My girlfriend wants to wait till marriage to have sex, which is about 2-3 years away in our case...

My girlfriend wants to wait till marriage to have sex, which is about 2-3 years away in our case. I don't like that at all and I think an important part of our relationship is simply missing. We do other sexual things like oral and hand stuff, but not penetration.

What does Sup Forums think I should do? I'm really happy with her emotionally, but this lack of sex leaves me longing for more, both physically and the emotional bond that forms when you fuck someone you truly love. I feel as though our relationship is incomplete right now.

Btw we're both virgins, if that makes a difference

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Also forgot to mention we've been together for almost 3 years now

Bait harder fgt.

If shes sucking you off and swallowing, enjoy that while it lasts because that goes away quickly once you get married. Cramming your cock in her honey hole is great and all, but what I would give for a solid BJ once in a while.

Break up with her. You're looking at a lifetime of irreconcilable differences here.

You're being bullshitted and played by her man. Tell her that she shouldn't be dating if she doesn't want to have sex and if she does want to date she should explicitly tell people this on her first few dates. I assume she told you month(s) into your relationship.

I went through this with my gf OP and now we have sex all the time if you need any questions ask me.

Ok, how did you convince her to drop the whole "waiting till marriage" bullshit? She's doing it for personal reasons, not religious if that helps

Dump her. Now.

She want to wait until marriage before having sex WITH YOU while twirling around in the cock carousel with her 'friends.'

Do anal. It's the closest you can come to sex without loosing virginity. It's also more enjoyable and intimate than stuff like oral.

Nah, she's not like that. She even tells me how much she wants to have sex with me sometimes, but she wants her wedding night to be her first.

She is completely closed off to the idea of anal

>thinks he'll get sex AFTER marriage

>Nah, she's not like that.

You'll have to burn to learn.

unless she's "THE ONE", dump that bitch

It sounds like your sex life is going to suck even after marriage.

It's not like she doesn't have a sex drive, she just tries to suppress it until the wedding night

OP is a megafag.
>man the fuck up
>tell her you have needs
Inb4 you make the biggest fuckup of your shitty short life

This

Lack of sex is only the beginning. OP, if you've talked to her about this whole "emotional bond" thing and she still refuses to have sex, dump her. It'll save you years of your life as well as a very costly divorce. Ignore all these "cuck" posters.

That's the thing that's killing me though and why I won't leave. I genuinely believe that she is "The One." If we were financially stable, I'd marry her tomorrow

I've been burned, but I can promise you that she's not like that at all

OP... Just exactly how old are you?

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Currently I'm 21 and busy getting an engineering degree

If you are putting your fucking mouth on genitals but refuse to penetrate, you're a fucking retard. Break up only because your ideals are different from one another.

just wait bro. it's worth it. Nothing is different from hand oral anal or vaginal its all about you getting off once and a while and if that's happening don't push it.

Trust me.

Where the fuck do you live? What the fuck is with this mentality of not having sex before marriage.
Get her super drunk and finger her to see if she's still a virgin. I think you'll be in for a suprise.
>never trust the devil spawn aka woman

>Oral and hand stuff
>Think that not having sex means anything

That's real retarded, sir.

Knowing her family and her background, she definitely is still a virgin.

What do you mean by this?

I told her if she actually intended to get married then it wouldn't matter, and that I was committed to having a lasting relationship and having sex was part of the commitment for me.
I also said that I was missing something I wanted for a relationship and that it wasn't going to work out properly if she wanted to wait.

This guy is a cuck and he's lying

i should have specified. "THE ONE" meaning the one being reciprocated. if she's just your one, but you're not hers, then it won't work.

then again, if she really saw you as "THE ONE" too, she wouldn't be able to deny you. she'd be all over you.

Then DUMP HER, you're still just a baby. She any kind of penetrative sex... You are a MAN. A man has needs. Our sexuality is just about the strongest force within us. If she does not satisfy your needs, you will turn to something else that does, whether it be food, emotional support, sexual relief, etc. The same goes the other way around. You are looking at irreconcilable differences between the two of you. Remember, "a good wife never lets his husband leave the house hungry or horny".

>Knowing her family and her background, she definitely is still a virgin.

>inb4 she's getting rawdogged at work every day

>projecting your fantasies this hard

I mean that if you're doing sexual things, then you're not abstinent anyway so what the fuck is the point of not having sex. It's not goddamn magic.

She's not the one. I've been in a relationship with one of these pseudo prudes before. This kind of thing is grounds to consider her crazy. Never fuck/relationship a crazy girl.

I am "The one" for her as she is for me. She tells me how she wishes we could get married already so we can start having sex

Jesus christ you're either a fucking beta cuck or a gr8 b8.
>knowing her family..she's a virgin
I almost choked on my snickers. 404 this b8 thred. Finger the bitch or kys. Better safe than sorry. You're wasting years for some selfish cunt that tries to prove something that has no fucking value in our days

It's all mental. You think you need sex because you see sex. Monkey see monkey do.

Do you love this girl? Is she worth waiting for, aside from not putting out?

Then mindfuck yourself out of caring about sex dude.

Afraid that if you don't do it before marriage that after you're married your sexual kinks will clash?

Don't. If you end up marrying this girl and she is willing to suck your dick at will why do you think fucking would be different?

I would tease her asshole a little every once and a while maybe she will let you fuck her ass, mine did.

God's Loophole

The bitch probably has an STD which is why she keeps avoiding vaginal sex. Get her really drunk and then just fuck her. Be a fucking man.

To answer the same question that keeps getting posted, she doesn't care about being abstinent, she cares about saving penetration till marriage. She's excited by the idea and wants it to be something she looks forward to as part of her wedding night.

>believing this

OP, virginity in today's world means very little. As plenty of other anons already said, dump her ass. It ain't worth it, partner.

She says that she'll feel cheated out of a magical wedding night if it's just more of the same. Like the night rolls around and we have sex like we always do, rather than experiencing something new

Call me a cuck if you want but I had the same situation as you, EXACTLY THE SAME.

I forced the issue and we fucked, and we are still together. But it literally changed nothing, i didn't feel different or better or more secure or any of the shit you may be hoping fucking will do.

Let her suck your dick like a firehose bro, don't fucking let your animal instincts command you.

For all you fucking know she could have already lost her virginity. Make her spread that gash wide so you can see it for yourself. You're gonna have a surprize on your wedding night when you find her loose as a sand bucket.
>you deserve your cuck fate

>we have sex like we always do, rather than experiencing something new

well shit son, that's what nipple clamps and kong vibrators are for. you can have normal sex now and surprise her on her wedding night.

That's funny considering first time vaginal penetration is painful and in general not enjoyable for most women. She better get herself a dildo and start breaking it in a couple weeks in advance if she wants the first time to be any good.

I've told her that as well. She knows it won't be enjoyable, and that it will probably be more of an awkward night than a magical one, but she still chooses to have that because "it's new"

>God's Loophole
that user's right, make her see this video OP
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It means you are a cuck with 0 sex drive