Have gf

>have gf
>she comes from muslim household
>go through rough times
>things have been great lately
>love her
>she loves me
>been going out for a year and a half now
>mum finds out about us
>pretty much threatens her that she'll be kicked out and disowned
>she has to either marry me or cut me off
>she says she's ok to marry me
>don't want to marry while in early 20s, or marry at all really
>especially under these conditions
>dead inside
music for this kind of feel?

muslimgauze

I'm being forced into marriage by a conservative Muslim mother by the greenposters

Just stop going with her, Muslims are scum.

Jump - van halen

Might as well

Fuck off back to pol

8/10 nice bait

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if you really love each other why don't you want to marry her?

>don't want to marry while in early 20s, or marry at all really
Okay you don't love her then.
just break it off and move on with your life. save her the trouble

If you keep your fingers crossed while you say your vows it doesn't count

Kek

OP, listen to this man.

You traitors should be shot.

You don't deserve her if you wouldn't marry her in an instant.

6/10 would be better but you're basically riding the coat tails of a much better bait

This. Fuck those plebs who aren't sure about marrying, what's the point in being in a relationship if you think marriage wouldn't work out?

Pic related I'd marry in a heartbeat

She's fine
She doesn't wear a burka or anything
Mainly just fluently speak arabic

>everything I disagree with is bait
Return to reddit immediately.

You don't really love her if you don't want to marry her

But does she have roses in her eyes?

>return to Reddit immediately

4/10 bait is getting pretty stale at this point

Too soon, way too soon
And not by force, it'll ruin the marriage from the start

lol

I have different views on marriage and its worth clearly
And anyhow, I've never even considered marrying any woman before, she's literally the first I'd consider making that kind of commitment
So yeah

Look, I do, but we're both 21
We have talked about it
Why are you all hung up on marriage though?

Creating an unbreakable bond between you and her that ties you together in love.

What's so bad about that?

Like in all seriousness
Why do you gauge love by how much you want to marry them?

it's not bad, depending on what you value
but it is breakable, it has a twisted attachment of laws tied to it, I would spend my life with her, and she's literally the first person since I was 6 that I would want to marry

but holy shit, we're both broke, we both are trying to start our careers, and actively work
why the fuck would we hop onto marriage with that kind of starting, disregarding the fact that it would be forced

If you love her then just get married

The only reason that you shouldn't is if you just planned on breaking up with her anyway

Unless you want to crack

>The only reason that you shouldn't is if you just planned on breaking up with her anyway
I know Sup Forums has children, but Jesus you guys must be dense if this is how you view the world.
This is more black and white than Sup Forums treats shit.
Shit happens, there is a lot of variability in the world, we don't even have the funds to support ourselves without working to the point where we barely see each other sometimes.

Then don't marry her

>you don't love her if you don't want to get married

>after only a year and a half of dating
>at the age of 21

jesus christ, is this /r9k/?
OP ignore these autists

I may in the future, but yeah, I'm not
That's kind of the point

Seriously
How warped can your world view be to value love by a legal contract?

To be fair, OP is an autist too

Other than posting here and listening to Coil, how am I being autistic

If you can support yourself and her with income, there's no real reason not to.

If you can't yet, wait until you can, then get married.

Love shouldn't be held back by money anyway, it's just not how it works.

Love shouldn't be valued by a contract either, that's not how it should work either
And yeah, I'm supporting my mother after a huge financial crisis that's been going on for a while

Just fucking marry her later
just because you think you're presented with 2 options doesn't mean thats entirely true.
Look harder OP
Listen to loveless

not listening to loveless like said

You're a fucking retard if you look at marriage as if it's just a legal document. It's a statement of love.

But I understand you with the financial troubles, wait until you can afford it OP, but definitely don't say no if you love her.

>You're a fucking retard if you look at marriage as if it's just a legal document. It's a statement of love.
I don't mind practicing the act of marriage with her, but I don't want to legally get married
And I didn't even tell her I was against the idea, the main qualm, money and my values of marriage aside, is that it's literally being forced, and I know that'll curate issues from the start

Yeah yeah redownloading it, haven't listened to my bloody valentine in a while anyways
thxx

>marrying someone with a muslim background
you might aswell kill yourself right now