Today I tried telling my parents I would never have a relationship. I'm a 23yo khhv with no female friends and barely any regular friends so any logical human being would have probably come to that conclusion themselves, but not my parents, they just keep joking about it and reassuring me someone will cross my path. Today I got tired of it. My mother mentioned something about me needing to be able to do something "when I got a family".
> tell her I'm never gonna have a family >"what do you mean? Why wouldn't you?" > tell her in all my years in uni or back in high school not a single girl has ever been interested in me, let alone in love (something she's well aware of) > "that doesn't mean anything! You've got your whole life ahead of you" > say I don't want to spend my life worrying and waiting on something that will most likely never happen, I'd rather make my peace now and focus on other things, suggest she do the same >(now she starts screaming) "literally everybody can get someone to spend their lives with! Only people who want to stay alone do so, and they have to try very hard, not going out, because if they would, they would fall in love and have to be with someone! You're just too lazy." > ask her how it is she's so naive to think only people who want to stay alone do, because I'm sure she knows it's bullshit > ask her if she's so scared to admit she raised a loser that she'd lie to herself >(crying now) "I raised you right! I don't know where you got all of this from but it wasn't me or your father! If you want to punish us by not giving us grandchildren you're evil on the inside!" > tell her she can believe whatever she wants to believe but she knows who I am >"your father will hear about this (ie your father will call you later today telling you what a piece of shit you are" > thank her for the uplifting conversation >*slams door*
I literally do everything for these people, even wasting years of my life on a degree I don't care about, but now I'm evil.
don't worry OP you'll find someone, just be yourself :^)
Christopher Jones
post tits
Elijah Adams
You're a monster, user. Can't you just try to not be a nihilistic depressed piece of shit?
Anthony Bell
>don't worry OP you'll find someone, just be yourself :^)
Hudson Morales
Did I accidentally walk into /r9k/
Chase Collins
If I were you, I would play along instead of arguing about it like an autist.
Julian Allen
iktf
Chase Hernandez
This is what happens when you get raised to be a nihlist shithead who thinks their life has no value.
Ayden Bennett
based blogposter
Luke Myers
just move out lmao
Anthony Young
hahahah im a minority that came from poverty and dont know how you beta males born with spoons in your dick(or at least not hotdogs n beans on paper plates) manage to create so many issues for yourself. like how hard is it to be tolerable to the point of not needing to blog online just to be negative.
masturbating and nightly league of legends matches not working out so well for that whole life thing? well you could do that and STILL not be a turbo autist by managing to be so negative that your very presence rattles and harms your relationship with ur own mother
Logan Cox
I feel you. Don't listen to anybody else criticizing. It's hard for people that have things to understand the pain of finding no flaw in what you do other than just being yourself.
One day the pain will stop.
Eli Brown
Just come out as gay OP. It would have been much easier to digest than "i'm a mentally retarded subhuman who is incapable of interacting with the opposite sex". hell, even coming out as a tranny would be better than signaling that you're a psychopath
David Hernandez
Oh hey look, it's the /biz/ spillover
Isaac Lee
Get a gf lmao
Henry Moore
you and your mom are both retarded
Christopher Parker
I'm a minority as well, I don't let that dictate my life though (even though it's a really big part of the not being able to get a partner thing)
I've never touched league of legends in my life
Anthony Richardson
Fuck off, this isn't your blog
Brandon Davis
I am in a similar situation.I had girlfriends,but it never lasted because I couldn't satisfy them. I have a rape and murder fetish and normal things don't even get me hard.
Evan Baker
I usually do, but being constantly reminded about my loneliness hurts when you're trying to get used to it.
Isaac White
This.
Stop thinking you are so much smarter than your parents, just because they can't fathom your immaturity. Have some compassion for them, they make ends meet to raise you, but you are still a numbbrain tool with no motivation or future.
Whatever they say, what they really mean is: make something of yourself, always work hard, acquire skills, acquire currency, acquire power.
All the rest falls into place.
Nicholas Wood
Get some fucking balls you pathetic bitch boy > wasting years of my life on a degree I don't care about Then look for options you miserable dumb fuck if you aren't happier with that degree look for the one that makes you happy, you giant sack of shit. > not a single girl has ever been interested in me What have you done to make girls be interested on you, do you workout? , are you funny?, do you even try to talk to them? or you're a pathetic pussy who is afraid to talk to them. Get some balls you fucking piece of shit, your parents work hard to help you and you the fucking beta bitch boy just dont give a fuck. The changes start from you, fucking mongoloid.
Angel Torres
the absolute madman full respect future wizard sama
Logan Brown
I don't think I'm smarter, duh. They've got it figured out and made a decent life for themselves while I can't even so simple day to day things. They just don't want to accept that I'm one of the things they failed at.
Logan Lee
are you this guy?
Blake Fisher
What a bunch of entitled cunts. Parents like this are why we have such a shitty planet. If they're not paying you to have grandkids, you don't owe them shit.
Alexander Wright
Not even close
Isaac Ramirez
I dunno OP. If you got off your arse and went to the gym you might find that once you improve your body, your attitude will also improve. Once this improves, you'll find that it'll be easier to talk to women. They might even want to talk to you!
Alternatively you can get rich, then women will follow naturally
Michael Parker
Remind them that the people responsible for socializing you was supposed to be them so your failure to develop into a normal person is their failure.
Oliver Hall
They didn't fail.
But you on the other hand, you haven't even given yourself the chance to fail. You still aren't able to think and act like an adult, and make decisions like they did. You are trying to get them to 'accept' that they failed so they will leave you alone. This is childish.
Joshua Johnson
These nihlistic arguments always go into the ground in 3 steps >i dont owe my parents shit >but they raised you >i didn't ask to be born >fuck you mom and dad for giving me life
And this is when you ctrl+w the thread, don't reply to this post if the above applies to you.
Oliver Rivera
Why not just say: "I'm trying. Something will come up."? It shuts my parents up nicely and doesn't raise tansion.
Anthony Morgan
Install Gentoo and fuck off
James Hill
You didn't debunk that argument though.It's no secret there's huge risk in child raising. They could end up infertile, or perhaps mentally retarded like yourself. You can't just have kids and expect things to go smoothly. Fuck ups will happen like everything else.
Guys guys look, OP's parents are doing this because in most cases this durable form of isolation mostly ends in the person developing a nasty coping mechanism for the loneliness (ie drugs, booze, insanity, suicide and/or homocide). If OP has been able to successfully dodge all of this his parents will still always live in fear that it will.
OP best advice is to save a couple grand and move out. If you really are hellbent on being a loner then go all out and discontinue contact with your parents completely. But I have to warn you this is not for everyone and usually doesn't end well.
Michael Lee
>It's hard for people that have things to understand the pain of finding no flaw in what you do other than just being yourself.