I was a motivated student. I tried for med school after my baccalauréat and failed, despite getting close to having a passing grade into second year.
I doubled another year and failed also.
I got depressed, went to a psyward, and was put on meds. I stopped them soon after.
It's been 4 years and I still feel like fucking shit. I just don't know what to do. I was bornin 1994, recently turned 23. I'm not dumb, I'm hard working when I need to be, but I just feel so fucking lost right now.
All my former accointances are living the life while I'm still at the starting point.
What the fuck am I even supposed to do now. I tried nursing, dropped soon after because the job is livin hell, an poorly remunerated (not like in the US at all, here it's an underpaid profession).
>23 >All my former accointances are living the life while I'm still at the starting point. yeah give it 10 years and observe how many of them become fat slobs. your life isn't over yet mate.
Josiah Mitchell
Clean your room.
Ethan Harris
Stop focusing on your career watching all these lonely people around me deppressed as fuck over not having a partner and not having kids is very sad. Stop focusing on a career that will give you money and go do stuff that will give you internal happiness.
Josiah Gutierrez
...
Jordan Ward
It's clean as fuck senpai
DOn't serve me that peterson babble, i'm past the point of hearing pseudo-intellectual babble
Xavier Powell
Try again? What's with people giving up so easily here? It's like none of you niggers can handle failure.
Matthew Sanchez
fuck off mut nigger.
Aaron Johnson
I wish I knew, I'm in similar shit
Dominic Green
sounds like it came right out of the /r9k/ 25+ thread, except for the 23 part
Easton Thompson
coding, you'll earn way more money than anyone you know within 3 - 4 years.
Don't worry how, you'll find a way.
Same story here, dropped out of dentistry, now I'm making 1k a month passively. Way more to come in the future. Basically sit on my ass all day and come up with a method to passively earn money.
Life on easy mode.
Lincoln Reyes
Do they normally put depressed people in the psych ward in la republique? Also feeling lost at 23 is not uncommon in case it’s overly concerning you.
Liam Long
Got in the same shit. Now I'm close to be a make up artist and everything is fine. You should seek for a job as agent immobilier at Century 21 in France, the average pay for a dumb agent is 10k€ net per month. I know because I did it. And I wouldn't leave if it wasn't for make up
Oliver Mitchell
I struck a nerve with the incest baby kek
Thomas Bailey
This. Twenty three is just the beginning.
Hunter Nguyen
if you worked as hard as a doctor, you would make more money running your own business ventures (if you are smart enough to be a doctor)
Dylan Wright
Look down, the answer is staring you right in the face.
Jacob Kelly
>You should seek for a job as agent immobilier at Century 21 in France, the average pay for a dumb agent is 10k€ net per month.
Seems a bit of an overestimation.
Jack Allen
Oh and just to add: Don't get a girlfriend, no matter what until you made it. I don't feel like explaining why, just take my word.
Daniel Foster
Get a fucking trade.
Grayson Jones
find something else. I was more or less in the same boat as you but im now taking steps to become a goldsmith after realizing the constant push for higher education wasnt working for me.
Asher Perry
>Also feeling lost at 23 is not uncommon in case it’s overly concerning you.
Yeah, lots of 23 year old males are over-dramatic pussies who can't handle any adversity.
Joseph Jenkins
Its not that you a struck a nerve im just not gonna be hearing advice from some basement dweller mut who has 44% nigger blood.
Leo Williams
Just wave the white flag like your garlic eating grandfathers
Lucas Nelson
>All my former accointances are living the life while I'm still at the starting point. >still at the starting point. at least you have freedom of choice user
Jackson Moore
For once some decent shitposting from an ((((australian))))
Leo Lopez
Peterson says: Find a meaning that motivates you to put in the effort. Judge yourself on how you improve yourself compared to yesterday, not how your peers are today.
Mason Lewis
so many people are unstable it's crazy. they live it up using credit for 10 years and then implode when they hit 30 and their looks start to fade. they marry each other and have kids without realizing they're friends with benefits, not husband and wife. they take drugs and get drunk for years and feel the effects when they hit 35.
so many people are unstable. OP needs to wait 10 years to see the masks drop.
Gabriel Fisher
Quit complaining Honhon, I'm in the adjacent age group to you and I cant even get an official job because of idiotic bureaucracy, I work unofficially for a wage that is less than a half of the minimum wage here, but you don't see me going around and complaining (on anonmous anime based imageboards no less)
Elijah Long
I was in a psy ward for young people (oldest dude was 31). Half of them were schyzos due to dude weed lmao, other half were depressed / bipolar.
James Garcia
Idk lad but you should post more of this milk overload girl here
Lucas Brooks
You think not giving up is advice? it's common sense you pussy. Yes OP become a self loathing faggot who sits on Sup Forums and blames everyone for their problems. Fuck trying. kys
Same goes to you
Matthew Anderson
Are you sad because you wont be a fucking doctor? Tomorow I have exam in internal medicine and its all fucking pain in the ass.
Zachary Watson
>muh coding meme Nibba pls, nobody is going to hire you if you dont have the papers to prove it.
Charles Ortiz
He can't handle failure like 95% of this board. mommy coddled him too much.
Christopher Walker
Yes. I had pressure from my parents, was happy to surclass my peers, and still failed.
Leo Wilson
do you really want to wipe boomer shit?
get an engineering degree
Levi White
you kinda complained just then.
Lincoln Lopez
its kind of understandable given the importance put on going into higher education and starting a career asap.
Jaxon Jackson
Are there only 2 tries to pass ? I thought it would be three. Can't you try another time ?
Luis Jones
mate your 23 I was literally smoking weed and banging sluts and going no where got my shit together when i was 27 am now 30 and have over million dollars.
Jaxon Thompson
just have a strong portfolio nigger
Jackson Butler
>importance put on going into higher education and starting a career asap.
When you choose to become a doctor you should be prepared to handle this. Either OP just isn't good enough or he didn't try hard enough. Either way throwing a pitty party isn't going to change his situation. He should either try again or move on.
Eli Gomez
I can't. I wrote a letter to get a 3rd try, still got refused.
Jaxon Wilson
Ok i wont put you in the tabs of giving advice i know that you dont have the necessary ethnicity % to give that. You dont have the right to insert yourself into a thread, go pick my cotton.
Isaac Hernandez
You're lucky you live in France. This country sucks. I wish I could move there.
Landon Morgan
Why ? Tell them you had medical reasons: depression. if they still refuse get them to court and sue them
Andrew Nelson
how'd you manage that?
find other interests and possible careers you'd want to pursue. I went in circles for over a decade before I found where I wanted to be.
people tend to go with a double or nothing mentality into this. OP just needs to break from this mental chastity.
Ryder Bailey
Her boobs make up for her face
Anthony Lee
sometimes i feel like the only person on the internet who is both not a normie, and has not attempted suicide
anyway OP i think you should learn a trade. plumbing, HVAC, electrician, or get some IT certs
Jacob James
>You dont have the right to insert yourself into a thread, go pick my cotton.
See OP, this is what happens when you give and have nothing. You end up sitting on Sup Forums making up rules and lashing out anybody who reminds you of your father.
Caleb Smith
My dumb cousins make 15000 net per month in net. Call any agency now and ask them.
Its precisely this calculation : around 12.000 of fees per house sold 40% for you impots/tax reduced at 20% So it makes around 4.000€ net per house sold. Sell 4 in a month and you make 15.000€ net
Asher Nelson
How do i get French gf
Blake Price
>OP just needs to break from this mental chastity.
That's fair, after reading he's failed twice it's probably best he finds something he's better at anyways.
Kayden Davis
take this shit to /r9k faggot
Cameron Mitchell
Tell me about this 1k passive income pls. Here is an uncommon pepe in advance for your troubles.
Jonathan Thomas
You still have value. You can end your life by doing something meaningful for your people.
Aaron Turner
>muh prortfolio A meme. A potential employer won't give a crap about how many years of experience and how good you might be if you don't have the proper education and the faculties backing your claims.
Connor Young
This, you must fight for the caliphate OP
Adrian Bailey
apply to another med school or a phd program
Evan Thompson
this is wrong.
Jaxon Howard
Or you can enter any university and chose a 5 year course in IT.
Ethan Garcia
You're a man, not a woman. At 23, you're life is only starting. Just enjoy it and do what you have to do. I'm in a similar situation where I kind of fucked up in education, got pretty much depressed and i was a few years late on everyone. It's not over, just keep on working. I don't know your interests but I'm sure you can find resources to help you out. Keep in mind a lot of people are in the situation as you.
Depends on what job, any high paying job will require a portfolio over a diploma, assuming the person hiring actually has a clue as to what he wants.
Dominic Moore
no meme answers please. I am in a similar situation as OP and have been lurking the thread.
William Jackson
It is undeniably true. t. have first hand experience
Colton Cruz
or got study in romania or bulgaria. They take everyone
Leo Peterson
when you have ended because of this at psychiatry you would be probably dead at the end of the school.. and if you had managed to survive this somehow you would die at the practice or would burn out later on and you would be just unhappy
you just saved your life fampai, just do something else, being a doctor sucks ass anyway but I get a lot of pussy just because of it
be a fucking nigger/imigrant hunter..there are so many possibilities what to do
fucking french pussy
Noah Anderson
You failed out of Medical School twice? what's your situation?
Julian Adams
its literally a proof of skill, unlike many schools that fuck with the level of quality they put out. Its the same with the art industry, nobody will care if you have papers if you have concrete proof that youre qualified and competent.
Hunter Ross
Does that even grant a job in France ?
Fac d'info ?
Nolan Hughes
23, Mechanical Engineer, last semester and last chance to finish it. Every single person I knew has graduated and now I am stuck with literally no friends. Wish me luck, and I am wishing for OP to succeed as well.
John Reed
This. You can reach the top, but you can easily fall down. Keep at it OP. Read books, work out. NEET if you must, but learn skills like programing or electrical engineering while on your own. Life is hard, for some more than for others.
Joshua Sanchez
stop chattering your hands to politics and simply don't exist at all !!!!!! best message. and fuck you.
Bentley Flores
>gypsy education You're better off without it . t. 5th semester dropout.
Elijah Green
Time to choose where you want to go
Jayden Lewis
Get into the job market (preferably into your trade) instantly after graduating, otherwise you will permanently lock yourself out of it. If it works the same over there as it does here, that is.
Asher Thompson
>Yeah, lots of 23 year old males are over-dramatic pussies who can't handle any adversity.
t. boomer
In your day making it in life just required you to shake the hand of the local factory owner and save a years worth of income to buy a comfy house and gas guzzling car. It's not our fault you cunts have exported our jobs to Chyna and filled our countries with poos (and in the case of burgers with Mexicans) to take the last remaining decent jobs.
Jacob Rogers
Thanks for the advice guys, I appreciate it. I am planning to send my CV everywhere just before the end of the semester to get that edge over my piers. I advice OP and everyone else to do this if they can.
Brayden Edwards
Actually IT companies are ready to pay thousand of euros of training to convert anyone with a scientific master's degree or a IT bachelor's degree into application developers.
So if you get the regular IT master's degree you'll be HARRASSED on the phone by companies' HR.
James Garcia
Mate no one in france is where they should be at 23; the very best are are still pissing around in grandes ecoles, others haven’t even finished But rly most failed cpge early, and are now part way through their ug.
When I look up my old classmates (Term. S section européenne; supposed cream of the crop), none of them finished education or done anything interesting yet
Tldr, don’t worry about it
Jaxson Hernandez
Yes early.
Also be working on your resume and the proposition you'd have for a prospective employer.
Mill isn't much, but op don't compare yourself of a monitaty scale. I went to a top tier law school, degree in law and quant finance and have a MBA. At 22 I was on 170k a year, 26 I was on triple for just my base.
But I didn't love it...
I gave it all up and became a metal worker/ blacksmith... Never looked back.i don't make as much(only about 70 ), bit have invested a portion of my savings long term.
But I now love my job... Happy to work and no more weight on my shoulders.
Easton Murphy
He's still getting older and probably began forgetting usefull high-school stuff. He needs to move his ass now.
Charles Allen
My advice for anyone stuck in a rut is to go work abroad. Chances are there is some company or organisation run by people of your nationality that need co-nationals working for them abroad. Some countries are harder to live in than others, so it's great to be able to demonstrate that you can do this, and great to be paid for putting up with some minor inconveniences for a few years. When you come back, you can easily distinguish yourself from your peers who didn't have this sort of experience, and who just sat around and moped for a few years. Language teaching is one easy way to do this, for example.
Ayden Torres
Become a personal trainer or an electrician. Easy af jobs that just require a bit of hard work then once qualified just charge any rate you want.
Joseph Morgan
Come up with a business idea and do it. If you can work hard and you're smart and you say you are and i'm pretty sure you are - go and be your own boss. Fuck this. You do not have to feel like you're at he starting point, that's bullshit.
and yeah, there's alway the legion, my friend.
don't be a bitch, man up, make a story that your children are gonna be proud to tell their children.
thinking about the big things. if you're hard working - that means you almost did it.
Dylan Peterson
Being an electrician is not physically taxing, but it is a very responsible job. You can get yourself or others hurt or even killed if you screw something up: cause fires, electrocution, power failiures at critical moments, eqipment damage, etc. I've see it being tossed around as a free for all job, but it really isn't.
Joseph Gomez
Too idealistic. You being a Russian should know better that most people are doomed to remain forever obscure.
Henry Rogers
Based frog.
Go to seminary and become a doctor of theology PhD And the get a post in a university and use it to red pill students and if you get bored springboard into politics.
Its what I would do.
Cameron Richardson
am I correct to guess that austrians are more logical than germans?
Juan Jackson
Or get certificates.
There are Certificate for certain jobs. Hell i work in Cyber Security and i worekd for microsoft in redmond WA. All without a college degree. O sure all the college ppl tell me how i can make 100k more blah blah if i go back to schhool. But than i have to learn bullshit pshycology and how race is a social construct and other dumb shit. i am debt free and just making money without any bullshit being taught to me.
If i can do it so can you. Just look up certificates for thhe job you want to do. The only thing that really requires college is shit like being a doctor.
Lincoln Robinson
You're just a gloomy fuck.
In fact me being -from Russia- means I understand how lucky this guy is and how much he can accomplish and the only thing stopping him is poor judgement.
And this dude isn't 'most people', he said he's hardworking, he really wants to accomplish something, is a Sup Forums visitor so he's probably a comrade to many of us here and therefore has good intentions, people like that should be, must be successful.
He should drop the idea of being an eternal student and challenge himself in a whole new way. He wanted to spend years getting a medical degree, just working like a mule. You get it? The real challenge for our friend here would be independent thought and adventorousness. Combined with his ability to work hard this strategy is bound to bear sweet fruits of success.
Ayden Smith
Just study med in Ukraine it's way cheaper and you'll actually pass.
Brayden Gomez
Also never forget the socialist party in France strangled industry in France. All the shit they have to do to hire one employee basically means they can't and thus all they do is shorty term contract work.
Your economy is so fucked which ironically means manufacturing usually gets outsourced to Asia turkey or Mexico and workers get exploited anyway because your idiot socialists are to stupid to put together a coherent platform.
Nathan Russell
I had a history teacher in hs who had a Doctorate in theology, his opinions (v tame by pol standards) were not met well and eventually he was pushed to get out of the school system
Samuel Mitchell
Yes you have to wait until you have tenure or clout in your department
Leo Campbell
>Oh and just to add: Don't get a girlfriend, no matter what until you made it. I don't feel like explaining why, just take my word. Totally on board with this statement. Having a gf will consume too much time of your life and you will stray away from your goals.
First establish yourself and then go on a hunt for a wife
Jonathan Murphy
Teachers in France are all government employees (including at private schools), tenure doesn’t really come into it, all teachers are essentially automatically tenured, doesn’t mean you can’t be pushed out by other means