Why is Sup Forums lonely?

Why is Sup Forums lonely?
>why do you feel alone?
>what caused it?
>could you have done something different to prevent it?

I'm lonely because I suck at life.

>ALOT OF PEOPLE GIVE ME SHIT
>I didnt spend enough time with her
>spend more time with her

Why? Too busy jacking off?

>I have no friends
>i hate everyone except for traps
>im happy being alone :^)

>be me, 34yo
>married young cuz girl i met
>on AOL got preggo.
>over decade later, she is super
>shitty attitude and it has rubbed
>off on our children.
>no sex because shes fat
>and hairy now, thinks being sexy
>is for rubes.
>now all I do is work to pay
>mortgage, life ins, medical, car,
>all that.
>would rather be single and able to
>come and go as i please and at
>least get laid sometimes.
>cant leave because she is
>fucking mental and wouldnt be
>able to raise kids without me.
>worst greentext ever.
>dont worry its just my life,
>you go on ahead without me user.

You poor bastard.. that green text really was terrible

Was she fat originally?

no, was very skinny. over 6ft and maybe 120lbs.

i know, mobile sucks

Sounds pretty shit bro

Oh no... my girl is 5'2 and 90 lbs. I hope that doesn't happen to me too! I thought I was making a good investment

Dude dump the fuggin bitch. Get the kids. Point to mental instability.

>Enlisted
>Leaving soon so I can't get attached
>Trust issues pushed my girlfriend away
>Depression is a bitch.jpg
>Honestly 18 isn't the age to find "the one" or date in general

turns out mine was just way mentally unstable and was only skinny because when she lived with mom she was seriously neglected. like having a can of green beans for dinner and thats it, all day. and having to walk miles to and from school since mom didnt have car to take her

enjoy enlistment. travel and find as many filipino whores as you can. dont have kids. ever. life will be gold.

Honestly made my day, user! I needed that, thank you!

Ohhh OK mine isn't in that kind of situation. I'm sorry user, no one deserves to have their skeleprize spoil like that, I truly feels

if it were only that easy. shit costs money, and since im the only one working we struggle just to live and eat.

thats what im here for. oh also blow up some shit. that always sounded like fun to me.

yeah, i mean sure my kids are cool to have or w/e but man i miss fucking whores. and playin vidya. and just generally having friends/fun.

Because I just arrived in NYC with no prospects and no place to stay. Beleibe me, I'm lonely lol. Could I have done anything different? Yea, stayed in my home state and not come back here. But for some reason I did.

Well, I have literally 0 friends, and I literally didn't have a discussion (more than 2 sentences) with anyone for the last 3 years. I have to use a keyword "literally" because sometimes people overblow things out of proportions but I'm not. Oh and ofc, kisless virgin, but whatever.

For the past year and a half I really realized how much fucked up I got (and can get even more) without connections. I struggled with my degree because of depression and didn't have anyone there when I needed it, I struggle now too because I'm undergraduating something I don't really enjoy and I still don't know what to do because of no communication with my peers.

It has come to the point that I can't go on Facebook anymore because I can't handling looking at people with their good lives, some living good as always, some have fixed their shit up, and here I am - sitting in my room every day, alone, meditating on my life and battling a crippling depression. I still have a hope inside me but on the surface I became very pessimistic.

Naval Aircrewman gets to do a lot of fun shit, that's what I enlisted to do! Already told me friends I'd kill the Bulldozer of Fallujah, so let's hope that happens lol

dude, enjoy your freedom. travel even more. live like a hobo and see the states. you will never get this time back, and once you have kids the fun stops.

I can relate to you. How old?

tear that shit up bro. make us proud.

21.

Thing is that's what I've been doing since I was 22 and now I'm 31. Ive done a lot of labor so I have experience in that but I really have nothing I'm 'doing' with my life and just feel aimless as fuck at this point.

abusive childhood, separated from siblings and family, have no one. was too young to do anything about it. have retreated into my own fantasy world, been detailing it for over 20 years. im incapable of functioning like a regular human being, even though i keep trying and will continue to keep trying. I'm afraid of everything on a literal panic, sweat, racing heart, stomach cramps level. i can only socialize if i pretend to be a character but it's so detached it's pointless on any personal level. i feel very alone. it's getting easier handle.

im 34. had kids 11 years ago and havent lived "my" life since. kids are great and all that but rest assured you can still do whatever you want without limitation. i cant. i have responsibility for others.

my suggestion is to continue spending your money on yourself, and whores. esp. whores.

Lol preciate it man. Damn that's rough.. 11 kids? What is this the 1890s? Jeez.

I think you have dxyselsia.

no no, 2 kids now, started eleven years ago.

Fake your own death and run away to sea.

Just do whatever it takes to get the fuck out of there.

how would i go about doing that?

seriously, i just have no idea where to begin

Probably because you can't greentext

kek

I was never alone earlier. Been in relationships since I was 13 to 20, now 22 and I enjoy sitting down with a cup of tea thinking about this ride of a life. I really enjoy being alone, only living with a mate in our appartement and it´s fucking gold.

Everything you see on Facebook is bullshit. It doesn't tell you anything about people's real lives. It's just a competition to see who can appear the most successful. Don't compare your own life to all that fake shit.

Sounds like you're too introverted, user. You escape from your own head. Sitting around moping is the worst possible thing to do.

Find something to do that will occupy you. In fact, just get up right now and go out for a walk. It will help.

Bro that Is NOT fucking healthy you need to join a group or something

I feel alone because >tfw no gf (18 years old, kissless handholdless virgin) and i'm constantly people's second option, i'm not the person you're close with but the person you happen to know and like but you don't make any effort to be closer with them. The one girl i thought actually had feelings for me ended up leading me on and we still but it's clear she isn't putting anywhere near the same amount of effort into our conversations anymore however i still message her because i have no one else; she's the only person with whom i've ever spoken to daily for so long and now it's slowly falling apart with her as well.

I have no fucking clue why, if i knew, i'd make it so it doesn't cause it anymore. I've been told i'm hilarious and a good person to be with but it doesn't feel that way, i feel like i'm constantly bothering people.

checked dubs for truth

*and we still talk

The media is aaaaaaall bullshit. Try focusing on the positives in your life, and start from there. Expand your interests to incorporate more people, example if you like anime (dno if you do, just an example) get into a group to talk about common stuff, then you don´t need to focus on your on selfloathing all the time. And if you´re introverted, don´t try to be an extrovert.

Me too man cept 23 and still relationship living with the bros. I started this thread cuz I want to know how to prevent losing it all. It seems loneliness is inevitable for everyone. But I won't let that Shit happen I hope. Learning from others mistakes

I go to university and again i know so many people but outside of university, i speak to no one. It's always been this way for me and i don't know how to change it and likewise i just want to get a gf but i don't want to go on tinder for the fear of getting no matches due to not being a chad (i have no clue where i am on the 10 scale, maybe a 6? not sure). I know i'll be checking it constantly and seeing that no one thinks you're attractive isn't something i'm ready for (i would post photo but i know people who lurk Sup Forums)

learn from me, never have kids. ever.

yeah man, I´m not completely lonely, but for the first time in my life I feel like I can focus on myself. I think that to not lose it you still have to be around people (I got a job working with children, so it´s all good) and when you feel the time is right then go for a GF or a significant other or others if you´re into that. I guess it´s not too easy for everyone, but I know that nothing happens if you stay still in one place and don´t do no moving! but yes I think loneliness is an important factor to incorporate into your life, because in the end, we all die alone, huh?

Just divorce the bitch, and live with the consequences. She's a parasite who is draining the life out of you. At least you'll be free to meet someone else.

You know you'll regret putting up with her, years from now, maybe when it's too late.

call yourself a fucking 10 and others will too man, and hey, you can´t win everybody over. if you like carrots, eat carrots, don´t try stretching for a fucking cake, I guess

18? Join some fucking groups before it's too late faggot! What the actual fuck!

Noted

Lost my dick a year ago, feel the lonelyness

>self-esteem issues

Once you realise that most people are selfish, retarded dipshits, you'll feel better about yourself. In fact, you'll proabably feel downright superior.

>won't go on tinder for fear if rejection
Quit being so fucking beta and do it

yeah but i dont need to divorce her to live with consequences. i need to be there for my kids. once they are adults, ill prob leave her.

literally lose your dick? try reading some philosophy and see if you can get some answers instead of trying to be a stud when you even can´t

This

it´s like riding a fucking bike. you fall off and hurt your shit all the time, but try again until you don´t need no support wheels

I relate too deeply to this, but you need to stop that meditation on your own issues thing man, it drove me to try and kill myself, you need to focus on something else ASAP

>Join groups
Fucking how. Even when i'm in a group of people, i feel like i'm the tag along or i don't get invited to their hangouts. They always forget.
I know most people are selfish but you need them, you need to have people. Going around thinking like rodger elliot is going to worsen everything.
I also happen to know a lot of people on there and well i also don't have many photos because low self esteem.

>be me
>hey user do you wanna hang out
>i can't
>dwells on the past and misses people that left
>sudden realiziation because of that i constantly turned down people
>no one begs you forever
>people eventually give up
>continue dwelling on the past
>manage to get out somehow
>have nice time
>but everytime i'm 1 on 1 with someone my mind is blocked so i mostly just complain or am quiet
>obviously no one likes that
>about to get dumped soon
>it is time for an hero
>for a longer time i didn't have the balls, but i'm not a pussy soon

Yep its gone

It won't be easy, but it will be better for kids, you, and even her.

I divorced my ex in 1993 and was awarded sole custody.

Kid was Homecoming King his senior year in highschool.

>could you have done something different to prevent it?
Not be born.

Just being realistic, i have thin eyebrows and a weird shaped head (its big and oval-ish, too narrow) along with a weak chin and i'm skinnyfat (although in the process of becoming /fit/)

Go to work for Spacex. Goals come free

Then make some noise in the group numbnutz.
So what? I match people I know all the time, I even banged one because of it. You're seriously being beta. Do something

I also used to have good hair but i buzzcut it a month or so ago and my confidence has plummeted since however i'm growing it back

Become a monk or some shit, joy will come over time

This.

I got flaws too, but don´t focus too much on them. The skinnyfat is fixable, just go and do some physical activity

I'm sad now

I'm not looking for a hookup though, i want a proper gf. I could've had hookups but i turned them down because i wanted a gf.

Just looked that up. Man I don't know shit about space or rockets, also have no college and dropped out of high school. I'm pretty much stuck in the labor field, which is fine cause I like to work, but fucking this union shit in ny sucks ass.

Bro I've been with my current girl 4 years! Tinder is the Shit! You have no excuses other than being beta.
Seriously kid, your going to really regret not taking any initiative your so fucking young

im just concerned she will go off the deep end once im not around. she has done things in the past like attempt an hero and without me being there for my boys im concerned they would wake up one morning to find their mom in a pool of her own blood in the bathtub. shits super fucky, boys.

Aight, i'll take your advice. I only have an oldish photo as my facebook profile picture though (from when i was 17) so i guess ill take a new one and head over to tinder. I feel like i'll be okay with a gf but if we break up, i'd be so fucked because i'd be so reliant on her for my source of happiness so i'll try to meetup with people/talk to people more often.

I am presently taking workshop to get scholarship from Employment Dept. to change careers. Been in construction for ~20 years, but im too old now.

If you want to change, you are onlyone in your way

...

shit man, those feels are real.

Good man, make some tinder threads Sup Forums actually gets people laid
Your first girl is most likely going to cheat or something so don't rely too much or you'll an hero.

You cannot sacrifice your self, or kids, to her fuckyness. Get kids. I homeschooled my kids while working construction, until they got High School age.

No excuses, only reasons.

damnit user why do you have to be so right. thanks for being there for me. i think its finally time.

I'm great at actually talking to girls so the thread wont be needed but its just i need to make it clear that i want to be with them which is what i think happened to my last girl (spoke for too long without making intentions clear, asked out and got fucked up) and well.. on tinder it's sorta obvious why you're there. Might even go to bars, clubs are good for grinding and shit but its fucking impossible (imo) to communicate or go any further than a hookup due to noise and shit

Good luck user!
a life may have changed today ladies! Now that's a productive thread

I didn't even know this was a thing. I'll have to look into this. Like I say though I do enjoy labor, I feel I'd get real fucking bored in an indoor environment.

I live in the woods, in pickup truck. No reason to other than inertia. No one cares. No one will miss me.

No income now. Shit could be less than a month. I wont starve to death, so may have to take steps to hurry things along

I can fucking relate to this
I'm not that much with my wife but she is pregnant and she used to be 1.7 meter and around 70 kg (not American) and now she is like a mammoth (over 100 kg in just 3 months baby is around 5 kg so she's fat) I feel like shit
>no vidya
>no friends
>no sex
>always work to pay for her
>always fighting with me
Can't tell if its only a phase
Or I'm gonna get stuck with that
Wish I knew I would have broked it with her long ago

I think you can take online test to find what you like to learn/do, and then that will be an upgrade.

Not every non-labor job is at a desk in a cubicle. Park Ranger, Sales, Bikini Waxer. Think a little

The skinny gfs getting fat stories make me feel most

Hey man I was like you. I got divorced and felt worthless and lonely. Thought about offing myself everyday for two years. I made the decision I didn't want to feel like shit anymore. Took my ass to a phsyicatrist, joined a gym, forced my self to go out. Fast forward 7 years later to present time. Got a raise at work, got into shape, get laid pretty much at will. The worst thing that ever happened to me, the divorce, turned out to be the best thing. It turned me into the person I always wanted to be. All you have to do is make the decision to be better and take steps towards it everyday. Things can get good dude, but you gots to work towards it.

>she has done things in the past like attempt an hero

Then you've got a strong advantage in a custody case right there.

You're doing your kids no favours by staying in a bad marriage. The atmosphere gets poisoned, and they pick up on it. Unhappy parents make for unhappy kids.

it wont get better. im 12 years in and shit has not changed. leave if you can.

>tfw you leave a college/workplace/whatever and not a single person reacts
>literally noone even noticed you left
>that feeling is way too strong, almost unbelievable
>like, not a single message, nothing
>and then you think, wow, if I died this moment, who would come to the funeral?
>who?
>you have nobody who cares
>and then you think, what is the point of my life?
>I could have as well lived on Mars and it would have been the same
>"oh user, there sure are people who care about you..."
>no, you don't understand
>you are wrong this time
>noone cares, if they cared I wouldn't have heard from them last time years ago
>and then you think...

Does anybody have a tendency to go to those little youtube channels and watch those visibly socially outcast people? I found myself more than a few times being one of the 5 or so people who watched their videos, and was thinking, "wow, I'm not that bad yet, but there is a big possibility I could end up just like them". Not in a hateful way, I can feel the connection, I feel sad about them and want to at least give them that view and a like because I know how good it feels when you get some attention and support. You feel like you are not doing something completely wrong in the end.

We're still young and fresh I wanna try fix up this fucked up situation I'm not the quitter kind of guy
If there's anyone who fixed this can give advice to a desperate user on he's way to miserable life?

People move on Sup Forumsro. People are too busy with their own shit to notice other people, same shit when I left high school. No calls, no nothing. Don´t cry about it and move on like everybody else, it works out in the end

yeah me either thats why im having a hard time. i dont want to quit or give up but damn shit gets old.

Try to make work friends?
Easyiest solution I can think of
Harder one is to take yourself and lift yourself up and learn something like teaching or some thing
You will make friends eventually by doing stuff and not be a social outcast
At least I believe so