Is it too late for millennials to get married and have families? I am 35 and I feel so left out in society...

Is it too late for millennials to get married and have families? I am 35 and I feel so left out in society.. is this just an American thing?

You're not a millennial. I'm a millennial. I'm 24. You're generation X.

I wouldnt worry about it. It seems, at least in my opinion, that people are making their major life decisions later on. So they might get married way later than other generations.
Also, for you, you might just end up alone forever. Happens in ever generation to a small percentage

If you aren't married by 35 you may as well give up. There aren't any good women left for you.

What went wrong in your life?

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You're Gen Z kiddo. OP is a millennial. I'm Gen X.

Fucking leaf.

Are you a gril

35 here also, OP

All my friends married, kids or engaged. I still live with my mom lol

I want pussy and a loving girlfriend (yeah right) would be nice to spend time with. But the idea of getting married and being responsible for the upbringing of a child that would probably end up with all the same mental issues I have and living in fear of being divorce raped and my child taken away from me at any time makes me think....nah.

I'll probably hit 40 and finally take the escort pill.

Suicide is for us mate :(

Nah, thought about it too many times. You might as well keep going, we're all dead men walking at the end of the day.

Marriage is pointless and risky these days. Not having pussy to fuck and tits to suck is a major issue though, not gonna lie. I think lack of intimate contact with a woman has ruined my brain permanently. I am filled with lust 24/7

>WAAAAHHHH responsibilities WAAAAHHHH
>Sees no correlation between this attitude and being 35 and living with his mom

>Sees no correlation between this attitude and being 35 and living with his mom

Really? And where did I state that?

I know full well the reasons for my failure in life.

I don't WANT responsibility. You go and work for Shekelstein like a good little wagecuck and spend your entire life obsessing over trying to find an ungrateful wife if thats what you want to do.

just save up money and take care of yourself.
there arent a lot of women worth marrying nowadays.

Why the hell are you spelling "mum" "mom"?

I have a unqiue perspective here. I married, had a kid, divorced, paid $120k in lawyer fees, ended up only able to see my kid 1/4 of the time. However, I don't pay child support as ordered by the judge (the ex is crazy and took the court antics too far)

So, I've passed my genes on yet live the bachelor's life. This is ideal for me but everyone is different. I've lived both sides of the lifestyle (family vs playboy)

In the end, I'm happy I've got a son. We're best friends and that's worth while for sure. We will always be friends our whole life. Having a child brings such joy and fullfillment to your outlook on life.

Have a kid, even if it's not ideal. Protect yourself from women these days but find a way to be a parent. It's amazing

You wait too long and having kids is way more difficult for women.

Considered a geriatric pregnancy over 35.

Have kids now. It's great. Gives you purpose in life and a reason to keep fighting.

Don't listen to the Jews.

Not true. But you better have a kick ass resume after staying single till 35.

I can't even get a gf, how am I supposed to make myself a parent?

I mean, I'd love to, honestly but I'm way too socially inept for this.

Only if you're a woman.

>British people now speak American

They are really trying to surpass le 56

There's something deeply, inherently wrong with society these days. People going through a fifth of their life in schools and universities only to leave them, go back to living with their parents and struggling to find an above-minimum wage job. I'm 23 and all my university and school friends fell for this shitty societal trap, struggling with their life direction and unsure where they're going to be in ten years time. Too many people end up retreating into themselves and giving up hope.

You're pathetic, holy shit mate. Just kill yourself already, your parents are waiting for you to.

You old losers ain't gonna make it, especially if you live with your mom. Should have taken the chadpill
>just b urself

Live stream your suicide and poast link

I'm about as liberal as they come (check this board for amusement at the alt-right's idiocy), but anything that Lena Dunham is aligned with, I'm against.

Faggot

>24
>"""""""""""""""""""Gen Z""""""""""""""""""""
kys sweetie

Me too. I know friends who got married and their life is patethic. I'd rather fuck different whore once in a while instead of being stuck with the same person.

Every male marries at that age, what's this anglo meme that you need to marry at 25 with a 25 yo girl
In the traditionalist world you always praise a 25 yo was still too young to marry a precious girl of good family

From left to right

>6/10
>4/10
>9/10 (wife material)
>7/10

>le wagecuck meme
>le ungrateful wife meme
Fuck you loser, I'm younger than you, been married 10 years, have two kids, two houses, and zero debt. Life is fucking peachy.

Stow the Fox and Grapes routine and get your shit together bro, it doesn't have to be this way. There's always time for a second chance.

nick?

I want to find a woman that wants to have kids and be a housewife or has a part-time job at least. But all the women in the city don't want that shit, so i guess i have to look somewhere else.

"Hetero patriarchy! Men privileges! Equalities!!" They spout that shit all day and the only thing they accomplish is not wanting to cook or clean... is that your revolution??

same. all my friends in their late 20s are either married and miserable as fuck with debt out the ass or living with their parents and depressed on medication.

it's fucking weird how i just have a full time job and was one of the better ones at the high school reunion. that shit was depressing seeing old friends that are drugged out of their minds.

Because here at 35 you would be expected to marry a 30 - 35 year old woman, and who the FUCK would want to do that? In the US dating way younger is more taboo than gay marriage.

early 80's to mid 90's are the starting birth years for millenials.

Married at 36. 41 now with child. Feels so good man. I'm black fyi.

Know your place on the hierarchy beta

gen z was born after 2000 genius

I'm 27. All the people I know around my age are on extreme ends of the spectrum, they're either killing it and making great money for their age, or they're doing really really bad for their age and still living at home with their parents. There is not much middle ground.

You're Dutch so I assume you're tall, white, and handsome, you should have no problem finding a wife.

I am 37, never going to have a family nor do I want to.
All my friends who are married regret it terribly.
I play video games, read books, and when I want sex just hire a hooker, go to Thailand for 2 weeks every year.
I honestly don't see any reason for having family or children.

Fail.

Failed your race by not replacing yourself. You need to have at least 3 children to accomplish the mission.

Failed your wife by not being strong enough to dominate her in to submission like she wanted and deserved.

Failed your son because now he will be raised a soy boy cuck by his dried up bitter mother and his real father (the state).

Being a parent doesn't mean being a best friend. It means being a fucking asshole and letting them hate you when necessary so they can learn to be a man.

Get off Sup Forums, learn how to be a fucking man that demands respect, go find another bride, and accomplish the mission.

Gen A here, you're all fucked.

Pajeet?

>the ant and the grapes

35 not married either. The main reason I'm not married is that I wanted to take a white wife and wasn't willing to go for an old (close to 30) woman.

Women make the decisions regarding sex and marriage. If women decide not to get married when young, mathematically a fair number of men will be in the same situation, despite many of them importing wives from poorer countries.

You should see the desperate emails I get from western women as they scramble to find someone after wasting their youth on degrees they're not even interested in.

I'm working hard to get rich and jacked. Even if you're 60 you can still find a good wife in the Philippines, as long as you have cash, so get to it.

Do I need to learn thai to get head over there or are they already familiar with english?

>Have kids now. It's great. Gives you purpose in life and a reason to keep fighting.
There is nothing great about having children.
Maybe if you are multi-millionaire it could be fun.
But most people aren't.
Having children means your life is over.
From now on for next 20 years everything you do will be dedicated to them and your wife who basically becomes your legal owner.
You have no freedom, no choice, every decision you make is based on the fact that you have to support your family.

I'm too ugly and autistic to date. I'm not against marriage though, I'm happy for all my friends who are married and having kids.

Are you retarded?

I feel ya OP. Im 31 and feel like im so far from "normal" society mentally. I really cannot relate to anyone anymore. The thought of getting married now seems impossible.

Who cares what other people think. If you're 30-35 and you're dating a 23 yr old, that's not as weird as a 35 yr old woman dating a 23 yr old man. Men can afford to date younger, esp a man who had worked for it. Other people who talk shit are just jealous, especially roasties.
Latter half of the 30s starts to tilt in men's favor. Assuming if you didn't fuck your life up too badly prior.

>Do I need to learn thai to get head over there or are they already familiar with english?
They know English, at least hookers and upper middle class and above. Plus taxi drivers and so on.
Thailand in the main areas is actually quite developed and definetely not a third world. They have good public transport in Bangkok and lots of taxis and other forms of transport to commute. Everywhere there are signs in English and food is super cheap as well as tasty.
Hookers a plenty, often from Cambodia, Laos, Burma and so on. Incredibly tight and hot pussies, plus they are friendly. If you like ladyboys they are even tighter.

I'm 35 and happily single. Women are a fucking nightmare. Gfs I had in the past were attrctive but high maintenance naggy bitches. Everyone I know who has kids or a gf are FUCKING miserable. They don't have "sex on tap" - they have a fucking headache. the ones with kids have fucked their lives permanently. They dont have time to take care of the kid properly. Both "parents" have to work an they generally take the piss out of each other, speak each other down, and hate each other. Its fucking horrible. Anyone who seems to be getting along look like zombyfied brainwashed Maoist communist types. Like they are sooooooooo fake happy.

I feel like I am undoing all the schooling I got. I went to private school and everyone I know who went there have shit jobs like taxi driver and retail sales person. Everyday I lose the brainwashing I got at school and during my being raised. I am far more intelligent now and far better read.

Just spend time on yourself and progress and develop. Learn new things everyday. Don't watch TV and play computer games or do anything that has no productive value. Women will be more attracted to you but dont bite the bait. Just ignore and carry on.

I want a wife and kids but I am sure they will grow up to be brainwashed in this society.

Society is fucked. Its an embarrassment. British society is embarrassing. I want nothing to do with it. So I know i can leave and go anywhere anytime and not give a fuck about abandoning this sinking ship.

This exactly.

My best ex-gf was a Filipina. Problem is Im not sold on the country itself, so I think Im going to be moving to Thailand. Much nicer, built up and safer.

Whatever you do though, do not bring your woman back to the West, otherwise all your effort will be for nothing and youll be back to square one. If you commit to a foreign girl, you better be damn sure youre ready to do what it takes to live in her country. Hence why Im going to forego the Philippines for Thailand, even though I like Filipinas a lot more, because the Philippines is dangerous and very slummy in many parts.

I just tried to read that article and what the fuck
Check out this passage
>Why is this Happening and What Does it Mean?
>Some social theorists suggest that this transition is merely the 21st century version of the same irrational exuberance we saw in the late 1920s and 1960s. They often frame these transitions as the adolescent stage of a grand cycle of divergence and convergence. This explanation implies that we should just let the cycle run its course and things will return to normal.
>In reality, though, boundless connectivity has changed the way we integrate our lived experiences with our interpretation of those experiences and has created a new type of normal. With all these connective technologies—from smartphones to social media to translational technologies—we’re getting get a wider view, but that view is through a smaller lens.
What the fuck is the author saying here? Why would anyone write like this?

Can confirm
26
have retreated and given up hope.
At least i have animes and vidya, probably going to pull the plug on new years.

>Is it too late for millennials to get married and have families?
It is under capitalism. Only by instituting world wide communism can we save the West.

>he fell for the freedom meme

Oh you poor dumb bastard. You're not even American, what's your excuse?

You're fortunate your ex didn't indoctrinate your son to hate you.

Sort of. There are good women left but, most of the attractive ones have kids. The childless ones tend to be fat, strong independent-career-oriented-womyn, or feminists.

Most guys settle and marry down, or become step-cucks (even worse).

The general rule is half your age + 7, so a 36 year old can date someone 25 and it doesn't look strange. Of course my cousin who's 22 is dating someone who is 41 and happier then ever, so just pretty much do whatever and it's all good.

the funny thing is millenials are all neurotic, lonely and miserable and have their entire lives entirely ruled by capitalism, it'll be Gen Z that doesnt want to grow up like their JUSTed parents and gets it right

Fuck Im about to approach 28 next year and have my first high school reunion. I dont know if Im prepared for these feels.

What Im really worried about though is single, pre-Wall roasties from high school trying to possibly poach me.

This - I bought a nice German girl back to the UK (not that Germany is much better these days - but its removed from the anglosphere hyper hollywood brainwashing) and with in a month or 2 she was ruined. Watching mega-agro soap operas like Eastenders is what did it. I always say I'd come home from work to my job which was dealing with her wants and demands. She became a mega-bitch.

Find a country removed from the anglosphere and thats the best bet for a woman. Not that asian women are any less high-maintenance, mind. Asian women (especially their mums) will likely be naggy demanding bitches also. Especially if they land a "rich westerner"

27. Married six years. Together 10 years. Find someone and make it work, it's hard but a food life.

>fails to realize that the communist block when full puritanical traditionalist after realizing how much they fucked up with feminism

I have no doubt that 1980s East Germany was better than 1980s West Germany considering the sexual revolution had already been in full swing for 20 years in West Germany

The only real love is a father and his son. Well done.

Be me 34, throwing cock around for a decade or so, worries I might have missed the marriage boat. Put myself out there, a sea of 22-25s throwing themselves at me. Select Indiana preacher's daughter, 6 years and 4 kids later, here we are.

>$120k

Yep. If she is happy to be with you, there is literally no problem whatsoever. Do you want a relationship with someone you like? Or you want a relationship the society approves based on some stupid age math? Women have all the power when they were young and attractive. Men are slow and steady but they don't have that harsh of a youth constraint like women. It's nature's way of taking care of men who toughed it out.
That's why roasties are deathly afraid of the beta guys who woke up and decided to self improve. Because they look at those men as a second half meal ticket. They want to fuck around and have three fun and settle with a chummy beta guy who doesn't have much experience. Lucky the internet is slowly waking men up and a lot of guys smarten up and decided to hit the gym. But there will still be chummy beta guys who don't get it, just less.

I got married at 31. You have plenty of time. No kids yet though... I'm not sure I want my child to grow up in this shithole time.

>Fail

Stfu you massive faggot

Yup, communist countries were more socially conservative than capitalist countries. Marx actually railed hard against feminism. Only communism can save us now

I am convinced that Lena Dunham is just a dude with bad gyno

this is true, all the womans i know from my generation are married, the singles have kids and the only one sinlge without kids is a 5/10 ragid feminist

what makes you come here with you current situation?

She's intersex. She was born with a normal vagina but an enlarged clitoris, half way to a penis. Her parents had it removed when she was 17. I've seen the records.

Never too late to get married and start a family. IF you can't have kids, adopt or become foster parents. It's NEVER too late to start a family. The Left want's you to feel left out so that you join their radical ideology and adopt an anti-family, anti-American sentiment. You feel left out because you have been misled.

Best thing to do in your 30's... Find a woman who just divorced a huge loser with a few older kids. She'll love you for just not sucking at life and you get to practice parenting teenagers on her kids who will be out of the house in a few years. Get her to spit out 4 kids of your own. Win.

Same age, wife is a couple of years older. Got married before the red pill. Not sure family is gunna happen. Sometimes I feel like I would have been better off if I stayed blue pilled. Are redpills only beneficial to the young? Should I try and blue pill myself again in an attempt to live a happy/ignorant life? Is that even possible? Do I divorce... what about vows? Thoughts?
What do?

Step 2... Find the highschool in your city with the most white kids, move into that neighborhood, and fucking stay there. Pearls o wisdom.

>Oh you poor dumb bastard.
Yes, it would be so nice to spend 24 hours per day slaving away for some shit producing little animals and being a slave to a female.

Just get some loose black chick pregnant

You forgot to add subtraction bias for the fact they all hang with lena dunham.. Everyone of those ladies get pushed into the negative territory.

>born 1995
>Not really millennial, not gen z, JUSt sort of there
There is nowhere to belong

>33
>Owns house
>Married 4 kids (all mine)
>$150k per year

Start winning faggots

>$170k in law school debt
>Never be able to give my kids money for school or house or anything

Oh snap, the Jews got me.

Yo

I'm 25. I used to be like you from 20 - 21 but I was able to slowly pick myself back up.

Don't lose hope friendo. Find a productive hobby at the very least and get a minimum of one hour of sunshine every day. The sun gives strength and energy.

GL

>If you aren't married by 35 you may as well give up. There aren't any good women left for you.

You know you can always marry younger, right?

You can get out of that, cost of living aside you can probably pay off your mortgage relatively quickly and save some for the kids each year too

1995 is the in-between year, don't fall into either category

You need Muslims to breed you like they are breeding europe.

White men are gay and only virile muslim men could save you from extinction.

What's your job and how long have you been doing it for?

Don't listen to them, user.
Come to Jesus and you will have a purpose in your life

>salon

>Gen Z
>not 1995+
you are beyond help.

For those of you unmarried and in your 30s, what do you do for a living. How much do you make a year?

it's quite a useful and easy way of spotting foreign invaders on this board. if they're posting under the Union Jack and they can't spell proper British words like "Mum" then it's guaranteed you're reading something written by a fucking paki/pole/nigger/etc who is here for gibs. doesn't matter what generation they are.
they learnt american, not English and they are completely brainwashed by films/tv/music etc.

alternatively it's actually a young Brit who is so retarded and brainwashed by the american media that they type shit like "mom" and "d*de" (fucking vile word) and don't realise how fucking stupid they are and how much they're insulting their ancestors. probably goes to YOUUNAY (aka "University" - anyone who shortens the word is a tremendous faggot).

in either case it's a useful way to immediately skip a post and ignore that ID for the rest of the thread because their ramblings are instantly rendered worthless by such an elementary cultural spelling error.
i.e. they aren't from here therefore opinion must be discarded with extreme prejudice.

cheers

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Well you’ll be dead from alcohol poisoning if you try to undo the redpill.

>chooses to become lonely cretin without a family instead of becoming a king over your own offspring

you're a cuck