So how do I get over my wasted youth, lack of female attention ever, no social experiences ever since I was 18...

So how do I get over my wasted youth, lack of female attention ever, no social experiences ever since I was 18, incredibly unhappy and lonely time at university and afterwards, becoming the ugly loser nobody talks to after one day at work, bitterness due to all the above and knowledge that Chads and Staceys have much easier lives than me and I will always be judged harshly for being ugly?

It seems that day to day living has become a herculean task when carrying the weight of this. I'm not stupid enough to rationalise any of this away. Seeing attractive women is demoralising. Seeing young people in university is demoralising.

>I am an attention whore please fix me

I can only fix you by ignoring you. Good luck user.

It'll get easier with time. Watch some Peterson. Also not politics.

join a gym

All western societies which imitate the Greeks enthrone Chad and Stacy. Athenian churches were beauty contests. The most fit and beautiful up front, while the ugly and crippled sit in back. This attitude was passed on to pretty much the entire western world.

Peterson is wishful thinking bs. Any male self help that doesn't acknowledge women getting 100 tinder matches a day is a fraud.

dont b a sad kunt

b a sikk kunt dude

Stop thinking and have a drink. You fucked up big.

dude. spend $200 on backpage and buy some fine pussy for a couple hours...it'll make u feel better...none of the shit you are worried about really matters. immerse yourself into something other than worrying about what other people think about you. you'll be fine.

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Catholic Church. redeem yourself from your sins. We are waiting for you, brother

Lift heavy things. It raises T and confidence.
Go out and talk to 10 people a day. Even if it's just asking the checkout girl at the store how her day is going.

Seems to me that you crave for validation. Start changing your outlook on life. Either through literature or therapy if your mental state is really that dire. Also do realise that this board is full of shit. Don't take these red pills on face value.

Sell everything
Move to a remote area, preferably warm and on the coast
Buy a mal or longboard
Learn to surf
Get a smaller board
Be nature surf dude, women love that shit
Sitting out in the ocean where the only thing you have to worry about is when the next wave is coming is life changing.
Do it, you sound miserable

Go back to Sup Forums

I live with roommates and thanks to that I have a social life. Other than that I'd be feeling the same as you op

Otherwise start going to the gym

all the things you listed are useless you stupid imbecile .so you are ugly and ? wtf you want to do about it , get over it , do something in life you like in this useless fucking planet called earth , don t be a fucking vermine who consumes CO2 for nothing

Use your bitterness and channel it into self improvement. The 2 key things a man needs to embrace, the natural desire to compete and win, and stoicism, having the ability to temper emotions correctly.

Do something every day that improves you. Either stronger , richer or knowledgeable. Even on my laziest days I do one of the 3.

I was just thinking about you OP.
We had a thread in which we posted recognisable id's that post regularly on pol. I described you and anther user replied and added that you also post the same self depreciating threads regularly on /fit/.

Rape a bitch

Give up communism. It's not your fault you are ugly. Most lefties are.

Retards itt believe this shit.

You firkin get over that shit and find shit you like and then master it duh

workout
eat healthy
fill in your free time with self education or vidya
stop watching porn
never quit

God.

Keep denying Him, see how well that works.

R9k is that way faggot, go hang out with you loser beta buddies

pol is chad town

Find a hobby, one that requires human interaction. Join a club for said hobby. Make friends automatically. Loneliness goes away.

Just get ok with the idea that most of us aren't destined for greatness. Plebs aren't appreciated at all and are totally replaceable but as a whole they are important and keep society functioning.

This

You're not the only one, you're like the majority of men in history so stfu and continue this funhouse! And also, lot of those young people you see, they have same thoughts you have now and same thoughts you had back then. Its only a matter of genetic lottery

Get married and have kids. Everything you want is for niggers and degenerates who wanna jew a society up.

Work out in the *morning*. It may seem like a meme but get those edorphins up. Do what you can on the treadmill for starters if need be. You'll be shocked at how much better you feel, and even if it's a tiny bit better, that tiny bit will seem huge. You obviously have to work a lot of other shit out and that won't solve your shit, but I found it was a step well worth taking.

shoot up a school

Oh look, another /pollack/ is a loser who can't get girls slide thread.

Going to Amsterdam helped me a lot, frequenting the whore houses and doing drugs. I don't give a fuck anymore

kILL THEM ALLL

I can't tell you what to do, but as someone in a similar situation I've decided to dedicate my life to doing something meaningful in hopes that it will be appreciated some day.

vote Trump 2020

I get you. Seeing couples and shit just makes me think about all the opportunities I wasted during hs and college. I just got a new job though, I'm hoping I can start a social life from that because I'm so lonely right now.

I traveled the country and did as many drugs as I could find. There's something liberating about quitting your job and hitch hiking without a plan or goal.

If I stay anywhere too long I start wanting to kill myself again. That worked for me. Maybe it'll work for you.

Gym. Clubs. Books.
GET OFF THE INTERNET

How do you even find clubs for interests that you have? The only ones I can ever find are just for students.

something to keep in mind is that everyone has problems and for all you know chad got molested as a kid and wants to kill himself every time a woman touches him and that stacey despises her single mother who beat her as a kid but she's got terminal cancer so she feels she has to look after her and it makes her hate herself and hate herself for hating herself for hating her mother ect ect, but in your head you think their inner life consists of judging you for having bags under your eyes or something they couldn't recall if you put a gun to their head and no one but you cares about

Exercise, eat right, stay away from drugs, study Gnosticism (coupled with prayer and meditation), save your money, invest, and stop being such a self-loathing faggot.

Sounds like what I need desu

learn pickup dude. there r ugly ass dudes that do this and fuck cute girls.. look up day game to start

Step 1- But the goetia
Step 2- Conjure demons
Step 3- Ask for godly self confidence and charisma
Step 4- Sacrifice the souls of people that you hate


Works great nigger

People say that improving yourself helps but it really only takes the edge off.

I quit alcohol, tobacco, caffeine, porn and fapping and I still feel lonely as fuck. More content but still the fucking loneliness that has swallowed up everything inside me and is just under the surface of my skin. I think I've created an irreversible vacuum being alone so long.

God loves you and you are more than flesh.

Yeah, and if you have a redpilled nihilistic outlook on life it can be hard to become the super charismatic bro douche at the bar who girls are looking for.

Fuck I'm texting a girl tomorrow, I got her number yesterday..... I feel like she probobly isn't interested. She is a solid 9, maybe even a 10.

God please gift me this qt 3.14, I need to get laid so badly

Cucked by the vaginal jew

You need to find the right people to be around who will bring out the best in you. Not just whatever you can get.

Unless you are a full-blown normie actor type there will be much smaller group out there that you will be compatible that you need to find.

Good luck bud, how did you meet her

She sat next to me in philosophy class, I've seen her around school a bunch. We smiled at each other a couple times, one time I said hi while I was sitting in the hallway, and she came and sat next to me (she was listening to music, I was reading, so we still hadn't actually talked to each other yet)

The stars finally aligned in class the other day, but she is probobly 19, and I'm 26. Bitches anymore will give you their phone number, and just ghost you if they aren't interested.

I feel like there was some chemistry.... we will see tomorrow. Waiting a few days to text is a good move.

You may be exaggerating your looks. Regardless, you can certainly make vast improvements to *your attractiveness*. Physical looks are not as important for women. Success is. And that can take many forms. But when it permeates your being, and you carry yourself with the POWER of knowing your own strength... Then you will attract. Achieve, grow, fight, believe, really care about things, and you will be attractive.

Simply learning about POSTURE--and developing the discipline to work on it consistently-- makes a huge difference in to attractiveness.

Long distance running
Cold showers
Alan watts
Carl Jung
No alcohol
Some weed when life is too easy

Care to elaborate what exercises one can do to improve posture. Also what should proper posture be like for a male?

just b urself :*)

>Physical looks are not as important for women
Wrong, they are MORE important, studies done show women judge men much more harshly on looks than men judge women.

>Care to elaborate what exercises one can do to improve posture
Mewing, do you even mew brah ?

order some preworkout and workout hard as fuck, it'll be the hardest thing in your life to stay motivated to get ripped as fuck, but strengthen the body and the mind will follow. i've never seen a ripped loser. just keep that in mind.

>Start going to the GYM
>Embrace nihilism (Start with "the stranger" by Alber Camus)
>Don't be a faggot
>Get some money
>"In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women."

Grab some ideology and direction here. Live your life out there.

You need to study your advice animals more thoroughly friend. Study pic related carefully, its funny for a reason, because its 100% true. I was once like you, self-loathing and ashamed, desperate for contact with human women. I'd make efforts to better myself, join dating website, respond to personals, utterly convinced that female companionship was something I needed in my life, and in the end it always ended the same way. I'd jack off and suddenly, finding a girlfriend seemed so bothersome, all the effort just a waste of time, and could never figure out exactly what I was hoping for in the first place. Eventually I broke the cycle when I accepted the truth that 3D women are unnecessary and I've been much happier ever since. Sure, every now and then I'll spiral back into a pit of self-loathing and pity, but I don't let it control me, I just masturbate and suddenly everything is better. Funny thing is, once you stop caring you have more energy, you start doing stuff because you want to instead of sitting inside scheming how to get laid, I lost a ton of wait and with all my new vigor I've actually become attractive to women. Just the other day 10/10 hottie in my class walked up to me and wanted to walk to class together and chat. I was polite of course, I'm not just gonna lay into her like, "Fuck off biocunt, I'm done with your kind, your fetid gash has no power over me!" That'd just bring unnecessary drama into my life. She got the message soon enough that I had zero interest in dipping my wick in that cheese spread just from the general vibe. Bottom line, don't worry about it man, just stay chill, enjoy life, and pay no mind to biocunts.

Stop caring and read books. Go to the gym.

You people are pathetic if you let women have power over you. If you're unhappy because women don't like you, you're a fucking piece of shit unworthy of life. If you can't make your own happiness, why would any woman WANT to be with you anyway?

>So how do I get over my wasted youth, lack of female attention ever, no social experiences ever since I was 18, incredibly unhappy and lonely time at university and afterwards, becoming the ugly loser nobody talks to after one day at work, bitterness due to all the above and knowledge that Chads and Staceys have much easier lives than me and I will always be judged harshly for being ugly?
browse more user, it helped me "be myself" and become a chad in no time

dude what...you need to change your outlook

Are you me? I dropped out before I even knew any of this. You are streets ahead. Hang in there and improve yourself.

I've been thinking lately that what all of these lonely types found on Sup Forums Sup Forums and /r9k/, ranging from forever alone to semi lonely with tons of hope to improve their situation, are ALL connected by the fact that their parents fucking sucked at being parents.

My parents worked all day, and I came home to an empty house after school and watched cartoons.... EVERY DAY. At least once a month my dad would get drunk and cause a scene in the house, where he would throw something, or yell at my mom.... and I would stand up for her, then I would have to run away or something..... my family was white trash as fuck.

If you don't have a healthy functional family life, you are either completely fucked, or you have a fuck ton of work to do to sort your life out.

I was alone till I was about 30.

Think of it this way. When you're a kid, you're a picky eater, you don't like vegetables etc. As you get older, your taste buds die, and suddenly more and more foods become palatable to you. In the same way, your brain dies as you age, and more and things become palatable to you. Your brain dying off isn't a terrible thing, it can get more efficient, and you'll retain your verbal intelligence till just before the end. It is what it is.

When I was younger, I was awkward and self conscious. Like taste buds and picky eating, that kind of thing just died. I don't mean I have the fake braggadocio of someone who "Doesn't give a fuck" but instead it's more like I can't feel the things that you used to torture me when I was younger. When this kind of thing happens your ability to socialize just goes way up - just try to be nice and speak directly. It was impossible for me when I was younger, but now the thought of not behaving that way is just tiresome to me.

Interacting with women is a subset of this. Just be nice, and be direct. Don't worry about lacking experience, it's actually insanely easy to figure out. I was probably a clumsy lover the first few times I had sex (at age about 30) but it doesn't really matter and it's not hard. Some women won't like you, and some will. Quickly figure out who is who and spend your energy on the ones that like you and narrow it down to one, then have a few kids, and you're set. Make sure you get a hobby or two and that's basically life.

Use your youth to advance yourself and get the things you need. Get educated. Work hard. Make money. I saved and invested about half a million dollars by the time I turned thirty. Now I have a nice house, a stable career, my personality and brain are cooling down, my social attitude is a lot more normal, and it's fine.

>their parents fucking sucked at being parents.
I figured this out a few months ago. They weren't mean or physically abusive or anything that would be considered "bad." But, they were bad based on what I understand as being good parents is.

Don't be so bitter. Just realize that your life, and nobody's life matters unless you become the next Hitler. So start working on doing just that. Start working out, try to become somewhat of an attractive person, invest some money, get into positions that open the door to political offices, and work your way up.

The more of us that try, the more of a chance we have at destroying this system.

>Use your youth
>alone till I was about 30.
So you had some understanding of making yourself better.
user. Just be yourself, you'll be ok.
Fuck you.

This is true, especially if you have a look at incels

>So you had some understanding of making yourself better.
Well, luckily I was autistic about work and worked hard and long. I also wasted a ton of time on video games - which could've been better spent, but it is what it is.

How old are you user?

Why dont you find something you like and spend time on that? I'm not talking about wasting ur time with something stupid like video games, rather learn a new hobby or craft.

I swear i wish I had time like most single guys. I'm married now, and most of my time goes to my wife or doing chores around the house. However recently I picked up a few new hobbies and I'm really enjoying them, such as camping/backpacking and cooking (specifically old style cooking).

Or at the very least give yourself a project to do. I recently spent some time rewiring my house to do some A/V projects like centrally controlled entertainment center. Even somwthing simple like adding a new AC plug or swapping ur light switches, etc. It gives u a sensw of momentary purpose, and you'll spend quite a lot of time reading and researching. You'll be excited to come home and test out ur theory and at the end of it all u learned something new.

Good luck friend, I hope u find some happiness

Dude wtf, that's not your brain decaying. That's you learning social skills. I would say quite the opposite.

>worked hard and long.
You had some guidance on this. Don't be such a prick. You would know how old I am based on my previous posts. But, you are autistic, so you know that already.

There are four posts by your id. None of them have your age.

As for having guidance, I'm not sure what you mean. I moved out of state to take my first job and worked and lived alone. I worked hard because I was afraid of failing, I had nothing else to do, and didn't realize how to balance work and non-work.

This dude, you thinking about your fucking self so much is every bit as narcissistic as normie cancer posting pictures of themselves and their food all day. Get over yourself.

Fuck off to /fit/. They'll help you out. Definitely do not fuck off to r9k. They'll convince you to kys.

No, brain decay is much more accurate. I didn't learn social skills as there is no real skill to politely talking. The reason I couldn't do it before was that I was incredibly self conscious and my brain was chaotic. As I got older, my brain got quieter and the self consciousness and nervous just evaporated.

The fact that you lose neurons as you age is well documented. Likewise, the idea that neural networks can become more efficient as they shed excess connections. This idea is well established in scientific literature and born out by my own subjective experience.

Stop thinking with your dick.

This really. Hell I'm 20. I was like you when I was a teen OP. Didn't get much girls, thought I was ugly, didn't get laid at parties. Whatever. I decided to find things I like to do, projects, goals, hobbies, and I felt far more fulfilled than wasting my time going on endless dates or getting blackout drunk on weekends. That's not the only way to be happy.

Find something to do, find a goal, start a project, work on it, dedicate yourself to it, finish it, and you'll feel great about yourself and accomplished. Even if the end result is shit, you still put effort into something and that'll make you feel good and worthwhile. You have the time to do it, take advantage.

Did you have good parents? I've already said my parents were bad.

I'm just offering advice. This is what helps me get through life, and its by giving myself purpose and leaning new things. Othwrwise I'd probably be miserable, with my unfulfilling job and shit

Take it as you will

take back the holy land to prove yourself

I'm saying you were right, should've wrote "This, dude". OP needs to get out of his own head and concentrate on doing something in the real world

get a woman equally as ugly and pathetic as you are.

It's Neuroticism, and it's fucking debilitating.

Suicide is a tried and tested formula for release

What do you do?
You stay on /pol and post alt right memes.

Okay, so? You can't change the past. All you can do is look forward. Ten years from now, will you be reflecting on the fact that you wasted your last decade too, because of your parents, or will you be appreciating the hard work you've just finished.

lol, don't I know it

>Waiting a few days to text is a good move.
No, it's not, she probably forgot about you by now.

And she can see behind this little play of yours She can smell the insecurity.

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>Preworkout
Homo detected.

>Just be rich bro

It's over

He is not wrong, thou