Why is it so fucking hard to get a gf?

Why is it so fucking hard to get a gf?

I lift and work full time, 24 never had a gf.

Yet I don't even get one response.

You are probably a self-absorbed asshole.

Also, not a fucking political thread. This is not your goddamn blog, not a how-to-get-laid board.

Saged and reported.

At 25 it's time to nose dive off a building in central Instanbul

You should try less hard. Get suspended at work, commit some minor crime, embarass yourself in public. Then women might notice you.

>western spy squat
into the trash he goes

Why did you post this in a political board?

The nature of women in the modern feminist evironment is politics no matter how much you dislike it, faggot.

If I went out on my own on a friday / saturday I think I would come off as a tryhard in a club.

You have no balls user, your post is cringy, and I have no doubt you are the same IRL.

I'm a fat NEET and I've had a gf lol.

If you were 5'9 you would feel insecure sometimes too.

>leaf

it's because you have no persona
women will go after the skinniest and laziest as long as they're a person
your spiritual value is basically zero, you don't even show up on the radar

i never work never lifted properly still having gf since i was 14 years with breaks of 5 months between them, still looking for the motheer of my kids

Working an lifting is not a problem if you re retard

How do I change it and show up on the radar then?

Fuck that, bitches are dumb. If you act like you are hot shit they will think you are hot shit...I think kid rock said that. See he's and ugly mother fucker who gets bitches.

I used to be a full-blown weeaboo neet, collecting anime figurines and shit and even I managed to get a gf.

Now I'm working full-time, we have our own house and we're getting married next year. If I can make it, any fucker can.

Just rape some bitch senpai,shit ain't that hard.Most cunts actually love being raped,they only pretend not to.British women are easy anyways,i just jerked off at a hot british slag getting gangbanged by hobos.

So on a night out basically act "jolly" and "in control" and act like someone else.

Any advice mate? I'm on like 5 dating sites and having no luck or responses.

Creepy French bastard.

The first one is like getting an entry job. 1. Don't be picky.
2. Be honest about you lack of experience
3. Encourage her to teach you in a bold manner

That's all. Don't pretend not to be a virgin, and be extremely playful/brave about trying out dating/her kinks/whatever. It removes your fears and makes you more attractive.

I'm a disabled weeb neet with 1 eye and I managed to have multiple gf's

im not even in shape

you are probably like my friend he is a 22 yo virgin who is pretty good looking but extremely narcistic

i think you're going in the completely wrong direction
you ended up in a world where you're desperately trying to mimic the mainstream and achieve happiness their way, but you're chasing a carrot on a stick
you're probably a bright guy, but all of your energy is wasted in something that never gave results in human history
if you actually embraced your true nature and hold ground, all the doors would start opening for you
but first, you need to truly get to know yourself and gain confidence in your ACTUAL self that you're so desperately trying to run away from
think about it ... the gym stuff .. that's not really you, ... that's just a signal you have no clue what's you're doing

Honestly act like your the best thing ever, I don't mean say stupid shit, confidence is the key. And number 1 don't go pandering to the bitch, most women like assholes.

capitalism force to 2 salaries to make a living only the upper clas can leave like our ancestors
the millenials dont have any economical security,all job deslocalizated or degraded by inmigration
the low and middle class girl are waiting to their prince since they have been fucked by and alpha at one time
without marriage thre exorbital expectation that could be forzed to face the reality only has incremented ,if alpha girl get alpha men beta girl will go for the beta

Seriously now though,go buy a hooker,realize that sex ain't all that great and then give up on having a girlfriend and work out on bettering yourself.Women are only good for their cunts and even then jerkign off feels better.

Ignore that pretend to be a player bs. It only gives you grief.

You'll be stuck in that role forever, stuck with someone who only loves your mask. Just allow yourself to be yourself. It's the most overrepeated advice for a reason.

You have to go out and pursue them you dumbfuck. They are not just going to show up at your door.

no is not him the enter system is collapsin

Not Politics. Fuck off back to Tumblr you fucking faggot

How is this related to politics? Fuck off to Sup Forums or /adv/

Sage because OP is a faggot

>think about it ... the gym stuff .. that's not really you, ... that's just a signal you have no clue what's you're doing

Very true, but I feel like I don't stand a chance if I don't do it.

I already know sex on it's own isn't that great, that's why I want a gf.

I do but on several occasions I have had my height mocked by club women, it puts me down man. 5'9 is not good enough for them.

Am I making excuses? I know women have too much choice of men.

see you cucks.

of course, it's the destructive lifestyle that's being promoted, god was taken out of schools, you're all just evolved monkeys, have fun boys
and here we have a young guy that is bombarded by this propaganda and peer pressure so he will make a dumb move because of it and end up with some whore who will ruin his life and the cycle continues

Why did you post a picture of a guy from Vladivostok?

There are no longer any incentives for women to marry, date, or have sex with betas, and beta marriage is the foundation of Western Civilization.

The women that, in years past, would have made good wives and girlfriends are out playing musical cocks. But don't worry, once they're all hit the wall at 30 after fucking 200 guys, once they have 2 kids, once you've spent half your life bitter and alone, you'll be allowed to man up and marry one of these slags. Meaning you can provide for her while she rides the carousel into oblivion.

So in the mean time just pump and dump them and enjoy the collapse. Work on yourself. Lift. Learn survival skills. Purge your emotional baggage. It will pay off in better ways.

Hey, you are a piece of shit. You;re asking a bunch of 80 IQ white supremacists for relationship advice. Think about that. Oh wait, you can't because you are one of them. You are a drooling irrational moron, slack of jaw and small of mind, and you stink of failure, sending out massive tidal waves of pheromones that say "exclude me" to every woman around you.

Give up. Stop fighting to stay afloat. Sink, let the waters cover you. You will never know what it is like to bring an attractive woman to orgasm. Do not hold your breath, breathe in the water and welcome the darkness, because it is the only place where you truly belong.

I saw this advertisement earlier today user, maybe give it a try? I was tempted myself

why are you a white supremacist with low IQ, user?

You're not talking about politics you're talking about your personal life.

> Why is it so hard to get a gf?
YOU. it's hard for YOU to get a gf because you're only remembered about when you hang from a rope.

Kys

>Why can't I get a girlfriend?
>This is a thread on the nature of women in the modern feminist evironment
You're a fucking retard. One individual struggling to get a girlfriend isn't fucking politics. The OP's face probably looks like a car crash and I'm certain he's a cunt, although he's probably not as fucking stupod as your are. How the FUCK is this politics?

It's obviously politics, herbivore.

Fuck off mohammad and tanaka, we are talking about feminism and the decline of western relationships, how about you just ignore the thread instead of acting autistic.

>Very true, but I feel like I don't stand a chance if I don't do it.
i know you do, because you're not confident
as long as you delay forcing YOUR truth on the world, you will have this problem
and it will keep getting worse with time

Here's the problem Bong;
You're a fucking moron.
You want a gf? Ask a girl out.
It's really that fucking simple. Eventually, you'll get a hit. I got rejected a ton of fucking times, but I also got more than a few hits, and each one made me more bold and willing to go outside what I thought I could get.

But then again, you're a Bong and all you have is Bong Slags, so the real question is, "Why the fuck do you want a filthy Bong Slag?"

Lower your standards. Youre 24, its over anyway.

What do you do for a living? That’s the only thing that matters to women, remember that I did not ask how much money you make, because that doesn’t matter. An office manager who makes $13 an hour will get chicks, while a garbage man who makes $30 an hour will not. Also don’t even bother wasting your time lifting, a muscular autistic virgin is still an autistic virgin

I've never done those things and banged a lot of chicks
you're just ugly I guess

This dude speaks the truth.

Also love yourself first , do shit that make you happy , when you are a happy person chicks will get on that , if you complaining like this they will avoid you

>But then again, you're a Bong and all you have is Bong Slags, so the real question is, "Why the fuck do you want a filthy Bong Slag?"

I'm the one guy at work who don't have a relationship and I want a huge family.

So basically I need to stay confident and keep swiping and asking girls out.

McDonalds, I also have a small investment in cryptocurrency.

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>McDonald’s
That’s your problem, you need a new job ASAP

Legit. The whole youth phase is finished at 22ish for us 18y/o drinking age countries.

Then explain why everyone else at work is in a relationship.

It really is just like fishing, just keep throwing the bait out until you get a bite. And, don't get butthurt over rejection.

Anybody ever see that king of the hill where boomhower goes to pick up chicks at the shoe store. He goes around hitting on all of them. Most of them slap him and walk away, but in the end he walks out with a 9/10 slut.

Now if you want a wife you will need a slightly different approach.

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you were destined for crime
thug life.

okay chad

>t. r/pol9k/incels.com

>waah waah i'm so disadvantaged

Clubs are competitive, loud and sleazy environments. Try less high pressure places. Your 5' 9" not 5' 2". Stop making excuses,

Based nip

Just get laid OP its not hard lmao

Most likely from relationships they formed during high school. (Assuming the women are high-quality) But you’re never going to find a woman while you’re working in fast food, maybe you could get one or two dates but once she finds out what you do for a living, it’s over.

>McDonalds
I do not wish to mock you but man this is the lowest of the lows. Either you are brown/paki etc. or mentally retarded. No way a native British is working at McDonalds when he's 24.

I live in a small town so there is not much going on here other than the clubs/pubs on Fri/Sat.

>I don't even get one response
>response
>using online dating
If you are employed and fit and looking for a gf rather than casual sex with gross sluts, you should be looking offline. I'm very physically attractive and get very few responses on online dating. In the real world I can get the interest of a girl much, much more easily. Online dating is retarded.

Bars and clubs are also useless for finding an actual gf. The women at the bar are the same crappy women who are on Tinder.

If you're employed that probably means you have a social circle. Find people through your social circle. If you have interests that are important to you outside work (running, playing instruments, art, outdoors stuff, a sport, ornithology...), go to some kind of social situations involving those things.

A response? So you're not engaging with these women in person, in an environment where they feel secure? Post a picture of yourself.

There is literally fuckall, all year round jobs in this small seaside town, that's why I'm building my cryptocurrency investments, If I can make money that way I can move.

This.

Women have been given everything, and they can also make the same wages as men. So this rules out the average man who could provide the basics to the average woman. They dont have to fear being homeless or penniless now, so their demands are becoming more insane by the day.

It you're a 5/10 then you should be aiming for 1-2/10 women.

women go after the spirit, user
work on your spirit, give yourself time, hurry will only spiral you down even faster
you don't belong to clubs and pubs, and you definitely shouldn't seek women there

No don't do that. Go to /soc/ if you want to get doxxed.

OK, listen up.
This is me:
>14. Be a finalist in local Yugi-Oh! tournament.
>15. Played D&D all the fucking time.
>16. Shut in all year, fapping to anime and porn.
>17. Play M:tG and shower maybe once every 3 days.
>18. Graduated HS and still living at home, no job.
>19. Get a job at Dunkin Donuts because father about to throw me out on my ass.
>19. 10 weeks into DD job, I'm online RPing with a female coworker who is crushing on another coworker. She gets riled up and we end up fucking pretty regularly until she quits and we just stop bothering.
That was the catalyst that got me to start asking women out and I'm 5 for around 15 since and still with #5 for almost a year now.

Just keep fucking trying and don't relax your standards.

Admit it, that woman is attracted to freaks. Some of them just want a unique husband and all the attention that garners. Or he's just a good guy with social skills.

>nature of women
>why can't _I_ get laid Sup Forums

Pick one.

Nothing wrong with going to the gym lol.

You need to stop giving a fuck, OP. if you are not comfortable hitting on women sober, then have a few drinks and then hit on them. Also, saged.

who cares? he got himself a normal kid
he can die right now and not even care, at least that's how i would feel

Go spontaneously detonate trinitrotoluene in your sphincter, bitch.

>McDonald's
>one of the worst possible wage cuck jobs you can have
>muh cryptocurrency
Women aren't wrong for not wanting to date you, it has nothing to do with feminism and everything to do with your job sucks and you are clearly retarded with your money too.

>So you're not engaging with these women in person

I don't know how to approach random women when not at clubs, also they probably have bfs.

Like I said I'm not sure how to randomly approach women.

Crypto currency investments won’t get you laid. You need to find a more respectable job, which really any job will pay you more than you make now but like I already said, women don’t really care about wealth (which is why your investments won’t help you) you need to find something that a woman wouldn’t be embarrassed to tell her friends and family about, even if you made a million dollars a year as a burger flipper it wouldn’t matter

MickeyD's is such a suicide tier job holy fuck. IN my hometown theres an old 40yo looking guy who works there as a cashier he can literally barely talk from depression, his eyes are sunken and sad as fuck, he apparently was seen crying in the backroom once too.

I'm going to go out on a limb her, you actually have to talk to women to get rejected by them. Have some balls, ask a girl out.
>have a sense of humor
girls like to laugh just like anyone else. I'm sure you have a sense of humor so don't be shy about what you think is funny. You're from Sup Forums so it's probably sick and disgusting but there are girls out there that like that kind of thing you're just going to have to go through a few of them.

>don't put the pussy on a pedestal
girls are just guys with different body parts. They're horney and like to have fun, the fact you even exist is evidence of that

If you get a first date you're already like 75% of the way there to getting laid, don't push it or you will fail. 2-3 dates is pretty standard for getting laid, don't get hung up on one girl if it only lasts one date.

Just be yourself and don't be afraid to talk to people, it's not as hard as you think. You've intimidated yourself and you need to get past that. Go to random bars you'll only goto once or twice and just talk to people. Talk to anyone about anything. Chances are your social skills are lacking but, luckily for you, that's something that can be learned.

Maybe the biggest piece of advice I would offer is... don't chase after women who are a 7+/10 and know it. Aim a bit lower, look for a girl who is a bit lower on the scale, someone who doesn't receive as much male attention, someone who knows they aren't quite as pretty as some of the other girls out there. I'm not saying you should go after the most hideous girl you can find, but if you're looking for potential wife material, appearances are not the most important factor to consider in the grand scheme of things, and a 4/10 who doesn't get hit on a lot by other men is likely to be much better wife material than a 9/10 who knows exactly how hot she is.

Look for girls whose parents are still happily married. The difference between a girl with a strong father figure in her life, and one who comes from a single-mother household is amazing.

As for actually finding someone... that's a tougher question. I don't know you or what kind of person you are, so it's not for me to suggest why you're not having any luck finding someone, but I would suggest looking for someone out in the real world. Not at a club or a bar, or on a dating site, but at the everyday places, the shops and supermarkets where they work, for example. If you see a cashier you know is single, aim for their till regularly, pay them the odd compliment as you're passing through. Things like that go a long way.

You probably have a face only a mother could love. Coupled with your man pussy/lack of confidence, you have fallen in this situation.

Make money, acquire expensive property, dress high-end and you will get many gold digging 10's. Fuck their brains out ASAP and pop out many kids.

. Play M:tG and shower maybe once every 3 days.
All that other shit is redeemable and could be seen as a phase, but in my opinion those with poor hygiene are irredeemable subhuman trash. Only times I've gone without a shower for even a single day since puberty was on military deployments. Doing it voluntarily speaks of being psychologically broken in ways that can't be mended.

McDonalds gets you laid, soyboys.

Stop bathing. Let your body aroma cover you like a cloud. Make sure you touch yourself and smell your fingers in public.

Are you a manlet or deformed? Only other reason is you being a faggot yourself

Fuck you, actual self absorbed assholes are what women prefer. Kys shill

Post selfie with timestamp or gtfo

At 18-19 maybe, but at 24? What the fuck were you even doing in college, assuming OP went at all.

Your lying getting a girlfriend is easy the only thing stopping you is yourself go ask a fat girl out, when she says yes fuck her and you be lost your virginity. WALLAH.

apps are trash
you need better camera
more narcissism
take meme vacations, show off douchey hobbies - hold a puppy and a guitar, flash some cash

or talk to women in real life

What's wrong with the gym lmao? Do you like not being in good physical shape? I love never having any physical pain, it's like I live in a pillow.

Having a girlfriend won’t make you happy user. Why do you idolize and worship romantic relationships so much?

Pretty much any woman I've dated through school, work, or some sort of group hobby (incorporate some sort of meetups/clubs into your exercise routine, like regularly scheduled classes where you see and interact with the same people daily.) Also, your friends' girlfriends are always looking to offload their single friends onto guys.

Don't rush it user, you're still very young, just live and do your best and it will happen, fixating on getting a GF is a mistake

It's what society expects from him. Too bad OP craving that dick

Another good tip is to aim for ethnic girls, being in the UK I'd go for arabs, maybe even convert to islam (dead serious you have nothing to loose). Or come to NZ and go for maori/white hapas, they often are insecure.

He can get a 8+ if he goes for a low-esteem fatty with a pretty face. Get her to go to the gym with him, within 1-2 years profit.

5'9

I don't want to get doxxed.

even fat girls here want 10/10's

It really would mate, I want a huge family and I can't be wasting time.

>pay them the odd compliment as you're passing through

True I should start doing that.

>that's something that can be learned.

How can I develop them?

You wonder why niggers are taking your women. You won't even talk to women. They are dying for someone to ask them out. A nigger will ask them all out.

I was lazy and 30lbs. overweight and didn't give a single fuck. Usually wore the same shirt, and always wore the same pants for at least 2 days straight, often slept in them, only changed my socks daily. I stank so badly some days, I could smell myself.
That's my point though, I was a total shitter.
In many ways, I still am, except I shower daily, missing maybe a lazy weekend day.
I still play M:tG and D&D, don't watch anime so much, but still have a Neir:Automata waifu pillow that my mother got me as a gag gift and my current gf adores.
Still overweight, still only 5'6" manlet. Still haven't stepped in a gym in 2 years. Still employed at Home Depot making $14/hr.

My point is that this Bong can easily get a gf if he just fucking applies himself.