Last Names

Talking about getting married with my long term gf and asked if she'd take my last name. Said she'd rather keep her already hyphenated name for professional reasons.
I dunno bros. What do. Both cultures we come from traditionally take the husband's last name.
So tired of this career > family+tradition mentality..

Cuck

Do you have a local suicide forest?

Ask what the fuck her last name has to do with her career? I wouldn't marry her, you guys obviously have different values. Why would you want to marry a career woman anyways? So your kids grow weird as shit because the state raised them?

Dont marry her stupid ass.

It's probably because you're an English teacher and she wants to keep a Japanese last name.

No reason to get married then. If she has no interest in tradition, that shouldn't bother her.

Not politics or your diary. Fuck off

That is a very easy litmus test. Don't marry a woman who won't take your last name. You are guaranteed a divorce or an affair take your pick.

My thoughts exactly.

You have gf? Whats it like?

If she isn't willing to stay at home with the kids, don't marry. You might think this is overly trade, but if the wife isn't raising the kids, who is?

Is she a Jew?

Lots of women change their legal name when getting married but keep their old name when doing business, unless it's the law in nipland that you have to put your legal name on your business cards and work email or something.

I might be okay with this.
I guess it's more like a pen name in that case.

It's just retarded that the entire family will have my last name except the wife. So much for family unity :^)

Why are you a traitor tho?

You could suggest she add her surname in her middle name so she can use it professionally.

I thought all jap citizens had to have a jap name? iirc if you become a citizen you have to adopt one for yourself

Ditch the bitch. If your settling for a ho's shit before you're even married it's only gonna get worse.

That sucks, my girlfriend had been practicing writing her name with my last name for months before I asked her if she had ever done it.

>professional reasons
So no one at work knows she's married

>her already hyphenated name
don't marry a nigger

>tfw no gf

This

Why are we still here? .... Just to suffer?

Naw nigga.. Fuck dat sheeeit. I say you get da fuck out while you still got a chance homie. Fuck bitches, get money.

Don't be a fucking pussy. Lay down the line. She's going to think you're a weak cuck if you cave. Don't be aggressive, but tell her very simply that she can either get with a traditional program or fuck off back to whence she came.

I told my GF very kindly that if she wanted to have a deeper relationship with me she needed to start adopting a more traditional lifestyle. I also told her I would respect her choice if she said no, but that we would not continue being romantic as I'm looking for a traditional wife.

Guess what? She thinks I'm worth it and she wants to now take my last name, dress modestly and go to Church.

fpbp

OP, what is her last name, and are you a white guy with a non-japanese name?

Also what is her job? There is a bias against foreigners in regards to customer/client relations, and an English name could cause native Japanese to discriminate against her (assuming she is a hafu) or what not.

leave her.
She may not take your name, but it sounds like shes already sized up your bank account and balls

My girlfriend mentioned this once, and I told her that if she brought it up again it would be the end of our relationship. Her answer was, "Woah, I didn't know this was so important to you."
And she has not brought it up since.
Take a hard stance, and for the love of our race, don't be a cuck.

Faggot OP is gone. This is some next level shilling.

Threaten to leave her.

Unless your last name is Lipshitz, Weiner, Butts, Gay, Woodcock, Bieber or Buttafuoco SHE MUST TAKE YOUR NAME

This
Either train her into a woman who reflects your values or find another one

>Our race
>Canada
>Responding to an Asian man
Conflicted, what you say is true, and it's also nice to see Asians taking pride in who they are. But why are you in Canada?

lul, I didn't realize he was a jap. I was referring to the white race user.

>I figured he was David the English teacher
Ah alright, same assumption to be fair

A woman that doesn't submit to your will isn't worth marrying.

My wife and I are both physicians and have a group practice. She uses her maiden name professionally but documentation has my last name. Just don't let her hyphenate your kids, or take her last name, or you are a big league cuck.

You can't play on the same team and wear different jerseys. Are you a family, or aren't you? Families have a name. One name.

Op is gone, you faggots are all posting in a slide thread. Sage.

fpbp

drop her.
she cares more about her career now, imagine in 10 yrs.
Become a millionaire and marry a girl that just paints at home

THIS. SAGE