have been just as ruined by things like Tinder and have become just as entitled as men have been.

attractiveness is not the issue. most people on this board would happily settle down with a plain, or even ugly woman if she shared their values / behaved morally. this post would've been better suited for r9k, where it would be 100% accurate and not a strawman.

> tfw too intelligent to have a bf

LOL boo hoo cunts have to deal with what men have to deal with now.

Equality indeed.

r9k would have had a different approach all together. I prefer debating this on pol desu

>how is this not 'where have all the good women gone' tier bullshit?

as everybody else said, their eggs are past the expiration date. her character is meaningless if I can also find a much younger and more fertile person and decide to have kids with her than literally do the stupidest shit ever and be with a really old woman. it does depend on your own age though, however. perhaps some 50-60 year old guys would try to have a relationship with them but christ, if I was that old and still not married I'd just let that whole idea go and never look back. besides, plenty of fish in the sea. "where have all the good women gone" doesn't qualify here as a question. men want a female to be physically attractive and fertile so there can be kids. those things are more important than just settling for someone's personality first and foremost. as long there is good chemistry with attractive and young women, no way in hell you'd settle for some old shitbag pretending it's the "moral" thing to do. it isn't even moral. it's not a pity party either. it's just you trying to be strategic and smart about your love life and who would blame you for that? not even women would.

it's not even a problem if women themselves just complained about it. the main problem is that feminism runs through all grains in our education system and they're neutering our young men of their masculinity before they even get a chance to express or embrace it.

>measure up
I think I've found the problem. Size queens have a real issue on their hands, and it's of their own making.

That's what an artificial incubator is for. Superior children

>have become just as entitled as men have been.
I don't understand how men have been entitled. They've had to prove themselves in the past to get a woman. And majority of men never could do that. The majority of men died alone. Doesn't sound like that would breed much entitlement.

While I understand the sentiments of not wanting marriage because roasties aren't to be trusted, it really just comes down to learning how to control your woman, constantly improving yourself and protecting yourself financially if it all does go to shit.

Remember a woman has a lot more to lose in a divorce if you're smart, a dude in his 40s in good shape is still gonna be able to get pussy on the reg and have mad earning potential. This trend is only going to exasperate as people get married later in life.

nah I was single very long and I am not entitled. There are just women who are the beta men of womanhood. Not interesting, pretty, cool, extroverted enough to force yourself to accept her because actually you deserve much better and have much more time and there are so many other options. You can always hope to become a millionaire within the next years and then you'd regret it.
It's the sexual liberation mixed with technology.
I noticed that too when I tried online dating after not being successful in the open.
I also could delete and ignore hundreds of men and decide with which to talk to.
This would not be the case without internet.

So that 46 years old woman at my office, is obviously single as fuck and has no kids. She looks like shit, complains all the time, is intolerant and has the IQ of a turkish male.

However, when I asked her (smoothly), if she'd like to remain single of start a family (46), her answer was:

"Oh I will totally start a family, no doubt! I'm just looking for the right man".

I didn't feel an ounce of hesitation in her voice user. She is genuinely convinced it will still happen. Keep in mind she isnt doing a single effort, not one.

These bitches have no sense of anything, they live in a different dimension.

>porn informed beauty standards
>settling for ugly chick to raise kids with
Does not compute. Porn raised my beauty standards breddy fuggin high m8. I dont know what kinda porn you're watching, but damn son.

>it's just you trying to be strategic and smart about your love life and who would blame you for that?

this is the issue, its increased choice, relationships/mating is a marketplace now. in the past our ancestors had to make do with what was local, make those relationships work (if only for appearances sake) and raise a family. now males & women don't need to do this. this literally does not exist because both males and women are holding out for better options. this does not fit the 1488 centric worldview you see repeated on /pol

Ugly chicks don't believe that they are ugly and can still have a 10/10 guy.

There are plenty of men who think they are entitled, not even to attractive women, but think they deserve at least some average girl. No one is entitled to anyone's love, guy or girl.

That said, I would say that women definitely moreso than men have come to expect the world of their potential mates. I don't think anyone ever took it into account that when women enter the workplace, their expectations of the kind of man they would end up marry skyrocketed. Men don't view mates in terms of wealth, women do.

>fap exclusively to Met Art nudes growing up
>find regular porn with some caveman bumming a tart repulsive

My patrician tastes are too refined it's true

Thinking you deserve something is not at all the same as being entitled to something.

Fuck off cunt

>men want a female to be physically attractive and fertile so there can be kids.


Not all desu
Many men who already have children are done with that and want t enjoy their freedom. Those often have older partners who also are done with their family planning.
It's not every 50 year old's dream to change diapers and have constant noise around him and later teenage drama.
Older men often want to travel, buy a boat, play golf, eat fine etc.

Sage

>Men With Attractive Wives Report Higher Levels Of Marital Satisfaction, New Study Finds

m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4299002

>New study finds women who date less attractive men have better relationships

news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/new-study-finds-women-who-date-less-attractive-men-have-better-relationships/news-story/ca150f358dde7c5fc89d003a07c466c9

I'm married to a good one, if I end up alone, I will
just get another dog. Men are just as degenerate
as women now.

veri sexi open bob ples

Men and women in the 6-8 range have largely fallen for the self-improvement meme and it traps them on a mental treadmill. I'm guilty of it myself; used to be obese, lost a ton of weight, now a real world 8, top-tier city 7, and I keep putting things off because I'd like this or that to be better before I commit to my imagined wife and kids. It's not that the less-than-ideal women are beneath me, it's that I'm not good enough, but I will be if I only change x, and then years slip by. There's a girl at the gym right now, she's a solid 7.5. Similar story to mine. We're totally aspie around each other, might be time to just throw my hat in and see what happens.

yeah, that's another huge issue with them. they are all way too passive about finding a relationship. when was the last time a woman grinds up on you or takes genuine interest in you? it barely, if ever happens. they don't want to take responsability for their actions and don't want to face the consequences of what they do. it's on Molymeme's channel all the time when some depressed roastie calls in and then he has to sort it out and literally tell women in their late 20s to move their idiotic ass if they wanna have a partner. we all have to be pro-active about it if we want the best possible relationship and there will be a point where there are no excuses anymore to leave the comfort zone and face possible rejection. the roasties are just too stuck-up and face that truth themselves as well. Men can't and will not always hover and orbit a cunt trying to woo her if the outcome is unclear or not beneficial enough. She has to show him it's worth it by her own initiative or else NOTHING will happen and NOTHING happens way too much, all the time because of irrational fear-based behavior.

>but i never hear about men lowering their porn informed beauty standards and settling for ugly chicks to raise kids with
Maybe you should check your hearing then, cause if men didn't settle for ugly women, there would be 0 birth rate in Germany

One must be utterly stupid or paranoid to fall or relate this to MGTOW. Standards exists, or rather simple truths. A 35+ roastie is not going to bear healthy white children. A cunt who's only talking point is how many mensluts she had from her 8 birthday on and who she would like to have blow a load into her worn out cum dumpster next will not be carrying about children and probably have STD. In ancient times, they became nuns, today the jew praises them, and because of there biology they love it. pic very related Men are also in fault, especially Boomer and Xer fathers who lost control over their women and praised the New Age™. The feminisation is a curse, and the psychological warfare on white intelligent alphas is hard core. One has to have either a strong social network or be a fucking psychopath to not get demotivated by it. Yuri memes are not the answer. national socialist threads might be.

MGTOW is not a meme though

Because, as a man, I need to get an erection in order to produce children

flawed study. do you really think a dude who hates his wife is going to call her attractive? some will remain objective, but enough won't that the results will be skewed.

>that cabin

If you knew about the 80/20 study done on Tinder you would know that you are 100% wrong.

This

gibs cabin

so sick of this study being brought up. for one, the study only looked at online dating. this is important to point out because the average male on a dating site is uglier and more beta than the general population. an "8" on a dating site could mean a 6 in real life. second, you have to consider how/why women use online dating. if a girl is desperate for a boyfriend, she could basically just walk to a bar and leave with one. so why turn to online dating? it's because they are looking for something above and beyond what they normally encounter. there is no reason to even use an app if they're looking for some average dude. they're everywhere, and unlike online daters, they actually have the balls to ask out a girl irl

top kek now I remember it

these are valid points user, thanks.

tbf lad I've been pitching a few tents for this bird at work. Not the best looker, 2 kids, older than me, but even she doesn't want the old purple mushroom, and her velvet wallet must be a right hanging ham by now.

>Women are entitled cunts mate

WTF is this from?

this is very true. as 5/10 dude who's tried both online and just approaching girls in person, I've been much more successful with the latter. I went for 3 months without a single match or message back on any of the OKC/Tinder/POF shit.

Then you’ll have no problem marrying an ugly woman.

Nobody wants cat ladies in waiting. Imagine my shock.

All I ask for:
>be somewhat attractive, at least just cute.
>don't be fat.
>don't be a bitch to me.
Not too much to ask for. I'm pretty good looking, just kinda quiet when I'm not in the mood to socialize.

this woman is a post wall 43 year old hag. Just look at her Youtube videos. She fucks chads all the time, but they pump and dump her and she doesn't understand why. She's also a radical feminist

thats james bond u dumb nigger

youtube.com/watch?v=2ZQ6u0spAJ8

Forgot to add:
>don't be old. Spinster women are either ugly as fuck and have my sympathy since they can't help having shitty genes or have obviously been stupid cunts their whole life and deserve nothing.

This is now a slut hate thread, also im a Chad by all means except manlet tier 5'9'' in height...

we are the same person

YASSSS you win user, YOU ARE WINRAR!

Why are you friend with that kind of trash?

not sure if this will apply to you, but many quiet people are hesitant to talk about themselves too much because they see it as egotistic/rude. however when it comes to meeting women ive learned you're better off just going on and on about who you are / what you do / how you feel. the advice to let women "talk about themselves" is complete shit

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH

does any woman want you? like is there evidence that she's been with anyone less desirable than you?