I failed with the nofap. I lasted only 5 days and now I'm fapping furously.
To be honest, I'm feeling pretty down about it. I thought I was winning and taking control but I feel so shitty to be resetting *again*. I want to change my ways but I can't seem to be able to and it's making me really worried about the future and my potential as a human being. Worried I'll be trapped in this cycle of mediocrity forever. I have been trying really hard but have failed so many times now it's getting me down.
Learn from Vegeta. He only became a super saiyan after he stopped caring about surpassing Goku, so you gotta stop caring about what some cucks think. The strongest powerlifter in the world jokes about jerking off all the time.
I don't get nofap. Jerking off is healthy, esp. when you're single and don't have a women to blow your load into. If you're trying to be more disciplined, put it into something more productive, like losing weight, reading more, whatever. Nofap is pointless and counter intuitive.
Luke Wilson
try no porn instead
Eli Sanchez
>nfg >posting milks I suppose this is a joke now and I will contribute to the joke.
That's life mate. A continuous string of failures tempered only by your ability to stand up and face another day. The only way I find some solace is by knowing that I am actually fucking useless and left to my own devices I'd just lay down on the ground with pizza and beer, every time I do something better than that I've accomplished something.
I'm currently on day 2 of my 20th nofap attempt. Maybe I'll fail again on the third day like I often do, but I'm not accepting that fate yet. My ability to get back up after so many failures is what will push me towards greatness, as will my blind faith in myself. One day I'll wonder why I ever even doubted myself.
David Gutierrez
I have my gal. We are almost married. But this fapping addiction is driving me mad.
They're allowed to but they have to wash their dick afterwards.
Robert Walker
wtf
Christian Green
Dis muslim only rape women western country
Kevin Myers
The worst moment of the day for me is n addition to the tingling in the penis and the "itching" erections. Anny advice? I'm 27
It's just the picture with which I faied
Hunter Perry
do this. work out; lift, cardio. eat healthy. way i broke it, everytime i felt urge to, id offer it up to Jesus, and go run a mile. that worked for me.
Chase Miller
But how?
Eli Davis
God didn't make it too hard for us. Nofap is only about 2 weeks. Beyond that you're cured. Get a girl, but do not masturbate like a dog, please. In the middle ages, prostitutes were allowed in some places because it was considered less of a sin than furiously stroking your cock in what can only be described as a homosexual act.
God Bless on your 2 week journey f*ggot
Aaron Wood
>political implications of not jerking off nofap confirmed for brain donor threads.
>Do noporn for atleast a month >Realize that true motivation comes from success >Look away from sexually loaded pictures, and don't seek them out >Work towards successes and let rewards come from success, and not from fake success like masturbation, which is only the pathetic mans substitute for true accomplishment
I have a girl, we have been together for like 8 years, I'm pretty traditional, no degenerated, but have this addiction to pornstars that don't do interracial and fapping.
I feel like shit with this lack of control.
Andrew Carter
Also i got myself a tangible life-goal: Be successful enough to buy a house, so that i can get a wife, and get what i've always wanted which is intimacy with a woman, not faux sexual release in front of a screen.
Justin Martin
Everyone's journey starts somewhere.
Parker Torres
>Also i got myself a tangible life-goal: Be successful enough to buy a house, so that i can get a wife Or you could get a job. >not jerking off is a journey Full retard.
What bothers me is Rick and Korte isn’t a fucking Saturday morning cartoon he’s just arbitrarily watching cartoons with a bowl of cereal
What a fag
Grayson Smith
My nofap journey was great, I was in my 4th day (I was alone), but then my girlfriend came in the 5th day, I had sex, and then I lost control and had again the urge to fap.
Your willpower is too weak to rid yourself of this sin. Unite your will with Christ our Lord, go to confession and read St. Teresa of Avila's "The Interior Castle".
The latter is an instruction on how to manage your repenting soul and keep it from harm.
The thing is, when you realize that fapping rewires the brain to be geared towards lewd thoughts at every turn... you might find that it to be not as appealing. Ever catch yourself looking at breasts and butts? Fapping puts your mind in the gutter. I found that those thoughts are less prevalent now since I have found the direct correlation and I have stopped fapping.
Also OP if you really want to be a wizard or go super saiyan, you shouldn't be fapping.
Camden Mitchell
Noporn was more easy for me that nofap. But, in the nofap mode, I had in my mind the images of all those fucking porns that I watched in my life. I tried to think only in my girlfriend and eve with bitches that I make me horny. But those fictional porn pictures of my favourite pornstars 10-7 years ago just don't go away.
When you have sex with gf (you shouldn't when not yet married), focus on your pleasure when putting your thing inside her, don't get your pleasure from her reactions.
One of the cuckolding and emasculating effects of porn is that your brain gets conditioned to get pleasure from the woman's moans and movements instead of your genital touching the woman.
Leo Hughes
So what happens to these women later on?
Gabriel Baker
Porn images of my favorites pornstars and scenes just haunt me. And most of this porns are from 2006-2012. I hate this. The good thing is that I can go away with new porn. It doesn't exicte me.
I realize a long time ago that fapping mess with my brain and dopamine levels. But how can a can away with this?
I just want to be pure and loyal to my girl.
Jayden Rogers
>don't take women outside bc guys will star at them >fuck little boys in the ass instead powerful
Christopher Gomez
>Porn images of my favorites pornstars and scenes just haunt me If you can't help it, there's nothing that you can do.
You may think you're right, but you're actually gay. Checkmate, kid. Noporn is the first step for every man who wants to be free in this world. Start there. You can do like a swear-jar thing, when you look at something sexual you can put a quarter in. Or, make a mental rule of doing something when you get horny so you can distract yourself, like looking at gorgeous old architecture.
How is making your gf cum and getting a rock hard boner from it a bad thing?
Josiah Myers
Good post. Looking away as soon as you see anything vaguely sexual truly is the way to go. You gotta get it as early as possible, it'll be easier tho stop the urge in its infancy.
Brody Reyes
Well that's simple, you just have to stop yourself from thinking of pornographical content. Pornography is visual - sex is not. You need to jerk off to sex to restore your brain, not memories of porn. youtu.be/mhqx7yctQVk This video is great at explaining the science behind it. I, too, was jerking off to memories of porn, but you just have to stop yourself and re-train yourself.
Bentley Walker
amen
Christian Thomas
From a logical perspective. They are going to haunt me. I fapped for almost 10 years to porn.
I put it in a logical, cold and non-emotional level. But still. The urge of fapping. The erections during the day (and in the night before slepping) are like demonds in my mind and body.
The first two days of nofap were great. Then it was all downhill.
Kevin Johnson
I do those and I also jerk off. What's the point of resisting your body's urges? To get into heaven? A place that not even the Jews believe in?
Honestly, a combo of prayer and thinking of the absolute worst/grossest aspects of the porn industry and I know that's quite the dichotomy of methods but, both have truly helped me get past that 5-7 day point where a accidentally viewed youtube clip of a top notch sheboon(relatively speaking OBVIOUSLY!) is enough to take thing beyond the point of no return.
Anyway, I have set a standard for myself now that once every 10+ days isn't necessarily bad(it keeps the system maintained for IRL opportunities) as long as it's NOT porn nor anything too degenerate and if that type of material isn't enough well clearly I was not in need of giving in or w/e. Anyway, screwing up ISN'T the problem, it's stopping trying because you screwed is THE problem, FWIW.
It's not when you are a normal, non-porn addict having sex. When you are a porn addict, you probably suffer from autogynephilia. That means that you get pleasure from subconsciously picturing yourself as the woman getting pleasure from sex in the porn scene.
The porn addict and virgin will get used to associating the woman's pleasure signals with his own pleasure.
Kevin Murphy
When it comes to porn I'm in a reverse spiral. Nothing over-produced or weird turns me on, I am inherently attracted to innocence. I can get diamonds watching an attractive girl's face, but some used up whore moaning like she's possessed in a porn does nothing for me.
This has been getting worse (better) lately, the hottest shit out there for me went from stripteases to movie nude scenes and currently it's k-pop fancams.
The more I fap the more specific and milder the shit I get off to becomes. I don't get the whole 'your fetishes will spiral' argument.
Logan Perry
Ask her to jerk you off then. Just don't do it yourself.
>Sucking your own penis would be gay >Stroking your own penis is therefore gay as well Thinking of a woman (a prostitute in your case) does not change the act. Fucking or getting sucked by a guy is gay, regardless of what you are picturing.
Bottom line is, you are a homosexual (I guess I once was one myself as well). And like I said, people have different sexual needs. Maybe fucking isn't good enough for you (physically) - in which case you should ask your girl to jerk you off/suck you off...
Also go to Church.
Owen Lopez
Define non addict please
Blake Long
This is worse than bro science, stop spouting nonsense Hans. Not everyone is into cuckholding like you.
There's nothing wrong with fapping, it's all bro-science retardation about losing your magic mana, in reality your body is designed to ejaculate frequently to such an extent that you just do it in your sleep if you don't during the day.
Now if you want to quit porn use that's another matter since it fills your mind full of degenerate drivel, but Millennial men can't seem to separate porn from masturbation. I have asked men if they don't jack off in the shower anymore and they say yeah they just bring their phones in with them and carefully place them on a shelf lmao. Learn to jack off to your imagination which is way better since you can picture whatever you want without Director Shekelberg's influence.
Luis Thompson
This. Even when I fapped as a virgin 10 years ago, I hated all the extreme shits in porn.
That's why it was no really hard to me to quit porn, because i hate interracial so much, that this blacked meme and the fact that my favourite pornstars where doing interracial scenes, just made it easy.
It really miserable, but I have to be honest. BLACKED helped me to quit porn.
Eli Murphy
I don't like repeating stuff that others say but they are not wrong when they say you don't have the right mindset. Just remember that if you get the urge, it's your fault, erections come because you are of course attraced by such things, but most of those who stop fapping learn to even stop having erections. I may even add that it's all about practice. I could be wrong.
Camden Sullivan
Someone who doesn't watch porn, watches it rarely or at least doesn't "need" it in general.
Ryan Fisher
>Jerking off is healthy
Spotted the brainlet
Charles Smith
>Ask her to jerk you off then. Just don't do it yourself. I did it but it's not enough for me. I need the "full set". And she was(is) in her days. So it just made it worse.
Benjamin Bennett
As someone who did 60 days of nofap, I can tell you that nofap is utter bullshit. It won't improve your motivation, concentration, etc. Exercise, on the other hand, helps tremendously in that department. Remember that to improve yourself, you first need to identify your weaknesses. If you are a socially awkward person, nofap won't change that. Socializing with people and getting out of your social comfort zone will.
Here's the thing, mate - SURROUND YOURSELF WITH THINGS TO DO
You're overthinking it, which is why you find yourself in this scenario, just surround urself with external stimuli and creative outlets and live in the moment, hold on for 2 weeks to 1 month and ull be cleansed on this shit, im working on it myself, im gonna be free of fap soon
Kevin Long
They're taking over the world because our governments invite them in by the millions, not because they're totes awesome war people who know how to conquer countries.
Henry Gutierrez
you serious nigger? if anything you watch more porn and withold from fapping to build up a tolerance to seeing intercourse and not reacting. You're approaching it all wrong.
Wait so if you jerk off ever 7 days you miss out on this process? Or is it that jerking off every 7 days causes this process?
Andrew Cook
why would kikes want u not to fap when kikes are all about hedonism?
Grayson Smith
Well then there is one last solution that NEVER fails. It is very impractical but I personally know people who cured themselves. You have to throw away your laptop, smartphone, tv. No internet. Only computer allowed is at work. If you are serious about it and do not need a laptop for working at home, then you should do it. Internet is cancer. It allows you to look at the darkest, grossest, most vile videos of things we are not supposed to see. That makes you unresponsive to real life pleasure. At least you are not in too deep. Some people get addicted to fucking cartoons and end up not being able to get a boner when they see a real chick.
Adam Russell
>help me to get to that mindset That's the issue, it depends on the individual, I don't do much besides working in the morning and having the whole day free. I don't do much besides playing games and browsing the internet, but according to some people this is unhealthy and would make me horny. I used to fap two months ago and it's been long since I stopped, I just woke up one day, realized how this promiscuous society disgusts me and decided that I would be against sex and all the things this terrible society stands for. Basically I brainwashed myself into thinking that everything sexual is horrible, and it's working so far, suprisingly.
Zachary Evans
mmhh.... Sorry I have to ask but are you satisfied with your sex life?
