It’s hard out there on hook-up apps — but it’s even more of a challenge when you have an ethnic name, says Radhika Sanghani
>Anyone with an ethnic name will know how it feels to be repeatedly asked about it: “What does it mean?” “Where’s it from?” “Sorry, how do you spell that again?” But when you’re online dating it’s even worse. I have more than 100 messages in my Tinder inbox from men of all different races, and a quick count suggests that a quarter of those mention my race/ethnicity/name in some capacity — even the fellow Indians.
>There are questions about where I’m from, whether I’m “religious lol”, comments about how they “also have a friend with the same name!” and others that just go to the heart of it: “Radhika, are you Indian?”
>It’s exhausting having to field questions constantly about your ethnicity but the real problem is the racial bias that underlies it. I wouldn’t mind talking to people about the meaning of my name (I’m named after a goddess, naturally) if it weren’t for the fact that I’ve been unmatched when people realise I’m originally Indian. I’ve been asked about cooking curry, and I’ve been fetished for my skin colour.
>Research from OkCupid shows that black and Asian women are less popular on the dating app than white and Latina women — with black women ranking as the least popular.
I would pump and dump I mean, I would never make mutt babies
Robert Carter
Ya sure whatever
Carson Smith
>proving the point multiculturalism/multiracialism fails because people are more inclined to breed with their own >claims that’s racist
Isaiah Gonzalez
Wouldn't happen if she didn't try to fuck outside of her culture. Bet she only matches good looking white guys and is upset they can't pronounce her dumb name.
Christian Bell
>I’ve been fetished for my skin colour. Never understood why people see this as a bad thing, people find your physical traits attractive. That's not a bad thing at all. I don't get mad over most girls I've been with saying they like my height.
Nicholas Jenkins
She and her kind will be deported to their ancestral homelands
Jonathan Walker
If it wasn't for that nose, I would consider hitting it.
It must be pretty hard with that name, but even harder with that nose.
Aiden Cruz
then why POC male also like white women
Tyler Cox
THE ONLY RACE PROBLEM THAT DATING APPS HAVE IS THAT THERE ARE TOO MANY NIGGERS, SPICS, GOOKS/NIPS/OTHER SUCH SLANTS, RAGHEADS/POO IN THE LOOS/OTHER SUCH DUNE COONS, KIKES, IRISH, ET CETERA
tells me she's only swiping right on alpha, Aryan Chads
Robert Sullivan
Irish? Lmfao my grandpapy is Irish and he is 6"12 blonde wavy hair baby blue eyes and skin as white as soy milk. Tell me again Irish aren't white
Austin Adams
Tinder is racist to white people. I made a profile and got almost no matches. Made a profile on a similar app, with less users, and got far more matches with the SAME BIO AND PHOTOS. Tried with another similar app and also got numerous matches
Christopher Martinez
This is the same ugly lefty who claimed the air conditioner was sexist towards women
Liam Martin
Well, I'm the one looking to legalize private property ethno "states" for ALL races.
Jayden Reyes
Yeah nah that’s still disgusting
Levi Myers
not a majority of colored do.
Eli Scott
>implying white women actually date let alone breed with them on average more then white men
this is just a humblebrag to make her cro-magnon faced self seem more desirable and simultaneously a plea to get attention from someone she thinks she deserves, i can guarantee she wrote this and linked it all over her facebook and instagram hoping some white chad she wants to bone notices it and talks to her.
if she was actually getting deep-dicked every night by a handsome man who was actually racist and said "listen rakisha i don't want any more of that curry shit and why do you always smell so weird?" she would be ecstatic.
Lucas Perez
Fuck you for reminding me about that weirdo
Sebastian Martin
Brown female entitlement complex is so strong they feel entitled to white cock.
Jackson White
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Cameron Ortiz
6”12 you say?
Samuel Lewis
If you're not white and anything doesn't go well for you, it must be racism! Then you can throw rhetoric from your Race And Gender Studies 101 class at whitey to get more gibbs!
>the air conditioning in office buildings is sexist bitch >face out of proportion >insufferable feminist sjw cunt
WHY ARENT GUYS INTO ME?!?!?
Michael Edwards
Too bad, I got 72 likes on the first day >tinder-gold >Anglo-Nordic genes Deleted it though, too many women on there with the personality of a dead animal.
Joshua Roberts
IDK what is with tinder. Had shit luck and hardly got any matches but tried OKcupid and I had to start beating them off with a stick. Try that if you haven't given it a who already.
Im not a white guy though
Austin Ramirez
>I have more than 100 messages in my Tinder inbox and you expect sympathy for this? Even Chads take months to get that many messages unless he matches with fatties or messages them first >>Research from OkCupid shows that black and Asian women are less popular on the dating app than white and Latina women — with black women ranking as the least popular Research also shows that men of any race are less popular than women. Why not write an article about that sexism?
Austin Perry
Is this ironic? Now everything is racist.
Owen Torres
When your profile says "I'm a street shitter" people tend to decline you.
Fucking hell i bet she make 6 figures writing this retarded shit
Henry Bell
YOU FORGOT POLES AND DAGOS
Jacob Martinez
light/fair skin is aesthetically more beautiful.
Kayden Roberts
>That schnozz. >That shit brown skin.
Nopenopenope.
Nathaniel Hughes
Lol "ethnic name" is the least of her problems. >be uglier than all of the deadly sins combined >date me or else you are a racist sexist bigot REEEEEEE
Matthew Hall
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Wyatt Cox
FUUUUUUCK YOU TINDER. I'll join up and get banned again. Suck my cock, you shit-skinned SJW faggots.
most journalists writing for prestige papers don't even make 6 figures, clickbait bloggers earn far less than minimum wage and spend years piling on debt while moonlighting as waitresses thinking they're going to get their big break.
Samuel Perry
Please elaborate, the only 2 deli memes I am aware of.
the ones that look like her certainly do she's basically just upset that her home-field advantage of a dimly lit, deafening "dance club" has been neutralized
Brayden Stewart
>Asian women are less popular Fake news
Julian Fisher
Most Asian women are fat and ugly (the ones in America at least)
Adrian Collins
This wouldn't be a problem if she weren't occupying another people's land.
Jace Bailey
>Those bobs in her pic though
Poor Jinbar just wanted to see some bobs...
Christopher Rogers
No, she is mad because people aren't blind and deaf, and obviously ask about her lineage.
If she don't want to be treated as a foreigner, then fucking date on India.
Carter King
When talking to girls on Tinder I avoid mentioning ethnicity at all. It's not relevant to whether I want to get into their pants. And if you talk to them long enough they'll mention their background anyway.
60% of the girls I've been on Tinder dates with this year are of Asian decent. The most racist stuff I've heard has come out of their mouths. Indian girls hating Chinese people. Chinese girls hating Indians. First generation Chinese-New Zealanders hating Chinese immigrants etc.
Levi Hall
she looks vey basic though
She's as "asian" as the UK girlrape gangs. She's not "asian" like an Asian-Asian. Like a Thai woman or smthing
Connor Roberts
This I’ve seen more white guys with black girls than any other mix. WMAF is unironically a far second. Sometimes they’re attractive guys too, really rustles The only time I see BMWF, the woman is 10 times out of 10 in the bottom 5% percentile of attractiveness and/or AT LEAST 80 pounds overweight. On top of all that, they’re usually not even truly white, but half heroin-redneck half Latina abominations. White men are destroying our race with their weakness and hatred towards white women. Go on, look at the catalogue right now. Absolute kike subversion. And you lap it up
Shit taste, she looks like a horse. not even worth a pump and dump.
Joshua Cooper
These women don’t just want to build a better beta, they want to tame the alpha. In fact, I think the former is just another way they are trying to approach the latter. They want to take an inherently unsafe activity and make it safe. They want to submit to a man without having to submit; they want a man who can tame their feral self. They want him to trip their danger signals. Even better if he is a stranger from a strange land.
They want this all to happen without giving up their freedom; they want to play this out in the context of serial monogamy, so they can feel loved while also claiming their promiscuity is moral. They want to lose control to a string of strangers who have all of the hallmarks of very dangerous men, and they want a promise that this will always end well.
They want to know that this will be safe, without it losing the excitement of it feeling unsafe. They are telling men to build a sort of serial monogamy amusement park where they can ride the roller coaster and experience the fear of falling or crashing, while knowing that just behind the scenes grown ups are actually in charge and are responsible for them safely feeling unsafe.
One more thing. As I mentioned above they don’t want to be hemmed in. So instead of building an actual amusement park, they want roller coasters to spring up randomly in the same exact circumstances where the real danger they mimic would appear. They want to be driving their car on the freeway one instant, and the next experience the fear of careening out of control the next. They want to impulsively jump off the edge of the Grand Canyon and have a parachute appear and deploy at the last minute. And all they ask is your guarantee that all of this will be safe.
>Seeking a man who is God-fearing, Christ-centered, agrees in the main with a doctrinal statement like the 1689 London Baptist Confession of Faith, uses the KJV, is against much (or most) of so-called "contemporary Christian music", doesn't follow modern "sports", and other worldly things.
It’s likely an issue of taste. Personally I like pink nipples, pale skin, pink labia that turns rosey when it gets wet, and a pretty face. None of which she has.
Tyler Rogers
looks like you've never used tinder at all if you read that.
Nathan Harris
You can just do that but not get reported by saying you’re conservative Boom, inbox is fields of wheat
Liam White
>he thinks asia is just japan and korea
Did you forgot India is on Asia? Who the fucks see a poo on the loo in a date app and try to hook up, unless a scat fetichist?
Julian King
Chinks are disgusting tho.
Nolan King
≥I have more than 100 messages in my Tinder inbox
Oh fuck off
Tyler Watson
Hard to forget a poo with a nose like that. It's like God's punishment for shitting in the street.
taste shmaste, she's just ugly, it's really as simple as that, but "we're all the same" so you get these olympic level mental-gymnastics to try to rationalize it as some kind of societal problem
Grayson Collins
Most people in this thread has shit taste
I would gladly take OPs pic over an average white women.
Noah Garcia
>I have more than 100 messages in my Tinder inbox from men of all different races, and a quick count suggests that a quarter of those mention my race/ethnicity/name in some capacity — even the fellow Indians >even other indians are somehow racist against her How is this article justifying this?
Robert Hernandez
>go to a place where you're a minority >have a name and appearance that don't match the local population >get mad when they ask questions what did she mean by this
Easton Hernandez
Why do white men hate white women so much Your Asian fetish cannot give you children that look like you, or someone you can carry a good conversation with. Igh
Brandon Martinez
It just shows how retarded the girl in OPs post is. Where Jinbar lives everybody's named Pajeet or Sunisha. So from his perspective the name "Simone" is very strange and alien that's why he has no "feeling" how the name sounds or is written (even though he's seeing the name) Because from his perspective the white girl is the exotic one. It's not about racism if you ask for the meaning of a name you've never heard before or don't know how to spell it >A school teacher friend sent this to me. This is a child’s name!
>“Le – a”
>How would you pronounce this as a child’s name???
>Leah?? NO
>Lee – A?? NOPE
>Lay – a?? NO
>Lei?? Guess Again.
>Are you resorting to tongue clicks yet??
>It’s pronounced “Ledasha” oh yes…you read it right. The dash is not silent.
>This child attends a school in Livingston Parish. (Louisiana)
>Her mother is irate because everyone is getting her name wrong. SO, if you see something come across your desk like this please remember to pronounce the dash. When the mother was asked about the pronunciation of the name, she said “the dash don’t be silent.”
Michael Phillips
My name is Vasiliy in America and people have questions about it and Russia all the time, why do they act like this is an issue? People ask me if I'm from Russia or eastern europe.
Evan Mitchell
anyone has the pasta where user reads in front of his gender studies class from his favourite feminist book? can't really remember it, something about baguettes and a man being forced to copulate with that dyke
because men being interested in women is patriarchy
Ayden Rivera
she's actually kinda cute
William Ross
>100 matches with different men
Stupid roastie you complain about people being curious about your name and ethnicity when you literally get hundreds of matches even you are extremely ugly. Remove thyself
Jace Morales
>or someone you can carry a good conversation with
If you are dating an Asian woman, either you know her language or she knows yours. I can't see how you can engage on that level only by hand signals.
