Do your parents "hang out" with you?

>30 yo and I still live at home.
Yeh yeh laugh it up, I do not give a fuck. I've lived out of home many times in my 20s, but since I have few friends it's been mostly living with strangers. And I hated living with hedonistic nihilists of my generation; all they wanna do is get drunk and live in a mess... w/e

Anyway, in the last two years my parents, especially my dad, want to suddenly hang out with me in bars and restaurants. And it's really weird. I don't want to socialize with my parents.

When I was a depressed alienated introvert in my late teens and early 20s they could have socialized me then and it would have made a big difference then, but they did fuck all for me back then in the worst crisis of my life.

I'm fine now. I've figured myself out as best i could. I got an ok job, I learned some game and scored a decent girl IN SPITE of all the utter BULLSHIT my parents "taught" me about women, and I do have a few good friends I like to hang with on weekends.

But this whole deal of my parents suddenly wanting to hang out with me is really strange.

Anyone else?

Sup Forums is rarely letting me reply to threads.

You're not American, are you?

I'm Aussie

Have you ever considered the possibility that maybe you were an asshole when you were a child? That your parents housed and fed you in spite of you being an unselfaware ass hole? That now as you age, and have become self aware, that maybe they want to get to know you?

>Do your parents "hang out" with you?
I'm 27 and have actively avoided my parents for at least 12 years. They would abuse me and lied to police, saying it was self-harm. If I ever had a chance to make it look like an accent, I would accident them both in an instant.

im 30 and i live with my parents and three brothers. im NEET and dont have any friends or gf so i have lunch with my parents most days of the week. i wouldnt go out to a bar and drink with them though. none of us drink anyway.

What would u know about my childhood?

Even a terrible child is the parent's fault, because they are the ones who are responsible for MOULDING their child.

But I was not a bad kid. So what's ur point???

I watch movies/shows with them and help my dad with projects/chores now and then, but I wouldn't really call that hanging out.

Maybe they just want to be friends with you and socialize a little. Spend time with your parents user who knows how much longer they'll be around.

>maybe you were an asshole when you were a child?
I'm sure you couldn't possibly blame parents for something like that

Then why do you type with an American accent ????

Strange, run through yer machine, if you know what yer doing.

I hang out with my parents because I don't want my dad to get drunk and beat my mom.

I'm almost 30 years old and I can't have my own life because I have to protect my mom. I make good money and very self-reliant so I can easily move out on my own, but I can't. People think I'm a loser for living with my parents, but I can't really explain this to anybody.

>he just smiled and handed me a vegemite sandwich

>Angloid mutts have bad relations with their family
Every time, why are you guys so fucked up?

Only retards pay rent to Jews.

I keep my family company and look after them and I will inherit somewhere to live when I die.

This was the normal deal before industrialisation fucked everything.

checked

checked

You can own your own condo in a nice neighborhood for 600 dollars a month. What's keeping you from this?

HOLY FUCKIN CHECKED

Must suck

>when the blessing wears off

posting on Sup Forums seems fine now but i was still having trouble on some other boards.

kek be grateful for bountiful blessings finn bro

I wasn't expecting to see this on Sup Forums but context-wise, it's solid I suppose.
I'm 19 and my parents got divorced when I was 14.
My relationship with my parents was never the best because for the whole of their 30-year long marriage they just argued back and forth over the smallest of shits and they never really tried to approach me, unlike my brother who's 26 and has everyone kissing his arse, while having no job, girlfriend or plans for the future.
Funny enough, my father wants to hang out with me now because I can smoke, I can drink and do everything I can do all around.
I feel kind of uneasy because after 19 years of shitty parenting it's weird seeing this sort of behavior from my father.

Nope. Followed Stefan Molyneux's advice and de-foo'd since they couldn't raise my brother right and made his childhood miserable by being homeless for the majority of his short life.

My gf's parents on the other hand? Needy as a motherfucker. Just waiting for them all to die, for them life inuance payouts.

sorry leaf bud have a (((you)))

You sound like an emo cuntwaffle my dude.

>25
>Live with parents
>My wife lives with them too
>We have our own part of the house and rarely get disturbed

It's actually pretty cushy. I've lived alone but spending £1k per month on rent and whatnot seemed pointless.

That's all u fucking yanks ever think about. Muh blessings n burgers.

As if stuffing ur face full of nice foods equates to a good life. So carnal, and so ignorant of the nuanced principles and values which actually sustain nations through war, famine, and pestilence.

People can do surprisingly well in a state of near-death privation if they honor the right values.

But no one survives mindless nihilism and decadence. Precisely why America deserves to fail. You are the (((ones))) who foisted this most vile fiction upon the world. Go till ur field Protestant and go stuff ur face full of apple pie and cornbread as ur daughters become pornstars and ur sons do heroin.

I don't give a fuck.

I'm not a woman so I'm not gonna judge an opinion by how it sounds or muh feels. I'm.gonna judge something upon its substance and merit.

U should try that.

Maybe it's coz our parents are a bunch of self-serving hedonistic cowards with no principles who cave to jews, feminists, and minorities and never lead their children or taught them any useful values thereby condemning their children to a shitty future with bad prospects for survival. All while everyone else played the team sport of SURVIVAL as a fucking group, while we were expected to be special snowflake individuals.

"The world doesn't owe u shit" remember that shit? I can't wait to repeat that back to them as we cart them off to shitty retirement homes staffed by jamal and shaniqua.

But your patents do indeed owe u something: the moral infrastructure to ensure ur survival as a people. If not that, then why the FUCK did those LSD-eating mud-covered hippues even bother having children?

FUCK THE BABY BOOMERS

great blog. sage

I like hanging out with my parents since I'm not an American who's had his brain washed that it's uncool to have familial bonds

Wtf dude, just take your mom with you

I'm 26 and I moved out twice.

First was at University at 18 to 21. (Turns out I have a problem with alcohol, drugs and socialising)

Then again at 24 to present. I just couldn't stand going from independence to back to being treated like a helpless clueless child. My family are bullies who take advantage of me and treat me like I'm the idiot.

Independence can get lonely sometimes, but OMG it is so much better than living with your parents. I look down on people who still live with their parents.

Nah, they still dont care and give me these random lines that make me wonder if they have dementia or if they are simply not listening

Aww, as long as u feel better now.

Familial bonds are good if ur family actually has honor. It's what makes Chechens and jews so strong.

But boomers don't, so wtf is the point? It's just a larping effigy.

>When I was a depressed alienated introvert in my late teens and early 20s they could have socialized me then
Nobody likes millennials at that age. You were a whiny cunt in your 20s. You sound like you still are, be grateful they want anything to do with you, you freeloading faggot.

Dude, u just gotta BTFO of ur dad real good, and make sure u do it in front of your mother so you Stockholm syndrome her to your side. He will never fuck with u or ur mother again.

Stfu, during that time I worked harder and accomplished more than u will in a lifetime.

But it all goes to shit when ur social conditioning fails u and u spiral into depression coz no one taught u how to meet ur social or sexual needs coz ur feminist cuck dad set such a bad example.

Of course denialists like u take the easy way out and blame the problem on me the individual, rather than taking a look at our failing culture and deal with the problem head on.

U are the one who lacks courage here.

Everything I posted here I have verbalized face to face to my parents.

Let's see u do that faggot.

And I'm not bothered by the freeloading.

If u neglect to raise ur children right then u deserve to be afflicted with their problems later on.

Take responsibility for your own shit instead of blaming everybody except for yourself. If you're so aware of your situation you obviously lack any excuses for why you are a pussy. You have no desire or will to better yourself or your situation and are a shitty imitation of content with freeloading off your parents while shit-talking them in an emo blog post on a Mongolian shitposting site. Accept the fact that you are a beta faggot loser with no hope for changing yourself and down a pint with your dad since he is obviously trying to be a part of your pathetic life.

go clean out ya queens royal shitter shitcunt

FUCKIN CHECK

You are 100% right, we all know what you are in, don't get too mad about this fucking troll.

FUCKIN CHECK

>take the easy way out and blame the problem on me the individual
the irony is thick enough to drown in

Talk about the ayyys more

>Take responsibility for your own shit instead of blaming everybody except for yourself. If you're so aware of your situation you obviously lack any excuses for why you are a pussy. You have no desire or will to better yourself or your situation and are a shitty imitation of content with freeloading off your parents while shit-talking them in an emo blog post on a Mongolian shitposting site. Accept the fact that you are a beta faggot loser with no hope for changing yourself and down a pint with your dad since he is obviously trying to be a part of your pathetic life.

0/10

It wasn't us who sold out the West. It were our fucking boomer parents.
Now deal with the fall out, you fucking leftist traitors.

I think it's normal as you get older to start hanging out with adult relatives more.

For me I prettty much avoided alot of family stuff when I was a teenager cos I was fat and bullied, not by my family I'm really lucky to have a great family, but by classmates etc.
Late teens got /fit/ and went straight from college to a good job in a town away from family. I'm 29 now and 2 years ago move dback to hometown for a better job offer and it's been really cool getting to know my parents/aunts uncles/older cousins as peers rather than "boring adults".

I think managing this is a sure sign you can keep your room tidy.

That said I don't live with them and I think that's weird mainly because I know it would lessen the amount of girls I bring home. I like having my own space.

Excellent blogpost

Same reason you type in a British accent, I suppose.

EMU

U prove my point well. Absolutely no capacity to grasp the fact that my problem is a systemic symptom of social breakdown and all the signs like divorce, feminism, low fertility, debt, drugs, suicide rate absolutely vindicate my case.

I'm not the only one in this situation. Obviously the truth hits a raw nerve with you.

Easier just to call me a beta, right? As if u would know.

Maybe ur just one of these boomer-tier faggot burnouts who FAILED their posterity.

Do not worry, I can dig myself out of this mess. One day I will have sons and I will look upon my parents are stellar examples of what NOT to do.

my mom has cancer and will die in 2 years probably

i don't want my mom to die

stop being edgy children and love your parents while you have them

Ich bin in Deutschland aufgewachsen, und ich fühle mich zuhause da weil ich mir mit Deutschen so gut verstehe.

Alles bestens.

Stop hating your family. Stop blaming them. I'm serious. Man up. Lift. Love you family. Shape up and get a wife and have a lot of white children with family values. You won't be a perfect parent either but at least you can learn from what you think are mistakes like your parents might've though for their era. You're in a new era now. This is on YOU. The United States and the world are counting on you and others here.

Maybe your dad wants to talk to you about something he can't talk with his friends or with your mom, and it's too personal so he needs booze to summon some of his bravery.
You proved him wrong by scoring decent looking girls, maybe he wants to learn something from you?
Would it hurt to have a better relationship with your parents?

35, haven't been within 500 miles or more of any family in 6 years, but I'd go out to eat with parents and/or grandparents a lot, usually saturday and/or sunday. They paid, free food, fine by me.

STFU Dr. Phil.

Lift? Lol

I don't lift, but I can do a gymnastics routine u'd fail in 2 seconds.

Whatever, thanks for ur useless advicem

i have no friends at all and my father died when I was 15. im 25 now the only person I talk to is my mother, so no

Not lately.

>Parents smoke. Mom, not as much but dad pretty chain smokes
>Get my own house and finally move out
>Regain sense of smell
>Goddamn they and their house reeks of fucking smoke
>Get married and have a kid
>Make the decision that we don't want her to be exposed to second and third-hand smoke while she's still this young

Despite telling them they can come visit (but have to wash up and wear longsleeves before holding her) they think we're trying to cut them out of our lives because we don't want to bring her over there.

Same story besides living at home. They had their chance.

FUCK THIS NIHILISTIC SHITE
break free

love thy parents

Why are you here? What's the point of making your bitch boi blog post if you're just going to have autistic fits towards people trying to give you advice? Why make a thread bitching about anything if you're not looking for advice.
>I just wanted someone to hear my fee fees!
Jesus, you sound like a teenager woman. This isn't your bro safe space where you can jerk off with your friends and claim no Homo. We don't give a shit about you. You could hang yourself in your room tonight and not a single person in this thread would even know. That's how insignificant you are to us. That user was right. Grow the fuck up and stop being a bitch coming back as if your fucking floor routine is some kind of validation. Faggot.

Been drinking and laughing with my parents since I turned 16-17. I have many friends but no one can be trusted as much as your parents. Mine have always been acting like my best friends, totally not like old pricks who only complain.

(You) are projecting. I'm the product of a poor single mother household. Instead of wallowing in my "misfortunes" I got a job asap and worked my ass off in school so I could get educated and learn a trade. I started my own business and my wife and I are doing our best to make sure our children know they will have to work for what they want and that few things will be handed to them. They also know that they have parents who are willing to help them and support them when they need it.
Yeah, maybe you struck a nerve, but only because you are too busy blaming everything except your own weakness and acting like nobody else has it as bad as you. My life was no cakewalk. There aren't many whose is.

Maybe ur right.

But my dad is such a spineless cuck he is incapable of verbalizing a coherent original opinion. All his life his "opinions" have been dictated by female sensibilities. There is just simply nothing there.

It's funny how u say u don't give a shit about me,

But here you are, REACTING to my thoughts. Lol

I chastised u for giving me bullshit cliche "advice" I cpuld have pulled outta my asshole.

Maybe it's u with the fault.

I hang out with my parents sometimes. My parents lives in another part of the country so whenever I am visiting them in Oslo, or they visiting me here in Alta, I will hang out with them.
Ironically not seeing my parents every day made my relationship with them much better

That's understandable. Ur Polish, ur parents bestowed upon u a culture and value system capable of ensuring ur survival as a people.

In the west our parents' generation sold us out. So we do not respect them. Some blue-pilled faggots here haven't figured that out yet.

Im 18 years old and still live with my mm (divorced parents) i can understand you user i dont want to hang out that much with dudes of my "generation" but since i'll go to Uni i need to find some good friends and a good girl hopefully i will (im positive about it) anyway im happy that you feel better i guess just get a life goal and go for it

But anyway yes i socialize with my parents occasionally i know it feels weird but its okay

>Do your parents hang out with you?
Yes all the time when we meet. I currently live in Norway, and my parents still lives in Poland, meeting them has become something special

I respect my father and spend time with him whenever we have a good opportunity, but I'm also not a subhuman faggot like yourself so idk

Have a little respect for your parents you faggot. Seems like your dad is just being nice to you. I can tell you do not, nor will you ever, have kids. Your dad probably feels sorry for you so he skips hanging out with his buddies to take his fat faggot kid out once in a while to boost his confidence and you go andbitch about it. I hope you get kicked out and die

25 and I do hang out with my parents now and then. One, I like their company, two, they are work-centered people and barely have any friends themselves, three, I don't have any friends myself.

I used to hang out with my sister and her boyfriend, he is a good buddy, we share a sense of humor, have similar interests, play the same games and have been to competitive tournaments together, but hanging with him AND my sister absolutely sucks. She needs all attention on her at all times, bitches and nags for absolutely stupid stuff and brings the mood of everyone down if one of her many demands isn't instantly satisfied.

I wish I had true friendships but my standards are high and I would rather be alone than in bad on unfulfilling company, same with girlfriends.

Americans equate everything to material comfort. Lost are those nuanced values which actually sustain a nation. Maybe u got urs, but in case u didn't notice ur entire civilization is FAILING coz dumb fucks like u honestly think muh burgers, bounty, and blessings are what make or break a people.

U can focus on my imagined failings (really u don't know that much about me).

But u cannot ignore that a generation of materialistic hedonist cowards totally betrayed their posterity for 30 pieces of silver.

who's side are u on?

oldfag here: don't fall in to the party meme young squire

> subhuman faggot
> italian mongrel

>rejects good advice to stop anti-family white genocide
Oh I see you're totally not a shill at all.

>be 20 some year old
>get caught jerking off in public in my car while smoking weed at a uni I wasn't even going to
>becomes a minor news story (my face wasn't shown but my name was said)
>family kicks me out
>my last friend lets me sleep in his shed in the back of his house if I pick up dog shit
>haven't talked to my family in around 5 years

I used to talk to them, go to movies together, my father even taught my bicycling at 12 very late in my life and it was the proudest moment of my young life as he said it made the years of teaching worth it. And I ruined it all.

What can I ever do to fix this shit?

I think I might just kill myself, but I'm to complicit in being where I am and not caring til I die.

Just guessing. Your father must be getting on and has recently realised that life is short. Probably he's not short of a dollar--and he's also running out of time to spend that shit. He is also somewhat lonely. He wants to get out more and have fun. He has become the sort of person who wants to go bars and restaurants. He hasn't got anyone else to go with except your mother whose company he is understandably (through no fault of her own) totally bored by. He enjoys your company though now you appear to be a normal man, and not an angsty weirdo. You should humour the poor old guy say once a week. Would it kill you?

What? I didn't give you any advice. ID's exist for a reason, are you stupid? Ate you sure you're not actually just a 30 year old autistic child?

U will realize in time that hanging out with siblings and parents is the social equivalent of incest and the consequences ate analogous.

NoFap is what really turned my life around.

There is something extremely invigorating and life-affirming in approaching new people, especially women you like.

Write a separate letter of apology to every individual in you family you want to reconnect with.

No one is entitled to respect, and ur subjunctives mean fuck all.

I must have hit a raw nerve with u.

Cry harder faggot

As I said, it's dumb advice I could have pulled outta my ass.

I know myopic Americans confuse ephemeral sentiments for "good advice", but people outside the USA are more critical and selective over what they take on board.

When did Sup Forums become this faggot's self help forum? This place is doomed

Sorry I did not realize. I'm rezponding to many people here. Discard that comment EXCEPT the first two lines.

They still apply to you hahahaha

Then don't comment u woman.

The world does not run on self-righteous indignation

I could do that. But I've actuallygotten myself into some other shit since then.

I don't know how I can talk to them and try to make amends and then have this shit happening that, if they found out, would make them think I'm irretrievable as a family member. I'm just hoping they'll one day contact me again online and say they can forgive me and at least talk to me again.

Even if that doesn't happen I accept that fact, I'm already where I've put myself in and that's where I can stay til this body gives itself back to the land that made it.

im sort of in the same boat.. i also moved back home, the catalyst was mum was sick and i thought it best that i at least try and have a relationship with my parents before the end..

but i get the whole parents hanging out thing.. my parents sacrificed everything for me.. i get that.. but while they worked so hard on the nights, the weekends.. to get that extra pay to make sure i have a good life.. now i dont even really know my parents because we never really connected like i see my friends families do..

I dont know how to even start talking to them despite living in the same house... :/

OR ,
Dads using mini-me as literal bait.
Ie.
Im about 15 yrs older than my nephews I was uncle,older brother,pseudo-dad to them growing up, I looked after them, tried to educate them etc..
When they got older 20-24 , I'd hang with them. People would question why ??
Simply explained, they were both Chad 10/10 , me just young/old 7/10,
"Can't really go fishing without bait "
THEY was the bait .
Out to dinner,bar,drinking, group of fine young Roasties , nephews get pick of the litter and I'd get the left overs, pretty easy scoring if you got the right bait.
OP = Bait for pops

Stop being a fucking cretin and enjoy the fact that your parents have finally stopped being around out of a sense of duty but because they actually want to hang out with you.

Of course I'm reacting to your thoughts. You're fucking presenting them on an open forum. I don't give a shit about Hillary Clinton. That doesn't mean I don't open the thread to browse. I'm literally wasting time, idiot. When I leave this thread I'll never think of you again. You're honestly a special kind of stupid. My response isn't caring, it's curing my boredom.

Then go back to blaming your family like a bitch, poser.

Multigenerational housing is solid IMO. Currently planning on next house being able to accommodate my children's (eventual) families - if not all in one, close by. It's the best way to pass on family values.