Is it Possible To Unfuck Weak Men?

>be me, mid twenties
>30 something roommate gets flat tire
>I have to teach him how to do it
>roommate holding fully extended car jack in his hands
>not under car
>grab mine instead, jack up his car
>replace tire with spare
>put car back down and go on our way


Throughout all this though, as I’m teaching him, I’m asking things like where does the jack go? How long can you drive on a spare donut, max speed limit for a spare donut, can you take it on the freeway.
Doesn’t. Know. Any. Answer.

Is it possible to unpussify your male friends? Weak, low self esteem, self hating weak men. There’s a big difference between saying something and DOING something, if we want to have good times we first need strong men, how do we help our fallen brothers?
I have a feeling that if someone started banging down our door to break in, he’d open it right up before even considering killing the fucker on self defense, castle doctrine laws.
I’be tried to take him shooting to teach him, but he won’t even do that. Zero interest in masculine anything. I don’t get it.

What can we do? I feel like this is important. I’m not even saying he has to have the same views as I do or anything like that, I’m just asking how to put a fire of confidence under this poor fuckers ass and get him motivated to do anything positive

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No. People don't change past 20.

This is what a generation of men without strong father figures growing up combined with an ineffective school system looks like.

My own father molested me and my brother, and wasn’t in my life past my 7th birthday, and was raised by a single mother who is strong as fuck. Shit happens, you man up and move on. It can’t be that black and white for everyone.

>father was a mechanic
>refused to teach me anything about cars
>got mad when I didn't know anything
>taught my druggie older brother everything
>actually managed to start working with him
>just made me sweep and would force other people to teach me instead of him
>he eventually fired me and hired some guy from out of town who worked there for all of 2 weeks
It's embarrassing not knowing basic stuff, I've learned a bit just from things happening and having to adapt on the spot but I didn't get taught anything growing up.

>tfw super unconfident in myself and want to become stronger mentally.

I feel like I can’t do anything that other people can and I get super anxious and always double guess myself. Also I’m Really lethargic all the time and feel like everyone watching me. Where do I start is there some book I should read? Should I start lifting

I’m just sick of seeing this shit constantly, no one gives a damn about their own life and surroundings, as long as they have vidya it’s okay.
This is something we need to fix. It’s not necessarily redpilling people, it’s giving your friends or family the power of choice and the ability to act upon what they want in life. I’m sick of seeing people sit passenger in their own existence while the world takes the wheel for them.

Absolute bullshit. It's after 30 that most people reasess and start making real changes.

>tfw kid, partner, working f/t
>26
>most men my age are crying about "muh roasties" or obsessed with man child hobbies
>very few men my age are interested in having a family


Why

>Can't change a tyre
>Murican that won't shoot guns
Just put him out of his misery user

>People [in Russia] don't change [survive] past 20
FTFY

I'd say 25, but I agree.
Also voting age should be 30

This.
My father has incredible warrior/survivalist skills, been military for quarter of his life, ranger for half, sailor for the other quarter.
Refuses to teach me anything. Although I think it's out of his own laziness rather than hatred for me.

Also I’m 18 if that matters. If any of you older guys have any advice I’d appreciate it a lot.

i honestly think in this day of the internet there is literally no excuse for someone to not at least TRY to change or fix something. YouTube or google whatever needs changing, but know your limits. If I have to fix a car thing I’ll google it, if it’s too advanced or I don’t have the tools, I’ll take it to a mechanic. House needs fixing, same thing.

If you WANT to change, you’ll do it, and if you want to learn something, you’re literally looking at something right now that contains an infinite amount of human knowledge. Use that shit

I could go on and on about bending this world to your will, it becomes so easy after a while

Do you watch porn?

Go to the gym, wane yourself off weed, drink more water but seriously everyone posting depressing shit in this thread just go to the fucking gym.

Yeah. I went 19 days off recently but slipped into my old habits and now watch it multiple times a day.

find something you like doing(that can make money) and get really good at it.

don't fall for the wagecuck meme.

lifting only adds useless bulk that makes your heart work harder. Get stretch bands or exercise bands and look u ho to use them.
Teach yourself a few simple things that are useful and will make you feel good about yourself.
Here's a home improvement you can do even if you rent:
Most places have toilets that take too long to fill or don't flush powerfully, etc. It's a small problem but life is better without that kind of problem.
Be the hero you deserve and conquer that problem:
replace the fill valve in your toilet.
Buy a new one for like $15 at a hardware store.
get an adjustable wrench
follow simple instructions included in the new valve box.
Voila!
You have a toilet that flushes properly, you did it all by yourself, and you can do it again.

It's little things like that that help you understand the world around you , and help you see that you aren't a perma-victim, that you can have an effect on your own life beyond what you had previously considered that will lift you out of your doldrums and get you living.

If he was nonwhite, would you still care about him? OP please answer

I'd go shooting.

so what?
nothing wrong with being interested in the human body, it's how we all got here. eat better, and exercise daily if yu want to make a meaningful contribution to your own life.
learn practical skills.

Apathy is a terrible drug, friend. As far as your friend goes, there is only so much you can do for other people. I think some people are just genetically more likely to be motivated and driven to learn just for the sake of gaining knowledge. After a certain point you are better off seeking out friends who are similar to you, and will motivate and challenge you.

my father didn't teach me shit either and I grew up not knowing lots of basic stuff I should've known and I was an only child. Just fuck my shit up senpai

EASY: teach your kid theese things. Spend quality time with your kid from his birth. BE A ROLE MODEL for your family.

Ask literally anyone and everyone older then you for advice always. And take that shit to heart. Ask if they could change one thing, what would it be, or their biggest regret.

The best piece of advice I can give to anyone is this, if you learn about what people regret on their death beds, or when they’re 60, or 40, or whatever. If you learn and take to heart all the pitfalls of life and see where everyone ahead of you as fucked up.. if you can see all of that by the time you’re 20, and honestly hold those things in your mind and in your heart every day, you won’t make those same mistakes and you’ll live a much better life.
The main things you’ll hear are: investing, spending more time with family and loved ones, working less (if they’re the workaholic 60-80 a week types) and enjoying the little things, sometimes not getting married, rushing into things too quickly, shit like that. Just take it slow, take it smart. Think long term. At 18 you need to be thinking about a career, preferably something you don’t need college for if possible, something easy but not overly glamorous. Most people at 40 have really random oddball jobs making fantastic money, but they’re never glamorous jobs like movie producer or anything like that. Colleges will try to pursuade you to think when you graduate you’ll be a hot shot whatever, but it’s not the case. When I hire new employees I don’t give a damn about college. I care about personality, ability to communicate, and that you’re not a moron.

Learn to communicate, realize that your competition in the work field is Facebook texting normies, and they have ALL lost the ability to look you in the eye and properly communicate. Use that to your advantage.

Before interviews, google the company, they will ask what you know about them, and no one ever knows shit. Google some facts and show you give a shit. Takes 5 minutes.

This. Obsessing about your race is an unhealthy obsession. You’re supposed to only be obsessed about your own family and closest people

He’s Spanish, he’s my girlfriends friend. Yes I would still care about him regardless of his skin color. I don’t hate or judge people by their skin tone, I hate and judge them by their actions, and the things they actively have control over.
If you’re black, hey man that’s awesome we can hang out, but if you are any skin tone who is a piece of shit thug who sells drugs or terrorizes the neighborhood, then yeah, we have a fucking problem.

I believe that’s fair and honorable, don’t you?

How did you feel when you stopped watching?

It's not a silver bullet, but the week I stopped watching it I became far more motivated to do things and enjoy many different things. Any amount of anxiety(I'm not an anxious person) I had was noticably less. My sex life improved as well.

>lifting only adds useless bulk that makes your heart work harder. Get stretch bands or exercise bands and look u ho to use them.

A fucking leaf

>lifting only adds useless bulk that makes your heart work harder
>this is what leafs actually believe

The interest isn't the problem, the effects of porn have been objectively measured as harmful to your brain.

Discipline is huge. Faltering and watching it once usually leads back into the cycle. What people have to understand is that one slip up does not erase prior success.

Who cares if he doesn't know mechanics that well? There are lots of subjects besides auto mechanics, security, or ballistics. Why do you think masculinity hinges on these subjects? I don't get it. If you like cars or guns that's all well and good but there's no need to give people arbitrary litmus tests.

>I'm a poor, greasy car guy who does manual labor for other people so I'm masculine HAHA

Not only your own family, but it should be family first. MUST be family first. Then you can go like ethnostate, or race, or work, or whatever shit you belive in. Just by raising kids the proper way, and having a "nuclear family" you do more good than you can ever do with shitpostin or marching down streets shouting rapefugees go home or whatever

Stop giving a fuck what other people think.
>t. older

Yeah I would recommend trying not to whack it so much too. You know how quickly your mind changes before, during, and after you cum?
>fuck yeah, fuck yeah this is the shit
>I’m about.. to.. about to, oh yeah..
>cums
>.03 seconds later and on you literally think about anything and everything other then sex.

Just feels weird and dirty and sad compared to the feeling of accomplishment you get with sex. After jacking it, you just kind of do the piss shiver and wipe yourself off, but you’re not really GETTING OFF, it just has a haze of lazy dissatisfaction. That seems important, try to jack less definitely. It makes you more aggressive to get out into the world in search of poon, which in turn requires you to better yourself for higher quality poon. This cycle repeats until you turn into a chad, at least mentally. Personality goes a long to being a chad

>changing a car hire
>manly

You knows was as pathetic as not being able to change a tire? thinking changing a fucking tire makes you a man. You and your boyfriend both want gassing.

Actually this
Being a man isn't about being better at shop than you were at the SATs
It's about standing up for your principles and being loyal to your friends and family.

he, yeah, a huuge, but totally pussy, friend first experienced a warning shot on NYE (he stood stlightly behind me). at first i was in panic, because he stumbled backwards and touched his face with shock stare, thought i hit him with some powder..

he's my liberal-zombie. good old friend, if i'm really able to have something like that. 30, abort studies after 1 year in Berlin, wanted to kill himself, lives with parents again......tiresome. hopeless.

tl:dr: and i thought i was fucked up. but nooo; they're going to die off very soon.

>changing a tire is "auto mechanics"

This guy must think wiping his own butt requires a 4-year waste management degree.

I try to learn from others mistakes but it’s hard when I feel like I have no direction in my life. If I had a goal or something to strive for it would be so much easier.
I felt better but the anxiety was still there. I think maybe I’m so addicted to porn it will take longer for me to fix myself.

Harden the fuck up and tell him how you feel. My dads dead now and he cant teach me shit, dont wait around for him to teach you before its too late.

This man knows more about the entire history of power rangers, both the American version and Japanese version, then he does about practical skills. Changing a tire isn’t a hobby, it’s a thing every man should know to do because every man should understand the fact that shit happens. If you can’t get yourself out of a bind, not even a life or death, just simple little things, hell, like fixing a lightbulb level stuff, then there’s an obvious disconnect between today’s normal man and our grandparents normal standard of men.

>lifting is useless

You heard it here first, folks.

It’s true. Sprint running is better.

>lifting is useless
>leaf
EVERY FUCKING TIME

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I’m going to try

who cares about changing tires. thats what you get for buying into the 4-wheel jew

Checked
digits confirm the self-reflecting burn from ausbro

>If I had a goal or something to strive for it would be so much easier.

Make a goal. Nobody's going to make one for you. Your life is like a ship and only you can grab the wheel and steer it to a good place, otherwise it's going to drift out into nothingness and sink.

You need a job, so learn a skill. Maybe a trade skill that you're capable of learning, and for which there is a demand. Do a little research, see which jobs don't have enough competent workers.

After you get set up in a decent career, you can figure out all the other stuff (girlfriend, wife, house, kids, et al).

It's mildly upsetting to see anons in these situations.
Talk to your dad bros. Mine died when I was a kid and I didn't know him but you cunts should.

I’m not saying that changing a tire makes me a man. You’re right, that doesn’t define a man. I think what makes a man is protecting and doing what’s right for family, loved ones, and your fellow man. It’s keeping your word, and being honest, doing what it takes to survive and having the ability to handle your own. If you get yourself into a situation, always have the strength to get yourself out. Don’t involve any one else with your issues, but if you do, pay that favor back in full as soon as you can.

In that same light, I made this thread asking how we can pull up our friends and people we know who’s definition of being a man doesn’t even fit this criteria. If we want to see change in this world it’s not going to happen with us hitting the streets while everyone else is inside playing video games or fucking off.

When World War II hit, regardless of what country you were fighting for, didn’t most men and women decide to get off their ass to do actively do something about it? Everything on /pol shows that we’re in a war right now, it’s a war of information and no one knows that we’re fighting it because they all have low self esteem and are complacent.

Ask anyone if the world is in a good place and you’ll be in a sea of “no’s”. The only way we’ll change it is if people start doing something about the world around them instead of playing complacent victim to everything.
Thats what I want to change, not just a fucking tire.

Yes, it is possible. A few months ago, while laughing at a soyboy thread, I came to the hard realization that I fit a lot of the nu-male criteria. That led to me thinking about how beta many of my social interactions have been. I decided to go on a path of self improvement.

I've completely dropped video games, modern movies, and modern music. All of the time I used to waste on degenerate (((Entertainment)) has been replaced by lifting, reading, shooting, practicing oratory skills, learning more human history, dressing better, working towards a better job etc. I've also been in nofap a while.

I feel better than I've ever felt before in my life, and the visual improvements are noticeable. To anyone else out there willing to do this, take the plunge, you won't regret it.

>expected a shitpost
>life changed

Sounds like you're trying to fuck him you flaming faggot

I’m gonna need you to bin that attitude bud, you got your license for that?

Start lifting, it raises test levels, and that raises confidence.
Start learning a trade, or a start business, start investing, doing something for a better future, that helps the feeling of uselessness, and lethargy.

>retarded opinion
>leaf

Nothing new here

Congratulations, now you'll now be a somewhat presentable, better speaking and fitter raging autismo.

He probably doesn't want a failure like you to know his outdoorsman skills. He knows you'll be shit at it. The proof? You're on fourchins complaining about it.
>t. game warden

How do encourage more people to think critically and get motivated though?
If we had 100 motivated, critical thinking, confident people in the streets protesting. I think it would be easier to redpill them enough to at least consider the story from all sides, then to motivate half that many people into getting off the couch. At least the people in the street have the fire enough to get up to try to change something, whereas you can hardly motivate people like my roommate to clean his room.
This is how humanity is losing the war against global control. A lack of confidence, “I don’t matter” attitudes.

this thread is for first world countries m8.
please leave

This fucking thread oh Sup Forums
Learning how to do basic stuff is nothing you are not living in medieval times.
Use that red pilled man brain of yours and get it done.

in all fairness I know exactly what you mean. I think bulling them is the only way. shame them for being weak stupid and lazy. if they won't act like men treat them like children. The soy boy meme is perfect for this desu.