Pol is hardly the place I'd normally ask for life advice but I feel that it's that you lovely people will be more hard...

Pol is hardly the place I'd normally ask for life advice but I feel that it's that you lovely people will be more hard headed on this topic than anywhere else.

Basically I'm meeting my daughters prospective boyfriend next week and want to know what the best way is to ensure that he knows who's boss and that if he ever hurts her in any way I will personally end his existence.

My eldest daughter (2nd out of 4 children) is 14 and my wife and I have always raised her to be a responsible and respectable young lady. We all agreed that when it came to boys there would be absolutely no dating until high school and I would have to meet and prospective boyfriend first.

The kid in question is 16 and goes to the same (private) school as her. I even vaguely know his parents and they seem like a good family.
However I know from personal experience what boys that age can be like. How do I make sure the little shit knows what's what Sup Forums?

idiot father you sound like a micro-managing prick and your daughter will widen her snatch to the max just to spite your oversight.

there is only one thing you can do and you fucking know it. no "going out" no cinemas no none o that shit unless you in the fucking room or watching on the cctv (something like lazer tag would be an ideal date for them since you can buy the recordings)

What I am saying is don't focus on the boy. he means nothing. only your daughter is worth your love and attention. don't even look at the boy. if you try to act agressive to take notice of him, your daughter will see him as a man and not a child. she looks up to you and if you arc up into gorilla mode over some kid, she'll definitely 100% fuck his brains out and get pregnant first try.

this is the truth.

Just tell the kid you were his age once and you know what teenage boys are like. You should probably be able to identify his character after talking to him for a little, and if you have any doubts about him just tell him that if he hurts your daughter you’ll kill him.

Personally I don’t think parents should allow dating until 16 though.

I'm hardly keeping her locked in the fucking house and it's not as if I supervise her every move. She makes her own way to school and goes out with friends all the time.

When it comes to boyfriends however it's an entirely different matter. 14 year olds arn't exactly known for their stellar judgement but me and my wife both think that we should meet any boy first so we know he's not the type to hurt or take advantage of her.

Appreciate the advice user.

If it were all up to me she wouldn't be but my wife and I talked out all this kind of stuff years ago. She felt that it would be better to allow it from when our daughters first entered high school so they're not too sheltered and tempted to rebel. Obviously she knows a damn sight more about teenage girls mentality than I do so I bowed to her better judgement on this.

I would have been glad to have a dad like this. Just because you were allowed to smoke weed and cigarettes in high school because your parents didn't care about you doesn't mean every other parent has to be like yours. My dad and mom restricted my internet use, policed my text messages and every friend I tried to make, homeschooled me my entire life, and utterly destroyed my social prowess as a result of it. At 14 years old every kid has a full understanding that what their parents do is for their own good, and any kid that says or acts otherwise regularly is a fucking brat. I understood what my parents were trying to do, but I also couldn't even breathe without feeling like I was being watched. In my case, I ended up on Sup Forums at 12 watching gore and porn because I had nowhere to go but the internet for entertainment. OP, keep doing what you're doing. Also, it's good to get to know the bf a bit, if he's 16 he's mature enough to show that he is through conversation when you're around. If he's super quiet it can be hard to tell how mature he is, but talk to him casually a bit and see what he's like, what he's into, etc. Every guy likes their gf's dad if he's cool.

Kill him now.

look for your younger self in him. If you see it, remember he would do the same shit you did, so deal with it. If you see a shitty man in the making, scare him away without your daughter noticing it (she won't forgive you that and it's gonna be worst just to be contrarian).

I'm father of two if that matters. Same boat as you user.

>Same boat as you
goodluck user

It's already too late.

Fuck off the reddit, stupid faggot

Thanks for the support user. We've always tried to instil in them a good traditional Christian moral framework and keep them away from leftie brainwashing but allow them the freedom to be kids. This shows that we trust them to be good and responsible and ensures that they both love and respect us and feel no need to rebel against our values. Far better our younger ones be outside playing with other kids that stuck inside with only the tv for company.

Worked out well so far.

Care to elaborate?

As someone who has already raised two daughters that are now married adults(27, 25) who abide by traditional values I think I can give you some tips here

From what you've told us until now I will try to advise you based on your situation. Do not let her date any boy until she is 18, because if you let her date someone before that, and 14 is really realy young in case you didn't know, she will think that dating is normal, which is not, dating is not normal, if your daughter wants to have a partner the man that wants her will have to court her on your supervision and after your approval ask for her hand, there is no "dating" or "boyfriend", there's only approved or not approved, and I would also advise against boys, do not let any male younger than 24 even approach your daughter with intentions other than being friends, I'll sit here in case you want more clarification

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Your daughter's about to get fucked

I appreciate what you're saying but as I already mentioned I want to be able to trust her to abide by the values we raised her with rather than keep her wrapped in cotton wool. Part of the reason I always wanted to meet him first is to judge whether he would make good husband material one day and that he is serious about their relationship. If he treats it ad a casual thing that's a huge red flag for me.

Are u retarded. Letting your daughter start dating at that age is putting her on the path to the cock carrousel.

She should be focusing on school and nothing else.

Who said anything about cock? We didn't raise her to be a slut user.

show him your gun collection as a warning to take good care of your daughter on date night

I didn’t say you did, but society around your daughter is corrupted, and will tell her that kissing is fine, then touching is fine, and then that or this is also fine, and its all just having fun. Understand?

If you make your daughter wait a bit more to start going out with boys, then at least you are giving her a chance to develop a more mature outlook, and maybe dome strong self-discipline.

Plus, do not listen to your wife, instead do what you think is the right thing to do as a father.

FUCK HIM WITH THE BROOM
POUR SALT IN THE WOUND !

I wouldn't really count three guns as a "collection". I only have a rifle a pistol and my grandfathers old service pistol. Standard home defense stuff but I'm not exactly a doomsday prepper.

Well compared to most of her friends she has "waited" they've been allowed to date since about 11 or 12. Society may tell her that these things are okay but her family doesn't, she values her self and her virtue.

I'm normally the one that makes the decisions in our marriage but my wife obviously knows more about being a 14 year old girl than I do.

I appreciate the advice but I don't want her to turn into the sterotypical girl from a strict family who turns into a whore.

Gtfo with that nigger shit.