Masculinity

Hey Sup Forums. My father died when I was 15. I just turned 18. Luckily I managed to make it into college and am currently studying Chemical Engineering. I've been lifting the past year and have gotten relatively fit. Unfortunately I feel as though I don't truly know how to be a man. I lift, study, and am trying to be the best I can. What should a man be like? What kind of skills should a true man know? What is a true man and how should I and other young anons move forward?previews.123rf.com/images/art3d/art3d1301/art3d130100102/17423095-3d-small-people-Athlete-lifting-weights-Stock-Photo-fellow-man-lifting.jpg

Watch lots of porn and masturbate at least once a day

Drink alcohol as often as you can afford to

Have anonymous homosexual encounters

rake yourself

He wasn't asking how to be canadian

The day of the rake is coming soon

Why would you ask a bunch of faggots how to be a true man, read a book or something fucking soy boy

I'm twice your age and I still have no idea, also understand that society doesn't want you to grow up, it wants to keep you in perpetual state of adolescence so you will meet resistance if you even partially achieve your goals. Good luck though.

If you're a whiteboi, then you'll never be a real man.

Also, fuck your dad

Cool post Daquan

your young, and what your experiencing is normal. probably just about most people you pass by down the hallways have that lingering doubt of feeling disengenious with what theyre doing.
short answer? pain and experience. thats what it means to grow.
there is a reason why Schopenhauer said that a man isnt a man until he is in his late 20's at the very least. your brain is still gelatin and hasnt hardened yet into who youll eventally be. keep doing what your doing. your reading, lifting, and studying a very good major with lots of utility within the world. experience comes with time, not over night.
god speed anonfag.

You are not a man until you have patience, work ethic and show respect to others.
You should never lie, cheat or any shit like that,
A real man has character

I wonder who's behind this (((post)))

Nice projection
Your jealousy of not having a father is obvious even to other niggers

looks like leafbro hit a sore spot

The black MAN is the epitome of masculinity. High levels of testosterone flows through his veins, drenching his entire body with manliness. His body is naturally large, ripped and muscular. He is strong and athletic. He is confident, extroverted, outgoing, and is able to be agressive when needed. He sweats pheromones like waterfalls making his manly musk irresistable to women. His dark skin accentuates his tough manly appearance. He is handsome, with strong defined facial features. The pinnacle of this sheer example of masculinity is his BIG BLACK DICK, largest of all men, the deepest desire of all white women!

OP, know this, you will never, ever be a man compared to a real, black MAN

All race mixing is bad and white men are worst race mixers.
That point is spot on though thanks for putting that in the pic.

Niggers are usually skinny as fuck or fat with bitch tits, you cuck

>studying engineering
>masculine
Pick one faggot

>skinny as fuck or fat with bitch tits
You must be thinking about tiny dicked whitebois. The black man, due to the constant high levels of testosterone in his body is always ripped and muscular

This is how the average black MAN looks like.

That's great that you started lifting - keep at it.
A man needs to be able to defend himself, his property, and his people: as soon as you can afford to, purchase a handgun and get a concealed carry permit, and become proficient in its use; until then, and as a sidepiece and tool, always have a good knife on your person. Gerber and Buck make some of the best in the business.

A man should be well-studied in philosophy. I suggest you read up on Jesus Christ, Arthur Schopenhauer, and Otto Weininger.

Be honest, be solemn, be understanding. Good luck little bro.

Find men you respect and admire be they living or dead, and emulate them.

Additional side-thought: be able to construct, initiate, and maintain a camp fire with nothing but a match or lighter (no lighter fluid).

This is a dying basic skill that every man should be able to do.

This. Anime helped me get over my weak father until I understood what he was about.

Get a motorcycle, take it completely apart and put it back together. Leave with it and a couple hundred bucks and a knife and ride across country, do some labor along the way to get more money as needed. If bike breaks, fix it yourself. Find a girl and Drive with her on back way into some national park, stay for a few days. Drop girl off where you found her. Go home.

There are guides, but you want to earn it yourself. That's what being a man is: earning for yourself. Whether that be money, wisdom, or skill, you have to gain them on your own.

Step one: Look for a shitty house that's privately owned and available for rent. Ask to do some work improving the place in exchange for a part of your rent. Be thorough in your research, and hit youtube. You can learn to tile really well in a few hours. You can learn to put down a floating floor in the same. Look for ways that you can improve that house, then *do your absolute best*. Don't rush, don't view it as a means to an end. Just do your best.

If you do this, you'll understand how a house works and you are now "handy". That is a prerequisite in manliness.

Change your own oil, of course. Look into how an engine works. Watch videos on how to do your own preventative maintenance. Do it once you learn.

Pick up a purely impressive skill to showcase your value. Be flashy. Welcome judgement. Learn something physical, something artistic, whatever speaks to you. Try many different things. Know this: The difference between a novice and an adept is less than a hundred hours of practice. Devote this time to what you decide to do. If you pick up music, then in a week, you should be able to play a handful of chords and change between the hand positions reasonably well. Learn your favorite song. If you choose a sport (doesn't have to be team based), then you should be able to do a passable job at the basics. If you choose visual arts, don't accept anything less than apparent growth in skill in a weekly basis.

In a nutshell: To be a man, you have to devote yourself towards nothing more than being better. This is not a *conviction*, it is not a *motivation* (i.e, having a motive), it is a ****DEVOTION****. Know that you are a man and a man can do great things. Know that every master in any thing was once a neophyte, and that all have sucked.

Do this, in anything. Be a man.

Zen and the Art is a pretty good book if you're still underageb&

More about a lost father middle age crisis than a kid finding manhood, imo, but yeah, decent book.

Read philosophy, learn classical music(piano master race), and take up a martial art (boxing has less fakeness.

In terms of motorcycle books I once bought Niel Peart's book about losing his daughter and wife all at once and deciding fuck it time to ride his motorcycle accross Canada to get his mind sorted out and reinvent his life.

I wouldn't put it on a reading list, but it's true that if you have a car or a bike or whatever it is and and move your life somewhere else with it then that can be a good thing.

OP as a tiny dicked whiteboi you will always, ALWAYS fall short of being a real (read:BLACK) man. Might as well chop your dick off and transition into the sissy you are so you can take that BBC inside your boipucci

Good advice.

OH LOOK ANOTHER FLAGGOT PROJECTING HIS CUck FANTASIES EVERYWHERE. KYS MY MAN

Let me tell you what my dad told me as best advice.

“Niggers stink”

“fags burn in hell”

“find someone else”

If you need a book to read pic related are pretty good but they can basically be summed up as learn to do everything you can for yourself and then strive to be the best version of you that you can.

This but aim for vaginas. Totes cereal.

How tall are you?

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its a slide thread mateio, just talk shit... but never forget to sage

I think it’s in part avoiding whining (your post isn’t whining). Like when someone whines over the littlest thing. It’s pathetic.

When I do construction projects, I feel masculine.

I am lifting too. I didn’t have a good family, so I’m very confused about masculinity. My big 5 personality has more similiaries with women then men. I’m an artist and I think that makes me a little more feminine in my thinking because I’m more sensitive. However, I try not to let it control how I act.

Basically, I’ve tried to be stoic because I know on the inside I’m high in neuroticism, which is more of a female thinG.

It's harmful on pol to even put those two series in the same picture as people who have Cernovich might assume that Rollo is similar in any way. Rational Male book one is one of the greatest descriptions of reality ever written, by the most straight up guy to ever write about men.

5' 9" manlet I know 175 cm for those outside of US.

*hate cernovich

You were born male, you are already a man, there's a few billion of us.

You need to decide what kind of man you want to be. Strong? Happy? Healthy? Independent? Reliable? Responsible? Intelligent?

The path to become who you want to be is trivial. Keep putting in the time and effort in the small tasks that build you and you'll get there.

Why do you manlets care so much? It's annoying.

Hey user. My dad died on my 15th birthday, im 26 now. Being a man just means being confident in yourself, and not being dependant on others. Youll be fine, youre doing great already!

How did your dad died?

anddd everyone measures height in feet for the most part

I don't really give a fuck about my height, I was just saying that to hopefully get less people to spam the thread with retarded manlet jokes

im still saging just fyi because this aint your personal blog and you can just lurk if you want answers...

But if serious...

rsdnation will lead you where you need to go bud

>make manlet jokes
>don't expect more manlet jokes

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Read books by Roy Masters (or listen to his audio lectures if you don't like his writing style.) He was the only man that explained women to me in a way that made sense, until recently. I wish I had found his content when I was as young as you are.

Also get his meditation audios so you can de-program yourself from the crap that the world has been putting into your mind from childhood.

I don't agree with 20% of what Roy states, but the rest is valuable and rare. His personality and lack of social grace can also be annoying, but worth overlooking.

His website is "Foundation for Human Understanding." If you know who Steven Molyneaux is, think of Steven like a cheap modern imitation of the classic Roy.

>Chemical Engineering
STOP
STOP FUCKING DOING THAT RIGHT NO
THERE ARE NO FUCKING JOBS
NONE
MAJOR IN SOMETHING ELSE
STOP STOP STOP

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Take things one step at a time. No one becomes a man overnight. Key to all of it is to become as self sufficient as possible. Learn skills and trades. Stand on your own two feet. You don't have to be a leader, but you cannot be a blind follower. Take some time to think about your principles and do not waver from them. Look out for family and friends. Help them when you can. Do not be an enabler for anyone however. Those with drug and alcohol problems must be willing to help themselves. Same for those to lazy to make an effort to support themselves. Be kind to others but never be their doormat. Question everything and draw your own conclusions based on the evidence in front of you- unlike the sheeple that surround you.

You'll be OK, maybe run a bit, and crucially get into the outdoors on your own, just you and a tent for a week or so. Good luck user.

The bitch tits on that nigger

MDE will help make you more masculine, expose your brain to it, it's like medicine for the mind you know? And have a cigar too, meditate on cigars or a pipe every once and a while, sit down and think for an hour.

Steve Reeves! Best ever!

try shooting up your school, I heard that's pretty fashionable

Sadly being a man has little to do with having a father. Raised my son and spent tons of time with him and two nights ago he opted to tell me to fuck myself 20 plus times and then punched me in the face after I told him to leave my house. He refused. I hate cops so no I didn’t call them but our relationship is basically over. I don’t trust him and despite being able to still kick ass, I can’t kick his 22 yr old large ass. Taught him all about gym, paid for mixed martial arts training, drove to all his wrestling matches and training and in the end he used it against me. Be your own man OP. Read a book about what a man is.

Forgot to mention he obviously has retard/autist strength and thus part of why he is a social idiot to the point of attacking his biggest allay.

What a leafy post

quality post