Should I do it Sup Forumsros?

Should I do it Sup Forumsros?
>fiancee who I love
>3 kids
>baby in Oct
>sex only twice this year
>once last month
>once late Feb
>none for 7 months before that
>have qt 7-8/10 on side that wants ta fuck
> i cheated b4, we split for a while
>can't split this time, too much to lose
>have to be careful

I'm losing my fucking mind Sup Forumsros, want to go for it but at the same time is it really worth it? All the message deleting, cover stories, worry of any little thing going wrong.... enlighten me with your almighty terrible opinions you filthy heathens

Jerk off. Save yourself.
Also if you have 3 kids sex is the last thing you need faggot.

lmfao, lrn2puloutliketherestofus.

Not the worth. tbh, no matter how the thurst
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why cant you fuck your wife?

FAP, then make the decision.

Jerk off and relax. Let the qt slide by and be a whore somewhere else, you got a good thing going aside from the sex, more than most people get. You don't know what you got til it's gone, grass always looks greener, all applies. Don't do it.

then fap again because why exactly isn't your wife giving it up? And your not even married? not that it matters but how long have you been together?

She's probably getting dicked down on the side. Why else would she only need it from her fiance twice a year? Kek.

Dude, you are an adult, you have children and a wife and I presume she didn't cheat on you.

I the lack of sex is due to here pregnancy act like an adult. You can talk to here, and otherwise you can masturbate will waiting.

And god, stop crying on Sup Forums, you have 3 kids, It is time to grow up.

>inb4: Muhhhh white knight!

I am the first to think that desperate faggots must kill themselves. But fuck you are not a teenager, so stop acting like this.

holy shit, i hope your kids someday see what a piece of shit their father is

I know the feel all too well OP, i recently left my job FIFO for my partner, got a new place and renovated and fit for a king, she wont even come over once a week and she was bitching before i was away and i wasnt seeing enough of her, i dont work at all now, she works part time yet i have to convince her to come and see me.. which brings me to my next point, were in our mid 20's and i have to beg her for sex, its ridiculous, last time we had proper sex was almost 2 months ago, its ridiculous and i am losing my fucking mind, i have to resort to porn all the time, i talk to her about it but she says its like 'her' FFS

>Sup Forumstards actually giving nice advices
wot

This is is pretty simple:

If she wishes to be in control of your sexuality -- in other words, she and she alone is to be your sexual partner -- then she has a responsibility to satisfy your sexual needs within reason.

To demand perfect fidelity to her yet refuse to satisfy your needs is beyond selfish to the point of being abusive. You should not be taking this shit.

Tell her that if she will not take care of your needs then you have no choice but to seek release with another partner. If she objects to that, get the hell out of the relationship with the selfish bitch.

this 100% she's cheating on you.
ez pz

She doesn't actually like sex, man; it is just a tool to hook you and a chore to string you along. You can do better.

very responsible of you, now gtfo

Exactly

Not necessarily. She could just have little interest in sex and not care enough about her partner to bother taking the time to make him happy.

Selfish, either way.

Yea I figure mine is fucked up from hormones, birth control etc. The no sex thing is enough to drive a man mad. Was fully prepared to smash out this slut but last night started thinking otherwise. The novelty is wearing off already and haven't even went through with it. I will not soon forget the feeling of uneasiness that comes with it. My mind is all but made to cancel but fuck this whore makes it tempting. But that's the point of pussy right? Sucks you right in, devil magic. Surprised there's not more degenerates here supporting the dump n go.

Kill yourself instead

Like the other guy said, just jerk off dude. I don't give a shit about your wife and you prob dont either, but think about your kids, you're cheating them too.

I cheated recently and it wasn't worth it at all. Guilt takes over you and makes you feel like shit

true, but im jaded and every grills cheater in my eyes. trust no one, not even your wife.

and yes have gf, and no dont trust her worth shit. sry but girls are fucking evil.

thnx for reply.

She just flat out says she doesnt enjoy it regardless of what i do, i skinny and athletic, so is she and its just a shame she has a body that needs worshiping yet she never wants to get it out, we have been dating almost 3 years, when we first started it was sex allll the fucking time (as always) but this drop off in your MID 20's is ridiculous, if i was like OP i would understand with kids etc but not when its just US!

So frustrating

I mean if you have something to feel guilty about. Then you obviously cared, and so you made a bad decision. cheatings not wrong unless you actually care about the person. casual relationships now an days have proven that. why relationship when you can just fuck around and not hurt feelings. relationships a label preserved for ppl that care about each other, not an excuse to get a lay.

Yeh mate its a tough one, i did get her to go on birth control for the first time ever since i have been back, maybe that has killed her sex drive like they usually do.

In closing: OP dont cheat on your wife, just find something else, it just isnt worth the consequences, most of my cousins did the whole smash, root and boot, kids on the scene and it fucked their lives up, straightened me the fuck out thats for sure

Just rape your children...

this, trust nobody

ty some sense returns to 4cahn.

In my experiences no sex usually = they're cheating or wanting you to break up with them.

I imagine you got married to her because you like her and found her attractive? I imagine she married you for the same reason? Ok put yourself in her shoes, you are married with the person you love but decide to not have sex with them any more. Any reason why not to fuck them?

99% of the time its because they got some side cock or at least have their eye on some guy at work ect.. If I married and my wife got chunky/ugly and some porn star looking lady worked with me, I'd imagine it would be hard to fuck my ugly wife when I have that kind of eye candy around me all day at work. Same with her probably.

Most people seem to forget, women can get dick faster than you can blink and often the guy can be SEVERAL levels of attractive above her.
>Girl 6/10 can fuck a 8/10 or 9/10 guy EASY.
If you could do the same with women, would you want to fuck your potentially subpar wife?

People are all about instant gratification right now, so either adjust with society or realize how FUCKED you are for having kids and getting married.

If It's the hormones don't be a fuckhead and support her you lowlife. If she didn't give it up regularly before fuck the whore and feel no regret.

Dunno what's going on with your situation, but I'm 38 and my wife is 36 but we still fuck happily at least 3-4 times a week.

Of course, we were smart enough to avoid having kids.

So OP is just supposed to be a fucking slave boy for his wife and just forget about having testosterone? Provide for her and her children, be loyal, and not even get a nut off more than twice a year? Get the fuck out of here. HES IN HIS MID 20s FOR FUCK SAKE.

^ I read this in a book somewhere

white nigga spits the truth. Though, you should be the higher being here and not stoop to her inferior level. just focus on your life and personal goals. sex is for monkeys anyways, so primitive.

This is what I'm saying, just wanna get my fuckin cock sucked off again as I once did. This chick made it clear that she wants a fuck buddy, she left her bf cause of baby dick causing real shitty sex. Now she's all pent up and needs a real fuck. Fml, fucking bitches

Why should the poor have to resign himself to being essentially asexual? If she doesn't want to fuck, that is her business, but she can bloody well step out of the way and let him get his freak on with someone else.

This is such strange logic to me:

Him: I'm hungry. Let's go to a restaurant.
Her: Nah, I'm not hungry.
Him: Okay, well I'm going out to eat.
Her: THE FUCK YOU ARE. YOU SIT YOUR ASS DOWN, STARVE AND LIKE IT. DON'T LIKE IT? WELL, IMMA DIVORCE YOUR ASS, TAKE YOUR SHIT AND NEVER LET YOU SEE YOUR OWN FUCKING KIDS AGAIN.
Him: ...k.

It isn't fair, what she is doing to you.

Here is how it should work:

She gets first dibs on your dick, but if she passes, then other women get a crack at it.

I feel where you're coming from. If you want the good advice post this thread around 3am est. As far as my advice goes, the problem isn't the cheating. The problem is finding the time and effort to not get caught cheating. Whenever I do it it's a one time thing with somebody in a different town entirely. If you're gonna cheat, make sure you can't get caught.

Yeh you got a point i suppose, fuck seeing all this is gonna make me re-enforce to my partner what should be happening and either meet those needs or fuck off.

Thanks user

I'm not saying he can't he can do as damn well as he pleases. just like the rest of the zeta basic plebs that fall into formality. I just am saying he can be better than being so basic. and hunger v.s thirst are totally separate things. You don't need to have sex, just like you don't need to smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol. No they're not the same but they are all senseless fulfillment. Get off, and get that dopamine.... until the next time you're pent up sounds ridiculous. Just find something better to do.

But again, I don't really care to beg for sex. I'd rather be begged and deny then be the being denied. jmo though.

well my dad cheats on my mom a lot, and i hate him for it

I love my girl, I really do.
>inb4 no you don't or you wouldn't be doing this
But for fuck sake how long am I supposed to endure this torture? I'm losing my fucking self esteem, which is saying a lot because I'm confident, have no personal hang ups about my appearance or build, and honestly don't give 2 shits what mfs think or say, happy all other aspects of my life but this unhappy home shit is tearing at me mentally. She says she's happy, is against cheating and tells me it's her, she's just not into it and there's not much to do about it. I feel unloved, unwanted, frustrated and resentful because of it at this point. I did very good coping with everything for a while but now here i am. We talk about it, nothing changes, i giveit time, bring it up again, nothing changes. I support her mentally, tell her how sexy she is to me, reassure her that she still looks great and to no avail. And henceforth I am in the situation I'm in now. I need to get my balls drained but i know I'll just want to go back for moar. Especially after the convo me and side chick have had

too tired to type or care though, gl OP and TPs hope you and others just find happyness with what ever it is you choose to do. That's the main point honestly.
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Seems silly to me. Sex is one of the great pleasures in life and unlike booze and cigarettes, sex is actually good for you.

Why should he go without just because she can't be bothered?

They're supposed to be partners. I have a very strong sex drive, but even I am not always in the mood. But if my wife is, I'll take the time to get her off because she does the same for me. OP's woman is just selfish.

Maybe your mom should try sucking your dad's dick more often.

pulling out is the worst advice a condom is what you need. you cant trust a woman they even get pregnant when taking the pill

A vasectomy is pretty fucking foolproof.

till she pokes a hole in that condom and fucks your day right up. [:

Not saying I disagree, I'm just not bothered by it I guess. It's like nice days. They come and go when they please, and you can appreciate them or you can go on with your day doing whatever else it is that makes you happy. reguardless, the day is still beautiful and appreciated by someone somewhere.

I just dont give a shit about the weather.

also bitches that bs about pill not being 100% are baby poachers. that 99% is a lawsuit failsafe. they fake taking them and then blame the pill not working.

Any woman who insists on using protection but won't abort an accident deserves to be pushed down a 4 story flight of stairs.

yea she should but too bad he's 76

>76

And you blame your dad for not wanting to touch a 76 year old with his cock? Fuck you, user. That's gross.

Not true, man. My wife was on the pill and she is ridiculously reliable and trustworthy. She still managed to get knocked up twice. Of course, when that happened, it was "Abortion time! Let's go! Get this shit outta me!"

She hates kids even more than I do. She's awesome.

abortions can leave them sterile...

Yeah, this whole "My body, my choice, *your* paycheque" shit has to go.

So can giving birth and the state of being pregnant itself, and the risks of an early-stage abortion are far lower.