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What should I do?
My gf is perfect, she would never cheat on me and she is perfect in ever aspect except for in bed, she is not kinky at all (not even deepthroat kinky) I can see myself married to her in a couple of years but I also want to fuck other girls (she is my first). I also get bored around her lately but that should change in a couple of months.
>Tldr should I start having casual sex or enjoy my gf
>pic semi related (caturday)
No one would help a Sup Forumstard in need?
You live one life. You better do what you want on instinct or otherwise kill yourself. If you want to go fuck a random whore, go for it. If you want to become a sociopath, step right up.
You are already dissatisfied just by virtue of making this thread. What do you think is gonna happen in 6 months, a year, or two years. Once that initial romance has worn off what little fucking you are doing now is just gonna drastically fall off. Do yourself and her a favor and let this relationship peter off to nothing. There are 3 billion women on this planet with varying degrees of sex drive. Keep on shopping till you find your match. Source.... Old fag that is on his 3rd marriage. Finally got it right on this last one at the ripe old age of 40.
>finally got it right
I bet you said that on your second and third marriage too.
Nope nigger. Just stuck it out with both of them as long as I could handle it, because I thought that was what I was supposed to do.
But you sound like the voice of experience. Is that what you said to yourself?
enjoy your gf.
Seeing as she is your first, you are probably de-sensitized by porn.
Ask yourself.. what are your chances outside? You may walk away and find nothing.. or find that nothing out there is any bit better for it's overall value, leaving you to wallow in regret... at the same time this user is right
>Finally got it right on this last one at the ripe old age of 40.
Naw, you didn't.. It's just that your testerone levels have dropped enough that you aren't lusting for the un-obtainable anymore.
Take some personal responsibility, I doubt all the relationship bulls hit was her fault. Ever gave it a thought that you weren't a bowl of roses yourself, cuck?
Train your girlfriend...
I'm not even OP, faggot.
She is perfect in all the other aspects though, from what we like to what we are going to teach our kids.
see above
my chances are pretty good, I am an attractive man that has accomplished things (considerable to my age)
I think my fear is that I would never find someone better nor as good as she matches to me. I just hate that everytime she is around I get bored
tell her what's up.. she might do something.. you might feel better about it.. If not.. then you need to choose the lesser of two evils.. Leaving the perfect girl, or not getting to be a kinkster for the next couple decades (cuz none of that will matter when you hit 45)
Scared of not finding someone better? She can't be that great of you think she's boring af.
Tried that, she is not very open minded about it, she says she will throw up if she deepthroats and that it disgusts her to take it in the mouth and same goes for ass stuff and for any of my fantasies
>My gf is perfect, she would never cheat on me
There is no way on earth that you are over the age of 20.
The "real" answer is if she's boring you, you need to talk to her and work that shit out. What you want to hear is that you should go fuck some bitches. Do whatever the fuck you want, but keep in mind you're clearly super young (and that's ok) but be aware you don't know what you want, nothing at this stage matters, and you won't be marrying her no matter what you fucking think right now.
Good luck on the long road to getting less stupid.
Sounds like you want something different.
I'd move on.
The point is, I know she is a life long partner, the problem is that I met her at too young of age
You are correct, I am 19 and I don't think I will ever find a girl that likes computer games as much as I do or hiking as much as I do and everything that I like again if I ever leave her
I want something different right now but in a little while she is going to be the one I want again I presume. I don't know if it's just a desire that will pass soon and if I go for it I will regret it
She fits me perfectly but she is just not very initiative and usually we end up doing nothing at my place and she gets mad that I fall asleep
Deep throat is tougher...because she will throw up.
Ease her into things. Eat her ass...clean it with a towel or wipe...or take a bath together. But eat her ass. Then get a set of buttplugs and start with the smallest. You have to get her past the mental block and show her anal play can be enjoyable for her as well.
Take your time...but also have an honest discussion with her that you want to be more adventurous in bed.
she doesn't let me even put a finger around her arsehole, she knows my fantasies, she just doesn't want to do them
You are not sexually compatible if she wont even entertain any of your fantasies or ideas for sex. Talk with her and be honest, and if you decide its not worth staying together you might get to keep a friend. But life is too short to settle. I know from experience, its not worth your time and hers and you would both regret it in the future when things get sour and evil and money and kids are involved.
well, she did let me tie her a little (2 times and not tied much but I guess that's a start)also, keep in mind we are young, I am 19 and she is 17. I don't know if as we grow up she will get kinkier with me
Then experiment. You are both wayyy too fucking young to be thinking about "long term" relationships. Go out and experiment. Take your time. Though trust me she isnt going to "get kinkier." Thats a hope not worth entertaining.
I guess I got my answer, since I am so protective of being with her I want to stay with her. I just have to find a way to spice things up both in the bedroom and in the outside, cause I get quite bored
Go to couple's counseling. Your expectations of each other are completely different. I'm sure she will learn at counseling that men like to be pleased in a better way than you pressuring her.
These people say train her. (which is basically what you will be doing) When she does something you like that she doesn't, then reciprocate.
I'd only do this for a girl I was serious about marrying. Don't be a bitch if she isn't the one. But... If shes the one, you both need to come to a mutual understand of each others needs, wants, and discomforts.
Also~~Reluctance to perform sexual favors possibly suggests past trauma.
Yiu have to ease her into it. Just start be Keating her pussy and occasionally licking her ass. Also, get a Hitachi. ..you want to make a strong association of pleasure and playing with her butt.
I've broken in a few "Anal Never!" Girls this way...the longest took 6 months. 2 of them ended up loving it and actually came hard from anal.
Take your time and don't force it. Yiu want to create a positive association, not a negative one.
Of course, yiu may want to have a non-bedroom discussion with her and ask her nicely about her hang-ups.
If she refuses to discuss these things with you, gtfo. If she's going to be so inflexible to the point of not having a conversation about sexual intimacy, she's not going to talk to yiu about other things....gtfo.
Same situation. Married her four years ago and happy I did. Depends on how much you value sex in a relationship. I'm fine jacking it to make up the difference.
keel yo self
Shut the fuck up, cuck. Everyone knows Psychology is fake western bullshit to convince white bois to let their wives fuck black men
OP just rape her
.... What?
dump her and give me her number
Ask your gf to submit to being tied up and used. And she should be Ok with being came all over .
she is the one, I just have to figure out how to do things better. I guess I am not perfect in that aspect either, I don't go down on her(which I just figured out), and I don't about the trauma thing this ^
funny enough, that's a fantasy of mine but I won't do it without her agreement (the whole tied up thing)
you are unlikely anywhere around my country or nearly as good as it takes to date someone like her if you asked for her number on an anime image board
I tied her a little, maybe it'll get farther, this is something I can't give up, about being came over, I cum over her just in the same position all the time cause she doesn't want her hair to get wet and stuff.. eh
How do you get past the stench of a pussy to eat it up? sometimes I want to eat her up but I get disgusted by the smell
>She doesn't want to get her hair wet and stuff
Offer to help her get clean up after you have your fun via shower/bathe, so it doesn't seem like such an annoyance. If you want her to do these thing you have to ease into removing the blocks, casually of course. As if it isn't planned.
I always clean her up after, but we don't shower together cause she is scared of my parents noticing I don't what.. she is kinda shy. we bathed together once about a year ago since nobody was home
This is me
>Cum in hair
Also, helping her clean up might also make you two closer. As if you take her situation into account, and understand.
I always help her clean up
Dude you need your own place, srsly. Most things won't work unless you have you own place. Also, learn sensual massage.
can't have my own place as for right now and for the close 2 years at the very least