User asked me to tell the story of my cheating wife, and my mistake one night stand as revenge. her it is

user asked me to tell the story of my cheating wife, and my mistake one night stand as revenge. her it is
>Deploy to Afghanistan in 2010.
>be married for 2 years at this point. baby on the way. life is great
>wife goes back home to GA, to have baby with family
>3 months into deployment, psg starts holding gun to my head, forcing me to do stuff to him/let him rape me
>in valley 12 hours form anything. fear if I report him, he will kill me before i get out of there
>wife writes to me. tells ma about all her new friends. including someshit head named wes. hes engaged. wife had been perfect up to this point. no need to worry
>other friend writes to me, tells me to be cautious
>dont have the time to worry about that shit. to busy with war/getting ass fucked

>come home after 11 months 29 days
>first day back, report PLT SGT, go get medical examined, he gets arrested. investigation starts.
>I get pic of cum on her face, too worried about other shit to think it through.
Flash forward a few months. Trail is over, rapist in jail.
>Ive been promoted. back with my wife and daughter. life is good.
>Think back to cum picture. confront her about it again. no confession, or worry on her face
>I get video of her sitting in his lap, making outwith him
>He tells me she supported him with my money, on certain dates
>Look at bank statement for first time in over a year in a half
>ohgod.jpeg Its all true.
Should I go on?

sure

yes

yep

>Should I go on?
Why in the ever living fuck do storytellers ask this? Post it anyway.

Why waste the effort of green text if no one gives a shit and it's a stupid story. This one seems good so go on OP

You may continue

Yes and post the tits please. She deserves to be posted!

>confront her, show her all my evidence
>she cries a lot.
>says she got an email from me saying it was ok for her to sleep with someone, due to me being gone
>cant prove emails exist.
>lotsof hate for a year
>go home on leave
>wife goes on vacation with her mom
>browsing facebook, see a lot of photos of someones album with them together
>loose my shit
>drink way too much
>call up an ol friend. invite her over
>we get drunk and fuck like animals
>next day, ashamed. cant believe what ive done.
>flash forward 3 or so years
>im out of army now
>be in college for accounting
>Wife is a pharmasict now
>bitch i fucked walks into pharamcy, recognizes her,
>tells her everything
>Im at home now, waiting for wife to get here, deciding how to handle this.

I just didnt want to waste my time if no one was reading...

I don't blame you, that was why I mentioned it.

Wait, so the story is over?

thanks. feel free to ask any questions. going to smmoke. be back in a bit

well there were more details, but i got anxious writing it, so i didnt include everything

>wife fucks guy while you're in the military
>confront her and she admits she did
>trust is damaged
>drink heavily to numb the pain
>make a mistake and revenge fuck
>wife finds out
You both made mistakes, but you reacted like a lot of people probably would in the same situation. She doesn't assume how hurt you'd be over being cheated on?

I don't think she really understands the gravity of what she did. I tried to communicate it too her, but after I got back I was already kinda numbed and didn't show her a lot of what I was feeling.

Should kill the bitch. Out their in hell and she fucking other guys.

keep going...don't worry about green text.

You have two choices. You can either say "we fucked up, let's end it" or "we fucked up, let's work on this". If you choose the latter, get professional help because you both will need it.

well this guy was some gauged ear punk band tattooed faggot. he was really poor, she ended up spending our money to buy him things, a 3ds, a ps3, even paid his rent for a few months and got him a bed to sleep on. during deployment, i new they were friends, and asked her to be careful around guys like that. she said there was nothing to worry about. she didnt try to hide their friendship so i figured there was nothing for her to hide period.

im pretty sure im going to ask her for a divorce today.

I agree with this user, either end it or keep it going, try to keep it going, for your daughter, but if you cant, dont destroy yourself over it. Just remember, try not to piss her off, she can make sure you can never see your daughter, stupidly, mums have that power in court, moreso than fathers

She was screwing with another guy, multiple times. You only fucked another women once, and you were very drunk. I guess this is one of those "what goes around comes back around" situations. Still, you two should talk it out, maybe even consider a marriage counselor.

These peeps, listen to them

If thats all true , i'd personally splatter my brains in a cafe somewhere downtown

Agreed.

well there is no way she can afford a good lawyer, while I can afford a great one.
Without me she doesnt really have much going on, she will end up like her POS mom and sister who ruined their marriages by cheating and pushing their husbands away. I think it would be worse for my daughter to be in a family that has no trust than with split parents.

no reason to lie about any of it.

we did counseling for a long time after i cheated. the bad part was, i never once brought up my unfaithfulness, so i feel like a scumbag for making her talk about what she did after I kept mine a secret.

Why the fucking fuck would you feel bad about fucking someone else? leave that pathetic bitch, take the kid and use the mountain of evidence against her in court.

Tell her you're sorry and that you fucked up. Cry and shit...poor out everything and then cry some more and then talk and them cry and then go silent for a minute and put your head on the table and then envision her leaving you and decide in that moment to either fight for ya'll love or to let it die. She's either your guiding light or your destruction. But you fucked up bro. And you should feel bad. You're a man, a king in his home so you should have acted like one.

I'm not the user you responded to, but it's probably best that you and your wife split up. I wish you and your daughter luck.

You deploy from Carson? I was there 2010-2011, COP Brunkhorst, Arghandab River Valley

meant to type 2011.
schofield barracks. we were replaced by 4BDE from 4th ID though

Ah I was 1/4 ID, I got divorced in R&R after she cheated on me and took everything I had. At least it was at the halfway mark so I got to have some deployment $$. Good luck with your troubles, brother.

Well, she knows now, don't she, what you were feeling before.

Seriously though, lurk here:

survivinginfidelity.com

Both of you. Check out the healing library, yellow box, top left.

Good luck.

If you are in a relationship with someone who is in the military, and you cheat on them, you are literally the worst kind of person.
I'm so sorry OP, she doesn't deserve someone with your greatness.
Aside from that, I need to know...
>Pic related?

yes pic related.

i dotn have an excuse for what i did., I let the anger build and fester and then acted on it instead of communicating like a grown ass man

What's her number

Nah man. She will be home in an hour and I don't need another thing to fight about. I appreciate it though.

I just wanna call her up and hit that after she breaks up with you and takes half your money

More common than you think. I'm serious about that site I mentioned, it's a great place for help, probably saved my life.

Just try to understand that her finding out sbout this now makes it very raw for her, like it just happened.

Some books: How to help your spouse heal from your affair, and Not Just Friends.

Good luck, Sup Forumsro

kek

Thanks man. Appreciate it.

Damn op sounds tough.

Just make sure when the PTSD starts, all your weps are stowed and locked.

Won't stop you hulking out on her, but damn, that sounds like some shooting from the clock tower style shit.

That actually made me laugh. Thanks.

No problem, bruh. Been there, done that. When you get to SI, tell them Cee64E sent ylu

Without you she will get half of your shit. That's why fuck marrying these bitches.

>Rush marriage
>Go in military
>Make good life for himself
>Bitch cheats
>?
>Divorce
>Ends up with half decent life while bitch spends your slave years on fuckboy

>>Deploy to Afghanistan in 2010.
>>be married for 2 years at this point. baby on the way. life is great
You were freshly married, had a baby coming, and moved over to the other side of the globe? Wut?

es cahpeee its funny that's spelled just like the word escape

That is the usual understanding.

Join the army, get deployed. Yes.

You don't get time off because someone had a kid. There's brown people to shoot.

That ugly skank is not worth it. Sucks you had to find out the hard way

"deploy" doesn't mean move LOL

he was stuck in the sandbox because uncle same was paying the bills

I thought America has a volunteer army? How long do the contracts last? I guess OP couldn't find anything else to pay the bills.

Contract lasts 3-8 years. Lots of incentives for enlistment including cash bonuses, college money, awesome life experience, travel, leadership training, and preferred hiring status upon completion.

Leave the bitch, she cheated on you.
any reason you have to stay is completely nullified. You're just gonna let her get fucked and dominated by some guy? D I V O R C E H E R

it is voluntary but once you get orders to go......you don't have a choice in the matter

doesn't matter though she jodied the fuck out of him

OP here.
I joined to pay for college, so o could give my family a good life, one that I never had on day.

Well pretty soon you'll want someone who's actually able to fight for your freedom while you waste your time behind a computer screen, too scared to go outside your door and lay down a cone of skunion on some ISIS faggots who've invaded your country, too scared to baptize yourself in the blood of your enemies. Us combat veterans (POGs need not apply) will be struttin our shit with a collection of brown Muslim thumbs strung around our necks, making Red Dawn look like an episode of Dora The Explorer. Your method of talking your way out of a fight will land you right on Al Jazeera denouncing your fellow countrymen before being slowly beheaded by a masked group of camel jockeys with a dull blade. Have fun being an internet warrior claiming waifus and storing loli porn while the rest of us do some fuckin work, son.

I legitimately don't understand why people get married.

I get being with the woman you love, but are the tax breaks really worth knowing you're essentially tied to a single person for the next 20 years and get half your shit taken from you?

People weren't meant to be with the same person for 30+ years, that's why more than 70% of marriages end in divorce

Uhh, the psg raping him while deployed is the biggest WTF of this thread.

Like wat? Everyone is just glossing over this little tidbit of info? Dude was getting man raped in Afghanistan, but whatevs? What the fuck...

getthelube.com

OP you sound almost exactly like one of my friends who joined the Army to be a tank driver, the guy got married while he was in or something.

I hope he's happy but Jesus, slow the fuck down with your relationships you know? I see people getting married to the "loves of their lives" when they haven't even known them for more than a year or two.

Way to pull that statistic out of your ass.

Yer it was a bit of a head scratcher, but it's explained later he gets jailed. Still though wtf OP

My bad, I remember reading that some time ago.

The real number isn't so easy to get since it changes each year and you have to wade through dozens of sites to get a legitimate answer. However the real numbers I have yet to see don't drop below 25-33% of marriages end in divorce.

That's at least 1/4th of all marriages will end in divorce, and that's in a good decade. Doesn't change the fact that marriage is a shit idea unless you will legitimately be happy with the same person. Imagine how many marriages haven't ended in divorce but instead just persist with both the husband and wife being miserable

Im a guy that is good at relationships, and in my opinion youre not in the wrong. I mean, you are, but youre wife fucked up too much.

split up. for the best imo

>not applying that statistical change to the cultural differences from one generation to the next
>not seeing that culture is intentionally manipulated
>pulling that assumption right out of your ass
>the government wants you to think that you aren't supposed to be married that long

>missing the bigger picture this hard

>Conspiritard detected

inb4
> wife walks through the door get on the floor everyone do the dinosaur