How do I stop being so horny?

>girl of my dreams that never turns down sex
>she has a rich family that loves me
>awesome career ahead of me (doctor, plans to open own practice)
>tall, handsome, fit
>gave up alcohol, bad food
>read all the time, gotten involved at church

and yet still, I can't stop screwing around. I'm on dating sights, texting exes, kik chatrooms, pickup thots in public. I have a filipina ladybody I jerk off with over the phone, a 50 year old milf an hour away I bang, a 'lesbian' friend I bang, an ex I sometimes visit, not to mention all the shit I do when I'm out of town. I'm afraid I'm gonna end up like Matt Lauer and ruin my life.

Any fellow degenerates ever overcame something like this?

just keep doing it op.

Your problem isn't that you're horny, it's that you have no integrity or honesty.

Renounce judiasm.
Think of pic related whenever you think about degeneracy, it's what he wants.
If you're not a larp, I'd try looking elsewhere, maybe, no sure who deals with that shit.

No man it's being horny. I don't do bad shit in other areas of my life, I'm just deep down insecure but also love weird pussy.

Thanks bro I know it's what they want. And I'm already a years long fitizen. It's just that sometimes i feel like I'm keeping this perfect life together and I want it so bad but then I get left alone and bored and want to fuck. The more redpilled I feel the more I see other women as objects for use, something to dominate and a challenge and it makes me feel good but then after I feel bad and disgusted and ashamed of what I'm risking. I used to be a heavy secret drinker and now that I quit that I feel like my sex habits have gotten worse, partly because I have more energy and I'm in better shape now.

Fuck how do I keep it together?

Think about every condom you've used or going to use breaking. Think about all your doctor money going to child support. Think about marrying not for love but because of an accident. Think about her divorcing you in the future, taking the kids, and your home so you become an alcoholic. I hate my life.

second that
intense desire =/= inability to control yourself

stop watching porn...it artificially raises your natural level of horniness to perverted jew like levels

> I'm afraid I'm gonna end up like Matt Lauer and ruin my life.
You probably will. Men like you are why the #metoo thing has spread so much.
You need to learn discipline and self-control. You sound like a fat chick who can't stop snacking on junk food all the time. It's all about self-control

that's oddly specific
you got a story user?

Have a kid. You're horny because you want to reproduce.

I stopped porn too and it made it worse. With porn I at least had an outlet, now I'll be on Craigslist shopping for whatever and just click on the personal "just for grins" and an hour later I'm texting some thot.


I know I'm being shitty but I don't know to do. I'm not making excuses and want to change but it's hard to find a reason deep down sometimes. I feel like everything doesn't mean anything except the conquest and picking up a rando is the quickest fix to winning these days, since my other goals take years.

Switch to men if you are so horny. Most gay men are down to fuck. I've fucked both women and men in their asses and trust me it feels the same.

>Any fellow degenerates ever overcame something like this?
just embrace it and live, or admit you are an alcoholic and get help, live the straight and narrow lifestyle, otherwise it will consume you so either embrace the fact that you will eventually get aids or fully attempt to change your own ways

stop rubbing it in asshole

Easily the worst advice in this entire thread.

It's just the desire for the chase though. Sometimes I hit up girls and stand them up or back down at the last minute. I don't even always want the sex just the attention and the chase.

I feel like a lot of "great men" in history had this problem. I wish it was the 50s so I could have a high classes hooker on the side and not worry.

IS it? I feel if I did I'd be busy enough at least that I'd have fewer opportunities. I'm hoping when I move in with the gf it'll pass too.

I think the better solution is to stop EVERYTHING. Porn, random hookups, kik, ect. Top all this bad sex and save it for a healthy relationship with someone. You need to cut all of this off for like 2-3 months I think to get a "full reset"
The question is how to motivate yourself and that is up to you. I don't have much of an answer because something I've struggled with porn and still do. Luckily I was spooked with porn ED when I got laid for the first time, just gotta find something that works for you

Your blog post is literally could be my blog post from when I was 20 to 25. I think just getting older helped me. I couldn't fucking keep my dick in my pants to save my life.

That's how I got into this in the first placeS. Always had the tend to screw around probably from insecurities but went into overdrive with giving up booze porn and masturbation

well you don't have to chase hookers though so I dunno

maybe just jerk it more, like immediately whenever you're feeling that way, or go bang your gf

No you're not getting me, you need to quit that too! I've heard you need to find more practical outlets like keeping yourself busy with hobbies or something else. Also try lifting and working out more. That will help with an outlet. After hard works in high school when I was in sports I was never really horny

you're a degenerate because you started to get involved into church and stopped drinking.
leave that dark place and go back to your old gods you lost puppy.
restore the lost balance with nature and you'll be fine again.
how's your wife's sexdrive?

>After hard works in high school when I was in sports I was never really horny

go back to sports then and find yourself a constructive hobby, like welding stuff, trains archery .. something physicly.

I'm not op, I'm trying to give op advice.`

GFs sex drive is awesome but sometimes I get bored with her. I know that's normal and we hand it well, spice things up a lot and we still fuck all the time. Honestly the best sexual partner I've ever had. She's open to everything with me and never says no. But sometimes I'll fuck her a couple of times and then go jerk it in the shower again to the thought of someone else.

Yeah those are great ideas but the problem seems when I check my phone and there's a message from someone

Working out does help but I'll literally be texting bitches between sets

>harakiri
is you're afraid to be called out for weeaboo
you can always learn to juggle with life stahl handgranate
and win more :D

Did you have less sex after having a kid?

Oh wait, you're just like your e celeb idols and don't have kids.

I think your problem is that you compulsively lie on the internet, and most likely in real life.

>Yeah those are great ideas but the problem seems when I check my phone and there's a message from someone
Delete those people, block them and remove them from your life.
>Working out does help but I'll literally be texting bitches between sets
Put your phone away, you don't need it while lifting

Try meditating too and maybe some medication too if you're this bad to help. Just don't think about sex in these bad ways at all and it won't be an issue. Mind over matter.

trow that phone away.

hmm.. eternal thirst i see... i had a partner like that too once, i never sheated her though.. no one actually, i just sucked it up and it did go away after some time.
maybe because loyalty is my primal funcion

For that which guides them, the fire, will give them an illusion of truth, and will shine on them with a perishable beauty, and it will imprison them in a dark sweetness and captivate them with fragrant pleasure. And it will blind them with insatiable lust and burn their souls and become for them like a stake stuck in their heart which they can never dislodge. And like a bit in the mouth, it leads them according to its own desire. And it has fettered them with its chains and bound all their limbs with the bitterness of the bondage of lust for those visible things that will decay and change and swerve by impulse. They have always been attracted downwards; as they are killed, they are assimilated to all the beasts of the perishable realm.

maybe you two fuck too much? and that causes the boring part?

What medications are you talking about?

Thinking therapy might be a good idea

It is natural to want to impregnate as many women as possible, am about to have number 6 now with a third girl who isn't my wife. May Allah give me a healthy boy

Might as well keep going bro because women nowadays are thinking just like you.
Why the fuck be loyal, your girl might very well be just as fucked.
It’s not logically sound at all but neither is our relationships anymore.

>But sometimes I'll fuck her a couple of times and then go jerk it in the shower again to the thought of someone else.
I do this too and I don’t fuck around like you do. Seems normal. You’re a guy, you’re designed to want to impregnate multiple women. As long as you don’t actually do it, you’re golden.

Look up different medications for NoFap, I'm taking some citicoline to help up-regulate my dopamine receptors to help with ED. Do some research around with medication to help control your urges and what not. I recommend Googling "nofap medication reddit" or similar. Reddit is decent for shit like that.

Thinking therapy? You mean not thinking about it at all? I think it's a really good idea. I always slip up after thinking about porn, or seeing a sexual image. If I just didn't think about it would help a ton

You have everything perfect but you feel like you do not deserve it so you unconsiously try to ruin it all. Focus your efforts into something productive. Help out at a soup kitchen. Be a nice guy.