My girlfriend didn't put me in front of a social activity in my time of need. I would've done it to her...

My girlfriend didn't put me in front of a social activity in my time of need. I would've done it to her, which makes me feel even shittier. She just told me that I am important to her, and kissed me, then left. I'm never like this, and now I honestly don't know what to do.

You sure sound like a needy faggot. Do you expect her to be as pussy whipped as you've become?

Talk to me

She's more needy than me, this is the first time in 3 years that I expected some emotional support

>My girlfriend didn't put me in front of a social activity in my time of need.
That's because she's your girlfriend, not a psych ward nurse.

Just man up fag

Then you're in denial, and your entire relationship is a shitshow.

Either she is what you're looking for in a partner (and you stay with her) or she's not (and you find a new partner).

It's that fucking simple.

The relationship is good, I'm just hurt for the first time, that and I was already feeling very low and needed support

You're overreacting. Either you're not right for each other or you need to change now.

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What this means?

You sound like a bitch, whining about trivialities, unless you say something along the lines of "My Mom just died."

Why is it your GF's responsibility to "put me in front of a social activity"?
What kind of activity? Doing a jigsaw with the other drooling retards is what I immediately pictured you doing.
Maybe you could cut out some nice felt shapes of animals or some shit.

Yeah, you are expecting her to be the man on the relationships
Man up

Well ur alone for now. Sleep on it and when you feel better decide what to do. Most likely talk to her. But as most relationships go this means that she's lost sight of something critical to holding things together. That is, unless you become a lumberjack.

Your GF is out banging Tyrone who doesn't have a meltdown when he's got nobody to play with.

I was hallucinating something related to childhood sexual abuse. This has never happened before, and I'm in shock, like I have seen a ghost. She doesn't know that, because I never got to tell her. Out drinking in the woods with her girlfriend, which is unusual

Cheat on her

I'm not worried

also ppl are sayin man up but manning up is really simple, just do you

Lesbians?

Baby had a nightmare, didn't tell his girlfirend, then gets mad that she's not there to coddle him?

Holy shit, find your nutsack.

PS If it was an actual hallucination (which I seriously doubt, because melodramatic fucks like you misuse the term) then you should seriously seek medical assistance for your mental breakdown.

No

The only person with any responsibility to create your happiness is you. Nobody else, even your GF, is obliged to - she has her own life to look after, and she'd be a fool to neglect it to look after yours.

The buck stops with you, user.

Man up, drink a beer, watch porn and go out with your friends (but I doubt that a baby like you have friends)

lol for thinking Sup Forums was gonna be more comforting in your "time of need" than your absentee ass Girl.

I don't need happiness, I just wanted to have some support. I'm rarely sad, and this might be the first time in 3 years that I needed her this way.

I'm not trying to get empathy, I just wanted to share what I am thinking about.

what?

I'm trying to resolve the trauma, and I got professional help. I'm doing better, I'm just in that 'realization' phase, after years of denial and bottling up my emotions.

That's what I have been doing for years, I found out that I need to take care of this, or else I might get too drunk, and then kill myself due to suppressed pain and invisible suffering

she's fucking another guy mate.....sorry

Doubt it.

They always do...

it's okay you're in denial. You'll see soon enough if you care enough to pay attention.

What king of bitch gets too drunk with beers.
Man the fuck up

Ya gotta figure out if you can handle this shit happening every single time. Like imagine yourself in the future doing this with her over and over.

If you're cool with that then there's no problem, if not then it's time to set sail bro.

Some guys would be fine with that but it kinda sounds like it threw you for a loop, might not be good for ya dude

If she is, I won't have a problem to move on. I seriously doubt it though

I wasn't talking about beers