My gf of 6 years went to to college a few weeks ago. She has gotten a lot of new male friends.
The other day she was in the common room watching a movie with some other people, and she took a pillow, put it up at some other guy and leaned on that (check pic for reference) during the entire movie(s) they saw.
Should i be worried about this or stop being a beta fag and trust my gf and that nothing will happen?
Give advice to an user who is tired of being jealous..
Also, don't jump to conclusions. Different people have different ideas of what's acceptable, she might have not even thought about it. If your actually worried about something in your relationship though, you should talk about it.
Dylan Rodriguez
>having a gf in 2016
Brayden Russell
cringy shit in 2016
Jason Williams
no girl is going to sit near a guy's crotch unless she's into him
Luis Richardson
Yea, we have talked about it. She said she didn't mean anything by it. Still, it irritates me like hell..
Logan Bailey
Then you should talk more. If you're angry you've not reached a conclusion. Just remember to talk about it rather than vent, you can be angry afterward if there's a reason to be. Better to be controlled for a little while and know what's going on than jump to conclusions.
Benjamin Jones
Femanon here.
This is truth.
Brody Cox
Yea, your right.
I just don't know what conclusion we can reach. I don't wanna be the guy that says she can't do anything.
Even if she says she will never do it again i can never be totally sure.
Mason Hill
tits please
Tyler Morris
why are you so butthurt OP we're all animals in the end, instinct will always come first
Wyatt Allen
Get a new gf, u stupid bitch
Kevin Parker
she said she felt like she needed to be 'accepted'. Know what she means by this?
Dylan Murphy
You can't be totally sure of anything, but trust is the whole point of a relationship. You won't get past this without taking a bit of a leap of faith.
I'm sure that she doesn't want to be the girl who makes her boyfriend freak out, just like how you don't want to be the guy who controls her life. Just be chill and let what needs to happen, happen. I can't promise it'll end well but I can promise it's better to address stuff like this sooner rather than later.
Gavin Barnes
your instinct is telling you what you don't want to hear. she disrespected you and is not worthy of your commitment. dump her or keep fucking her while fucking others.
Easton Cruz
Take my advice OP: FUCKING END IT NOW
It's gonna hurt but it will be good for you in the long run
I wasted 3 years of college being cucked by my long distance gf because I didn't have the balls to end it and look for new pussy
Go and find some new pussy before it's too late
Levi Smith
it's nice way of saying that you have a tiny dick
Julian Morgan
Thanks man, glad you took the time to help me out.
I wanna know whats wrong with getting cucked and why he should break of with her.
OP, you now have lots of free time! Just start banging chicks slightly below your league like the true instinctive male specimen that you are!
Sebastian Long
Sure, act all alfa male and beat her friends up. That will make all the problems go away..
John Peterson
Guessing you're both 18 which means you've been with her since you were 12...that shit never works m8. Time for you to sow your wild oats
Ryan Perez
>alfa
Asher Foster
Listen, people, both men and women(rather dude want to admit it or not) know right away if they want to fuck somebody. This does not change because they are in a relationship, and having a crush feels good, even if you dont act on it. I have been in relationships in the past where i met another girl and just knew i would end up fucking her. I didnt make the effort, nor did i want to, but i just had a feeling. I kept them around for this very reason.
When i was still in the relationship i gave it everything, and had no other thought than it lasting forever. I never even popped a boner over the other chick, or even thought about it. Of course, after the relationship was over, her leaving me for completely unrelated reasons, i fucked the other chick after w cooling off period.
My point is that just because she may have met a suitable dude, and even if she has that same feeling, it doesnt mean she will fuck him, or even entertain the idea while with you. She will, however, fuck the shit out of him after you break it off because of your insecurities.
Being in a relationship does not stop your instincts from working, but a decent person can keep them at bay while attached to someone else. If you think she is a decent person then give her the trust you would want in return that she can do the right thing. Either that or leave now, because not trusting your gf is a poison that will end you anyways.
Andrew Hughes
>Romeo
Joseph Turner
Sorry for the fucking wall of text.
Xavier Kelly
>and Juliet
John Cox
do you have a car OP? do a surprise drop in or two. look in her trash when you visit for used condoms. if shes using them
Jayden Morgan
tits or gtfo
I'm also a femanon btw.
Robert Price
Or, you know, do it the smart way and just prove you are better than him in a friendly manner. If you can find a way to hang out with them as a group, then you can do things like help him study, or loan him some cash. This may sound dumb on the surface, but it instills a sense of you having your shit together and him not.
Eli Perez
No problem. Thank you for your input man!
Matthew Thompson
Exactly what OP needs to do, even Satan agrees.
Aiden Harris
She is on birth control, so not sure she would do that..
Jack Evans
Also tgfo then. I am not a femanon, but i will also post tits if you need me to.
Grayson Morgan
>gf of 6 years >just went to college
so you guys started dating at 13 years old or something? Dude she's gonna suck SOO many dicks its unreal. She's gonna catch up bro
Julian Long
birth control doesn't stop STD's
Hudson Foster
She was 100% flirting with that guy. Unless he is just in the friend zone and she is tormenting him.
One way or another she is looking to screw over one, if not both of you guys.
Hunter Peterson
Drop her dude. It will save you a lot of lies and bother and you'll regain your manhood.
Do not wait around. Just eject her ina polite and unemotional way.
Bunch of instant male friends means she is putting out signals and accepting replies to them.
Head on lap of dude for an hour and a half while he was certainly popping wood for half of it.
Red flags and you know it, otherwise you wouldn't be here.
Think about it, would you sit cuddling a new female friend while watching a film together?
What would be your girlfriend's reaction?
Would your girlfriend do this in the same room as you?
Get the fuck out. I am taking from experience. It isn't worth it whatsoever. Don't listen to the hippy faggots telling you to relax and take the cuck cock smoothly while she ducks you over progressively.
She is the one doing things to make you jealous. She has no respect or boundaries and it will only become worse.
Daniel Miller
This is just obvious. Go up to a male friend of yours and lay your head on his lap. Feels wrong, correct? Now do it to your gf. The point is that people dont invade comfort zones unless they want to be close.
Hunter Long
Nope, but since we didn't have any when we started dating, and we tend to take care of our private parts. We have sex without.
Michael Lewis
Your relationship is already over.
Time to move on.
Christopher Lewis
Why is she still on birth control despite you being a thousand miles away?
She is aboard the cock carousel, and is using you as a soft bridge to have as an emotional backup while she finds the next dick to ride.
Tyler Carter
i know lots of people who didnt start college until later in life. not likely the case here though
Evan Roberts
Signs of attraction include constant self grooming, like playing with her hair, and pointless contact for no apparent reason. I never figured out why people are so clueless. I can 99% of the time figure out who will fuck. I have always been correct in the past.
Elijah Sullivan
This
I dated my first GF for 5 years. All through high school and then the 1st year of college. The last year was awkward and we each cheated on each other before we finally just realized we weren't meant to be together.
You don't even know who you really are until you are in your mid 20's. Your teen years are just an experimental phase and your mind is clouded with hormones.
Sorry bro but the relationship is over. She is going to meet literally hundreds of new guys. I guarantee one of them is going to be exciting to her and turn her on.
Levi James
lets hope the guy shes fucking doesn't have the syph or something
Mason Sanchez
Some kind of joke about not wanting to look in the mirror, bad reminder, etc.
Evan Clark
Eh if I were op u wouldn't just drop it like that, keep it as a side piece with your options open if you want to continue having sex. Always seems easier to find a new chick when your still with someone
Hunter Gray
It's over user
Asher Lopez
Being cheated on is not being cucked, you enjoying being cheating on is being cucked
At least use the fucking term correctly
Chase Foster
Op is emotionally involved and doesn't want to believe that she's a whore,
It isn't healthy for him to keep her around, it will only hurt him and he won't be able to move on cleanly.
James Cooper
no point in stressing over gash mate!
dump her whilst you have the option, get yourself out there and get that dick wet!
you have only one life, so go and fucking live it before you get too old and fantasise about all the missed chances
Caleb Turner
new gf time, long distance doesn't work and if she's looking for new crowds of people to hang out with, don't waste your time.
Cameron Peterson
It is nothing to do with enjoyment you utter faggot. Stop using pornsites as your education, fuckwit.
Henry Bennett
I have a sort of theory. Unless a person is super vain, they wilk try to improve themselves. Things like sex, dealing with money, and all the other relationship things, will improve with each relationship.
My theory is that people are fucking delusional for thinking they are getting a better sig other each time. They dont realize thqt the one they left has also improved, and if they simply stick together they will continue to be better people. That is why so many people finally find the perfect person when they are like 40+. Thqt person has a lot more experience than their highschool sweetheart, who has since improved as well, and is now somebkdy elses perfect mate.
Nathan Rogers
>be me >go to same college as my high school crush >finally get her number and go out with her a few times >get to fuck her twice >then she hooks up with a Turkish exchange student and gets herpes >talks to me about her herpes because I'm a microbiology major and know about viruses >starts flirting with me again >go insane with rage because some diseased turkish fuckhead ruined by crush's pussy for life
Enjoy college user! So many fucking sexually transmitted diseases flying around it is insane.
Christopher Kelly
fuck with her birth control and get her pregnant OP. that always works. you're financially fucked then though just warning you
Nolan Campbell
He will still be emotionally involved even if he ends it
Christian Butler
She's either fucking him or will be soon.
Benjamin Bell
tits or gtfo
Evan Morgan
Not sure what that means. I dont claim to be a fucking psychic, but i do claim to have called each one of my friends future wives the day they met. Of course maybe i just influenced them by saying so.
Cameron Sanders
Yeah.
I would say you have a solid theory.
People knew this before the 1960s came and ruined everything.
Marry young, grow together.
Liam Flores
Great plan. Doom yourself to paying child support while she still dates other men. How fucking retarded are you?
Robert Cruz
oh its the stupidest idea ever. maybe not to him though
Gavin Hughes
Everyone is being a fag here. Lets just simplify this and say that he should end it because she deserves a chance to make some mistakes just like everyone else. That is what college is for. If she really cares about you she will come back after she figures out whatnshe really wants. But being in a long distance relationship while surrounded by hot college kids sucks ass for everybody.
Grayson Wilson
shed also have to put college on hold for awhile
Lincoln White
What a load of shit. Alcoholism and wife beating was extremely common back in the old days. There was just so much stigma around divorce that lots of people didn't even consider it an option.
You are delusional if you think just because people stayed married it meant they were happy.
Brayden Hughes
Oh sure you got nothin to worry bout bro.
Oliver Perez
Nice.
My girlfriend went 'travelling' and after a few months said she had genital warts, confirmed to be HPV in a hospital. Tried to claim it was from a toilet seat or a swimming pool, said she even knew which one it was from???
Then a few months later said she knew it wasn't from those, and asked me if I had been fucking around.
I read a fair bit about it, no i didn't sleep with her ever again.
Anything you can add?
William Walker
Do you honestly believe you're going to spend the rest of your life, upwards of four decades, with this single, specific person, without both of you eventually yearning for something more?
Daniel Turner
That's what they want you to think.
Apart from Australians, most people weren't alcoholics.
Hunter Phillips
No it isn't you underage autistic dumbfuck
Elijah Wilson
Dude, if you are a microbiology major you should know that herpes is common as shit, and aside from child birth and some potential discomfort, it is absolutely harmless. I got that shit because my grandmother used to kiss us on the lips when we left her house and she had it. My lack of knowledge combined with my having cold sores since being a kid ,ed to me not even knowing i had it until i gave it to someone else.
Just saying it isnt all that bad, and a surprisingly large amount of people stay married for years without passing it to eachother.
Blake Butler
Modern thought.
Always something better out there, greed is good, being a whore is natural, she's emancipated!!!!
Unfortunately true in most cases. Drop her op, guaranteed slut, bouncing on nigger dicks.
Luis Cruz
Stop fucking cherry picking. I am refering to normal, non abusive people. However, if a person is abusive, and gets left because of it, they might change their ways and improve.
You can still get divorced if they are just a shitty person, i am refering to people "trading up".
Nathan Sanders
Isn't that incentive to get your masters and work towards a cure? Find out exactly how the virus goes dormant so you can force it completely out of hiding and eradicate it?
Gavin Parker
A cuckhold is someone who enjoys seeing their partner in sexual activity with another person of your gender.
> Sup Forums is THIS fucking stupid now
Gabriel Lee
You could have it. Men can carry HPV and have almost no symptoms. It is by far the most common STD. Other than increasing the risk for cancer and some minor warts that might be almost unoticable it is a pretty minor disease.
That's why people can have it and not even know, especially males. And the warts on a woman can be so deep you would never know unless you were doing a medical exam.
This is sandra shine. Used to be one of my favorite porn stars until I saw this set and realized she has HPV. That red irritation around her cervix is HPV warts... 99% of people would never know.
Leo Russell
Exactly. I love the idea of my gf fucking another dude that she doesnt know, but i want it to be for me, not because of me. I would imagine a scenario where we just pick up a rando from the bar and she bangs him in the living room, then he leaves and never returns.
Liam Phillips
AIDS is comon as fuck in some places too.
My 'uncle' gave it to me when I was little when he would 'kiss' me inside with his 'magic wand' whenever he visited my village and slept in my hut.
Justin Mitchell
Actually the term 'cuckold' originally applied to men whose wives were unfaithful. The common imagery is a man walking around with antlers on his head: everybody knows about it but him.
A 'cuckold fetishist' is someone who gets off on their partner being unfaithful.
When people use 'cuck' as an insult, they're most likely implying the latter.
Nathaniel Baker
fag
Owen Nelson
HSV1 isn't HSV2 you retard.
>harmless
yeah besides being the leading cause of blindness in infants, and having warts all over her pussy, what is so bad about it? You have no fucking clue what you are talking about.
Lucas Rogers
I only had sex with her. What are the chances now?
Genital warts are sexually transmitted and show up after 30 days usually.
I hadn't seen her for a few months.
Mason Harris
Right. If people were less stupid about it then we could fix it. The stigma about these things leads to people just not wanting to mention it at all. I would love to meet a girl that also has it so we can just not worry about it. This will never happen because you nobody will ever tell you until you are qbout to fuck, and some not even then. It is just super humiliating due to the stigma.
Sebastian Anderson
>harmless
Levi Robinson
Just because you are in a relationship doesnt mean you cant set some ground rules. Just tell her you're not trying to be a controlling prick, but that shit pisses you off. Lay out what you're willing to deal with and what you're not. Whether she meant it or not is irrelevant. It hurt you, and you need to make that clear and that shit wont happen again or you're gone.
P.S. She lay'd with her head near another guys dick, its all but over...she knows it was wrong, NO chick would do that and think its not, unless he's gay. And if he let it happen, he's gonna try for more. That excuse of being "accepted" is just that, a str8 up excuse. Its BS. It was wrong!
Oliver Parker
Chances have nothing to do with it. Get tested. I can't tell you anything beyond that.
David Gray
A word being misused frequently doesn't make it correct.