Safe Venues

>need to make sure I don't trigger anybody by asking someone "Excuse me dude, do you have a lighter please ?"
absolutely nobody would be "triggered" by this

If you agree with "safe spaces" you are nothing more than a pathetic pussy.
>"Wahh someone bumped into me!!"
>"Wahh those guys are moshing!!!!"

Just end it. You will never succeed in the real world thinking that everywhere is your hugbox, it doesn't work like that, kiddos. You deserve to get beaten to a bloody pulp.